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You wouldnt believe the day I had...
Ocelot II
(115,669 posts)I have some Hendricks gin and Fever Tree tonic; tomorrow it will be 87, so...
And how was your day?
cilla4progress
(24,726 posts)pounding down Titos and Fever tree - I'll up you one elderflower essence -!
Feeling good tonight. Time for some TUNES!!
Aristus
(66,316 posts)A family of eight came to the clinic reporting exposure to COVID-19. Tested them all. Three positives and five negatives.
Pushed the patient count for the day to twenty-six...
Ocelot II
(115,669 posts)soothsayer
(38,601 posts)many a good man
(5,997 posts)Do you have any evidence?
PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,841 posts)I recently discovered one from Scotland called Raffles, and it's amazing. I always use either Q or Fever Tree for the tonic.
I make WONDERFUL gin and tonics. My secret is I put the ice in the glass, then squeeze the lime onto the ice. Then the gin, then the tonic. I'm famous with a very small group of people for my gin&tonics.
Aristus
(66,316 posts)Ocelot II
(115,669 posts)soothsayer
(38,601 posts)Its amazing
NNadir
(33,512 posts)...Chandragupta in exchange for 500 war elephants was preferable to continuing the SeleucidMauryan War?
Do you think that Seleucid should have at least asked his daughter first?
Finally, is it ethical, do you think, to trade one daughter for 500 war elephants?
Do these three questions qualify as asking you "anything?" Do they distract you from the day you had?
Irish_Dem
(46,911 posts)NNadir
(33,512 posts)...portion of the Macedonian Empire, plus much of Anatolia, modern Turkey . Chandragupta controlled what is now modern Pakistan/Afghanistan/Western India.
It is said that Chandragupta was able to conscript 600,000 soldiers, but it's difficult to know if this is accurate.
It could have been a very messy affair. On the other hand, it is said that Alexander himself had a breakdown after meeting a naked Jain, for whom possessions didn't matter, causing Alexander to realize he didn't matter.
It's hard to say how many of Chandragupta's soldiers might have been pacifists.
In any case, Chandragupta did marry Seleucid's daughter and consequently got along with his new father-in-law. I don't know how she felt about it though. Maybe she was happy with the whole thing. On the other hand, maybe she wished she was a war elephant.
I have no idea how the 500 war elephants felt about all of this. It's a pretty tough job, war elephant. Hannibal made those poor elephants cross the Alps, and it's cold up there.
Irish_Dem
(46,911 posts)So she most likely did not see the arrangement as unusual. She may have been pleased to have stopped a war.
And 500 war elephants is a good bride price, she may have liked that.
She may have been content if her husband was a good, kind man. And she had a decent home to raise her children.
The concept of marrying for love is a modern invention.
Most of us Americans don't realize that even today, many people around the globe still have arranged marriages.
And studies show that these marriages are just as happy as love matches.
NNadir
(33,512 posts)They don't, in general, seem to have much problem with it.
For some of them; real love actually develops.
This said, I prefer the modern approach. My wife's parents would have never consented for her to marry me if they had veto power; and they would have never chosen me, since my family was of a lower class than hers.
My marriage is the most magnificent thing in my life; I can't imagine I would have survived without my wife.
Irish_Dem
(46,911 posts)A magnificent marriage. It is a true love match, and soul mate.
chillfactor
(7,574 posts)happy to be retired and out of the rat-race of working life.
quiet evening.....reading mysteries and enjoying my Franzia Chillable Red wine.
Aristus
(66,316 posts)Back in my boxed wine days, I just had one wine glass to drink it from. Now Ive got a whole cupboard full of good wine glasses. But I still have some nostalgia for some Franzia in my favorite (only) wine glass.
Irish_Dem
(46,911 posts)the outfit being worn?
Thanks in advance.
Aristus
(66,316 posts)I know how to accessorize.
Irish_Dem
(46,911 posts)It is the small, nicely co-ordinated accessories that make the outfit.
Thank you for the fashion advice!
Aristus
(66,316 posts)An antique silver stick pin with topaz stone.
Irish_Dem
(46,911 posts)Aristus
(66,316 posts)It adds a bit of snap to an evening outfit.
Irish_Dem
(46,911 posts)TomSlick
(11,096 posts)to coordinate with the day's outfit. I have three black masks which I rotate through the wear/washing cycle. Herself is ever the professional and much more classy than I.
Irish_Dem
(46,911 posts)Since I am retired now, I don't dress up much.
I figure that my blue paper masks go quite well with sweat pants.
bahboo
(16,336 posts)niyad
(113,257 posts)How many angels can dance on the head of a pin?
Aristus
(66,316 posts)I'll let you know...