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MrScorpio

(73,630 posts)
Sat Oct 24, 2015, 02:00 PM Oct 2015

You and your buddy are out at a bar, but he's being a drunken ass...

He gets into a fight that he started all on his own. He's getting a well deserved butt whipping, but nothing too serious.

You could either jump in and fight the other guy along with your buddy, or wait until he's had a significant enough thrashing before everyone is tossed out on their asses.

What do you do?


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Cool, a fight and an opportunity to kick some ass...
0 (0%)
Only intervene after your buddy has learned his lesson about picking on the wrong guy
0 (0%)
Walk out with that honey you were just chatting up
3 (75%)
Other
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You and your buddy are out at a bar, but he's being a drunken ass... (Original Post) MrScorpio Oct 2015 OP
Separate them. Ptah Oct 2015 #1
In most cases that's going to get your ass beat by the bouncers. Chan790 Oct 2015 #4
I drink at dives mostly. No bouncers. Ptah Oct 2015 #5
Save your friend. Iggo Oct 2015 #2
I stick up for my friends Facility Inspector Oct 2015 #3
Same here. ohnoyoudidnt Oct 2015 #14
I'm the friend. Kali Oct 2015 #6
I believe you! Ptah Oct 2015 #7
hee hee Kali Oct 2015 #8
win! OriginalGeek Oct 2015 #11
I used to date idiots who got into fights. OrwellwasRight Oct 2015 #9
I'll sucker punch the guy IF my boy is losing the fight. GOLGO 13 Oct 2015 #10
Never had to do this actually. Xyzse Oct 2015 #12
I would try to help my friend bigwillq Oct 2015 #13
 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
4. In most cases that's going to get your ass beat by the bouncers.
Sat Oct 24, 2015, 02:15 PM
Oct 2015

They generally don't differentiate between the people jumping into a fight and the people jumping in to break up a fight because the second often decide mid-act to become the first.

The best solution is to get out of the way and let the bouncers do their job.

OrwellwasRight

(5,170 posts)
9. I used to date idiots who got into fights.
Sun Oct 25, 2015, 11:22 PM
Oct 2015

Testosterone games have never impressed me. I started warning them I'd leave them there if they got in a fight. I did it too. No need to support that kind of stupidity.

Now, I just don't date guys who fight.

GOLGO 13

(1,681 posts)
10. I'll sucker punch the guy IF my boy is losing the fight.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 10:20 AM
Oct 2015

No matter what, he's still my boy. Not saying I approve of being an ass or that I wouldn't let him eat a few punches for being a fool. But, yeah if it goes badly & I'm drunk enough.

Xyzse

(8,217 posts)
12. Never had to do this actually.
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 10:32 AM
Oct 2015

I am not sure what I would do. I have met some drunken idiots who wanted to fight a friend of mine or so, but it gets broken up before anything happens.

I know that I am quite protective of friends, so the first thing that I would probably do is try to separate.
However, for physical encounters, what I tend to do is to trip(bring them down to the ground) whomever is aggressive as fast as possible.

Either they would have to get up, and give me some time to walk away.

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
13. I would try to help my friend
Tue Oct 27, 2015, 10:37 AM
Oct 2015

Even if friend was being an ass, I would try to help friend in any way I can.

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