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Marthe48

(16,935 posts)
Tue Mar 18, 2014, 02:55 PM Mar 2014

I think I saw racial prejudice today

I was shopping at Kroger. A black guy who has worked there for well over a year was manning the express register (15 items or less). There were 3 other lanes open, for big orders, like mine. In each lane, there were older white people with 3 or 4 things each. I can't help thinking that they would rather wait behind big orders, than get checked out by a black man. I'm friendly with many of the Kroger clerks, including this man. He is friendly and helpful. He told me I should come through his lane, when I was already unloading. I didn't take him up on it, because the last time the clerk let me go through the express lane with a big order, an old lady yelled at me that I had too many things. He wasn't busy right then, so he came out from his register and helped me unload my cart, then helped bag, then went back to his register when someone came through. The older lady clerk checking out my order, the younger bagger, the black clerk and I all had a quick conversation about the missing plane, so the isolated old people missed out on that-- and some decent human contact.

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I think I saw racial prejudice today (Original Post) Marthe48 Mar 2014 OP
Possibly. Wait Wut Mar 2014 #1
one in each of the other lanes Marthe48 Mar 2014 #2
Maybe. Maybe not. mnhtnbb Mar 2014 #3
I have my favorite checkers also sammytko Mar 2014 #7
I looked up Kroger to see which states have stores marzipanni Mar 2014 #4
I don't go in the express line if I have coupons. kcass1954 Mar 2014 #5
I boycott Kroger in Texas DamnYankeeInHouston Mar 2014 #6
We don't have much choice Marthe48 Mar 2014 #9
Just today? I'm sure people of color endure it ever day HipChick Mar 2014 #8

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
1. Possibly.
Tue Mar 18, 2014, 03:10 PM
Mar 2014

But, I've seen seniors just take the first checkout lane they see even if they only have a few items. I blame the lack of visibility at checkouts, these days. You have to walk all the way up and down the aisle in front of the lanes to see what's going on in each because they have so much crap stacked up around the registers you can't see heads.

Another possibility is the senior outing. I live in a retirement town and they like to stick together in little gangs at the grocery store. One may have picked that lane and the rest followed...like ducklings.

Marthe48

(16,935 posts)
2. one in each of the other lanes
Tue Mar 18, 2014, 04:08 PM
Mar 2014

Tuesday is senior day at our Kroger. Hope I just have a jaundiced view--I'd rather be wrong.

mnhtnbb

(31,382 posts)
3. Maybe. Maybe not.
Tue Mar 18, 2014, 04:26 PM
Mar 2014

Tuesday is senior day at our Kroger, too.

I live in the south. I will preferentially choose the most efficient checker and I don't
care what color she or he is.

Had a somewhat uncomfortable moment the other day, actually. Three clerks were all open
and standing outside their lanes. I passed by the first one--white, red hair, freckles and slower
than molasses (as they say) to go in the black clerk's lane next to her. She's one of the
most efficient checkers at that store.

marzipanni

(6,011 posts)
4. I looked up Kroger to see which states have stores
Tue Mar 18, 2014, 04:51 PM
Mar 2014

My first thought was, if this is in the south, maybe it is racial prejudice. I admit I thought this because forty years or so ago I went to a friend's parents' house north of San Francisco for dinner where a businessman from the southeast, who was an executive at a large insurance company, and his wife were also guests. I was shocked at how relaxed he was in expressing his racism, as if it was normal. And that from a fairly well-educated person. I would hope there would be change in forty+ years, but it hasn't changed enough.

On Wikipedia there was a funny statement-

"In 2014 Kroger launched a new campaign called fresh and friendly, where every Kroger employee in retail should at least say hello in an attempt to gain a customer."

My friend told me one reason she doesn't like Safeway is that employees stocking shelves,walking somewhere in the store, etc., are told to say "Hello, how are you?", or "May I help you find something?" interrupting your thought process when you're trying to remember what you wanted to buy, and when you check out, the cashier is supposed to look at your receipt, and if you have a card, they glance at your name and say "Have a good day Mrs. __________."



DamnYankeeInHouston

(1,365 posts)
6. I boycott Kroger in Texas
Wed Mar 19, 2014, 01:18 PM
Mar 2014

after they sent a letter to Governor Good Hair asking him to veto the equal pay for women law along with Macy's and other retailers. There are many forms of prejudice.

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