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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsWhy would 18 people ignore me?
Each one, of course, has his or her own reason, but I think that 18 people could indicate a trend. It was at 17 people not too long ago, it's only growing.
I'm wondering
Why?
Am I too mean to people?
Are my frequent musical vid postings somewhat tedious and objectionable?
Are my frequent rants and essays perhaps a source of contention?
Am I too rude to other posters?
Is there something that I'm missing, or should I just forget about caring about it?
CurtEastPoint
(18,639 posts)Melissa G
(10,170 posts)I only generally read my subscription post and the Greatest page. I read you when you make Greatest and I have never experienced you being the slightest bit objectionable in that realm.
I am curious what this thread might bring.
MrScorpio
(73,630 posts)Melissa G
(10,170 posts)I had not looked at my transparency page. I have at least one person who does not love me. So sad. I doubt I'll lose any sleep over it.
murielm99
(30,733 posts)GLBT rights, and the way we refer to some non-hetero people here.
I have tried to stay out of those. I am glad that DU can be a safe place for GLBT members. But when it comes to some of the issues raised here, I ask my GLBT real-life friends. I get better answers from them, and no argument. They tell me if I seem insensitive, but they know I love them and want what is best for them.
I think there were some DUers who did not like some of the things you said in regard to those arguments. I was surprised. I do not remember anything specific.
I think one person is ignoring me. There were many more than that during the primaries!
I read your posts. I do not always respond. But I think DU would be poorer without you.
MrScorpio
(73,630 posts)And also much of what was argued about, policy and whatnot, has been either resolved, or its way to eventually being resolved.
There were a lot of emotions running high back then. It seems as if we've all come a long way since.
Tobin S.
(10,418 posts)Otherwise, I don't know. I don't post very much anymore and I hold the title for being DU's "Most Innocuous Poster" but even I have one person ignoring me. Used to be two.
Ikonoklast
(23,973 posts)That pisses off a certain segment here.
17 and 20 for me.
MrScorpio
(73,630 posts)I never thought of that.
Thanks
lunatica
(53,410 posts)But maybe I have some because I like to swear too. I think maybe a couple of the extreme feminists might object to me not agreeing that all men are pigs might add to the reasons. It could be a combination of things. Probably is.
onehandle
(51,122 posts)Instability.
After ten years I was tired of being stalked, so I put about the entirety of the gungeon on ignore. Some of them ignored me back.
No more stalking.
Read between the lines.
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)I'm not one of 'em. [img][/img]
MrScorpio
(73,630 posts)Denninmi
(6,581 posts)I think you're a cool guy, love your posts, and would be fun to hang with in real life.
MrScorpio
(73,630 posts)LiberalLoner
(9,761 posts)pscot
(21,024 posts)You haven't been trying.
MrScorpio
(73,630 posts)Lisa0825
(14,487 posts)I don't see it under my profile or my account.
MrScorpio
(73,630 posts)Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)BlueJazz
(25,348 posts)hedgehog
(36,286 posts)Seven people have me on ignore, which I can't figure out.
But I think Tobin S has the win for Who could be offended by Tobin?
Arkansas Granny
(31,514 posts)I've never seen anything in your posts that I found to be objectionable.
OmahaBlueDog
(10,000 posts)One throne with two kings upon it would be quite out of order, and one house with two aggressive Mars-ruled "heads-of-the-house" would be more so. These two are only compatible from a sexual viewpoint.
http://www.angelfire.com/tn/knowme68/scorpiocomp.html
GreenPartyVoter
(72,377 posts)Lady Freedom Returns
(14,120 posts)I'm an Aries and I think he ROCKS!
GreenPartyVoter
(72,377 posts)don't like you, I just can't imagine. Perhaps they are jealous of your six degrees abilities!
MissB
(15,805 posts)ZombieHorde
(29,047 posts)Oh wait, you don't do that. I don't know.
I just checked the number ignoring me, and I went from 16 to 15. Either someone's subscription expired, someone got PPRed, or someone forgave my trespasses.
OutofMindOUTBody
(78 posts)PufPuf23
(8,767 posts)I have one and used to have two ignoring me but hardly ever make OPs.
Don't use the ignore feature myself.
rrneck
(17,671 posts)DFW
(54,341 posts)(Shows how much the issue has been of concern to me, I guess, but now I'm curious)
MrScorpio
(73,630 posts)DFW
(54,341 posts)So, I have one star member ignoring me. Whaddya know.
Brief thoughts of suicide faded quickly, and the world resumed turning on its axis.
OutofMindOUTBody
(78 posts)MineralMan
(146,286 posts)People do inexplicable things.
LeftofObama
(4,243 posts)and I'm replying to yours, I guess it's safe to assume we aren't ignoring each other.
ohiosmith
(24,262 posts)libodem
(19,288 posts)Lady Freedom Returns
(14,120 posts)There are people out there that rather drink cheep beer than fine wine when it is offered.
libodem
(19,288 posts)Weirdos extraordinar. You are too cool for 'em.
I have 5. Some are blocking my mail, too. Yeah, bite me.
Bird smilie.
MoreGOPoop
(417 posts)be me, my fellow Scorpioid! (Happy Belated!) You have an impressively wide range of music you share here. Rock on, please?!
nolabear
(41,959 posts)Seriously, I always enjoy your posts. But you know, you just can't figure some people. Why to millions watch Honey Boo Boo? Probably the same folks who are ignoring you.
MrSlayer
(22,143 posts)How does one determine if people are ignoring them?
LeftofObama
(4,243 posts)Click "My Profile" then click the "transparency" tab.
MrSlayer
(22,143 posts)There is nothing there for me at all.
LeftofObama
(4,243 posts)scroll down just a little bit and there is a link off to the right that says, "Show me my Transparency page." Click on that link and it will tell you if anyone is ignoring you.
MrSlayer
(22,143 posts)I have 9 people ignoring me. Kind of disappointing really. I must work harder.
LeftofObama
(4,243 posts)It's 10 now. I'm Kidding! I'm Kidding!
Glad I could help.
sendero
(28,552 posts)... I've only got 17, I am going to have to try harder.
madinmaryland
(64,931 posts)That might be it.
MrScorpio
(73,630 posts)And I rarely get into scrapes in GD. That's where most of my Greatest Page entries come from.
madinmaryland
(64,931 posts)LiberalEsto
(22,845 posts)Just wait. We will find them and sauerkraut them.
And then..... they will get the HERRING!
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)love_katz
(2,578 posts)Can't figure out why anyone would do that with you.
I am not a new poster, nor new to DU. This is luv_mykatz.
DU kept sending me to the log-in page tonight. To make a long story short, I had to set up a new account to begin posting again. Drat!
Anyway, I have always loved your song posts, and especially you 6 degrees of Mr. Scorpio posts.
Maybe DU is glitching tonight? Maybe those people really don't have you on ignore?
Sometimes it seems like the internet gets...indigestion or something due to overload at holiday time.
Anyway, count me as another person who likes your posts. Rock on!
love_katz
(2,578 posts)not you 6 degrees. Drat.
JoeyT
(6,785 posts)I've never seen you post anything objectionable or be mean. *shrug* In one recent thread in Meta some of the most inoffensive posters I've ever seen on the internet said people were ignoring them too, so I wouldn't worry too much about it.
MrMickeysMom
(20,453 posts)Don't sweat it... You're a decent fellow who appears sincere. Must mean you have a lot of readers of your posts, eh?
I had about 4 when I looked last time, but I'm not populating things much and figure I'n not in the thick of it as much.
On the other hand, who gives a shit?
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)by someone. All that's necessary is the wrong tone, the wrong position on a topic, or just about anything.
Or if yu really wanna rack up some ignores, go post in the Israel-Palestine forum.
MrMickeysMom
(20,453 posts)Maybe that's where I picked up the "3" ???
Yeah, you can't pleezeem all the time!
Taverner
(55,476 posts)You have enemies? Good. That means you've stood up for something, sometime in your life.
Winston Churchill
I have thirty ignoring me
So be it
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Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)And I know why.
I'm not rude. Don't call posters names. But I've committed the sin a few times of taking some stances that were unpopular to some extremists. They cannot take discussions on their topics. It's a "yes, I agree" party.
Example: I got one ignore after this exchange:
I post in response to something that Obama did indeed lose the first debate. Obama himself admitted as much and made a joke about it. His numbers went down after the first debate, while Romney was at his highest after that debate. Nate Silver talked about it.
The poster I responded to: He did not! Take it back! Obama won! Romney lied!
Me in response: We all know Romney lied. That's not the point. The purpose of the debate is to get votes. If you use that gauge, it moved votes....down for Obama, up for Romney. This is no big argument here. It's generally accepted. Even by Obama! He had a bad night. He's human.
The poster: He did not lose! He won! Take it back!
My response: I not only didn't take it back, I posted Obama's jokes (youtube) at the dinner that was televised, where Obama joked about his performance at the first debate. One of the jokes, which was pretty funny, was that he felt really rested tonight, esp since he had had that nice long nap during the first debate. I also posted SNL's skit on the debate, which was hilarious.
I was immediately placed on ignore. He might as well have placed Obama on ignore, since Obama agreed with ME. Some people have no sense of humor.
MrScorpio
(73,630 posts)I can dig it
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)There is nothing to discuss, in their view. Even when you point out facts...even Obama himself admits he screwed up the debate (for example)....that will not do. You MUST agree with the poster.
I have a few people on ignore. Every one was because of a personal affront....called me name, overly rude, or something like that. NEVER because of a differing viewpoint. But I don't recall now what they called me.
ismnotwasm
(41,976 posts)A voice of reason, and fantastic taste in music. What's not to love?
LynneSin
(95,337 posts)although honestly I've met you and I don't have a fricking clue why anyone would ignore you. You seem like a genuine person!
irisblue
(32,967 posts)1-I've never seen you be mean, in fact you have been funny and helpful
2-nope, your posts are often fascinating
3-this is DU, ranting is expected
4-not rude at all.
you aren't a problem, they have "issues", bless their littleshrivledhardened hearts
TwilightGardener
(46,416 posts)I'm kidding, I have no idea why you'd have that many ignoring you. I'm surprised at how many very nice-seeming people have fairly high ignore counts, actually.