Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

astonamous

(1,336 posts)
Wed Dec 14, 2011, 01:19 AM Dec 2011

I just can't imagine...

Before the accident, when I read or heard about someone else's child dying suddenly from an accident, illness, overdose, suicide or war, I couldn't even begin to imagine the pain those parents were feeling or the sadness and grieving they were going through. Honestly, you can't imagine... your brain just can't go there. In your wildest imagination, such a loss is so overwhelming it just doesn't compute.

4 weeks ago today and I still can't comprehend or imagine. How can I have a son every day for 9104 days, 18 hours, 12 minutes and the very next sweep of the second hand, he's gone?


9 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
I just can't imagine... (Original Post) astonamous Dec 2011 OP
It isn't possible to imagine the pain suninvited Dec 2011 #1
I am SO terribly sorry for you loss auntAgonist Dec 2011 #2
You know, I really can't imagine. LiberalAndProud Dec 2011 #3
My best to you for strength, astonamous. pacalo Dec 2011 #4
I'm so sorry for your loss Orangepeel Dec 2011 #5
~~~~~~vibes~~~~~~~ Tyrs WolfDaemon Dec 2011 #6
This message was self-deleted by its author Bunny Dec 2011 #7
so very sorry - no words can express what you must feel. rurallib Dec 2011 #8
I am sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2011 #9

auntAgonist

(17,252 posts)
2. I am SO terribly sorry for you loss
Wed Dec 14, 2011, 01:25 AM
Dec 2011

I'm sorry you're hurting.

I cannot begin to realize your pain.

If and when you are ready and would like to , please come over to the Bereavement Group. There are so many wonderful people who would love to embrace you offer their support.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=forum&id=1234


aA
kesha

LiberalAndProud

(12,799 posts)
3. You know, I really can't imagine.
Wed Dec 14, 2011, 01:26 AM
Dec 2011

Except that I'm certain the pain goes directly to the depth of the heart.

I am so very sorry.

Tyrs WolfDaemon

(2,289 posts)
6. ~~~~~~vibes~~~~~~~
Wed Dec 14, 2011, 12:00 PM
Dec 2011

I'm sending you good vibes. Losing those close to you is not easy for anyone. I will keep you in my thoughts and ask Lady Freya to look after him for you.


Response to astonamous (Original post)

Latest Discussions»The DU Lounge»I just can't imagine...