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Aristus

(66,327 posts)
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 07:24 PM Jul 2014

I've got to have a 'conversation' with a patient tomorrow. It looks like she's got ovarian cancer.



I've already put in a referral to gynecologic oncology, and there is some follow up imaging to do. But I'm not looking forward to breaking the news to her.

Vibes for her, and for our visit tomorrow, please.
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I've got to have a 'conversation' with a patient tomorrow. It looks like she's got ovarian cancer. (Original Post) Aristus Jul 2014 OP
Oh boy, my dear Aristus... CaliforniaPeggy Jul 2014 #1
oh dear Skittles Jul 2014 #2
I'm sorry to hear that, Skittles. Aristus Jul 2014 #3
oddly enough Skittles Jul 2014 #6
Prayers/vibes for her and for you. LiberalLoner Jul 2014 #4
Sending vibes to her, Aristus. sheshe2 Jul 2014 #5
A sister-in-law recieved "the talk" Tuesday. She has less then 9 months to live. Kaleva Jul 2014 #7
oh no...and healing vibes to your family... magical thyme Jul 2014 #11
DEEP vibes for you both. elleng Jul 2014 #8
An old friend of mine LiberalElite Jul 2014 #9
more vibes headed your way... magical thyme Jul 2014 #10
Holding you both in the Light. n/t TygrBright Jul 2014 #12
I am so sorry you have to deliver such devastating news. Sending positive vibes LoisB Jul 2014 #13
Good vibes going out to both of you MissDeeds Jul 2014 #14
12 year leukemia survivor. Half-Century Man Jul 2014 #15
you have it. I am so sorry roguevalley Jul 2014 #16
I'm very moved. Aristus Jul 2014 #17

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,595 posts)
1. Oh boy, my dear Aristus...
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 07:26 PM
Jul 2014

Major Major vibes for you both.

That is going to be tough. But if anyone can do it with empathy, it's you...

I'm so grateful that when my opportunity to stop that disease arrived, I took it. Of course, not everybody has such a moment...

I hope she can beat it. And you will be part of that effort...

Skittles

(153,150 posts)
2. oh dear
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 07:31 PM
Jul 2014

I know it's one of those cancers that can be pretty far along by the time it is diagnosed.....it killed my mum

Aristus

(66,327 posts)
3. I'm sorry to hear that, Skittles.
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 07:43 PM
Jul 2014


Based on my patient's past history and other risk factors, the prognosis isn't good...

Skittles

(153,150 posts)
6. oddly enough
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 07:54 PM
Jul 2014

what did my mum in was.......no pain - while there was discomfort from fluid build up, she was never in any real pain - she died of cancer and didn't even take a Tylenol......I've made sure my doctor is aware of that (I've noticed I never need pain pills following extensive dental work)

LiberalLoner

(9,761 posts)
4. Prayers/vibes for her and for you.
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 07:45 PM
Jul 2014

I can't even imagine how hard it must be to have to deliver news like that.

Thank you for being strong enough to be the one who helps and comforts such patients.

Kaleva

(36,294 posts)
7. A sister-in-law recieved "the talk" Tuesday. She has less then 9 months to live.
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 08:30 PM
Jul 2014

Vibes sent to your patient.

elleng

(130,876 posts)
8. DEEP vibes for you both.
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 09:06 PM
Jul 2014

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LiberalElite

(14,691 posts)
9. An old friend of mine
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 09:10 PM
Jul 2014

had ovarian cancer. She was 71 when diagnosed., She had surgery followed by chemo and lived another 5 years.

 

MissDeeds

(7,499 posts)
14. Good vibes going out to both of you
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 10:27 PM
Jul 2014

How dear of you, Aristus, to come here for vibes for this lady. She is lucky to have you in her corner, assisting her in this difficult ordeal.

I know you will find the right words, and she will undoubtedly take comfort from that.

I'll be thinking of you, and her. Godspeed.



Half-Century Man

(5,279 posts)
15. 12 year leukemia survivor.
Wed Jul 2, 2014, 10:33 PM
Jul 2014

You can beat it, it ain't always fun though. The first and most important thing to arm yourself with is a conviction cancer can be beaten. Belief goes a long way. Belief in winning can pick your head up off a pillow when it weighs 500 lbs.

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