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Bertha Venation

(21,484 posts)
Tue Jul 31, 2012, 12:12 PM Jul 2012

Good vibes/prayers for Mrs. V.'s mom

She's 79. She has emphysema and congestive heart failure, and has been battling intestinal problems for a couple of years. Yesterday she came home from the hospital, recovering from the latest bout of terrible woes. And she has C-Diff (Wikipedia has good info, too much to relate here).

Right now she's on her way back to the hospital. She gained 13 pounds overnight and she can barely breathe. That's all I know right now.

Until a few months ago, she was dad's sole caretaker. He has Alzheimer's. Even though they now have help in the home about 12-14 hours a day, it's not enough to relieve this burden from mom's shoulders. As a result, over the last few years she has grown weaker and more frail.

We're afraid of losing her.

Please send your best vibes (and prayers, if you pray) for Alice. Thank you.

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Good vibes/prayers for Mrs. V.'s mom (Original Post) Bertha Venation Jul 2012 OP
Vibes here. HopeHoops Jul 2012 #1
Praying for Alice and the rest of the family! *hugs* GreenPartyVoter Jul 2012 #2
Oh boy. GoCubsGo Jul 2012 #3
Vibes Joe Shlabotnik Jul 2012 #4
good vibes from me blueknight Jul 2012 #5
Vibes for Alice. Hope all turns out for the very best! Kaleva Jul 2012 #6
Healing and strength vibes for Mrs V's mom and all involved. MiddleFingerMom Jul 2012 #7
Sending out my best vibes. bigwillq Jul 2012 #8
Prayers for all of you! hedgehog Jul 2012 #9
Vibes for Alice applegrove Jul 2012 #10
Good vibes and prayers to Mrs. V's mom... hunter Jul 2012 #11

Joe Shlabotnik

(5,604 posts)
4. Vibes
Tue Jul 31, 2012, 04:34 PM
Jul 2012

Last summer we had an outbreak of C. Diff at our local hospital, while my dad was there for colon cancer surgery. It was very tense and stressful, but turned out all right. Best wishes for the best outcome.

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
7. Healing and strength vibes for Mrs V's mom and all involved.
Tue Jul 31, 2012, 05:54 PM
Jul 2012

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One of my problems is CHF. The sudden weight gain is often serious fluid retention and can be
indicative of a serious (though often temporary) problem with her kidneys.
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In my case, at least so far... it's been fairly easily fixed.
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Does she need help organizing/remembering her meds? My CHF and COPD require me to take
about 8-9 meds daily and it's hard for me to keep it all straight sometimes.
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