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mopinko

(70,003 posts)
Tue Apr 11, 2017, 07:55 PM Apr 2017

ehlers/danlo syndrome..

so, my medical mystery daughter is pretty sure this is the root of a lot of her problems. and she and i both have matching abnormal ana configurations that are not understood, but show an antibody against connective tissues.

she is trying to a arrange her second trip to the mayo clinic soon, tho i have been nagging the heck out of her to get a full genetic scan. she has something wrong w every system in her body. she saw a geneticist who DID NOT TEST HER (wtf? they dont want to do a gazillion dollar test?) reading this is seems he falls into the category of not knowing the less than full blown version.

she has many, many of the things mentioned in this article, including her absolutely amazing tenacity if tracking down all the bizarre things that happen in her body.
apparently she is not the only one.

We are the “frequent flyers” in the medical system, with all our myriad seemingly unrelated issues including mental health. Depression and anxiety are also rampant among us even if many won’t admit this. As Dr. Heidi Collins just quoted someone in her talk at the 2014 EDNF Learning Conference this year:

If you can’t connect the issues, think connective tissues! – author unknown

And ironically, I’m finding a lot of my fellow “zebras” (folks with EDS) are proving to be some of the most stubborn, hard-headed black-and-white thinking and pushy folks I’ve ever met! Here I thought just my family was this way all along, but no… we are those often smart, hard-charging, ambitious, perfectionist and narcissistic people who drive each other nuts! And how! So many of our “elders” (my parents, e.g.) will not admit to having a problem, only getting diagnosed by proxy to their more stricken child (someone like me) later, if ever. Toss in the misunderstanding about the incidence of it in the medical world and thinking it’s so rare when it’s really not, and it’s no wonder so few of us get diagnosed!



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ehlers/danlo syndrome.. (Original Post) mopinko Apr 2017 OP
I have a friend who has it, and it's pretty much useless for her to go to a doc. BlancheSplanchnik Apr 2017 #1
my daughter is getting a wheelchair. mopinko Apr 2017 #2
I am so sorry.... BlancheSplanchnik Apr 2017 #3
I am really sorry; I hope that her health issues can be managed LeftishBrit Apr 2017 #4
wow. good for her. mopinko Apr 2017 #5

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
1. I have a friend who has it, and it's pretty much useless for her to go to a doc.
Tue Apr 11, 2017, 09:45 PM
Apr 2017

She can't afford to go to Mayo.

Last I saw her, she's in a neck brace, leg braces, walks with a cane. She's only 50-ish. She has melt-downs on her FB page fairly frequently and wishes to suicide herself all the time.

She was so funny and smart when she was still working where I work, many years ago. It's not fair. Not fair at all.

mopinko

(70,003 posts)
2. my daughter is getting a wheelchair.
Wed Apr 12, 2017, 09:55 AM
Apr 2017

she is 23. she wont use it around the house, but she cannot walk for any length of time any more.

i cant believe it. i am 62, and still working hard. she is 23 and watching the future go down the drain.

LeftishBrit

(41,203 posts)
4. I am really sorry; I hope that her health issues can be managed
Thu Apr 13, 2017, 04:57 AM
Apr 2017

My MP has this condition and has given publicity to it (I dislike her politically, but this is something good that she has done!)

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-oxfordshire-33133119

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