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onestepforward

(3,691 posts)
Fri Sep 13, 2013, 11:53 PM Sep 2013

My cat Xavier

Xavier was the runt of 7 black kittens born on Friday 13th. He was 18 years old. He had a stroke and we had to put him to sleep yesterday. I wanted to share a few pictures of my sweet baby boy.

We started out with three cats. Xavier is on the bottom stair and his brother, Duma, is on the top. Duma died 2 years ago from cancer. He was 13.




This is Maggie, our last surviving cat, snuggling with Xavier.




This is me holding Xavier. He was a very affectionate cat and loved to be held






This is my husband, (DUer AllenVanAllen) holding Xavier.



Xavier was almost deaf. Last week, someone posted a video of a cat purring (I forgot who it was, but thank you!) I put the speaker next to him and he reached out to touch it. He could hear it a little bit:




This is Maggie. She's 14. She's a very sweet and loving kitty. She misses her big brothers:




I'm very thankful that Xavier was healthy for over 18 years and his suffering was short. Right now, it's hard to stop crying. My heart is just broken. I miss my sweet boy.

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My cat Xavier (Original Post) onestepforward Sep 2013 OP
No words but snappyturtle Sep 2013 #1
Thank you. onestepforward Sep 2013 #6
Very sorry. Luckily, you had that fine buddy so long. Take care. Hoyt Sep 2013 #2
He was a great friend. onestepforward Sep 2013 #7
i love black boy kitties fizzgig Sep 2013 #3
They are wonderful. onestepforward Sep 2013 #8
So sorry to hear about your loss. Brigid Sep 2013 #4
Thank you. onestepforward Sep 2013 #9
Aw, sweet baby kitties. I'm so sorry for your loss. :( Butterbean Sep 2013 #5
I couldn't live without a kitty either. onestepforward Sep 2013 #10
I'm so sorry LoveMyCali Sep 2013 #11
Thank you. onestepforward Sep 2013 #12
Aw, sorry for your loss. Joe Shlabotnik Sep 2013 #13
Thank you. onestepforward Sep 2013 #15
*hugs* sakabatou Sep 2013 #14
Thank you. onestepforward Sep 2013 #16
So sorry for your loss.... CherokeeDem Sep 2013 #17
The memories are close indeed onestepforward Sep 2013 #23
You forgot to mention his over-sized ears. AllenVanAllen Sep 2013 #18
He was all ears and the cutest kitten I've ever laid eyes on. onestepforward Sep 2013 #28
I am very sorry for your loss tabbycat31 Sep 2013 #19
Thank you. onestepforward Sep 2013 #24
heartfelt hugs to you, one and allen. BlancheSplanchnik Sep 2013 #20
Thank you so much. onestepforward Sep 2013 #27
onestepforward... MrMickeysMom Sep 2013 #21
The many arms around me bring me great comfort. onestepforward Sep 2013 #25
I'm sorry, BarbaRosa Sep 2013 #22
Bill must be a very handsome boy. onestepforward Sep 2013 #26
Condolences to you. TexasTowelie Sep 2013 #29
Advice taken. onestepforward Sep 2013 #30
It's so hard to lose one of them. Flaxbee Sep 2013 #31
sorry for your loss. thank you for sharing your memories - Tuesday Afternoon Sep 2013 #32
(((((((onestepforward))))))) (((((((AllenVanAllen))))))) TeeYiYi Sep 2013 #33
My condolences Sanity Claws Sep 2013 #34
I'm so sorry... Phentex Sep 2013 #35

Butterbean

(1,014 posts)
5. Aw, sweet baby kitties. I'm so sorry for your loss. :(
Sat Sep 14, 2013, 12:51 AM
Sep 2013

I have never lived without a cat, and I just don't think I ever could. Cats are just an integral part of life for me. Your kitties look so loved.

onestepforward

(3,691 posts)
10. I couldn't live without a kitty either.
Sat Sep 14, 2013, 01:01 AM
Sep 2013

Our little Maggie will be extra spoiled now, it that's even possible.

LoveMyCali

(2,015 posts)
11. I'm so sorry
Sat Sep 14, 2013, 01:02 AM
Sep 2013

I lost my boy Cali about a year ago to a stroke, I understand the crying. Xavier was gorgeous as is Maggie. Hopefully you and Maggie can ease the pain for each other as you grieve your handsome boy.

CherokeeDem

(3,709 posts)
17. So sorry for your loss....
Sat Sep 14, 2013, 01:28 PM
Sep 2013

Xavier and Duma remind me of my black cats, K.C (Kool Cat...he had a little goatee from birth) and Uhura (yes...after my favorite communications officer). They were beauties like your boys, and I was fortunate enough to have them until 18 and 20. So hard to lose them but try to keep the good memories close to your heart.

Hugs to Maggie and to you.

AllenVanAllen

(3,134 posts)
18. You forgot to mention his over-sized ears.
Sat Sep 14, 2013, 01:44 PM
Sep 2013


When he was a tiny kitten small enough to hold in the palm of my hands while he slept waiting for his first vet visit I marveled at how big his ears were! He actually grew into them. You can kind of tell their size here as he's licking his brother Sebastian. He loved his big brother. Sebastian was 15 when died Xavier was three and he was never the same after that. It was like his kitten-hood was over. He became so serious after that. I wish we had better pictures of Xavier when he was a kitten. Those were the days before access to good and affordable digital cameras so not many big-eared kitten pictures. I love my little X and I Will always miss him so.



tabbycat31

(6,336 posts)
19. I am very sorry for your loss
Sat Sep 14, 2013, 02:34 PM
Sep 2013

Black kitties are awesome. I've never been owned by one but every black kitty I've met has been a total sweetheart.

onestepforward

(3,691 posts)
24. Thank you.
Sun Sep 15, 2013, 12:58 AM
Sep 2013

All three of my black kitties have been so sweet and I've heard that they are the least likely to be adopted at shelters. That tells me that I'll have to adopt another one in the future

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
21. onestepforward...
Sat Sep 14, 2013, 02:47 PM
Sep 2013


I'm sure I join so many others here who surely have our arms around you at this time. Xavier, like Mr. Mickey's sisters, live in our hearts forever...

onestepforward

(3,691 posts)
25. The many arms around me bring me great comfort.
Sun Sep 15, 2013, 01:00 AM
Sep 2013

I'm so grateful.

Yes, they will always live in our hearts.

TexasTowelie

(112,142 posts)
29. Condolences to you.
Sun Sep 15, 2013, 01:53 AM
Sep 2013

My black cat disappeared earlier this year a couple of months before his second birthday. I know how the loss of a pet can affect a person so I'll advise you to think of the wonderful times that you had together.

Flaxbee

(13,661 posts)
31. It's so hard to lose one of them.
Sun Sep 15, 2013, 02:21 PM
Sep 2013

Xavier loved and knew he was loved back. That's the best of all worlds, and I'm sure he's missing you too but he's someplace peaceful where he can now hear the birds sing



4 years on, I can still barely think of my Tommy without tears welling up. It never totally goes away, but the keen closeness of the sorrow does fade.

Sanity Claws

(21,847 posts)
34. My condolences
Sun Sep 15, 2013, 03:13 PM
Sep 2013

I am truly sorry for your loss.
Maggie will be so lonely. She no longer has her big brothers to snooze with during the day and no longer has anyone left to lick her ears clean.

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