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Wow. This used to be an interesting forum What happened? (Original Post) bif Apr 2015 OP
Goodness blogslut Apr 2015 #1
We were interesting in between your biannual visits. Renew Deal Apr 2015 #2
post something interesting... steve2470 Apr 2015 #3
umm.....uummm Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2015 #4
interesting to one in particular :) nt steve2470 Apr 2015 #5
actually, several bit the dust in that ... umm ... one Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2015 #6
I wonder why? pinboy3niner Apr 2015 #7
danged if I know - Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2015 #9
MY CAT CAN EAT A WHOLE WATERMELON Warren DeMontague Apr 2015 #72
Is the cat as quiet as a well-digger's ass ? In_The_Wind Apr 2015 #77
Heh heh heh Warren DeMontague Apr 2015 #78
This is when we need taterguy mackerel Apr 2015 #8
Or MFM Optical.Catalyst Apr 2015 #12
I can't be the only one who turned into a Rebublican... hay rick Apr 2015 #10
This message was self-deleted by its author pintobean Apr 2015 #11
When you're coming, we get a signal to post only bland, uninteresting crap pinboy3niner Apr 2015 #13
is it spring yet? magical thyme Apr 2015 #14
the mocking level has gone up abit irisblue Apr 2015 #15
If I knew you were coming I'd have a present but... GOLGO 13 Apr 2015 #16
I was waiting for someone to mention this! Phentex Apr 2015 #22
give us six months rurallib Apr 2015 #17
Here's how I deal with gratuitous flamebait, which never works btw: UTUSN Apr 2015 #18
I give you two seconds to entertain me struggle4progress Apr 2015 #19
There's a fascinating discussion going on in Gardening about pissing on the compost pile. Kaleva Apr 2015 #20
We used to be the little forum everybody ignored. Chan790 Apr 2015 #21
I dunno. It still has its moments but the posting has dropped dramatically... Phentex Apr 2015 #23
Well stated. Moondog Apr 2015 #24
Hey Moondog In_The_Wind Apr 2015 #25
Hi there Moondog Apr 2015 #26
but, you two can try. Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2015 #27
ah, you mean hoopeyhope or whoever was sexually abusive to a young fellow duer? or other perverted seabeyond Apr 2015 #29
Actually, I was talking about well before the Hoopy guy got himself banned... Chan790 Apr 2015 #35
LMFAO! RiffRandell Apr 2015 #38
first sentence, .... what a guy. if i feel guilty about something? well hell, i dont you throw seabeyond Apr 2015 #45
It's the nature of all discussion forums these days. They've had mackerel Apr 2015 #40
Facebook killed the DU3 Star Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2015 #41
This is perhaps the best post I have ever read on DU. Ever. Serisouly. OrwellwasRight Apr 2015 #76
you want I should kick your disappointed ass, bif? Skittles Apr 2015 #28
Orange handle means Decaf A HERETIC I AM Apr 2015 #84
Well, don't just stand there shenmue Apr 2015 #30
Someone got upset about the sex threads and constantly RiffRandell Apr 2015 #31
This. GOLGO 13 Apr 2015 #33
But is it bcause of a lack of sex threads? Phentex Apr 2015 #34
Threads don't have sex. Chan790 Apr 2015 #36
There are cotton threads, woolen threads. All kinds of threads. Threads were around long before Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2015 #39
I was going to acknowledge that... Chan790 Apr 2015 #44
No. RiffRandell Apr 2015 #42
S S D D In_The_Wind Apr 2015 #53
and you Seize The Day as good as anyone in here. Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2015 #56
True dat. In_The_Wind Apr 2015 #57
best wishes to you and Moondog and I do mean that sincerely. Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2015 #58
Times 2. RiffRandell Apr 2015 #60
Oh well ... In_The_Wind Apr 2015 #63
The Lounge has always been a Free For All - with and without sex threads. Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2015 #48
Just in general overall. GOLGO 13 Apr 2015 #85
could you be more specific? Kali Apr 2015 #32
I like the way some of these guys drop by to announce how they have been "lurking" Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2015 #37
Aren't you sweet. pintobean Apr 2015 #46
thanks for noticing. Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2015 #47
I guess we aren't welcome here. RiffRandell Apr 2015 #49
Everyone is welcome here pintobean Apr 2015 #50
That's what I was sort of getting at. RiffRandell Apr 2015 #51
Some really weird shit can happen here. pintobean Apr 2015 #52
how equally justified of you to properly assess the situation. Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2015 #55
It's glaring so brightly pintobean Apr 2015 #62
since this subthread is bounced of my post I am going to address it ... Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2015 #54
You called people losers pintobean Apr 2015 #61
Whiny losers. RiffRandell Apr 2015 #64
And... pintobean Apr 2015 #69
You are cracking me up! RiffRandell Apr 2015 #70
heh Kali Apr 2015 #81
Really? What group(s)? pintobean Apr 2015 #83
Lurkers. And if I am such a loser why do you Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2015 #71
I've been around DU for a L-O-N-G time. Here are a few random observations. Miles Archer Apr 2015 #80
this place was a shit show on du2 for a bit fizzgig Apr 2015 #74
It had changed in the the Lounge. texanwitch Apr 2015 #43
haven't seen you for a bit fizzgig Apr 2015 #75
Nice to see you to. texanwitch Apr 2015 #88
Editing This Reply Away sharp_stick Apr 2015 #59
I'm quite fond and happy with this site. Many people here can express my thoughts on a subject... BlueJazz Apr 2015 #65
+1! And those who want to fight about it should remember this is the Lounge. pinboy3niner Apr 2015 #66
Always the voice of reason! RiffRandell Apr 2015 #67
!! BlueJazz Apr 2015 #68
Needs more drama and shit-strirring GusBob Apr 2015 #73
Viva la Evolucion! Generic Brad Apr 2015 #79
I killed it by posting too many bad videos. KMOD Apr 2015 #82
Too many? kentauros Apr 2015 #86
My guess is In_The_Wind Apr 2015 #87
Yeah, I was gonna say the same thing about you........... Dyedinthewoolliberal Apr 2015 #89
I died ashling Apr 2015 #90

hay rick

(7,605 posts)
10. I can't be the only one who turned into a Rebublican...
Wed Apr 8, 2015, 02:11 AM
Apr 2015

Actually, I live in the South now, so the official term is Rebubbalican.

Response to bif (Original post)

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
13. When you're coming, we get a signal to post only bland, uninteresting crap
Wed Apr 8, 2015, 05:50 AM
Apr 2015

When you leave, we get another signal to resume the festivities.

GOLGO 13

(1,681 posts)
16. If I knew you were coming I'd have a present but...
Wed Apr 8, 2015, 01:33 PM
Apr 2015

I haven't figured out how to wrap a fart yet. Standby though.

UTUSN

(70,683 posts)
18. Here's how I deal with gratuitous flamebait, which never works btw:
Wed Apr 8, 2015, 09:31 PM
Apr 2015

********QUOTE*****

[font size=5]The Gestalt Prayer[/font]

I do my thing and you do your thing.
[FONT style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: yellow"]I am not in this world to live up to your expectations,
And you are not in this world to live up to mine[/FONT].
You are you, and I am I,
and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful.
If not, it can't be helped.

(Fritz Perls, "Gestalt Therapy Verbatim", 1969)

*********QUOTE********

 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
21. We used to be the little forum everybody ignored.
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 08:43 AM
Apr 2015

The Lounge was insular and a little uncouth. Then we got invaded by various factions from elsewhere on DU that would come here to wage their crap or attempt to civilize us according to their values. (DU boards' versions of Manifest Destiny and Encomienda) It was fine when we had our own hosts who refused to allow that shit to fly...but now we're grouped in with the universal-pool of main fora hosts which has become problematic: good for GD and other fora, really bad for the Lounge as we're policed by people that would never ever ever ever participate here and don't understand that we don't really take their behavioral-concerns seriously.

This sentence has become the oft-over-abused "Best Interests of Baseball Clause" of forum hosting here: "The Lounge is supposed to be a friendly, welcoming place for everyone." I wish Skinner would fucking delete it and replace it with something a lot more concrete and less open to interpretation by hosts.

There is no such thing as "friendly, welcoming places for everyone" and attempts to make the Lounge one made it unfriendly and unwelcoming to pretty much anybody...so a lot of people said "fuck this" and left.

I don't post as much as I did. There is no reason to...the party is over, it's the sad afterglow as the people who have no place better to go mull about and try to figure out if there's still a chance the party might not be over.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
23. I dunno. It still has its moments but the posting has dropped dramatically...
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 08:55 AM
Apr 2015

I do think the juries would be confused by what are considered jokes in here that wouldn't fly elsewhere. You can't be sure sarcasm would be understood without the tag so I do think people post less.

I'm still amazed by topics that get locked as off-topic. (I realize that's a default reply setting).

It's the lounge. Everything is off topic!

Moondog

(4,833 posts)
24. Well stated.
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 12:42 PM
Apr 2015

This - "The Lounge was insular and a little uncouth. Then we got invaded by various factions from elsewhere on DU that would come here to wage their crap or attempt to civilize us according to their values. (DU boards' versions of Manifest Destiny and Encomienda)" - sums it up for me.

After the Invasion of the Fun Snatchers, as I define that period to myself, the Lounge ceased to be fun. As a result, I drifted off, began to pay more attention to other aspects of my life, and all but ceased posting here.

I lurk, and check in now and again, but the Lounge of old appears to be gone.

Thomas Wolfe, it seems, was right. Sadly. But it is true - you can't go home again.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
29. ah, you mean hoopeyhope or whoever was sexually abusive to a young fellow duer? or other perverted
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 01:33 PM
Apr 2015

sexual content and he had a small group cheering him on?

man. the good old days, right?

nah.... chan, i do not think you get to "blame" groups. gosh. who even comes in here, until some one lets me know about a post like this. lol

 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
35. Actually, I was talking about well before the Hoopy guy got himself banned...
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 11:44 PM
Apr 2015

however, if you feel guilty about something...perhaps that might be something you should explore your feelings why.

Shockingly, the world does not revolve around this outrage of the week or last week or last month, year, thousand-days...okay, the outrage of last decade is probably on-topic. Fortunately, I don't remember last decade...I was too busy getting high, drinking sophisticated gin drinks, having group sex and listening to Sunny Day Real Estate.



(This crap started all the way back on DU2 and continues forthwith. It has nothing to do with whatever group you're going on about now, unless that group is the dour wankers that wander in from GD and throw a fit that we're having fun, then alert and whine that they don't feel welcome. DU is apparently a no fun zone; how dare we have fun when there are still Republicans in existence and people getting shot by cops.)

However, for old time sake and to get the goat of assholes everywhere, this post contains a witty Dick joke.





I can blame whoever or whatever group the fuck I'd like. Currently, I blame whoever picked out the completion uniforms for the 2014 Norwegian Olympic Curling Team. Utter abomination. Also, The Clinton Global Initiative because I believe they do more harm than good globally.

Really though, if the only way you came to learn the Lounge sucks is because someone told you about my post, perhaps they should do us both a favor and spend more time worrying about their own concerns in life.
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
45. first sentence, .... what a guy. if i feel guilty about something? well hell, i dont you throw
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 11:03 AM
Apr 2015

any shit out there and create a story. wasnt interested beyond your fabricated.... if you feel guilty.

mackerel

(4,412 posts)
40. It's the nature of all discussion forums these days. They've had
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 01:27 AM
Apr 2015

their run, now replaced by other forms for social media.

OrwellwasRight

(5,170 posts)
76. This is perhaps the best post I have ever read on DU. Ever. Serisouly.
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 11:21 PM
Apr 2015

"There is no such thing as "friendly, welcoming places for everyone" and attempts to make the Lounge one made it unfriendly and unwelcoming to pretty much anybody...so a lot of people said "fuck this" and left.




Can we be friends?

RiffRandell

(5,909 posts)
31. Someone got upset about the sex threads and constantly
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 04:14 PM
Apr 2015

complained. Apparently they were suffering from jealousy from people that were (OMG) having sex or were attractive.

GOLGO 13

(1,681 posts)
33. This.
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 06:06 PM
Apr 2015

It's become a mostly humorless board. Lots of haters and old timers whining about the "old days".

Meh.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
34. But is it bcause of a lack of sex threads?
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 06:42 PM
Apr 2015

That's not at all what I was referring to above. I just think posting, in general, is down in here.

I guess it's perspective. I haven't seen much whining about the board lately...until this thread.

 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
36. Threads don't have sex.
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 11:48 PM
Apr 2015

They're computer files on a server. Presumably, they don't have X/Y chromosomes, gender identities or genitalia.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
39. There are cotton threads, woolen threads. All kinds of threads. Threads were around long before
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 12:47 AM
Apr 2015

computers ever were.

 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
44. I was going to acknowledge that...
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 08:06 AM
Apr 2015

but I felt I had contributed enough v long snarky posts to this discussion and opted for brevity.

RiffRandell

(5,909 posts)
42. No.
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 01:35 AM
Apr 2015

It just got really petty and personal, which happened a few years ago.

I hate to say it but some people who have DU as their only social source can be strange and unpleasant.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
58. best wishes to you and Moondog and I do mean that sincerely.
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 02:00 PM
Apr 2015

you two make a good couple. now we just need SD back so we can all watch the threesome.

whatever happened to her anyway?

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
48. The Lounge has always been a Free For All - with and without sex threads.
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 11:58 AM
Apr 2015

Remember when Crazy Guggenheim used to spam The Lounge All Night Long. Was he the one that started the Yak thing?

GOLGO 13

(1,681 posts)
85. Just in general overall.
Mon Apr 13, 2015, 08:59 AM
Apr 2015

My experiences here have shown me the overall lack of joy and humorless tone that pervades the tone of the board.

This place is way too serious like all the time. I mostly read and just move on instead of comment about the bloviating that goes on. I'd rather thrash a thread than comment.

Kali

(55,007 posts)
32. could you be more specific?
Thu Apr 9, 2015, 05:36 PM
Apr 2015

when was it more interesting? back on DU2 when there was a lot of clique warfare and people being plain old mean assholes to each other? yeah it was perhaps a bit more exciting then, but it sure wasn't nice to be on the receiving end of it for those that were.

Do you mean further back when there was a lot of flirting and sexual inuendo and people were even hooking up in real life?

Or do you mean since DU3 and people like MFM worked hard to keep the funny going and posts rolling?

I doubt I ever contributed much "interesting" content, but lately I haven't been posting due to real life. I do feel kind of personally and collectively insulted that you consider those of us who are still a part of the Lounge to be fucking republicans. I mean, way to insult people you seem to want to be entertained by.

How about you respond to the logical challenge of others above with some OPs that you do consider "interesting." It is kind of a two way street, ya know?

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
37. I like the way some of these guys drop by to announce how they have been "lurking"
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 12:45 AM
Apr 2015

but, then decide to come out of the dark, into the sunlight, take a dump on the place by informing us that this place ain't what it used to be and it is NOT their fault.

Bullshit.

And if the place is so damn boring why do they even bother LURKING?

Answer me that.

bunch of whiny ass LOSERS. The lot of them.

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
50. Everyone is welcome here
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 12:14 PM
Apr 2015

whether they've been here one day, or from day one. It belongs to all of us, but a few seem to think they own it. The names may change, but it's been like that since I've been here.

RiffRandell

(5,909 posts)
51. That's what I was sort of getting at.
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 12:19 PM
Apr 2015

Some view it as a contest...which is pretty sad. I have a life. Quite a nice one actually.

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
52. Some really weird shit can happen here.
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 01:22 PM
Apr 2015

Like some people flipping out over a guy jokingly saying his wife was going to rape him*, then a few days later, openly supporting the work of a man who raped a 13 year old girl and fled justice.



*A valid point, and a situation that was handled poorly on both sides.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
55. how equally justified of you to properly assess the situation.
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 01:48 PM
Apr 2015

you should apply for host, since you take such an interest in how this place goes down.

I mean it most sincerely, pintobean.

and by the way, If I had been judge RP would have served time but, I have no control over that.

as for backwoodsbob and all his crap that night. It was not just one OP he did.

and I was not the only one who took issue with it.

I was just the one who called him out on it.

I notice you have no trouble doing that same thing, pintobean.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
54. since this subthread is bounced of my post I am going to address it ...
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 01:46 PM
Apr 2015

especially since you all are my biggest fans

if you are trying to insinuate that I think I own this place you are sadly mistaken.

I post as I please and you and Riff and all these LURKERS can do the same.

No one is STOPPING anyone from posting. Unless it is juries, MIRt or Admin. or your own self.

You know how to start an OP, right?

I know Riff does. I have seen and participated in her threads when I want.

You do what you want or not. Please yourself.

If it pleases you to snark at me, by all means, SNARK AWAY. I can take as good as I can give.

I am all equal like that.

Peace Out.

RiffRandell

(5,909 posts)
64. Whiny losers.
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 03:40 PM
Apr 2015

Kind of like people that go to safe havens to complain about jury results?

That's what came to my mind.

RiffRandell

(5,909 posts)
70. You are cracking me up!
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 05:43 PM
Apr 2015

So true! Yet I have seen people complaining how they can't stand when a swarm is called in when they are the biggest offenders. .

Miles Archer

(18,837 posts)
80. I've been around DU for a L-O-N-G time. Here are a few random observations.
Sat Apr 11, 2015, 10:29 AM
Apr 2015

1). "DU used to be so much better" comments have been posted here as long as DU has been in existence

2). If you go back to any point in time when DU was supposedly better, you will find people posting that "DU used to be so much better" in the midst of that "better" time

3). I personally feel DU jumped the shark after Adlai Stevenson's failed Presidential campaign in 1956. I know we are not supposed to "bash" DU in the Lounge but I am confident that the majority of DUers will agree that the pre-1956 DU set a standard which has not been reached in the decades that have followed.

Opinions are like certain body parts...everybody's got one.

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
74. this place was a shit show on du2 for a bit
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 11:13 PM
Apr 2015

the lounge is a lot slower than it used to be, but at least it's not filled with land mines.

hope you're well

texanwitch

(18,705 posts)
43. It had changed in the the Lounge.
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 02:53 AM
Apr 2015

I have been here since 2004 so I have seen a lot.

I used to post a lot but no more.

It used to be fun here.

The old kudzu thread that I helped keep going wouldn't last today.

We did have some good times and I am glad that I was here. I could spend all day in the Lounge and never be bored.

I made some good friends.

Now I just check in and then read the news in the other forums. The old Lounge is no more.

We did have a blast here. Lots of good memories.

Times move on.

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
75. haven't seen you for a bit
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 11:14 PM
Apr 2015

hope life is treating you well

and you're right, nothing like kudzu or the thread that never dies could survive here.

 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
65. I'm quite fond and happy with this site. Many people here can express my thoughts on a subject...
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 03:48 PM
Apr 2015

...way better than I. Me learn.

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
66. +1! And those who want to fight about it should remember this is the Lounge.
Fri Apr 10, 2015, 03:58 PM
Apr 2015

Where do they think they are, Cooking & Baking?

Generic Brad

(14,274 posts)
79. Viva la Evolucion!
Sat Apr 11, 2015, 09:07 AM
Apr 2015

Nothing stays the same - ever. We ebb. We flow. We change. We grow.

If you want something to change - be the change!

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