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underpants

(182,767 posts)
Sat Mar 18, 2023, 07:25 PM Mar 2023

My daughter has been accepted to college

She’s the 3rd generation of my family to go to college. 2nd generation of my wife’s family and I say that out of respect for my Father in law- he came out of the hollers (railroad - hard ass).

Her high school has been a weird time. She’s a COVID kid. Her middle school was brutal. She did work (International Bachelorette) and projects beyond what I did for the first years of college. Of course I was a bad student. I got an accounting degree after 10 years (Army included).

She’s a good person. She started a LGBTQ+ club in high school. I’ve shielded her as much as possible from politics but we do discuss News and governing.

She’s ADHD. I couldn’t understand her not turning in
homework. Drove me crazy.

She has some other applications out there - W&M UVA-Wise - but she got the 👍 from VCU. It’s where her mother/my wife met.


Okay bragging a bit
GPA 3.3
SAT 1450

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My daughter has been accepted to college (Original Post) underpants Mar 2023 OP
From all you tell us about her jls4561 Mar 2023 #1
Sounds great! viva la Mar 2023 #2
I actually did that! A college nearby was offering a Liberal Studies Masters Degree program and CTyankee Mar 2023 #14
Congratulations, underpants. greatauntoftriplets Mar 2023 #3
Congratulations! Irish_Dem Mar 2023 #4
That's great. Everyone has their own trip to make. Good for her and your family. dameatball Mar 2023 #5
my son wouldn't turn in his home work and it too drove me crazy! Hamlette Mar 2023 #6
My son was the same way. He ended up with an undergrad course at Columbia in NYC and went on CTyankee Mar 2023 #16
my son is a prosecutor too! In the state DA system Hamlette Mar 2023 #20
Well, "Law and Order" was special. My son was so taken by Sam Waterston he went to a Broadway CTyankee Mar 2023 #38
I think it is funny that the first top prosecutor on law and order was named Adam Schiff. Hamlette Mar 2023 #58
My daughter as well. She had to drop out of a play yellowdogintexas Mar 2023 #56
Congrats malaise Mar 2023 #7
Congratulations rwheeler31 Mar 2023 #8
Congrats, underpanta! gademocrat7 Mar 2023 #9
Congrats hookaleft Mar 2023 #10
Hooray! Getting into college is a big deal, even getting into PoindexterOglethorpe Mar 2023 #11
Congrats! MissB Mar 2023 #12
Congrats! Excellent! Solly Mack Mar 2023 #13
Congrats to you and your daughter. She sounds eager to learn. That is more than half the battle. Prairie_Seagull Mar 2023 #15
Congratulations!! lucca18 Mar 2023 #17
Wow! Wonderful underpants! cilla4progress Mar 2023 #18
Congrats! Both of you have every reason to be proud. highplainsdem Mar 2023 #19
Being an I.B. kid is very special! Onlyserious Mar 2023 #21
Congratulations to her. Yay! LoisB Mar 2023 #22
Big gz. Tetrachloride Mar 2023 #23
My daughter is also waiting on W&M and UVA responses shawn703 Mar 2023 #24
Lots of Tech friends underpants Mar 2023 #33
Hugs to both of you Hekate Mar 2023 #25
Congratulations to both of you! panader0 Mar 2023 #26
Congrats to daughter and proud parents! MLAA Mar 2023 #27
Congrats! SheltieLover Mar 2023 #28
BRAG ON...EVERYONE'S EARNED THE RIGHT!!!! Karadeniz Mar 2023 #29
Recommended. H2O Man Mar 2023 #30
❤️ underpants Mar 2023 #34
Congratulations! area51 Mar 2023 #31
Congradulations to your daughter and to you and wife for raising such a wonderful and talented young debm55 Mar 2023 #32
We are excited for your daughter! summer_in_TX Mar 2023 #35
Congrats to both of you... 2naSalit Mar 2023 #36
Congratulations! Baked Potato Mar 2023 #37
That's great news! swimboy Mar 2023 #39
Kool! Magoo48 Mar 2023 #40
Yay! murielm99 Mar 2023 #41
Man, does that make me feel old! davsand Mar 2023 #42
That's wonderful! Congratulations, dad! yardwork Mar 2023 #43
Good work! Congratulations to you both! Wicked Blue Mar 2023 #44
That's very cool. Congrats to you all! Evolve Dammit Mar 2023 #45
Wonderful news! Marthe48 Mar 2023 #46
Congratulations to you both!! BobTheSubgenius Mar 2023 #47
Congratulations Emile Mar 2023 #48
Congratulations and VCU is a great college! Way to go! cayugafalls Mar 2023 #49
Underpants You aren't the only one Old Crank Mar 2023 #50
Great job grantcart Mar 2023 #51
Congratulations - and "well done" on the good parenting! NullTuples Mar 2023 #52
Congratulations Underpants family. Niagara Mar 2023 #53
Congrats! momta Mar 2023 #54
Congrats. In a few years, you can rediscover what disposable income is. (nt) Paladin Mar 2023 #55
Congratulations!!! VCU is a good school yellowdogintexas Mar 2023 #57
Tell her congrats! Nevilledog Mar 2023 #59
congratulations!nt Trueblue Texan Mar 2023 #60
awwwwww Big congrats to all of you. So wonderful for her. The daughter of a niyad Mar 2023 #61
Congratulations LetMyPeopleVote Mar 2023 #62

viva la

(3,285 posts)
2. Sounds great!
Sat Mar 18, 2023, 07:36 PM
Mar 2023

I hope she finds herself in just the best place for her and loves her classes.
(I wish I could go to college again... I just loved the classes, and I know that sounds lame.)

CTyankee

(63,902 posts)
14. I actually did that! A college nearby was offering a Liberal Studies Masters Degree program and
Sat Mar 18, 2023, 08:55 PM
Mar 2023

I eagerly signed up for it. What I realized was that the program was a kind of "gift" to the faculty who could teach what they loved, instead of grinding out requirement courses year by year. I took a writing course from a fabulous teacher, a course in transcendent religious history and writings, even an Economic history of the various theories about the question of "worth." Unfailingly, each course "lit my fire" of imagination. Then I started writing about the artist Caravaggio and now I've written two books on art history and a third I am still working out in my head.

It would be great if everyone had a course in liberal studies.

Hamlette

(15,411 posts)
6. my son wouldn't turn in his home work and it too drove me crazy!
Sat Mar 18, 2023, 08:17 PM
Mar 2023

he'd do it but just not turn it in.

He's now a very respected lawyer.

There is hope.

CTyankee

(63,902 posts)
16. My son was the same way. He ended up with an undergrad course at Columbia in NYC and went on
Sat Mar 18, 2023, 08:57 PM
Mar 2023

to law school and is now an ADA in the Brooklyn DA's office. I think of him when I see reruns of "Law and Order."

Hamlette

(15,411 posts)
20. my son is a prosecutor too! In the state DA system
Sat Mar 18, 2023, 09:11 PM
Mar 2023

I wonder if there is a link. . . refuse to turn in your homework. . . naaaa.


I'm always telling him what shows to watch where there is a great DA character. He's a doll. But then? Why???????

CTyankee

(63,902 posts)
38. Well, "Law and Order" was special. My son was so taken by Sam Waterston he went to a Broadway
Sun Mar 19, 2023, 07:28 AM
Mar 2023

show to see him and got to meet him after the show. Big fan! Sam Waterston is a hell of an actor...

Hamlette

(15,411 posts)
58. I think it is funny that the first top prosecutor on law and order was named Adam Schiff.
Sun Mar 19, 2023, 02:37 PM
Mar 2023

just like the California representative.

yellowdogintexas

(22,250 posts)
56. My daughter as well. She had to drop out of a play
Sun Mar 19, 2023, 01:57 PM
Mar 2023

she really wanted to be in because her grades dropped because of the homework problem.

I can only recall one teacher for whom she always turned in her homework, and she was well known as the toughest teacher in the school.

Now she is an artist, specializing in body art and a very successful tattooist in Phoenix

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,841 posts)
11. Hooray! Getting into college is a big deal, even getting into
Sat Mar 18, 2023, 08:47 PM
Mar 2023

the local community college that takes everyone. Because college of any kind offers opportunities, lots of opportunities.

My son likewise wasn't good about turning in homework. We eventually learned he's on the spectrum. Asperger's, although that specific diagnosis has gone away. Too bad, because it really was useful. Along the way he flunked out of two colleges, despite having a very high IQ. Right now he's in a PhD program in astronomy, and tells me he'll graduate this fall semester.

Prairie_Seagull

(3,316 posts)
15. Congrats to you and your daughter. She sounds eager to learn. That is more than half the battle.
Sat Mar 18, 2023, 08:56 PM
Mar 2023

Maybe show her this thread so she can see how many of us wish her and you well.

Onlyserious

(103 posts)
21. Being an I.B. kid is very special!
Sat Mar 18, 2023, 09:11 PM
Mar 2023

My kid was an I.B. kid and it was extraordinarily demanding, requiring a seriousness and dedication above and beyond. You and she must be very proud.

My kid was wait listed at W&M,and Duke--and ended up chosing Vanderbilt. Vanderbilt turned out to be quite conservative, but she persevered. And we got to hang in Nashville.

Tetrachloride

(7,833 posts)
23. Big gz.
Sat Mar 18, 2023, 09:21 PM
Mar 2023

if your daughter is still having AdHD issues, i can ask my friend whose daughter succeeded in her therapy.

shawn703

(2,702 posts)
24. My daughter is also waiting on W&M and UVA responses
Sat Mar 18, 2023, 09:22 PM
Mar 2023

She got accepted into VT though, which out of her current acceptances is where she wants to go. It’s also the furthest away from the watchful eye of her parents - hopefully that’s not a factor lol

underpants

(182,767 posts)
33. Lots of Tech friends
Sat Mar 18, 2023, 10:04 PM
Mar 2023

My girl is very practical. She wants to be an archeologist and knows she going to be in school for years. She wants to be as inexpensive as possible. She also applied to Ricard Bland (W&M) which, considering her classmates, surprised me.

I got lucky with this kid.

debm55

(25,160 posts)
32. Congradulations to your daughter and to you and wife for raising such a wonderful and talented young
Sat Mar 18, 2023, 10:04 PM
Mar 2023

woman.

summer_in_TX

(2,732 posts)
35. We are excited for your daughter!
Sat Mar 18, 2023, 10:15 PM
Mar 2023

Your pride in your daughter is a beautiful thing. It'll be such an opportunity for her – and it's a very good thing she's trying to go in state. Wise young woman!

2naSalit

(86,534 posts)
36. Congrats to both of you...
Sat Mar 18, 2023, 10:28 PM
Mar 2023

And mom! Hope this means she'll be able to stay close to home, if that's what she wants.

davsand

(13,421 posts)
42. Man, does that make me feel old!
Sun Mar 19, 2023, 10:11 AM
Mar 2023

I remember when she was born! Not gonna lie, the passage of time is something I really only notice when I look at our kids. I probably should feel embarrassed by that, but it's a fact, and I cannot deny it.

Underpants, it sounds like you guys raised a terrific kid. I'm not at all surprised, by that, but the thing that strikes me is your comment that she's a nice person. The academic stuff is wonderful, and absolutely something to be proud of, but realizing and celebrating her character tells me everything about the values your family demonstrated and modeled for her. WELL done!

Kevsand and I also have a daughter. We pretty much raised her in politics. I joked for years that she was probably gonna do the teen rebellion thing and become a Rush Limbaugh fan. She didn't. She has entered a career that is political, and that was by her choice. We told her a long time ago that you have to stand for something, and I am so very proud of her for what she chooses to stand up for. She is running for a city wide office in two years, and already people are coming to her to ask how they can help her win. She's gonna do just fine. I'm enormously proud of her. She's good people.

These DU offspring are pretty incredible! Love to you, and congratulations!




Laura

BobTheSubgenius

(11,563 posts)
47. Congratulations to you both!!
Sun Mar 19, 2023, 10:57 AM
Mar 2023

(But a little bit more to her - she's the one that's going to Uni, after all. )

Your daughter's numbers are virtually identical to those of my middle step-grand, and she should take pride in them, because they are no mean feat. "My grad" sure takes pride in her work and accepts nothing less than excellence from herself.

Her extra-curriculars were through the roof, too. Varsity basketball and volleyball, sings the national anthem at school events, first chair flute in the county orchestra, performed a leading role in the Drama Club's annual production (and now she's hooked!) and for her first term at uni, she will be placed in second semester of second year, because she's also taken a ton of extension courses.

And, I believe her career path at this point will gladden the good people here. She's aiming to be an investigative journalist.

Old Crank

(3,569 posts)
50. Underpants You aren't the only one
Sun Mar 19, 2023, 11:22 AM
Mar 2023

Who took 10 years to get your degree. I also did. almost to the day. I had an AF stint, not the army.
Started in Late Aug. 69 graudated mid Aug. 79.

COngratulations for perserverance and getting your daughter through HS.

momta

(4,079 posts)
54. Congrats!
Sun Mar 19, 2023, 12:11 PM
Mar 2023

I'm kind of assuming you meant International Baccalaureate (which I have to look up how to spell every time), and not Bachelorette. Although the latter sounds like an interesting program

niyad

(113,257 posts)
61. awwwwww Big congrats to all of you. So wonderful for her. The daughter of a
Sun Mar 19, 2023, 06:31 PM
Mar 2023

very dear friend went to VCU and absolutely loved it. May your daughter do so as well.

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