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Aunt Betty died a year ago today.
There are some people who dont get a lot of attention even though they deserve it. Aunt Betty is among them. So, know it or not, were all living in a world that isnt quite as good as it was when before she died.
Like every other completely insane person you know, Betty was born to a Vaudeville magician known as the Great Retlaw and his wife, Laura Kyle, who was the great-granddaughter of John Ross. Ross was the Chief of the Cherokee Nation who bartered the horrible deal with President Andrew Jackson that resulted in the Trail of Tears.
And Betty knew tears. Because, in 1928, she was the oldest of four kids and had to become their surrogate mother due to all the death around her: Her mother died. The the world economy died. And, god forbid, so did Vaudeville.
Betty adapted, survived, and helped raise those siblings. Along the way, she developed a sensibility that could make a perfectly sunny day gloomy and a gloomy day sunny and full of adventure.
She became Aunt Betty the aunt who you called at the age of 7 when you wanted to run away from home, knowing in the back of your little head that shed come over in a flash, help you pack some clothes and a toothbrush and then drive you in her death-wish Pinto to your favorite restaurant and convince you over dessert that life at home isnt so bad after all. Shes the aunt you called when shit happened and you just needed to talk to someone who dealt with more shit than you. And while her words were sometimes hard to take, they were always wise.
Its always easy to miss a person who is gone but had so much more to give. And, because were all selfish, its never easy to realize that, sometimes, a person has given enough and its time for them to have a little peace and little payback.
Aunt Betty, I hope that the little piece of the many hearts youve taken with you will even that score. I think you, and we will love you forever.
God hasnt always been good to me, but Shes been a Hell of lot more patient than Bank of America.
~Aunt Betty on Finance
Why did I marry a Republican? I knew that an idiots problems would be vastly different from mine.
~Aunt Betty on Marriage
Never vote for a man who missed every opportunity God gave him to shut up.
~Aunt Betty on Mitt Romney
Never approach a bull from the front, a horse from the back or a priest.
~Aunt Betty on Public Safety
I became a feminist the day I realized that the people designing womens shoes never had to walk in them.
~Aunt Betty on Feminism
If the right people were medicated, I wouldnt have to be.
~Aunt Betty. Period.
Tobin S.
(10,418 posts)CaliforniaPeggy
(149,583 posts)I hope your Aunt Betty is finally getting her well-deserved rest. Your quotes brought a smile to my face.
And I hope too that you are recovering from her absence. I've had people I love die before I was ready to lose them, and goddamn it, that hurts. But time goes on relentlessly, and we must go on as well.
Thank you for your great words.
scrubthedata
(382 posts)really appreciate that comment!
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)scrubthedata
(382 posts)and about 4'8" -- and most of those quotes came out of her mouth when she was in her late 80s and early 90s.
fizzgig
(24,146 posts)thank you for sharing her with us.
scrubthedata
(382 posts)and for giving her memory some thought. She was really one-of-kind, which she herself would say is too bad.
babylonsister
(171,056 posts)WillyT
(72,631 posts)eppur_se_muova
(36,259 posts)scrubthedata
(382 posts)Agreed!
orleans
(34,049 posts)wish i would have known her.
her and my mom would have gotten along great! maybe they'll bump into each other.
have you considered writing a book about her?
"Everyone Needs An Aunt Betty" by scrubthedata.
i'd buy it--or check it out of the library at least. (lol!)
scrubthedata
(382 posts)you checking it out of the library! She was a die-hard library supporter.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)Classic. I'm using it. Rest in peace Aunt Betty.
scrubthedata
(382 posts)OriginalGeek
(12,132 posts)I miss Aunt Betty.
I'm glad I got know a few things Aunt Betty said.
Thanks for sharing!