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derby378

(30,252 posts)
Fri Jun 3, 2016, 10:34 PM Jun 2016

After almost six years, my long ordeal is almost over

I'm going back to work on Monday morning. It's a temp-to-hire job, but it's not another warehouse gig or mailroom job - I'm going to be a medical records clerk making around $34K a year.

I was laid off of a medical admin job in August 2010 that paid $37K a year. Since then, finding gainful employment that paid me what I was worth has been impossible, so I took whatever temp jobs I could. But there have been long stretches of unemployment, and my benefits have run out a long time ago. I am broke, but not broken.

That all changes on Monday. Soon I will have a steady paycheck once again, and maybe I can start paying some bills and getting on with the rest of my life. Maybe even start exploring ghost towns again during the weekends. Or perhaps wining and dining a really cute girl. Having options once again is going to take some getting used to.

I can't wait.

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After almost six years, my long ordeal is almost over (Original Post) derby378 Jun 2016 OP
Congrats. May this be the start of better times ahead for you. LonePirate Jun 2016 #1
Thanks! derby378 Jun 2016 #2
HURRAH! I hope you enjoy the work, have great co-workers who are fun and make the hours fly by, MADem Jun 2016 #3
Thanks! derby378 Jun 2016 #4
Yay Derby! Congrats!!! Melissa G Jun 2016 #5
I'll keep that in mind derby378 Jun 2016 #66
It was a close thing at the Ft Worth convention.. Yes, Coolness! Melissa G Jun 2016 #74
hurray!! irisblue Jun 2016 #6
This is FANTASTIC NEWS, my dear derby378! CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2016 #7
Thank you, Peggy! derby378 Jun 2016 #68
I'm so happy for you, derby378. Good luck1 pnwmom Jun 2016 #8
Good for you and congratulations! I'm very happy for you, derby378! sueh Jun 2016 #9
Congratulations! IrishEyes Jun 2016 #10
Congrats Omaha Steve Jun 2016 #11
Wonderful to hear! ailsagirl Jun 2016 #12
glad to hear that! La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2016 #13
You'll be surprised how much you're not used to doing stuff lunatica Jun 2016 #14
I hear you derby378 Jun 2016 #69
The most precious thing you'll feel now is the lack of stress lunatica Jun 2016 #73
congratzzzzzz! nt AntiBank Jun 2016 #15
Congratulation! Wishing you all the best! mountain grammy Jun 2016 #16
Wonderful news passiveporcupine Jun 2016 #17
Great news Scarsdale Jun 2016 #42
Yay! Congrats. nt Laffy Kat Jun 2016 #18
Fantastic! LisaM Jun 2016 #19
Way to hang tough, derb! Congrats!! lastlib Jun 2016 #20
Very happy things are looking up for you. Best regards. AtomicKitten Jun 2016 #21
Very happy for you! Hope you enjoy the work LibDemAlways Jun 2016 #22
Congrats! Hope you like this job. I worked in medical records for 4 years and really Tess49 Jun 2016 #23
Good luck, Derby, we all wish you the very best Jack Rabbit Jun 2016 #24
Best wishes with the new job. nt AnotherDreamWeaver Jun 2016 #25
So happy for you! Good luck! nt No Vested Interest Jun 2016 #26
that's wonderful & exciting! hopemountain Jun 2016 #27
My best to you as you begin again! ReRe Jun 2016 #28
desby378 Iwillnevergiveup Jun 2016 #29
good luck hollysmom Jun 2016 #30
Awesome!!! blondie58 Jun 2016 #31
Congratulations! Rhiannon12866 Jun 2016 #32
Mazel Tov! MarianJack Jun 2016 #33
This is great news but... Lunabell Jun 2016 #34
Hee-hee! derby378 Jun 2016 #67
Congratulations! mnhtnbb Jun 2016 #35
Congratulations! I hope all of Ilsa Jun 2016 #36
congratulations on your new job and magical thyme Jun 2016 #37
I feel so happy for you secondwind Jun 2016 #38
Hang in there, we are living in very painful times to the vast majority of us. Rejoice! downeastdaniel Jun 2016 #39
Congratulations! Just reading posts Jun 2016 #40
Congrats and I wish you much success! Fla Dem Jun 2016 #41
Congratulations Demsrule86 Jun 2016 #43
Congratulations, derby378! femmocrat Jun 2016 #44
Awesome! bigwillq Jun 2016 #45
Congrats on the new job! kimbutgar Jun 2016 #46
Well done... good luck! Surya Gayatri Jun 2016 #47
How wonderful!!! Liberal Jesus Freak Jun 2016 #48
that is such wonderful news. may this be only the beginning of many, many good things. niyad Jun 2016 #49
Congratulations! NikolaC Jun 2016 #50
Congratulations!!!! SylviaD Jun 2016 #51
I've been in the same situation as you and I couldn't be happier for you. Boomerproud Jun 2016 #52
Congratulations! May times be pointed upward for you now and for a long time to come! Moostache Jun 2016 #53
Congrats and Best Luck! LongTomH Jun 2016 #54
congratulations. trueblue2007 Jun 2016 #55
That's great news! Ligyron Jun 2016 #56
Great news!! bluescribbler Jun 2016 #57
What wonderful news! democrank Jun 2016 #58
Great news, derby. May romance and adventure come your way. E38. Eleanors38 Jun 2016 #59
Awesome! Congrats! C Moon Jun 2016 #60
This message was self-deleted by its author raging moderate Jun 2016 #61
I decided to be my own boss in my 20's. ErikJ Jun 2016 #62
Derby378 StoneCarver Jun 2016 #63
happy for you, derby378 Skittles Jun 2016 #64
Here's wishing your better luck continues AikidoSoul Jun 2016 #65
Thank you, everyone derby378 Jun 2016 #70
congrats Liberal_in_LA Jun 2016 #71
So happy for you.....and loved this part, " a kennedy Jun 2016 #72
yay awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! nt steve2470 Jun 2016 #75
Here's wishing you (very) well! hamsterjill Jun 2016 #76
Best to you! Good on you not giving up. nt raccoon Jun 2016 #77

MADem

(135,425 posts)
3. HURRAH! I hope you enjoy the work, have great co-workers who are fun and make the hours fly by,
Fri Jun 3, 2016, 10:53 PM
Jun 2016

and I hope you are made permanent soon and given raises in short order!

Best of luck!

derby378

(30,252 posts)
66. I'll keep that in mind
Sat Jun 4, 2016, 10:39 PM
Jun 2016

You mean there's a chance we might actually meet each other at last? Coolness!

Can't make it to the San Antonio convention, sorry. But yes, let's meet next time I'm in Austin!

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,585 posts)
7. This is FANTASTIC NEWS, my dear derby378!
Fri Jun 3, 2016, 11:25 PM
Jun 2016

I am thrilled for you!

I hope it will quickly lead to a truly permanent job.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
14. You'll be surprised how much you're not used to doing stuff
Fri Jun 3, 2016, 11:50 PM
Jun 2016

I am OK financially after a decade of becoming poorer and poorer. I got used to not doing things and I thought I missed doing stuff like going to movies, eating steak, driving around for the fun of it, going to lunch with my friends, etc.

Now I can do all that but I still have to overcome thinking that I can't afford it. I find myself not buying something I'd like because in the back of my mind is the feeling that I can't afford it.

Now I'm slowly replacing the appliances that have been breaking down which have been pretty much all of them. It really took an effort to believe I could afford to do it. It's silly, I know, but it's true. And it has nothing to do with stinginess. It's just that ingrained feeling of not having enough money all the time. Of years of going without because the money I had needed to be spent on something more vital. I sometimes give myself permission to splurge on some new clothes or, heaven forbid, a steak, but it doesn't break me of the thought habit of near poverty.

On the other hand I've found that I no longer want to spend on anything just for the luxury of it either. I'm just not interested in actually spending money or buying stuff just for jollies. The things I spend my money on are what's needed only and I'm quite satisfied with that.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
69. I hear you
Sat Jun 4, 2016, 10:50 PM
Jun 2016

Not having either Ginny or a steady income around threatened to turn me into a recluse. At least staying close to home saves wear and tear on the car - but now I can afford to maintain it properly, feed myself better food, buy presents for family during the holidays, maybe even pay a few bills! Whoda thunk it?

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
73. The most precious thing you'll feel now is the lack of stress
Sun Jun 5, 2016, 11:58 AM
Jun 2016

Soon you'll wonder how you made it through the bad times.

But what you learned about yourself will carry you for the rest of your life.

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
17. Wonderful news
Sat Jun 4, 2016, 12:03 AM
Jun 2016

I hope you get hired permanently

Every long term temp job I took ended up in a permanent job, so hang in there...you can do this!

Sorry things have been so rough for so long. I totally understand. I've been there...hell, I'm there now.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
42. Great news
Sat Jun 4, 2016, 09:33 AM
Jun 2016

My son, a member of Mensa, was out of work for a very long time. He got a temp job, sorting FRENCH FRIES!! Glad to get it, too. Now he has a real job, with benefits. Good luck to you, after that long dry spell.

LibDemAlways

(15,139 posts)
22. Very happy for you! Hope you enjoy the work
Sat Jun 4, 2016, 12:43 AM
Jun 2016

and have great co-workers. Wishing you nothing but the best.

Iwillnevergiveup

(9,298 posts)
29. desby378
Sat Jun 4, 2016, 02:53 AM
Jun 2016

**THIS**

I am broke, but not broken.

I hope you can squirrel away a bit of money to grab some souvenirs from those ghost towns!

Congratulations on being gainfully employed again. You are clearly a deserving survivor.

blondie58

(2,570 posts)
31. Awesome!!!
Sat Jun 4, 2016, 04:53 AM
Jun 2016

After one week of Seeing you work, i have no Doubt that rhey'll make it permanent!

Ägain, congratulations!

Rhiannon12866

(205,200 posts)
32. Congratulations!
Sat Jun 4, 2016, 05:03 AM
Jun 2016

I've been there, and hoping this turns out to be everything you want. Best of luck, but I have no doubt you'll do just fine...

Lunabell

(6,078 posts)
34. This is great news but...
Sat Jun 4, 2016, 06:30 AM
Jun 2016

don't date a girl. The age difference would be too great. Try dating a woman.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
67. Hee-hee!
Sat Jun 4, 2016, 10:44 PM
Jun 2016

Sorry. My wife was 13 years my senior. She told me she wanted me to chase some "sweet young thing" if anything happened to her. But I'm keeping my options open - as long as they're legal and at least halfway intelligent.

mnhtnbb

(31,382 posts)
35. Congratulations!
Sat Jun 4, 2016, 06:33 AM
Jun 2016

I worked in medical records at UCLA--day shift--for 6 months after I graduated college early and before I started grad school. It was a fun group of people.
Hope you enjoy the job and your co-workers AND having a steady paycheck!

Demsrule86

(68,552 posts)
43. Congratulations
Sat Jun 4, 2016, 09:56 AM
Jun 2016

I wish you the best. My hubs was laid off when we moved to Ohio in 08...I had left my Wisconsin job for the move. He eventually went back to work at General Motors, but it was tough. We seriously considered driving off a bridge so the kids would get insurance money...of course, we didn't ...but we lost our health insurance (thanks Obama for extending cobra and making it free) we did empty our college fund, nearly lose our house and cars before it got better. This forever changed me. I know how hard it is...I hope you have wonderful success to make up for six brutal years.

SylviaD

(721 posts)
51. Congratulations!!!!
Sat Jun 4, 2016, 01:29 PM
Jun 2016

Wow, this brought tears to my eyes.

You have been through a lot - now enjoy yourself a bit. You deserve it.

*HUG*

Boomerproud

(7,951 posts)
52. I've been in the same situation as you and I couldn't be happier for you.
Sat Jun 4, 2016, 01:29 PM
Jun 2016

What a weight lifted off your shoulders. Yes, you can start living again!

Moostache

(9,895 posts)
53. Congratulations! May times be pointed upward for you now and for a long time to come!
Sat Jun 4, 2016, 01:46 PM
Jun 2016

I hope that you get a chance to enjoy the new beginning.

bluescribbler

(2,116 posts)
57. Great news!!
Sat Jun 4, 2016, 03:51 PM
Jun 2016

I've been there, but not for nearly as long as you have. I'm currently working a temp-to-hire position, earning $5.50/hr less than I earned in 2008 and the company's first offer to hire me direct was $3.00/hr less than I'm earning now.

Good for you, and best of luck going forward.

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ErikJ

(6,335 posts)
62. I decided to be my own boss in my 20's.
Sat Jun 4, 2016, 07:08 PM
Jun 2016

I can work as hard or little as I want and make as much or little as I want. To hell with depending on "the man"for survival. No begging for a job and no pain of layoffs.
But a warning. Some self-employed make millions and some make hardly anything. 90% go out of biz within 5 yrs.

AikidoSoul

(2,150 posts)
65. Here's wishing your better luck continues
Sat Jun 4, 2016, 09:42 PM
Jun 2016

and that you life is filled with love, good health, and security.


a kennedy

(29,647 posts)
72. So happy for you.....and loved this part, "
Sun Jun 5, 2016, 09:30 AM
Jun 2016

I am broke, but not broken. Good luck getting back to the rat race.

hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
76. Here's wishing you (very) well!
Mon Jun 6, 2016, 11:53 AM
Jun 2016

With your attitude ("I am broke but not broken&quot , you're going to be an asset to any company. I sincerely wish you the best, and admire your tenacity.

You're not only going to make a comeback, you're going to make it great! The very best of luck!

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