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MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
Mon Jan 21, 2013, 03:14 AM Jan 2013

A grocery store nearby has a shopping/delivery service and I just placed a pretty LARGE order.

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Does anyone know what an appropriate tip is for one of these shoppers? And is it on a
sliding scale of some sort when the amount of items rises?
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A grocery store nearby has a shopping/delivery service and I just placed a pretty LARGE order. (Original Post) MiddleFingerMom Jan 2013 OP
My dear MiddleFingerMom! CaliforniaPeggy Jan 2013 #1
My dear CaliforniaPeggy! MiddleFingerMom Jan 2013 #3
I would say maybe $5 to the delivery person. Denninmi Jan 2013 #2
I think you're right -- and this was a HUGE order. MiddleFingerMom Jan 2013 #4
I would have said give them a ten, or possibly a twenty eShirl Jan 2013 #8
If I were to think about it much I'd say it depends on how much stuff they have to carry Major Nikon Jan 2013 #25
Jeez, ya'd think giving him one of your trademark moons would be plenty pinboy3niner Jan 2013 #5
Like giving my dad a yoyo for his birthday, that would be a tip for me. MiddleFingerMom Jan 2013 #18
I have no idea. In_The_Wind Jan 2013 #6
Depends on what he is going to help you with... HipChick Jan 2013 #7
He made himself some tea? siligut Jan 2013 #9
$5 or $10. hay rick Jan 2013 #10
$1000 lame54 Jan 2013 #11
That's the standard. (nt) harmonicon Jan 2013 #13
Oh, sure... you want me to look cheap and have him spit in my fresh brussels sprouts next time. MiddleFingerMom Jan 2013 #17
Can you really put a price on spitless brussel sprouts? lame54 Jan 2013 #19
Give him a box of candy. rug Jan 2013 #12
I tip the pizza delivery guy $5 but its only 2 miles away so its not a "big" far away delivery riderinthestorm Jan 2013 #14
you could ask, I suppose Kali Jan 2013 #15
Five or ten bucks. When I was a kid delivering newspapers a lady on my route would tip me every ohiosmith Jan 2013 #16
Moot point. Union driver. Not allowed to take tips. One of his co-workers DID on the sly... took... MiddleFingerMom Jan 2013 #20
Thanks for the update. In_The_Wind Jan 2013 #21
What time is dinner? ohiosmith Jan 2013 #22
I don't have a thing to cook. MiddleFingerMom Jan 2013 #23
I know I am late, but some advice on how to lift heavy objects rurallib Jan 2013 #24

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,588 posts)
1. My dear MiddleFingerMom!
Mon Jan 21, 2013, 03:27 AM
Jan 2013

You know, I really have no idea.......I guess I'd give 20%, the way I would a good server in a restaurant.

And I just wanted to say hi before I shuffle off to bed!

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
3. My dear CaliforniaPeggy!
Mon Jan 21, 2013, 03:48 AM
Jan 2013

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I think 20% would be way too much, although that's generally what I give for good service at
a restaurant, too.
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This person (depending on whether or not the store is union) is probably getting paid a good
wage (where restaurant folks are NOT) -- everything I'm finding online says a set amount
rather than a percentage.
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If this person is THE shopper for his/her store, I definitely want to keep him/her happy.
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If it's a rotating job -- that's not so much a factor, though I'd still want to tip him/her
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I hope you're doing well -- and as pain-free as can be expected. I haven't seen an update --
did I miss it?
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Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
2. I would say maybe $5 to the delivery person.
Mon Jan 21, 2013, 03:28 AM
Jan 2013

I don't think that kind of service is tipped the same way as, say, a waiter/waitress. I think it's usually a set amount, whatever your are comfortable with, instead of a percentage. I guess you would have to judge based on the amount of work it appears to be for them.

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
4. I think you're right -- and this was a HUGE order.
Mon Jan 21, 2013, 03:51 AM
Jan 2013

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Then again, this is a professional shopper and almost certainly doesn't shop with the
enjoyment and care that I do.
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Right now I'm leaning towards $20 -- I'll see what kind of responses I get and what
I find out elsewhere online.
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eShirl

(18,490 posts)
8. I would have said give them a ten, or possibly a twenty
Mon Jan 21, 2013, 06:00 AM
Jan 2013

depending on how heavy the entire order is and how far they have to lug it.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
25. If I were to think about it much I'd say it depends on how much stuff they have to carry
Tue Jan 22, 2013, 05:31 AM
Jan 2013

So if they bring in 10 bags and you give them $2 per bag, that would be $20.

Another thing I do when I get into a tipping situation where I don't know what to tip, I just ask the person, "hey what's the going rate for a tip these days?" Most people aren't going to low ball you, and they can hardly feel slighted if you give them what they suggest. The only problem with that approach is if they give you some amount that is more than what you were prepared to give, but that's never happened to me.

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
18. Like giving my dad a yoyo for his birthday, that would be a tip for me.
Mon Jan 21, 2013, 04:06 PM
Jan 2013

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Perhaps I should re-phrase that.
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HipChick

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7. Depends on what he is going to help you with...
Mon Jan 21, 2013, 05:48 AM
Jan 2013

when I had surgery, mine helped put the bags inside the kitchen...he damn near put the groceries away, made himself a cup of tea and made himself at home...I could not get rid of him

siligut

(12,272 posts)
9. He made himself some tea?
Mon Jan 21, 2013, 08:39 AM
Jan 2013

Did you offer tea and he made it for himself because you were out of commission? I kind of think he sounds sweet. So what did you tip him?

hay rick

(7,605 posts)
10. $5 or $10.
Mon Jan 21, 2013, 11:35 AM
Jan 2013

They are already being paid, though probably not enough.

Considerations:
Are they using their own vehicle? Tip more if they do.
Do they also pick the order or just deliver it?
Does your delivery involve a long walk or carrying everything up stairs?

I recently tipped 2 moving men $20 apiece for about 3 hours work. They seemed pleasantly surprised.

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
14. I tip the pizza delivery guy $5 but its only 2 miles away so its not a "big" far away delivery
Mon Jan 21, 2013, 12:25 PM
Jan 2013

If he were having a longer trip, I'd probably tip more but since I'm really close I know I'm an easy, quick trip (without costing the guy too much in gas $).

How far away is the delivery person coming? How much time are they taking up with getting it to you? Are they doing the shopping? If so I'd probably start increasing the tip to $20 + depending.

I think I'd definitely give them more if they were bringing it into the kitchen vs whether they were dropping it on my doorstep.

Kali

(55,007 posts)
15. you could ask, I suppose
Mon Jan 21, 2013, 02:51 PM
Jan 2013

say this is my first try at this and hand him a $5, watch facial reaction. I don't think I would start out the procedure with a $20, no matter what.

ohiosmith

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16. Five or ten bucks. When I was a kid delivering newspapers a lady on my route would tip me every
Mon Jan 21, 2013, 03:07 PM
Jan 2013

Friday with coupons she had cut out of the paper.

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
20. Moot point. Union driver. Not allowed to take tips. One of his co-workers DID on the sly... took...
Mon Jan 21, 2013, 05:58 PM
Jan 2013

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... a vacation and the manager filled in and was amazed at all the confused customers who
tried to tip him -- "because Billy took my tips".
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Zero tolerance. Good job GONE on return.
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Nice guy, the driver. Incredible system for keeping cold/frozen stuff separate from groceries
and keeping groceries separate from non-food items.
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Asked him to place everything on the floor in the kitchen, cold stuff near the fridge.
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Great job. I'll definitely be using this service again. They only have one store here and it's
about 1-2 miles from my house (though they deliver all over town).
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They've provided this online service since 2006 and now keep 10 delivery trucks busy every
day (he did say that, other than a big daycare center, my order was by far the largest -- my
future orders will be about 20-25% of what todays was).
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Orders have to be a minimum of $49.
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Thanks for your help and insights.
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