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CTyankee

(63,900 posts)
Fri Sep 9, 2022, 08:46 PM Sep 2022

Did anybody here think of Princess Diana today?

She was betrayed by Charles and Camilla (who Diana called the "Rotweiller&quot . I know that marriage was a total disaster from the start, but I still felt sorry for her. She was betrayed by her husband from the very beginning and overwhelmed by the media.

I'm afraid my view on the now King and his consort, Camilla, is always going to carry that stain.

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Did anybody here think of Princess Diana today? (Original Post) CTyankee Sep 2022 OP
I did yesterday nt XanaDUer2 Sep 2022 #1
A king named for a tampon... RainCaster Sep 2022 #2
I did in that I thought how ironic it is that her kid is very close to being king rurallib Sep 2022 #3
Nope. This is about the queen. jimfields33 Sep 2022 #4
As it should. But, inevitably, it involves the new king. And he has "baggage." CTyankee Sep 2022 #5
Nothing would thrill me more then after getting his king moment, jimfields33 Sep 2022 #6
Don't hold your breath. LisaL Sep 2022 #30
I think of her any time I see... 3catwoman3 Sep 2022 #7
Yes, and we just marked the 25th year of her death, so it has been on lots of minds recently. CTyankee Sep 2022 #9
And he's married to the love of his life 17 years! jimfields33 Sep 2022 #32
I always think of the fact that she was essentially a kid in the beginning of their Scrivener7 Sep 2022 #14
Same here. I remember thinking what a mistake wnylib Sep 2022 #17
Seems pretty obvious he didn't want to marry her to begin with. LisaL Sep 2022 #29
My thoughts exactly Diamond_Dog Sep 2022 #15
People in unhappy relationships often behave very badly. Ocelot II Sep 2022 #8
Yes, the marriage was a sham to begin with, altho Diana apparently didn't know a lot of what was CTyankee Sep 2022 #10
Thank you. Another thing, I know Diane was young but her own sister, Sarah, had dated raccoon Sep 2022 #19
Even so, she probably didn't really know what it would be like Ocelot II Sep 2022 #21
Yeah, it's really sad that he couldn't just marry Camilla in the first place. NT raccoon Sep 2022 #24
Nope Siwsan Sep 2022 #11
I thought of The Sex Pistols Merlot Sep 2022 #12
Now THAT's funny! CTyankee Sep 2022 #13
I feel bad for Harry Submariner Sep 2022 #16
I did. Niagara Sep 2022 #18
Maureen Dowd does enough Diana pissing-and-moaning for the whole country. Paladin Sep 2022 #20
Maureen is still trying to be relevant? Ocelot II Sep 2022 #22
Trying, but certainly not succeeding. (nt) Paladin Sep 2022 #23
Yes, I did. cksmithy Sep 2022 #25
Camilla is 2 years older than Charles. LisaL Sep 2022 #27
Yes. qwlauren35 Sep 2022 #26
He obviously has no desire to step down. LisaL Sep 2022 #28
Biden is also old. qwlauren35 Sep 2022 #33
I've never forgotten her ailsagirl Sep 2022 #31

jimfields33

(15,758 posts)
6. Nothing would thrill me more then after getting his king moment,
Fri Sep 9, 2022, 09:01 PM
Sep 2022

He turns to William and says, good luck.

3catwoman3

(23,965 posts)
7. I think of her any time I see...
Fri Sep 9, 2022, 09:01 PM
Sep 2022

…anything about Charles, William, or Harry.

That Charles got to go on and be happy with Camilla after the shameful way they both treated Diana really irks me.

jimfields33

(15,758 posts)
32. And he's married to the love of his life 17 years!
Sun Sep 11, 2022, 11:01 PM
Sep 2022

I was surprised it was that long. If not for rules, he’d be married to Camilla 40 years.

Scrivener7

(50,934 posts)
14. I always think of the fact that she was essentially a kid in the beginning of their
Fri Sep 9, 2022, 09:57 PM
Sep 2022

relationship. A very sheltered 19 when they met and just 20 when they married. And he was very, very emotionally abusive to her.

wnylib

(21,417 posts)
17. Same here. I remember thinking what a mistake
Sat Sep 10, 2022, 12:59 AM
Sep 2022

the wedding was while everyone else was excited over it. She was so young and so vulnerable to feeling flattered that the future King was interested in her. He was around 15 years older and had the power of the monarchy. It seemed obvious that he and his family were just looking for someone from the "right background" to produce heirs. A conflict of duty vs. genuine caring. The Spencers are a very old family, with nobility going back centuries.

So Charles married Diana out of duty and obedience to his family, but kept his affair going with his pre-marriage lover. Besides tolerating the public humility of her husband's affairs, Diana had to be trained in the duties of royal family members.

She was just not suited to such a life, but was too young to realize what it all entailed for her. It looked to me like the royal family had shopped for her as if buying a piece of meat at a supermarket.

Small surprise that it turned out badly.



LisaL

(44,973 posts)
29. Seems pretty obvious he didn't want to marry her to begin with.
Sun Sep 11, 2022, 10:27 PM
Sep 2022

But it was his duty to get married and he wasn't able to marry someone he actually wanted to marry.
It's not a big surprise the marriage didn't work out.

Ocelot II

(115,658 posts)
8. People in unhappy relationships often behave very badly.
Fri Sep 9, 2022, 09:05 PM
Sep 2022

Both Charles and Diana did; Diana began her affair with her riding instructor at about the same time Charles got back together with Camilla, and she might have also had an affair with a bodyguard. The media made their problems exponentially worse by revealing intimate details, including embarrassing tape recordings. Neither was a saint, and Charles was sometimes a cad, but Diana's tragic death ended up sort of whitewashing her own behavior. In any event, it was decades ago, and I guess I'm inclined to evaluate Charles on what he's done lately, especially his efforts wrt climate change and conservation. Of course, I don't live in the UK so what I think doesn't matter anyhow.

CTyankee

(63,900 posts)
10. Yes, the marriage was a sham to begin with, altho Diana apparently didn't know a lot of what was
Fri Sep 9, 2022, 09:11 PM
Sep 2022

going on. She was immature and really needed time to grow to maturity. I felt very sorry for her. Being married to someone who is an adulterer would probably drive me to seeking some love and support.

raccoon

(31,106 posts)
19. Thank you. Another thing, I know Diane was young but her own sister, Sarah, had dated
Sat Sep 10, 2022, 07:20 AM
Sep 2022

Thank you. Another thing, I know Diane was young but her own sister, Sarah, had dated Charles, So it seems to me Diana had to have known what she was getting into.

Ocelot II

(115,658 posts)
21. Even so, she probably didn't really know what it would be like
Sat Sep 10, 2022, 11:15 AM
Sep 2022

to have to deal with all the customs and norms and expectations that went with marrying into that family, but both she and Charles were pressured into that marriage. The family wanted an heir but Charles wanted Camilla, and Diana thought she was getting the fairy tale. Sad all around.

Submariner

(12,502 posts)
16. I feel bad for Harry
Fri Sep 9, 2022, 10:41 PM
Sep 2022

knowing his mother would be alive if it wasn’t for Camilla. He’s tortured by the loss of his mom because he was so young and misses her so.

His mother would not got into the car of another man if not for the interloper Camilla.

Niagara

(7,589 posts)
18. I did.
Sat Sep 10, 2022, 07:03 AM
Sep 2022

I know that QEII was actually fond of Princess Diana and sympathized with Diana about her marriage ordeal, this statement came straight from royal author and biographer Matthew Dennison.


Yet, HM and Princess Diana still had a complicated relationship.

Paladin

(28,246 posts)
20. Maureen Dowd does enough Diana pissing-and-moaning for the whole country.
Sat Sep 10, 2022, 11:06 AM
Sep 2022

In a single NYT column this weekend.

Ocelot II

(115,658 posts)
22. Maureen is still trying to be relevant?
Sat Sep 10, 2022, 11:18 AM
Sep 2022

Honest to God, she has to be the absolutely shallowest columnist of any major newspaper.

cksmithy

(231 posts)
25. Yes, I did.
Sun Sep 11, 2022, 02:23 PM
Sep 2022

She was a teenager, who had prince charles posters on her wall and who had dreamed of marrying a prince. She was in over her head and was used to bear "the heir and the spare," as she said herself. What is a real shame is that , "the firm" didn't allow Charles and Camilla to get together to begin with. (She wasn't a virgin and Charles had to do his duty in the navy before he could be allowed to marry.) Then Camilla was too old to have children and would have had to divorce her husband and the monarchy couldn't have that. It was a complete mess and Diana was only 20 years old, I think, when she married Charles, too young to understand what she was really getting into.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
27. Camilla is 2 years older than Charles.
Sun Sep 11, 2022, 10:23 PM
Sep 2022

Therefore one would think she could still have children if Charles was allowed to marry her.
Meghan Markle was 36 when she got married and she obviously had two children since.

qwlauren35

(6,145 posts)
26. Yes.
Sun Sep 11, 2022, 10:11 PM
Sep 2022

I had those thoughts. I had hoped that Charles would be stepped over and the crown would go to William. Less scandal.

I looked at one of the pictures. Charles is soooooooooooo old.

I really think he should step down. Maybe in a year or two.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
28. He obviously has no desire to step down.
Sun Sep 11, 2022, 10:24 PM
Sep 2022

And if Charles is "sooooo old" what do you think of Biden?

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