LGBT
Related: About this forumIs it just me, or is it creepy when straight couples publicly
slobber over each other - on the subway, the platform, the restaurant, in the park...?
If WE have to check ourselves, then fairness dictates that THEY should check themselves. Go ahead and make babies, but I want no part of it. TIA.
Am I wrong? Maybe I'm just too gay for my own good?
Warpy
(111,243 posts)There is a reason this phrase is pulled out when couples are entirely wrapped around each other in the throes of early passion. It's disgusting to most of us who aren't. We want to see people dry hump in public, we'll go to that kind of bar.
blkmusclmachine
(16,149 posts)closeupready
(29,503 posts)Let me see if I got this - you're out with your boyfriend/girlfriend, publicly dry humping, and the 25 strangers in your presence are supposed to ... what? Masturbate? Join you? Go 'awwww' like on Oprah?"
Just hate that kind of thoughtlessness and narcissism.
gwheezie
(3,580 posts)None of my gay friends talk about sex as much as some of these straight folks do.
Who raised them?
all american girl
(1,788 posts)but the all over each other is just plain strange....
nolabear
(41,959 posts)I'm in the "kissing is sweet category, and actual groping of the naughty bits by anyone isn't considerate of those of us who might be really uncomfortable.
But I suspect your tongue is at least in the general vicinity of your cheek, if not someone else's.
closeupready
(29,503 posts)just ... cheeky.
Cooperstown
(49 posts)Or maybe they will all be having sex with each other by then.
Your guess, my vote: everybody slobbers all over each other if they want to.
Making love is a good kind of cool.
troublesome_mind
(37 posts)I'm all for a healthy show of affection. Doesn't bother me one bit. Just bask in the love, Baby. Gay, straight, couples, multiples...I'm good with all of it.
Terra Alta
(5,158 posts)holding hands, hugging, a peck on the cheek.
But couples making out, slobbering over each other -- whether gay or straight -- I don't want to see that in public. Call me a prude but some things need to be private.
winter is coming
(11,785 posts)Joe Magarac
(297 posts)Where to draw the line?
Not sure exactly, but it's somewhere between holding hands and fully clothed whole body foreplay.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)I mean, ideally, a same-sex couple ought to be able to hold hands etc. just like an opposite-sex couple, but no one of any gender should be "circling the bases" in broad daylight before the eyes of others.
NCLefty
(3,678 posts)There is a line that can be crossed of course
mitchtv
(17,718 posts)We are much better off in that respect here in US than say, Argentina where lack of back seats other than Fiats forces parks into the options a couple can attempt,many more live with parents too, The benches are busy after dark.