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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsMy cat Tink and I are spending our last weekend together.
I read these to her while she was hanging out in my lap this weekend. We both appreciated the overwhelming love we received here.
She went peacefully this morning.
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I'm sorry to share sad news. I know we all are dealing with so much right now. I feel selfish even mentioning this now.
Tink's around 21-22 years old (yes, she's extremely old for a cat), and she's been with me for more than 20 years now. When I found her she'd been badly mangled in a dog attack and the vet said I should seriously consider euthanasia. Her huge golden-green eyes had already told me that wasn't an option, and I told him no way are we putting her down. It wasn't her time yet. It almost broke me financially back then, but I never regreted my decision. She went on to become my dearest companion, neck masseuse, therapist and general confidant. She's a Main Coon, big beautiful and one tough cookie. Most important, she's a dearly beloved part of my family.
She'd been losing some weight over the past year and the vet changed her food to a prescription. No big deal, she's an older cat and such is normal. Then I noticed blood in her urine on November 12th of 2016. A week and two vet trips later and I find out it was kidney cancer. There's no cure according to my vet, and we've been on supportive care ever since. Which reaching an end now. She went in today for an evaluation, it wasn't good. Even I see the fading with my jaundiced eyes. She had a treatment of medications today and I was told to consider euthanasia in the next week. Much as it breaks my heart, I don't want her to suffer so I scheduled to bring her in early Monday. I wanted one last weekend with my little buddy.
I purchased her a fresh tuna steak today, her favorite, and seared it for her tonight. The leftovers are hers for the next two days. Not that she has much of an appetite compared to her old self, but she still seems to appreciate fresh tuna.
I know she's had a very long life, but my heart is still breaking knowing our time is almost over. Please, just keep her in your thoughts if you have room, and wish her a gentle passing
Chasstev365
(5,191 posts)herding cats
(19,549 posts)It is tough. I have to be the one to make the decision for her, but I know it's right. Even if it breaks my heart.
elfin
(6,262 posts)All the treats for her are well deserved after giving you so much love and joy over the years. And you gave the same to her.
I wish I didn't know how hard this is for you, but I do, and share your grief, even though from afar.
herding cats
(19,549 posts)She's that special.
Peace and love for you, too. I feel your empathy. :group hug:
LenaBaby61
(6,965 posts)herding cats & Tink
herding cats
(19,549 posts)I do appreciate that hug tonight.
Lifelong Protester
(8,421 posts)I well remember our dog's last day at home. I am still sad about it, although it was better for him. It is called being a responsible pet owner, but still hurts.
herding cats
(19,549 posts)It is easier on our beloved pets in that they don't know. For which I am grateful. I want her to know nothing but happiness in her last two days.
Lifelong Protester
(8,421 posts)skylucy
(3,734 posts)with lots of love. In a day or two you are going to do what is best for her, even though it is heartbreaking for you. May Tink cross the Rainbow Bridge gently. Hugs.
chillfactor
(7,566 posts)I had tears in m eyes while reading your post.
I have a 4# Chihuahua that I have had since 2002. I have noticed in recent days she is slowing down and not able to jump up on the bed any more.....she sleeps with me at night so I have to lift her up onto the bed. It breaks my heart to know that some day I will have to face what you are going through now. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
herding cats
(19,549 posts)I want you to know I'm sending love and healing thoughts toward your sweet baby. One thing I've learned is age doesn't mean as much if we've taken loving care of our pets. My thoughts are with you both.
Lisa0825
(14,487 posts)herding cats
(19,549 posts)It has been a very good long life. She's been an amazing companion.
napi21
(45,806 posts)and them. I'm sure she wants to be with you, but she doesn't want to suffer. She will be waiting to see you again some day across the Rainbow Bridge.
herding cats
(19,549 posts)Which is something I'm no longer able to prevent. Much as that frustrates and hurts me, it doesn't change reality.
Thank you so very much for your kind words. They helped me think.
elleng
(130,156 posts)herding cats
(19,549 posts)I appreciate that hug tonight greatly.
Doreen
(11,686 posts)I know the feeling and wish for you to be able to work through it. Blessings also to Tink.
herding cats
(19,549 posts)I'm sorry you've been here before, too.
elehhhhna
(32,076 posts)My Rikki. I feel you. Let the love wash over you. It's all you can do.
herding cats
(19,549 posts)That's beautiful and feels right.
Frogg
(365 posts)Sending you both love and blessings. It is one of the hardest things to do but your courage is beautiful and I wish you comfort as you navigate this process together.
herding cats
(19,549 posts)I thank you from my heart. Your words touched me and made me cry, but it was a good kind of crying. Again, thank you.
PsychoBabble
(837 posts)Sitting here w my Hazel-cat on my lap, and remembering the pain of putting her predecessors down. It is our best final gift to them, however. Peace to you both.
herding cats
(19,549 posts)Not that it feels good right now, but I do believe it's definitely kind and in a painful way loving.
TDale313
(7,820 posts)herding cats
(19,549 posts)I appreciate that.
montanacowboy
(6,053 posts)There is no solace, it hurts us to our core. They are such a part of our life. Hugs to you and Tink.
herding cats
(19,549 posts)The best I can come up with is I love her that much. I'd much rather suffer than her.
sinkingfeeling
(51,279 posts)thanks you for your care, love, and last weekend together. Blessed are those who treat animals with such great kindness and love.
herding cats
(19,549 posts)I just want her to go gently, and know how loved she is this weekend. She deaseves at least that much, but really so much more.
Warpy
(110,913 posts)HRH was a hissing, spitting ball of fury when she was taken out of the cage to meet me. They dumped this angry little cuss into my lap and she went boneless and started to purr and solicit pets. I lived with her for over 20 years and took her for her last vet visit 2 years ago. She was also a Maine Coon, full of long haired tortietude.
I think sometimes it's harder to say goodbye to a four footed friend than a two footed one.
herding cats
(19,549 posts)That was her when I found her. Still I picked her scary butt up and stuffed her shivering body in my jacket. Luckily for me she melted and showed her tender side, after shredding my hands. Granted, she was missing most of her fur due to malnutrition and her face was basically a weeping infection when I first met her. But still, her passion was amazing. Her first instinct was to destroy me. Until she knew I came in peace and had food in my pack. Then she softened on me. And, the rest is history.
babylonsister
(170,964 posts)beautiful as you did for your friend, and before the fact.
She's really special and you've been lucky. Now I need a pet, again.
Thanks.
barbtries
(28,702 posts)My first cat was Tinkerbelle. The next one was too, and then my daughter named her kitten juniorbelle.
I think her passing will be peaceful, I hope you are okay. 20-22 years old is ancient for a cat, I never had one live that long. It appears that you gave her a wonderful life.
targetpractice
(4,919 posts)After rescuing our cats and dogs... I think the most important role we play in their lives it to know when it's time to let them go.
This following is a poem about a dog, but I think any pet guardian can relate...
A dog on his master...
As young as I look,
I am growing older faster than he,
seven to one
is the ratio they tend to say.
Whatever the number,
I will pass him one day
and take the lead
the way I do on our walks in the woods.
And if this ever happens
to cross his mind,
it would be the sweetest
shadow I have ever cast on snow or grass.
Billy Collins, poet
classof56
(5,376 posts)I have his most recent book of poetry, and what a wonderful volume it is. Thank you for posting this one. I'm reminded of my late doggie Cammy who left me after 13 years of love, companionship and joy. When I knew her passing was inevitable, I scheduled a visit to the vet to insure her peaceful transition. I'm convinced she knew how difficult that would be for me, and the day before, she quietly lay down on our front lawn, one of her favorite places, and left on her own. Been a lotta years, but I still weep when I remember our time together, our daily walkies, and her sweet presence.
Blessings to all of you pet guardians who provide loving care for those who deserve it most. The love is always mutual and unconditional.
martigras
(151 posts)She sounds like she has had a wonderful life with you.It hurts that our furry friends don't live as long as we would like them to. Give your kitty a kiss for me.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,280 posts)but it's never long enough, is it? She'll enjoy her weekend of tuna and your company, and when she goes she won't be tired and sick any more. But it's so, so hard.
Lotusflower70
(3,077 posts)I am so very sorry for you and Tink. Our animals are family and give us so much. Enjoy your weekend together and cherish the memories. Sending positive thoughts and healing vibes.
Lithos
(26,397 posts)While they are only part of our lives, we are their whole life.
We're a multi-cat household and we've got a whole set of geriatrics - most of our household are now 16+, so I can definitely understand whatever you are going thru. I'm very glad she found you when she did. Many thoughts for a peaceful, gentle and loving transition.
L-
gopiscrap
(23,674 posts)I so know how it is to lose beloved pets
Laffy Kat
(16,356 posts)This sucks. It never gets easier. Hope you find comfort in knowing what a wonderful cat parent you are, right up to the final moment. Twenty-two years proves how well cared for Tink was. Cats don't grow that old unless they are pampered and loved.
Jack-o-Lantern
(965 posts)When you turn the corner and feel sunlight on your face again, may sweet peace be what you find
hibbing
(10,076 posts)It's so hard. I got a new cat in December after about 2 years of mourning my last one.
Peace
Leghorn21
(13,520 posts)you and Tink on Monday. So glad she is getting some tuna noms, as much as she pleases!! Do give her a gentle "scritch" under her neck for me and, obviously, all of DU.
- Sandy
volstork
(5,394 posts)to say goodbye to a cherished pet. My thoughts are with you.
oldtime dfl_er
(6,930 posts)I've been rescuing (and eventually saying goodbye to) cats all my life, so I understand what you're going through. There's nothing harder than making that decision when the little furball trusts you so much. But know that you're honoring that trust, and not violating it, with your decision. I feel for you, but you've given Tink so much and I know she's grateful for her life with you. Virtual hugs sent!
FuzzyRabbit
(1,958 posts)I don't have words right now to describe my feelings. My thoughts will be with you and Tink this weekend.
IcyPeas
(21,747 posts)My heart is breaking for you too.
(((Purrrrrrr)))
leftofcool
(19,460 posts)Tikki
(14,539 posts)The Tikkis
murielm99
(30,657 posts)Think about the good times, about how great a companion she was after you rescued her and got her healthy.
She has been with you a long time.
I remember when we had to help our Claudia cross the bridge. She was sixteen. I try to remember her when she would sit in the picture window or on the window seat. I remember her biting my arm if I was inattentive. I remember her attacking the printer and walking on the keyboard. You will have great memories, too.
2naSalit
(86,071 posts)It's one of the things in life that is difficult to get through, been through it, even with friends' pets.
LishaD35
(40 posts)I hope your last weekend is special.
Gore1FL
(21,034 posts)I've lost may a dog in my life. The love is real. The loss is real.
I'm glad Tink had you for 20 wonderful years. The pain of your loss is not something I'd wish on anyone. Tink, however, was worth every tear of it.
I am sorry for your loss.
qanda
(10,422 posts)And your heart peace and healing.
riversedge
(69,730 posts)Snackshack
(2,540 posts)I am so sorry to read this. You have my sincere condolences. 😢😢
Glamrock
(11,781 posts)I have a Tink of my own (although, she went from Tinkerbell to Tink to tinkerbean to Beans). 20 years of unconditional love is as much of a burden (at the end) as it is a blessing. This athiest is sending good vibes.
irisblue
(32,829 posts)Hugs for you and Tink
Mz Pip
(27,404 posts)What a wonderful life you have given her. Gentle passing, little one.
Solly Mack
(90,740 posts)I know what you're feeling.
I am so very happy to two of you found each other and loved each other for all these years.
Maynar
(769 posts)You gave her a great life, and well done.
Went through pretty much the same with my Frankie, late last November. Sincere condolences.
radical noodle
(7,990 posts)You've made the most difficult decision for her and she will go on her next journey having known love, warmth and family. May your broken heart mend and leave only the good memories of her.
My cats Phoebe and Binx will be purring that her journey is a gentle one.
AJT
(5,240 posts)catbyte
(34,174 posts)I'll be keeping you and your dear Tink in my heart this weekend.
democrank
(11,052 posts)I'm know how difficult this is.
BringBackBarack
(31 posts)We have five cats who are our babies, and I know Tink means the same to you. You can given her a wonderful life, and I know she knows how much you love her. Many hugs to you and to Tink.
Thekaspervote
(32,606 posts)My daughter just put down her 18 yr old. She has 3 more seniors, one that is 21. She's hoping they are spread out a bit. It just sucks!!
Give your kitty lots of big hugs. Maybe you've seen this. My older sister who has over the years lost so many pets keeps this lovely prose. I hope it will help you too!
http://www.rainbowbridge.com/Poem.htm
iluvtennis
(19,758 posts)...and cherish all the joy she brought to your life.
SammyWinstonJack
(44,129 posts)For you..
colorado_ufo
(5,717 posts)that you are not alone. The thoughts of many souls who understand will be with you, every minute of this difficult time.
raccoon
(31,092 posts)At the same time, I'm sorry for your loss.
Fla Dem
(23,352 posts)and the love you both shared. Tink knew you saved her all those many years ago and showered you with her love for 20 years. A peaceful passing is all we can give our loved pets in the end. My heart goes out to you.
no_hypocrisy
(45,780 posts)Your bond and your love saved Tink's life and helped her grow. It is now her time and again, with your bond and love, she will pass with comfort and warmth.
I wish you happy memories. Safe journey Tink.
Raster
(20,996 posts)...
randr
(12,408 posts)So sad that we all out live our beloved friends so often. I can remember all of mine and there have been many; always hard no matter the circumstances.
Cherish the memories and honor the grieving.
TuxedoKat
(3,818 posts)It is so hard to lose your beloved pet. (((HUGS)))
JudyM
(29,122 posts)Putting her out of pain is your last beautiful gift you can give her, that's what I was told, and it helped a little. There's a deep honoring in being there with her for that.
Wishing you as soft a landing as humanly possible... and blessings to Tink...
Freedomofspeech
(4,218 posts)Love and peace to you. We have two rescue cats...age 19 and 16 and two rescue dogs. We understand your love and your loss.
heaven05
(18,124 posts)yet she had 20 years of love and gave it back...you should take that as the present of her life to you. Never forget...I've had cat friends since 1975... always sad.
democratisphere
(17,235 posts)I celebrate your long, loving friendship with one of life's greatest assets, the cat! Maine Coon cats are one of my favorite breeds and I will be thinking of both of you through the weekend.
redwitch
(14,933 posts)My old Trouble girl ( 18) is starting to fade and I am dreading the parting that is inevitable. Your Tink got an amazing second chance because of you and I know she is grateful. I wish kitties lived longer lives like parrots or tortoises. I am sorry you are going to have to say goodbye but you are a great kitty mom.
brer cat
(24,402 posts)It is very hard to let go of a treasured and much loved friend and companion. I do hope she has a gentle passing.
TexasBushwhacker
(20,044 posts)We animal lovers volunteer to have our hearts broken. Our pets will almost always die before us, but the thought of living without animal companions in our lives just isn't imaginable.
Please have some peace knowing that, not only did you save her, but you have given her a wonderful life, full of love for over 2 decades. My first cat lived to 22 and I also had to put her down. I also had a last supper with her of her favorite Popeye's chicken. But she was ready, and I was ready to help her go.
Check with your local SPCA and Humane Society. They often have pet loss support groups. I found it very comforting to be in a room, sharing stories with people experiencing the same kind of grief I was. Take care. ❤
moriah
(8,311 posts)... just as you did when you rescued her and refused euthanasia then.
My Ninja came to me with bladder problems and finally had to have PU surgery. It had a great success rate. I maxed out my CareCredit to get it done. Otherwise he would have required euthanasia, and it seemed so wrong to euthanize a cat when a surgery to fix the problem was available and very successful.
But when his time actually came -- oral cancer, less than 1% one-year survival rate even with treatment.... I was with him to make sure he knew he was loved as he peacefully went to sleep, and knew he would be there watching for me on the Rainbow Bridge.
Don't ever doubt that you are doing the right thing as a response pet owner -- you're stopping her pain.
Much love to you, and to Tink....
Bayard
(21,806 posts)I'm so sorry. Our little Pet Sematary here keeps expanding. It never gets any easier.
I've posted this before, but worth it again. Its the love they leave behind. Makes me cry every time.....
nadine_mn
(3,702 posts)What a wonderful life you gave her and how sweet it is that she is able be surrounded by so much love in her final days.
20 yrs is a long time (we lost our cat who was 17 last yr) but it never seems like enough does it?
And please, you are not being selfish for mentioning it - thank you for sharing your love and Tink's story. It is never easy to say goodbye to our furry companions - even when we know it is for the best.
So much love to you and Tink
DarleenMB
(408 posts)We lost our 21 year old cat 2 years ago. It was difficult but she had a long and happy life with us. And she just went due to old age. I was grateful that for once I didn't have to call the vet. Missy died peacefully in her sleep after giving me one final hug.
Granny M
(1,395 posts)My heart hurts for you.
Cross gently, Tink. Look up my Guinness when you get to the rainbow bridge. Just like him, you are well loved.
onecent
(6,096 posts)BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)💔
samnsara
(17,572 posts)..what a beautiful tribute to your best friend and fur child. I am keeping you in my thoughts and close to my heart during this sad, sad time. Godspeed sweet Tink.. you are such a good girl!
williesgirl
(4,033 posts)Skittles
(152,967 posts)Grieve not,
nor speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you.....
I loved you so --
'twas Heaven here with you.
--by Ilsa Paschal Richardson
oldcynic
(385 posts)If you are with Tink, look in her eyes at the end. I've done it too many times and have always seen the same thing: forgiveness and gratitude. Gotta go...crying for you.
Scarsdale
(9,426 posts)These animals so easily make their way into our hearts, with their loveable ways. She sounds like a real prize. You were lucky to have her for so long, but it is time now to do what is right for her. Fond memories will last forever. Be brave.
bucolic_frolic
(42,679 posts)but I will think Tink tonight
Tink has a good owner!
lucca18
(1,238 posts)I know you will miss her so much.
How lucky you both were to have had each other .
Tink sounds like a wonderful cat.
shenmue
(38,503 posts)Phentex
(16,330 posts)I'm so sorry.
ginnyinWI
(17,276 posts)We lost our tabby two months ago, and we still think of her. There's an empty space in the bed where she used to purr me to sleep at night.
Duncan Grant
(8,258 posts)Jakes Progress
(11,121 posts)I pray for peace and contentment for your friend. I know you will hurt for a long time. Just know that she won't be.
Old Terp
(464 posts)It's always hard to lose our dear friends. If there is a heaven, I'm sure our animals are there, and when we leave this world, they will be there to greet us. Just right across the Rainbow Bridge.
Third Doctor
(1,574 posts)Pets have their own personalities and are truly a part of the family. I remember seeing a friend's dog put to sleep and it gutted me. That was such a sweet dog but she was very old and was suffering. Tink will l be in cat heaven where there will be all the cat treats in toys she wants.
BeekeeperInVermont
(76 posts)I just lost my oldest kitty a few days ago. He was at least 19 and had been slowing down over the last month or so; we knew the end was near, but it's so, so, painful to lose a friend. I'd known this kitty longer than many of my human friends - and he was nicer than some of them. Blessings and comfort to you and to your beloved cat.
Fla Dem
(23,352 posts)But we always have then in our hearts.
Peachhead22
(1,077 posts)She sounds like a real sweetheart, and you have beautiful heart for being her companion and helper all these years. My sympathies.
benfranklin1776
(6,427 posts)That really sucks. It's like losing a member of the family. If it's any consolation you gave her a lot of good years she wouldn't have had otherwise and she'll always be with you no matter what.
sheshe2
(83,355 posts)Safe passage.
Greybnk48
(10,148 posts)Enjoy every minute of your weekend.
Susan Calvin
(1,644 posts)It is obvious that she had a fine, fine life.
cate94
(2,797 posts)You are an amazing pet parent and I am sure Tink knows how lucky she is....
More_Cowbell
(2,190 posts)I did this with my cat who had FIP, six years ago. When he stopped eating, we had a nice day sitting together and I told him over and over how much I loved him. At the vet's, he lay purring on the table on a soft blanket with my arm next to him. The vet gave him the injection and his purring suddenly stopped. He didn't move; it was instantaneous and peaceful.
I used to work with a woman who had an old, sickly dog. Every day this woman used to say she wished she'd find that the dog had fallen down the stairs and died. She didn't have your courage and love, to make sure that your loved one passed peacefully in the arms of a friend.
I'm sending you both good thoughts, and spoiling my cat tonight.
Ilsa
(61,675 posts)When we make new ones, give them forever homes, we make the world a better place.
Thank you for your kindness to this sweet kitty. Enjoy your weekend. My condolences and Peace to your family.
Shoonra
(518 posts)Your very sad story comes almost a full year after I had to have our beloved cat put to sleep. He was a very genuine rescue, having been found by a co-worker of my wife while driving to work, huddling under a shrub on an island in the Interstate in freezing rain. He was tiny - everyone guessed a 4-month old kitten - no fur, only peachfuz, not an smidge of body fat, you could see every bone and muscle, you could see his little heart beating. The coworker put him in a cardboard box and took him to her job. My wife phoned me about adopting him and of course I said yes. Every one of her coworkers looked inside the cardbox and several of them told my wife to prepare for the worst - that he wouldn't last the night. And they were off by only fourteen years. It turned out he must have wandered away from his home a year earlier because, despite his very small size, the x-ray of his bones showed he was about 18 months old, and once he started eating meals regularly he got taller, longer, and finally wider, and his fur grew in like fleece. But, by the time he was about 16, the injuries and ailments of his infancy caught up with him and he was in terrible pain.
Every pet lover knows your misery. It never really goes away. But there's another cat that desperately needs a home.
CousinIT
(9,151 posts)I had to do this with one of my little babies. SO HARD knowing ahead of time it's your last days and minutes with them. You're doing the right thing and you're doing it out of love - she'll go with that and no baby kitteh could ask for more. Unfortunately they can't live as long as we do!
Spoil her rotten until Monday and I know you'll be there looking into her eyes as she dozes off peacefully. The last thing she'll see is the face of Love.
denbot
(9,894 posts)Ya done good by her, like she has to you. Peace to your house.
Lochloosa
(16,019 posts)Later you will feel good about that.
red dog 1
(27,648 posts)The reply right above mine rings true:
"You have given her a great life"..(and vice versa)
God Bless her little, tuna-loving heart...and God Bless you, too.
hamsterjill
(15,214 posts)I wasn't on DU much the weekend and am just reading this now. I am so sorry.
Thank you for not having given up on her in the beginning and for understanding that she needs a peaceful exit now. Don't blame you at all for wanting a last weekend to love on her. She will know how she was cherished, and she will appreciate your bravery for her.
You are in our thoughts, and we all wish you peace and comfort. I fully expect to see mine again at the Bridge. It's where I will belong when it's time for me to go.
herding cats
(19,549 posts)I read these to her while she was hanging out in my lap this weekend. We both appreciated the overwhelming love we received here.
She went peacefully this morning.
procon
(15,805 posts)I'm so sorry.
herding cats
(19,549 posts)I've been shedding many of those for her today myself. She was an amazing companion, and I can't believe I'm about to spend my first night in all these years without her in our bed.
tparrett62
(268 posts)Been there too many times myself; it's always the pits, but it's the price you have to pay for being a good cat parent. It's always easier to kick the can down the road, but when it's time, it's the kindest thing you can do. Try to have a good night...
herding cats
(19,549 posts)I'm just focusing on the fact she went gently. It was the right thing to do, but what's right is all too often not easy.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,280 posts)You'll miss her a lot and she'll leave a cat-shaped hole in your life and your heart. In time you might want to fill that hole with a shelter cat who needs a home - not a replacement, because she can't be replaced; but because giving another cat a good home would be a nice way of remembering her. I bet she'd like that.
herding cats
(19,549 posts)I said I'd never do this again this morning when we were heading to the vet, but I've had hours of wandering around looking at all her things and remembering her since then. Eventually, someday, I think I'll honor her by saving another cat. An adult again, like she was when she came into my life. They're too often overlooked, and Tink's proof they shouldn't be.
Angry Dragon
(36,693 posts)Metsie Casey
(208 posts)Been through this before. Love my cats.
50 Shades Of Blue
(9,777 posts)It's very hard to do what you had to do. I hope there is some comfort in knowing you gave her a good life to the very end.
Chipper Chat
(9,637 posts)A feral cat abandoned 2 kittens at my back door 17 years ago. The male died but the female lived on to become a wonderful pet which is unusual for a feral cat. I named her Rugrat because she was born in a rug out in a field and she looked like a rat when I found her. She developed pneumonia at age 15 and went downhill fast. She refused to eat or drink and got down to 5 lbs. The vet said he couldn't do anything for her and suggested she be put down. That was hard. The morning came and she purred as I petted her for the last time. I felt awful. I buried her in the back yard and still plant Impatiens on it in the summer. It took me 21 months before I even wanted a cat again. But I adopted not one but TWO tabby cats from the local shelter and they are a joy. Trust me - it works so you can look forward to a cat to replace Tink in due time.
DarthDem
(5,253 posts)So very sorry for your loss. Tink sounds like she was a beautiful friend.
shenmue
(38,503 posts)pansypoo53219
(20,908 posts)including the bathtub. he could not longer drink. it was time. need kittens. Turnip therapy.