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Catherina

(35,568 posts)
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 12:49 AM Feb 2012

No One Will Protect You: The Suffolk County “Cross-Dressing” Ban

No One Will Protect You: The Suffolk County “Cross-Dressing” Ban

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Students in Suffolk County, VA may not be so lucky after next month. That school district will be taking a vote in March to determine whether they’ll be implementing a new dress code, one which bans clothing “not in keeping with a student’s gender” to the extent that it “causes a disruption and/or distracts others from the education process or poses a health or safety concern,” according to this article. To be clear, they don’t mean “safety concern” in the sense that the clothing is covered in spikes, or made of asbestos, and thus could be hazardous to the student wearing it or to passersby. They mean that, if a student gets beaten up for dressing weird, the clothing—not, say, the bully—is to blame.


I have so, so many concerns about this proposal, but let’s just get the obvious one out of the way first: This new dress code is horribly transphobic. A student who is biologically male but identifies as a girl would be risking punishment for wearing girl clothes, even though she is dressed in a manner “in keeping with her gender.” Trans students will therefore have to choose between conforming to a gendered manner of dress that doesn’t fit their self-image—essentially, going to school in a costume every day—or facing whatever consequences the schools deem appropriate for violating the dress code.

The fact that this new rule would almost certainly be enforced in a way that conflates sex with gender and reifies cissexism is the most immediately troubling thing about it, to be sure. But you know what, when you’re given a cornucopia of fuckery this abundant, why stop there? Let’s dig deeper!

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So this new dress code will punish trans kids, and specifically transfeminine kids, and in so doing will perpetuate a culture of sexism and cissexism, but if it keeps our children safe from the horrors of teen bullying, won’t it all be worth it? The proponents of the new dress code are trying to spin it as a move to protect queer and trans kids from being picked on by their peers, which sounds like a noble goal is really just so much victim-blaming with a slightly spiffier hairdo. Wait, let’s do this in pop quiz form:

Q: Whose job is it to protect children from bullying?

A. Teachers and administrators, by making it clear that bullying is never acceptable and will result in punishment.

B. Bullies, by showing self-control and choosing more positive ways of expressing themselves.

C. Victims, by not being so weird, gross, and/or freaky.


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Read the rest: http://tigerbeatdown.com/2012/02/27/no-one-will-protect-you-the-suffolk-county-cross-dressing-ban/#more-4463


Disgusted.
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No One Will Protect You: The Suffolk County “Cross-Dressing” Ban (Original Post) Catherina Feb 2012 OP
Thanks for posting. William769 Feb 2012 #1
I'm dumbfounded this is going on in 2012 Catherina Feb 2012 #3
Do girls get to wear pants/slacks?? Angry Dragon Feb 2012 #2
Knowing where the conservatives are headed Catherina Feb 2012 #4
If this passes, I suspect enlightenment Feb 2012 #5
I don't know. Each day brings new horrors Catherina Feb 2012 #6
Is this... what decade is this? 2012 or 1928? Initech Feb 2012 #7
You refer to the 1920's as though they were the Dark Ages -- not so starroute Feb 2012 #9
And the kids whose gender is "I dunno, kinda vague" wear what? saras Feb 2012 #8
Does this mean that girls have to wear skirts? Aerows Mar 2012 #10
what if some one's gender isn't visually obvious right off the bat? xchrom Mar 2012 #11

William769

(55,144 posts)
1. Thanks for posting.
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 12:56 AM
Feb 2012

Some crazy shit has been going on in Virginia this past year. I think they need to get their water imported.

Catherina

(35,568 posts)
4. Knowing where the conservatives are headed
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 01:03 AM
Feb 2012

They'll probably want all the girls in skirts and dresses after they score this victory.

For right now, it looks like pants/slacks are ok for girls

The school board has stated that no clothing will be specifically banned; rather, the dress code will be enforced only in situations where a student’s gender variance “forms a disruption of the education process.”

enlightenment

(8,830 posts)
5. If this passes, I suspect
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 01:18 AM
Feb 2012

that FtM kids who dress their identified gender (male clothing, as opposed to 'girls in jeans') and/or other gender specific 'traits' (cutting their hair in a masculine style; binding their breasts) will be told that their appearance 'forms a disruption of the education process'.

This is a terrible, backward idea. What the hell is going on with this nation?

Catherina

(35,568 posts)
6. I don't know. Each day brings new horrors
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 01:35 AM
Feb 2012

I asked myself the same question with this thread "Homeless mom sentenced to 5 years in prison for “stealing” son’s education"

I'm going to bed now and both these stories are so depressing, I'm afraid of dreaming about them. I'm astounded this is where we are now.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
10. Does this mean that girls have to wear skirts?
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 02:53 PM
Mar 2012

And that teachers of the feminine gender can no longer wear pants?

The right gets weirder every day. I love my mother, and she's a right winger, but she doesn't wear skirts, never has and never will. I think the right is TRYING to make women mad at them. You are a white straight Christian male. You are angry because you can't subjugate people anymore. We get that. It doesn't mean you lost rights, though, it just means that you are feeling the sting of your privilege being taken away.

xchrom

(108,903 posts)
11. what if some one's gender isn't visually obvious right off the bat?
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 04:17 PM
Mar 2012

strip searches?

i've known people who were not trans -- but seriously -- you couldn't tell just by looking if they were a boy or a girl

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