The wife was in a bad mood earlier

[Kaleva]

We were sitting in the living room and I told her that I love her very much. She looked at me and told me to fuck myself.

That was earlier. Now she's in a good mood.

[lunasun]

1. At least it's over before bedtime!

[Laffy Kat]

2. Could be low blood sugar. It can make people temporarily, um, grumpy. nt

[Doreen]

3. Bipolar?

[Skittles]

4. maybe it's because you refer to her as THE wife

[The Velveteen Ocelot]

5. But isn't that better than referring to her as A wife?

[Kaleva]

6. You looking for an ass kicking!

Saying "My" wife suggests ownership on my part. I refer to the vehicle as "our car" or "the car" but not as "my car".

[Skittles]

7. maybe she doesn't like being compared to a car

[Kaleva]

9. That's why I don't say "my"

She isnt a possesion

[UTUSN]

8. Bwah-HAH!1 (love-very-much vs go-f-thyself - is what make me laugh)

[Sucha NastyWoman]

10. I am trying to figure out

Why you posted what you did. Do you feel she is unstable and you are looking for help or sympathy?

[Kaleva]

13. She isn't unstable nor am I looking for sympathy.

Why would you even think that? Do you not see the humor in the situation? Her reply was not what I had expected in response to my statement.

[True Dough]

11. She could have said

go Bannon yourself!

[catbyte]

12. Sounds like hormones. When I had hormones, I used to be really irrational like that. My poor

hubby would come in the house and ask what I'd like for dinner. Not what I'm making for dinner. Not what I'd like to make for dinner. Just what sounded good to me. I'd fly into a rage, yelling, "WHY DO I HAVE TO MAKE ALL THE FUCKING DECISIONS AROUND HERE?, RANT RANT RANT, RAVE RAVE RAVE." He cut me slack because he knew it was organic with me. Those last 2 weeks of the month were hell for him and me. He understood because I acted similar to him when he was having an insulin reaction, or low blood sugar. He's been a Type I diabetic since he was 4, so they were fairly common. He knew he couldn't control his hissy fits, and I really couldn't control mine. Everything on my end stopped when hormones weren't an issue for me anymore. He passed away in 2014 & I miss him every day.

Sorry if this was TMI, but you might want to investigate a physical reason for this. Good luck.

[Kaleva]

14. I think people are reading more into what I wrote

It not low sugar, hormones, bi-polar or anything like that. It's how we roll. She may be in bad mood over anything and make a snappy remark to me. It's her personality. I got used to this long time ago.

Very sorry to hear about your husband passing away. It sounds like you two were a great couple who understood and supperted each other. I can see why you miss him!

[dweller]

15. so, ask her

If she'd like to watch... as you gfy ?

[flor-de-jasmim]

16. "My" shows a personal relationship. Do you say "the mom", meaning yours?

For me, just "Wife was..." would be better, but perhaps it is all the same to your wife.

[retread]

17. Maybe she just recalls what usually comes after those words.

1. A confession to a major screw-up. or
2. You want something.