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Johnny2X2X

(18,968 posts)
Sun Sep 18, 2022, 12:57 PM Sep 2022

Heart broken for trans friend

People are so cruel. Our good friend Erica is an amazing trans woman who didn’t start living her life as a woman until her 50s. Erica is the most generous and talented person I’ve ever met, truly one of the most kind hearted people I’ve ever met. She’s also an amazingly talented artist.

Here in Grand Rapids MI, we have an event called Art Prize. It turns the downtown into one big art gallery. Erica is a literal genius painter and entered an oil painting into the competition. Her bio was the first time she’d publicly announced her self as a woman. So much courage.

Well she was at her venue yesterday and had an awful experience. The local news was supposed to interview her but decided to feature her assistant who helped with some props. It was obvious why they didn’t put her on TV. It was a story featuring her as an artist and the only shot they showed of her was from a distance.

And when she walked around downtown to view other entries she was met with so much bigotry. Not just stares and snickers, but people making rude comments every few minutes. What the hell is wrong with people? People are different, you learn in Kindergarten to respect everyone.

What Erica built up in her mind into a coming out party of sorts was ruined by bigotry and hatred. Today my wife and I are going to her venue to bring her flowers and support. She says she’ll never walk around downtown again but I’m going to try to get her to walk around with me even if I have to hold her hand. Literally in tears at the cruelty the world is showing this truly gentle and generous soul.

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Heart broken for trans friend (Original Post) Johnny2X2X Sep 2022 OP
So glad you & wife are supporting her! SheltieLover Sep 2022 #1
You are a very kind person. Please let Erica know that there are people who don't know her who LoisB Sep 2022 #2
I wish I could join you in supporting Erica at the venue today. Since I can't be ther MLAA Sep 2022 #3
She wrote to the news director Johnny2X2X Sep 2022 #4
Nice! ShazzieB Sep 2022 #6
Message auto-removed Name removed Sep 2022 #5
People suck vercetti2021 Sep 2022 #7
She won 2nd prize in the 2D category Johnny2X2X Sep 2022 #8
Start video at 33:00 Johnny2X2X Sep 2022 #9
Artists page Johnny2X2X Oct 2022 #10

LoisB

(7,173 posts)
2. You are a very kind person. Please let Erica know that there are people who don't know her who
Sun Sep 18, 2022, 01:24 PM
Sep 2022

wish her much success and a happy life free of idiots.

MLAA

(17,238 posts)
3. I wish I could join you in supporting Erica at the venue today. Since I can't be ther
Sun Sep 18, 2022, 01:56 PM
Sep 2022

Please give her these 💐💐💐💐💐 and these 💗💗💗💗💗. She is a zillion times better than the cruel, ignorant, assholes who don’t have a 1/millionth of her courage!

Johnny2X2X

(18,968 posts)
4. She wrote to the news director
Mon Sep 19, 2022, 01:59 PM
Sep 2022

They subsequently put out this great story on their website.

https://www.wzzm13.com/article/news/local/honoring-historical-women-through-women-at-artprize/69-af98bcf0-926c-4459-a953-6ab659a8205a

This is my dear friend Erica Kuhl. The oil painting "In Bello" is beyond a work of genius. She makes hundreds of sketches and does hundreds of hours of research before putting a painting like this together. There's symbolism in every detail from everything from pop culture to art history. The painting is even laid out using the golden ratio.

If you want to register and vote for her painting, it can help with exposure.

We went to support her at her site yesterday and it was great to see the fellow artists at that location supporting her too, one was wearing a "Trans Power" T Shirt. Took her out to lunch and ice cream afterwards.

Response to Johnny2X2X (Original post)

vercetti2021

(10,155 posts)
7. People suck
Wed Sep 21, 2022, 02:13 AM
Sep 2022

I've had the same experiences from people but mostly they get met with the middle finger from me. I'm so glad she has good friends like you and your wife to support her. Please show us some of her artwork! I'm dying to see it!

Johnny2X2X

(18,968 posts)
8. She won 2nd prize in the 2D category
Fri Sep 30, 2022, 08:51 PM
Sep 2022

Last edited Fri Sep 30, 2022, 11:16 PM - Edit history (1)

The jury prize. Means the art critics awarded it. $2500. Her piece is for sale for $25K, but it’s probably going to be bumped up to $75K after the weekend. We’re so proud. 500+ 2D entries, 2nd place.

https://mlive.newskeepsake.com/?image_id=617898&subscription_url=https://www.mlive.com/digitalsubscription/imagedownload&market=mlive

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