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Aristus

(66,316 posts)
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 03:29 AM Dec 2012

Depressed. Hold me.

No, no; I'm fine. My life couldn't be better right now, as a matter of fact. Just depressed about recent events, and the things that won't happen in spite of them. Hurting for innocent lives lost, and for those who loved them.

I don't need an intervention; just some kind words.

Because right now, I can't get the words of Eugene O'Neill out of my head. He wrote:

"There is no future. And there is no present. There is only the past, happening over, and over, forever."

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Depressed. Hold me. (Original Post) Aristus Dec 2012 OP
This is for you, my dear Aristus... CaliforniaPeggy Dec 2012 #1
Thanks, CalPeg. Aristus Dec 2012 #7
This will help. MrsBrady Dec 2012 #2
Thank you, Mrs Brady. Aristus Dec 2012 #8
We're all in this boat together. LiberalAndProud Dec 2012 #3
That message never gets old. Aristus Dec 2012 #11
Agree with O'Niell. That is what it is. Each time the universe gives a different version to work on. freshwest Dec 2012 #4
One thing among many that I learned. Denninmi Dec 2012 #5
That's very kind. Aristus Dec 2012 #12
all I can do is send you a virtual hug nadine_mn Dec 2012 #6
Hang in there. We need to funnel our sadness and outrage into some Baitball Blogger Dec 2012 #9
Yours is a healthy reaction, Cher. And a hard one. And I'm beaming a hug. nolabear Dec 2012 #10
A friend's words to his wounded, despairing friend sarge43 Dec 2012 #13
Grief can make you very depressed but it's lunatica Dec 2012 #14
nice thought Lunatica. IcyPeas Dec 2012 #16
Hugs. And this: LiberalEsto Dec 2012 #15

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,588 posts)
1. This is for you, my dear Aristus...
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 03:35 AM
Dec 2012


Even though it's virtual, there's a real person sending it, and I want you to feel better...

I believe that all we have is the present. Every moment is that present...

Don't waste them.

They are all we have.

Aristus

(66,316 posts)
7. Thanks, CalPeg.
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 12:53 PM
Dec 2012

I am a bit more optimistic than O'Neill; he should have stayed away from the sauce. Alcohol is a very effective depressant.

And I have great hope for the future. I've read several books that explain how we are actually getting less and less violent and more and more interconnected all the time. This is a wonderful thing. I just want to get there now.

I've always been impatient...

MrsBrady

(4,187 posts)
2. This will help.
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 03:44 AM
Dec 2012

I love this artist.

www.ellispaul.com

"the world ain't slowing down"



"speed of trees" music starts at 1:40

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
4. Agree with O'Niell. That is what it is. Each time the universe gives a different version to work on.
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 04:10 AM
Dec 2012

There is a sense of liberation at the same time. We are here, presumably of our own choice, more than flesh and bone, with a purpose. Some say we are creators with the world. But each variation will never be the same, although the themes do repeat endlessly. We are faced with the same choices mankind has always had, and for an era we choose where we are going. We are more connected in some ways than we have ever been; less connected in others. Do we go to the light, twilight or darkness?

Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
5. One thing among many that I learned.
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 04:19 AM
Dec 2012

Things will happen, bad things. It is your choice in how you respond. Even out of great tragedy good can spring forth with determination, patience, and faith.

You, Sir, are a kind and generous man who does great good for humanity, and tragedy can never diminish that in any way.

Please know things will get better.

http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=i-kHleNYIDc&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3Di-kHleNYIDc

Baitball Blogger

(46,700 posts)
9. Hang in there. We need to funnel our sadness and outrage into some
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 12:57 PM
Dec 2012

productive change. Then, we'll have to accept whatever feeling comes after.

sarge43

(28,941 posts)
13. A friend's words to his wounded, despairing friend
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 01:57 PM
Dec 2012

"That there's some good in the world ... and it's worth fighting for."

A teacher and a principal gave their lives trying to protect those children. The first responsors, the medics, the police faced that horror and did their duty. People are coming in from around this country to give aid and comfort. People everywhere are saying "Enough!" and will work to make it so.

You rest, weep and mourn as we all will. Then, as we must, rise, shoulder the burden and fight for the good.

Love ya, bro.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
14. Grief can make you very depressed but it's
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 02:30 PM
Dec 2012

a great outpouring of love when you think about it. If the inherent love in grief can lift those precious souls to heaven and somehow assuage the pain of their loved ones, imagine the ride they're getting right now when the whole world grieves.

 

LiberalEsto

(22,845 posts)
15. Hugs. And this:
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 02:53 PM
Dec 2012

The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, not to worry about the future, or not to anticipate troubles, but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly. ~Buddha



Breathing in, my body becomes calm
Breathing out, I smile
Dwelling in the present moment
I know this is a wonderful moment
~ Thich Nhat Hanh, contemporary Buddhist monk

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