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Adam Bell has arrived.The 18-year-old make-up artist, fashion designer and Instagram enthusiast made quite a splash by arriving in full drag to his prom last week.
The Powedersville, South Carolina student, who displays a variety of gender-fluid looks on his social media, arrived in full drag to prom, wearing a Victorias Secret corset-top and velvet skirt by House of CB.
As a fabulous accessory, he brought a boy as his date.
Bells peers seemed to approve: he won the title of Prom King with a whopping 49% of the vote. Unfortunately, parents of his fellow students didnt quite understand Bells ensemble.
The angry parents took to the schools Facebook page to voice their complaints, attacking the school and Bell for his gender-nonconforming attire.
Bell, for his part, insisted that the dress complied with the schools dress code.
Faculty at Powdersville High had to temporarily disable the schools Facebook page. The school then issued a statement in support of Bells Prom King win:
This weekend Powdersville High School hosted its annual junior senior prom. Consistent with the schools long standing tradition, the students nominated and elected a prom king and queen. This year the king and queen elected were Aston Irby and Adam Bell.
Even better, Bell claims that his fellow students continued to support him. The openly-gay student says he often wears make-up and dresses to school, which is why his fashion choice didnt shock his peers. He also received an outpouring of support on his own social media accounts.
More at:
https://www.queerty.com/parents-attack-prom-king-wearing-dress-peers-think-hes-fabulous-20180501
PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,839 posts)I will admit that I'm a bit uncomfortable with this, but I recognize that the problem is me, not him. My only excuse is that I'm old, 69, and I grew up in a world of very clear gender distinctions. I am NOT arguing or suggesting we return to that world. On the contrary, I need to adjust, and I hope I have done reasonably well at that.
I also want to say that I'm in happy awe of the students at his school for supporting him.
Back in the early 90's, when I paid a visit to the secular independent school I wound up sending my sons to, I was a bit astonished to see a male student in a dress. It was very clear the faculty were totally comfortable with that, which was nice.
safeinOhio
(32,658 posts)I'm your age and have adjusted to, I can't change others, only myself.
ryan_cats
(2,061 posts)That would take guts in California. In South Carolina, I cannot even imagine what it takes.
I am pretty sure there were a lot of males questioning their preferences at that prom.
Initech
(100,055 posts)But I definitely say if you got it, flaunt it!
Initech
(100,055 posts)LostOne4Ever
(9,288 posts)Gives one hope seeing the progress of the upcoming generations.
vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)Inside and out.