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Life at 55 , I couldn't find my wallet. (Original Post) Duncanpup Aug 2021 OP
At my age EYESORE 9001 Aug 2021 #1
Oh my goodness. I'm stealing that! jimfields33 Aug 2021 #6
Your reply Duncanpup Aug 2021 #11
In my case, not so much age, but being admittedly careless. no_hypocrisy Aug 2021 #2
Awesome idea Duncanpup Aug 2021 #14
Necessity demanded a different strategy. no_hypocrisy Aug 2021 #18
I live in the country. I leave my keys in my vehicles. panader0 Aug 2021 #25
The alarm button on my key fob has saved me many times Rorey Aug 2021 #29
I had to start doing that after my fourth concussion csziggy Aug 2021 #33
I hear you! no_hypocrisy Aug 2021 #34
Ay 74 my memory is still good, gab13by13 Aug 2021 #3
... Rorey Aug 2021 #5
I love this Duncanpup Aug 2021 #13
What I learned to do Rorey Aug 2021 #4
If you can't use your normal parking spot Phoenix61 Aug 2021 #24
That makes sense Rorey Aug 2021 #27
Mine was just as empty d_r Aug 2021 #7
Agreed Duncanpup Aug 2021 #8
Duncanpup your memory is just fine it was Duncan, that little devil, who moved it during the night! MLAA Aug 2021 #9
Thank you Duncanpup Aug 2021 #10
Yes but are your keys in the refrigerator? Tadpole Raisin Aug 2021 #12
Awhile back my wife asked out loud in kitchen Duncanpup Aug 2021 #15
That's wrong? ..... Tadpole Raisin Aug 2021 #16
Last night, I left the cake out in the rain jpak Aug 2021 #17
Me too! Rorey Aug 2021 #30
I am 73 I forgot what I was going to say, nevermind. nt doc03 Aug 2021 #19
I looked for my glasses for an hour only to discover them on my face. Piratedog Aug 2021 #20
I did that just yesterday Rorey Aug 2021 #31
My husband loses his wallet so often Diamond_Dog Aug 2021 #21
Have only one way place for your keys and wallet. Texaswitchy Aug 2021 #22
That exact thing happened to me Major Nikon Aug 2021 #23
I completely understand Duncanpup Aug 2021 #26
I did the same at 25, 35, 45, 55 and 65. Chainfire Aug 2021 #28
I used to tell my kids Rorey Aug 2021 #32

no_hypocrisy

(46,020 posts)
2. In my case, not so much age, but being admittedly careless.
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 07:01 AM
Aug 2021

I used to be unable to locate keys, e.g., housekeys, car keys. But I'd drop them anywhere and expect to remember their location.

I now put them in one place, and one place only, and concentrate on putting them there, and zip them closed.

No memory problems now.

no_hypocrisy

(46,020 posts)
18. Necessity demanded a different strategy.
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 07:54 AM
Aug 2021

When you can't find keys -- or wallet, in your case -- you are disoriented and your universe is meaningless.

panader0

(25,816 posts)
25. I live in the country. I leave my keys in my vehicles.
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 10:27 AM
Aug 2021

When I shop at the grocery, I always park in the same area. It's sad to see old people wandering
around the parking lot pushing a cart, looking for their car. I have four pairs of glasses, one for
each place I need them.
When you lose something, you always find it in the last place you look.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
29. The alarm button on my key fob has saved me many times
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 11:45 AM
Aug 2021

I do the same as you do in parking in the same area. If I'm somewhere I don't usually go, and can't quite find my car, I walk around like a fool with my key fob in my hand, held high, until I hear my car. I wish there was a way to program it so it would hollar out, "Here I am!"

csziggy

(34,131 posts)
33. I had to start doing that after my fourth concussion
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 02:27 PM
Aug 2021

Short term memory went to hell and unless I had places for stuff like keys, I'd lose them.

Now as I get older - with yet another concussion - I am developing daily habits for routine things such as tooth brushing, showers, hair brushing, and so on. Otherwise, I worry that those will get left behind and I will forget to take care of myself.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
4. What I learned to do
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 07:09 AM
Aug 2021

When I go to a store I regularly go to, I always park in generally the same place. Then I don't have to be one of those people you see wandering around the parking lot looking for their car.

I had an aunt who was almost completely blind the last few years of her life. She lived in another state, and I visited her a lot to help her out, staying for a few weeks each time. She asked me to always put things back exactly where I got them from, particularly in the fridge and cupboards, so she could easily find them when she needed them. That habit has helped me a lot in staying organized.

Of course it's a lot easier now that I live alone, and it helps that I'm somewhat of a minimalist.

Phoenix61

(16,993 posts)
24. If you can't use your normal parking spot
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 10:21 AM
Aug 2021

When you get to the store entrance turn around and spot your car. The reason we end up wandering around the parking lot is we never see where the car is parked until we are leaving. I heard this on a radio show years ago and I swear it works.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
27. That makes sense
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 11:39 AM
Aug 2021

I almost always park way far from the door, so there have always been plenty of spots in the area. I figure if I do that I'm forced to at least a little bit of exercise by walking farther.

I haven't flown in a while, obviously, but when I fly out of DIA (Denver) I park in a huge lot and take the shuttle to the airport. I always write down the section and row, or whatever it is, because I know I'm not going to remember when I return from my trip.

MLAA

(17,250 posts)
9. Duncanpup your memory is just fine it was Duncan, that little devil, who moved it during the night!
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 07:16 AM
Aug 2021

jpak

(41,756 posts)
17. Last night, I left the cake out in the rain
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 07:37 AM
Aug 2021

Again

Right next to my wallet

On the truckers chain

To the bong

Long live jpak

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
30. Me too!
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 11:47 AM
Aug 2021

I don't think that I can take it
'Cause it took so long to bake it
And I'll never have that recipe again

Diamond_Dog

(31,909 posts)
21. My husband loses his wallet so often
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 09:12 AM
Aug 2021

I joke I am going to get him one of those chain things bikers use to keep their wallets in their pockets. Well, maybe it’s not 100% a joke ....

Texaswitchy

(2,962 posts)
22. Have only one way place for your keys and wallet.
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 09:46 AM
Aug 2021

Always put them there.

Everyday.


I put mine in a bowl.

Major Nikon

(36,818 posts)
23. That exact thing happened to me
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 10:19 AM
Aug 2021

Then I discovered someone had stolen all my money, gotten drunk, and passed out on my couch.

Come to think of it that was me and it might not be exactly the same, but you get the idea.

Chainfire

(17,467 posts)
28. I did the same at 25, 35, 45, 55 and 65.
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 11:43 AM
Aug 2021

I suspect that if I make it to 75 I will still need my wife to help me find things. Don't blame it on age.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
32. I used to tell my kids
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 11:51 AM
Aug 2021

When my kids would lose something, and would be frantically looking, I'd tell them to start cleaning and they'd find it. Of course they knew it was a trick, but it seriously did work.

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