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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsWow. This used to be an interesting forum What happened?
I come here about a couple times a year. And seriously, what happened? It used to be interesting. Did you all turned into Rebublicans or something?
This post is going to get many positive responses, I'm sure of it.
Renew Deal
(81,855 posts)Sorry you missed it.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)see what happens. That usually does the trick.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)ummm
steve2470
(37,457 posts)Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Here, I thought I was the only person who ever saw that movie.
mackerel
(4,412 posts)Optical.Catalyst
(1,355 posts)hay rick
(7,605 posts)Actually, I live in the South now, so the official term is Rebubbalican.
Response to bif (Original post)
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pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)When you leave, we get another signal to resume the festivities.
magical thyme
(14,881 posts)wake me when it's spring.
irisblue
(32,967 posts)GOLGO 13
(1,681 posts)I haven't figured out how to wrap a fart yet. Standby though.
Phentex
(16,334 posts)It's not the lounge without a fart!
rurallib
(62,406 posts)UTUSN
(70,683 posts)********QUOTE*****
[font size=5]The Gestalt Prayer[/font]
I do my thing and you do your thing.
[FONT style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: yellow"]I am not in this world to live up to your expectations,
And you are not in this world to live up to mine[/FONT].
You are you, and I am I,
and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful.
If not, it can't be helped.
(Fritz Perls, "Gestalt Therapy Verbatim", 1969)
*********QUOTE********
struggle4progress
(118,278 posts)Kaleva
(36,294 posts)Chan790
(20,176 posts)The Lounge was insular and a little uncouth. Then we got invaded by various factions from elsewhere on DU that would come here to wage their crap or attempt to civilize us according to their values. (DU boards' versions of Manifest Destiny and Encomienda) It was fine when we had our own hosts who refused to allow that shit to fly...but now we're grouped in with the universal-pool of main fora hosts which has become problematic: good for GD and other fora, really bad for the Lounge as we're policed by people that would never ever ever ever participate here and don't understand that we don't really take their behavioral-concerns seriously.
This sentence has become the oft-over-abused "Best Interests of Baseball Clause" of forum hosting here: "The Lounge is supposed to be a friendly, welcoming place for everyone." I wish Skinner would fucking delete it and replace it with something a lot more concrete and less open to interpretation by hosts.
There is no such thing as "friendly, welcoming places for everyone" and attempts to make the Lounge one made it unfriendly and unwelcoming to pretty much anybody...so a lot of people said "fuck this" and left.
I don't post as much as I did. There is no reason to...the party is over, it's the sad afterglow as the people who have no place better to go mull about and try to figure out if there's still a chance the party might not be over.
Phentex
(16,334 posts)I do think the juries would be confused by what are considered jokes in here that wouldn't fly elsewhere. You can't be sure sarcasm would be understood without the tag so I do think people post less.
I'm still amazed by topics that get locked as off-topic. (I realize that's a default reply setting).
It's the lounge. Everything is off topic!
Moondog
(4,833 posts)This - "The Lounge was insular and a little uncouth. Then we got invaded by various factions from elsewhere on DU that would come here to wage their crap or attempt to civilize us according to their values. (DU boards' versions of Manifest Destiny and Encomienda)" - sums it up for me.
After the Invasion of the Fun Snatchers, as I define that period to myself, the Lounge ceased to be fun. As a result, I drifted off, began to pay more attention to other aspects of my life, and all but ceased posting here.
I lurk, and check in now and again, but the Lounge of old appears to be gone.
Thomas Wolfe, it seems, was right. Sadly. But it is true - you can't go home again.
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)Moondog
(4,833 posts)True enough.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)in fact, I think you should go for it.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)sexual content and he had a small group cheering him on?
man. the good old days, right?
nah.... chan, i do not think you get to "blame" groups. gosh. who even comes in here, until some one lets me know about a post like this. lol
Chan790
(20,176 posts)however, if you feel guilty about something...perhaps that might be something you should explore your feelings why.
Shockingly, the world does not revolve around this outrage of the week or last week or last month, year, thousand-days...okay, the outrage of last decade is probably on-topic. Fortunately, I don't remember last decade...I was too busy getting high, drinking sophisticated gin drinks, having group sex and listening to Sunny Day Real Estate.
(This crap started all the way back on DU2 and continues forthwith. It has nothing to do with whatever group you're going on about now, unless that group is the dour wankers that wander in from GD and throw a fit that we're having fun, then alert and whine that they don't feel welcome. DU is apparently a no fun zone; how dare we have fun when there are still Republicans in existence and people getting shot by cops.)
However, for old time sake and to get the goat of assholes everywhere, this post contains a witty Dick joke.
I can blame whoever or whatever group the fuck I'd like. Currently, I blame whoever picked out the completion uniforms for the 2014 Norwegian Olympic Curling Team. Utter abomination. Also, The Clinton Global Initiative because I believe they do more harm than good globally.
Really though, if the only way you came to learn the Lounge sucks is because someone told you about my post, perhaps they should do us both a favor and spend more time worrying about their own concerns in life.
RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)Thread winner, although your first post nailed it.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)any shit out there and create a story. wasnt interested beyond your fabricated.... if you feel guilty.
mackerel
(4,412 posts)their run, now replaced by other forms for social media.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)OrwellwasRight
(5,170 posts)"There is no such thing as "friendly, welcoming places for everyone" and attempts to make the Lounge one made it unfriendly and unwelcoming to pretty much anybody...so a lot of people said "fuck this" and left.
Can we be friends?
Skittles
(153,150 posts)LEMME AT YOU!!!
A HERETIC I AM
(24,365 posts)shenmue
(38,506 posts)Break out the harmonica!
RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)complained. Apparently they were suffering from jealousy from people that were (OMG) having sex or were attractive.
GOLGO 13
(1,681 posts)It's become a mostly humorless board. Lots of haters and old timers whining about the "old days".
Meh.
Phentex
(16,334 posts)That's not at all what I was referring to above. I just think posting, in general, is down in here.
I guess it's perspective. I haven't seen much whining about the board lately...until this thread.
Chan790
(20,176 posts)They're computer files on a server. Presumably, they don't have X/Y chromosomes, gender identities or genitalia.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)computers ever were.
Chan790
(20,176 posts)but I felt I had contributed enough v long snarky posts to this discussion and opted for brevity.
It just got really petty and personal, which happened a few years ago.
I hate to say it but some people who have DU as their only social source can be strange and unpleasant.
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)you two make a good couple. now we just need SD back so we can all watch the threesome.
whatever happened to her anyway?
RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)Remember when Crazy Guggenheim used to spam The Lounge All Night Long. Was he the one that started the Yak thing?
GOLGO 13
(1,681 posts)My experiences here have shown me the overall lack of joy and humorless tone that pervades the tone of the board.
This place is way too serious like all the time. I mostly read and just move on instead of comment about the bloviating that goes on. I'd rather thrash a thread than comment.
Kali
(55,007 posts)when was it more interesting? back on DU2 when there was a lot of clique warfare and people being plain old mean assholes to each other? yeah it was perhaps a bit more exciting then, but it sure wasn't nice to be on the receiving end of it for those that were.
Do you mean further back when there was a lot of flirting and sexual inuendo and people were even hooking up in real life?
Or do you mean since DU3 and people like MFM worked hard to keep the funny going and posts rolling?
I doubt I ever contributed much "interesting" content, but lately I haven't been posting due to real life. I do feel kind of personally and collectively insulted that you consider those of us who are still a part of the Lounge to be fucking republicans. I mean, way to insult people you seem to want to be entertained by.
How about you respond to the logical challenge of others above with some OPs that you do consider "interesting." It is kind of a two way street, ya know?
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)but, then decide to come out of the dark, into the sunlight, take a dump on the place by informing us that this place ain't what it used to be and it is NOT their fault.
Bullshit.
And if the place is so damn boring why do they even bother LURKING?
Answer me that.
bunch of whiny ass LOSERS. The lot of them.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)I'm so hurt!
pintobean
(18,101 posts)whether they've been here one day, or from day one. It belongs to all of us, but a few seem to think they own it. The names may change, but it's been like that since I've been here.
RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)Some view it as a contest...which is pretty sad. I have a life. Quite a nice one actually.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)Like some people flipping out over a guy jokingly saying his wife was going to rape him*, then a few days later, openly supporting the work of a man who raped a 13 year old girl and fled justice.
*A valid point, and a situation that was handled poorly on both sides.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)you should apply for host, since you take such an interest in how this place goes down.
I mean it most sincerely, pintobean.
and by the way, If I had been judge RP would have served time but, I have no control over that.
as for backwoodsbob and all his crap that night. It was not just one OP he did.
and I was not the only one who took issue with it.
I was just the one who called him out on it.
I notice you have no trouble doing that same thing, pintobean.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)anyone can see it and judge.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)especially since you all are my biggest fans
if you are trying to insinuate that I think I own this place you are sadly mistaken.
I post as I please and you and Riff and all these LURKERS can do the same.
No one is STOPPING anyone from posting. Unless it is juries, MIRt or Admin. or your own self.
You know how to start an OP, right?
I know Riff does. I have seen and participated in her threads when I want.
You do what you want or not. Please yourself.
If it pleases you to snark at me, by all means, SNARK AWAY. I can take as good as I can give.
I am all equal like that.
Peace Out.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)They're not the losers.
RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)Kind of like people that go to safe havens to complain about jury results?
That's what came to my mind.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)So true! Yet I have seen people complaining how they can't stand when a swarm is called in when they are the biggest offenders. .
looks like more than one of those calls may have gone out
ahh equality
pintobean
(18,101 posts)Other than the usual one?
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)Bother posting to me at all?
Miles Archer
(18,837 posts)1). "DU used to be so much better" comments have been posted here as long as DU has been in existence
2). If you go back to any point in time when DU was supposedly better, you will find people posting that "DU used to be so much better" in the midst of that "better" time
3). I personally feel DU jumped the shark after Adlai Stevenson's failed Presidential campaign in 1956. I know we are not supposed to "bash" DU in the Lounge but I am confident that the majority of DUers will agree that the pre-1956 DU set a standard which has not been reached in the decades that have followed.
Opinions are like certain body parts...everybody's got one.
fizzgig
(24,146 posts)the lounge is a lot slower than it used to be, but at least it's not filled with land mines.
hope you're well
texanwitch
(18,705 posts)I have been here since 2004 so I have seen a lot.
I used to post a lot but no more.
It used to be fun here.
The old kudzu thread that I helped keep going wouldn't last today.
We did have some good times and I am glad that I was here. I could spend all day in the Lounge and never be bored.
I made some good friends.
Now I just check in and then read the news in the other forums. The old Lounge is no more.
We did have a blast here. Lots of good memories.
Times move on.
fizzgig
(24,146 posts)hope life is treating you well
and you're right, nothing like kudzu or the thread that never dies could survive here.
texanwitch
(18,705 posts)I don't post much anymore.
Been really busy.
We had some fun here.
sharp_stick
(14,400 posts)Must learn not to feed a bad thread...Bad sharp_stick Bad.
BlueJazz
(25,348 posts)...way better than I. Me learn.
pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)Where do they think they are, Cooking & Baking?
RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)BlueJazz
(25,348 posts)GusBob
(7,286 posts)Make it more like RL
Generic Brad
(14,274 posts)Nothing stays the same - ever. We ebb. We flow. We change. We grow.
If you want something to change - be the change!
KMOD
(7,906 posts)sorry.
kentauros
(29,414 posts)Or not enough?
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)not enough
Dyedinthewoolliberal
(15,566 posts)since then it has gone to hell