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bluesbassman

(19,358 posts)
Sun Jan 29, 2012, 07:15 PM Jan 2012

Well, part of being a good guest is knowing when you've worn out your welcome.

Suich, Doc Holliday, Wait Wut, Ikonoklast, EvolveOrConvolve, and siligut, thank you for your well wishes.

In all honesty though, with over 300 views I would have expected more than 6 responses. Of course I realize that nobody owes anybody anything in the Lounge, but seriously that's pretty disheartening for somebody that's been part of this community since 2005 and has over 7,000 posts. I guess it's just a new age here in DU3 and apparently my schtick just didn't transfer well.

See you around Loungers.

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Well, part of being a good guest is knowing when you've worn out your welcome. (Original Post) bluesbassman Jan 2012 OP
I've been out to lunch, apparently. What's wrong, bluebassman? Take care whatever you decide. freshwest Jan 2012 #1
He's referring to this: Suich Jan 2012 #3
Thanks. It's got more than 6 replies now. freshwest Jan 2012 #6
You're leaving because strangers didn't say Happy Birthday? taterguy Jan 2012 #2
Pppppfth siligut Jan 2012 #10
And they don't come any stranger than you. nolabear Jan 2012 #12
Dude Capn Sunshine Jan 2012 #4
Sorry pokerfan Jan 2012 #5
Wait, I missed something. What's the deal? nolabear Jan 2012 #7
I'm tellin' ya, DU3 has weird Karma. UnrepentantLiberal Jan 2012 #22
How can you in good conscience send posters to CR to look? Ikonoklast Jan 2012 #37
Oh man. UnrepentantLiberal Jan 2012 #38
Birthday wasn't in the subline, people just thought it was a thread about Denny's. siligut Jan 2012 #8
I just replied TuxedoKat Jan 2012 #9
Dude, you have far from worn out your welcome! Ikonoklast Jan 2012 #11
HEY!!! What happened to your dots!?!?!?!?!? MiddleFingerMom Jan 2012 #26
Unintentional Irony Alert. Ikonoklast Jan 2012 #32
LOL!!!! Wait Wut Jan 2012 #29
And the drooling keeps speeding up and slowing down... abq e streeter Jan 2012 #36
Happy birthday, dear bluesbassman! frogmarch Jan 2012 #13
dude! its your birthday?! Happy Happy Day Tuesday Afternoon Jan 2012 #14
Not fair! blogslut Jan 2012 #15
Well, Happy Birthday! BiggJawn Jan 2012 #16
Well, I'm just really disappointed that I missed the boat on this one. pacalo Jan 2012 #17
Didn't post on that because GoneOffShore Jan 2012 #18
Happy belated Birthday GoneOffShore! siligut Jan 2012 #19
HI, and belated Happy Birthday, Blusbassdude abq e streeter Jan 2012 #20
It's the colon after "you" and the "start parentheses" before "Short". MiddleFingerMom Jan 2012 #25
Thanks abq e streeter Jan 2012 #27
Happened to me the first day on DU3 and it took me 15 mins or more to figure it out. MiddleFingerMom Jan 2012 #28
I'm usually not here on weekends. HappyMe Jan 2012 #21
Come on, tell us; is there a place with people you like better than us? siligut Jan 2012 #23
It's because you're a bass player. Wait Wut Jan 2012 #24
Happy belated birthday! redqueen Jan 2012 #30
Well, maybe it is because RebelOne Jan 2012 #31
Henceforth, RebelOne will be referred to as a "newborn kittenfart". Ew. A-w-w-w-w!!! MiddleFingerMom Jan 2012 #33
See, that's the thing with expectations BrendaBrick Jan 2012 #34
57,214 ScreamingMeemie Jan 2012 #35

Capn Sunshine

(14,378 posts)
4. Dude
Sun Jan 29, 2012, 07:58 PM
Jan 2012

DU3 has created a warp in space time continuum. Where I am, it might not even be your birthday yet, so allow me to be the first from the meta void to wish you a happy birthday.
<--DU 3 located here

nolabear

(41,930 posts)
7. Wait, I missed something. What's the deal?
Sun Jan 29, 2012, 08:18 PM
Jan 2012

I think something is going on in DU. Good people seem to be either getting discouraged or moving on for other reasons. I'm not here as much as I used to be. But I hate to see you feeling unappreciated when in fact lots of us may just not have known anything was going on.

 

UnrepentantLiberal

(11,700 posts)
22. I'm tellin' ya, DU3 has weird Karma.
Mon Jan 30, 2012, 11:58 AM
Jan 2012

Longtime members are leaving at an alarming rate. Maybe the Creative Speculation group has a handle on it.

Ikonoklast

(23,973 posts)
37. How can you in good conscience send posters to CR to look?
Tue Jan 31, 2012, 03:37 PM
Jan 2012

And don't be coy about it, you know damn right well that anyone that goes there is never seen or heard from again.


That door only opens one way, once you are on the other side of it, you are lost to this dimensional plane....FOREVER!

siligut

(12,272 posts)
8. Birthday wasn't in the subline, people just thought it was a thread about Denny's.
Sun Jan 29, 2012, 08:28 PM
Jan 2012

I wouldn't usually click on a story about Denny's, but it was yours so . . . and then I found out it was your BD. Seriously, sorry you are feeling down about this. Look at any thread, it gets views, many of them from lurkers. Take a break if you need to, but take into consideration what I am saying and come back.

TuxedoKat

(3,818 posts)
9. I just replied
Sun Jan 29, 2012, 08:29 PM
Jan 2012

to your other thread. I usually post Happy Birthdays when I see them mentioned or when someone's pet passes on. From the title of that post I didn't realize it pertained to your birthday. I didn't know Denny's gave out free meals on birthdays. Hope you enjoyed your meal and Happy Birthday again!

Ikonoklast

(23,973 posts)
11. Dude, you have far from worn out your welcome!
Sun Jan 29, 2012, 08:33 PM
Jan 2012

There is a real and actual reason why there were only a few responses to that post.
























It's because you hang around with the drummer.

I mean, there you are, looking all cool and swank, and the guy sitting next to you is drooling on his waffles.

Ikonoklast

(23,973 posts)
32. Unintentional Irony Alert.
Mon Jan 30, 2012, 07:47 PM
Jan 2012

Looks like I knocked them right out of your post.
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You weenie.

frogmarch

(12,153 posts)
13. Happy birthday, dear bluesbassman!
Sun Jan 29, 2012, 08:48 PM
Jan 2012

If I'd known your Denny's thread concerned your birthday, I'd have wished you a happy one sooner. I don't like Denny's because a few years ago the one in Scottsbluff, NE kept "forgetting" to seat a black family until my family and I brought attention to it by insisting they be seated before we were. They'd been there for an hour waiting to be seated, but they were ignored, while "white" people were being seated without waiting.

Anyway....Happy birthday!, and many more!

blogslut

(37,981 posts)
15. Not fair!
Sun Jan 29, 2012, 09:34 PM
Jan 2012

You posted your birthday thread at (by my CST time zone) close to three in the morning. We lizards gotta sleep sometime, ya know.

Happy Birthday!

BiggJawn

(23,051 posts)
16. Well, Happy Birthday!
Sun Jan 29, 2012, 09:39 PM
Jan 2012

Why didn't you say so, instead of posting a headline about getting dinner at that shithole Denny's?
I don't read EVERY post here, Jeebus it ain't much of a life, but I *DO* have a life outside of Teh Intertubes!

Again, heartfelt best wishes on your Birthday!

pacalo

(24,721 posts)
17. Well, I'm just really disappointed that I missed the boat on this one.
Sun Jan 29, 2012, 10:50 PM
Jan 2012

One of the most charming Loungers you are, bluesbassman, & I contributed to your hurt feelings by not leaving a comment in the Denny's thread. I looked but put off my comment because I wanted to find just the right picture to add.

I've had "minor" surgery several weeks ago & I haven't been posting as much lately. Adding to that, my pc shut down completely. I bought a new laptop but now I'm having issues with my router & all of the computers in the household aren't functioning. I've got my iPhone to use, but I've now used up all my "allowance" for the month & I'm being charged extra from that point on.

When it rains, it pours. And now I'm seeing this thread from one of the sweetest DUers for whom I have the highest regard, & I know I dropped the ball.

I'm a private person who doesn't discuss my private life in a publicly-accessed setting, but I made an exception for you, bluesbassman. I'm very sincere when I say that I'm sorry I wasn't there for you.

GoneOffShore

(17,336 posts)
18. Didn't post on that because
Sun Jan 29, 2012, 10:55 PM
Jan 2012

I didn't want to go all snarky on Denny's.

Happy Birthday!

We share a birthday I guess if the 28th of January is yours too.

abq e streeter

(7,658 posts)
20. HI, and belated Happy Birthday, Blusbassdude
Mon Jan 30, 2012, 11:12 AM
Jan 2012

WTF???...There's a frowning smilie on my post that I didn't put there , and no power on heaven or earth seems to be able to get rid of it.....Bluesbassman, , please ignore that frowning face on this reply.....


I too, missed the birthday post. But then I find myself spending much less time on DU3; including the lounge. Just hasn't felt the same; not just the lounge either...: . But you know I consider you a DU friend, and I'm sorry you feel unappreciated. Understandable though in this circumstance.

Birthday joke for you Short version, but hopefully will bring a smile if you haven't heard it) Guy goes to visit some remote jungle area. Gets off the plane and immediately starts hearing ominous sounding drums in the distance, but when he asks about it all anyone will say is "very bad when drums stop". Next day ,as he heads to the jungle with his guides, the drumming just gets louder and more ominous the closer they get. But still, all anyone will tell him is "very bad when drums stop". Louder and louder, and then they suddenly stop. The guy is panicked and frantically asks "what happens now?" Answer is "Very bad when drums stop; now comes bass solo".

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
25. It's the colon after "you" and the "start parentheses" before "Short".
Mon Jan 30, 2012, 06:09 PM
Jan 2012

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MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
28. Happened to me the first day on DU3 and it took me 15 mins or more to figure it out.
Mon Jan 30, 2012, 06:36 PM
Jan 2012

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HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
21. I'm usually not here on weekends.
Mon Jan 30, 2012, 11:24 AM
Jan 2012

Sorry I missed your birthday.


A Happy Belated Birthday, wishes for many, many more happy healthy years playing the blues.

siligut

(12,272 posts)
23. Come on, tell us; is there a place with people you like better than us?
Mon Jan 30, 2012, 12:53 PM
Jan 2012

I take breaks, but miss the people. They make me laugh AND think. I know there are other liberal sites, but just come back to this one.

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
24. It's because you're a bass player.
Mon Jan 30, 2012, 01:08 PM
Jan 2012

Seriously, you guys never get enough respect.

It's probably what someone else said, weekends are fairly quiet. The only reason I was on this weekend is because the husband had an out of state gig and I got to stay home with the dog.

BrendaBrick

(1,296 posts)
34. See, that's the thing with expectations
Mon Jan 30, 2012, 10:33 PM
Jan 2012

you invariably set yourself up for disappointment. (Something I am struggling with myself, by the way...in more ways than one.) Folks aren't mind-readers. I'm sorry that you are feeling slighted right now and I hope it doesn't permanently cast a forever negative shadow on your participation here. To tell ya the truth, 6 responses from those who are sincere and true might be worth more than 600 responses from those who are not.

Just throwing some perspective out there for ya OK? ~

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
35. 57,214
Mon Jan 30, 2012, 10:52 PM
Jan 2012

That's the number of posts I've made here (I defer to the fact that I was a moderator for awhile).
I became a member in March-ish of 2003.

On most days I talk to about 3 people here.
Lots of people don't even know who I am anymore...and twice as many don't give a crap.


What am I trying to say?

Don't let it get to you.

Or, move on.

Happy Birthday.

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