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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsLast evening my wife said to me, "You weren't even listening were you?". I thought "What a strange
way to start a conversation!.
blueinredohio
(6,797 posts)When I say anything to him I have to repeat it because his first word is "huh?"
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)Sounds as if you're batting 1000 Floyd.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)Omnipresent
(5,706 posts)But I wasnt really paying attention.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)Diamond_Dog
(31,969 posts)Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)samnsara
(17,615 posts)Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)musclecar6
(1,685 posts)When I first started dating my wife she worked into a normal conversation the fact that she was going to cut her hair off and drive to Russia to see if I caught it. Fortunately for me I did. Truth be told I love being around my wife 24/7 as we talk about everything. Were both great talkers and listeners to each other and it really makes for a great relationship. Of course it helps that shes a very bright person with a great sense of humor and were both ENTJ/P on the Myers-Briggs Spectrum and are highly analytical. Its all good.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)LakeArenal
(28,816 posts)Honey, the phone is for you.
Nothing....
The phone.
Hey... the phone...
Finally you use that tone....you know the one .... the naggy one. The stereo type
Nag....
Lake get the damn phone...
Thats the one he hears... and Im the nag.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)femmocrat
(28,394 posts)Its so rude! Instead of listening, he fools with his phone or computer. When I ask him what I said, he gets all defensive. Of course, he gets it wrong.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)MiHale
(9,715 posts)being male.
There are always exceptions to the rule but most often we do hear you but are hoping you repeat what you said in a different way more suitable to our warped sensibilities.
Emile
(22,655 posts)EYESORE 9001
(25,927 posts)Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)70sEraVet
(3,491 posts)Many years back, I showed my wife a story I was reading, about a young, studious rabbi that had married a talkative wife. Over the years, he learned to say "Yes", " Probably so", and " You don't say" without having to pause from his reading.
Ever since, if I'm reading and my wife doesn't think I'm paying adequate attention to what she's saying, she asks (loudly) if I'm being the rabbi again.
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,546 posts)LoisB
(7,200 posts)tecelote
(5,122 posts)Is he still wrong?