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backwoodsbob

(6,001 posts)
Sat Jul 12, 2014, 12:27 PM Jul 2014

this is wierd...wife stuff

we seperated two weeks ago...we both have our own places...I love her and she loves me but we just werent getting along.

She wants us to commute...she will spend one night a week here and me one night a week there.

Basically she wants us to be friends with benefits.

I'm not sure how I feel about this....yeah the friends with benefits is cool....but it just drags it out.

This is complicated

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this is wierd...wife stuff (Original Post) backwoodsbob Jul 2014 OP
i am sorry for what the two of you are going thru. i do not have any answer. seabeyond Jul 2014 #1
Just keep reminding her how nice your place is and how crappy hers is. You'll get along fine. Scuba Jul 2014 #2
Does she know about your recent Ptah Jul 2014 #3
Thanks. elleng Jul 2014 #4
Wait for the self-deletes in 3...2....1... Scuba Jul 2014 #5
she knows ..and I know she has a boyfriend backwoodsbob Jul 2014 #6
point being, I hope everyone involved gets tested. Ptah Jul 2014 #7
I hope you get tested backwoodsbob Jul 2014 #8
Where would I do that? Ptah Jul 2014 #9
here seems to be failing you backwoodsbob Jul 2014 #10
What's so special about Ed? Ptah Jul 2014 #11
Ed..Edward...and Eddie....could explain backwoodsbob Jul 2014 #12
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
1. i am sorry for what the two of you are going thru. i do not have any answer.
Sat Jul 12, 2014, 12:32 PM
Jul 2014

not even suggestions. it is just one of those things. i couldnt do it. i would need a .... done. and move on.

Ptah

(33,023 posts)
3. Does she know about your recent
Sat Jul 12, 2014, 12:37 PM
Jul 2014
so now I have two female friends....this is getting weird
last night the girl below my stayed most of the night....just now I met the literal girl next door......she wants to come over later

This is interesting....i am getting more action in two days than i got in my last year of marriage

http://www.democraticunderground.com/1018635316


Any thoughts about STD?
 

backwoodsbob

(6,001 posts)
6. she knows ..and I know she has a boyfriend
Sat Jul 12, 2014, 02:16 PM
Jul 2014

point?

Edit to add

Hell...we may end up in a threesome ..or a foursome

Do you have a problem with that?

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