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XanaDUer2

(14,116 posts)
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 11:39 AM Oct 29

Muscle relaxers disappeared

I know who took them wo my permission and now he's lying and gaslighting me that he didn't. I need a lockbox. I have to carry my Xanax around w me, even in the bathroom when i shower. Ever just hate someone's guts?

I don't have the energy for a fight n he started screaming

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XanaDUer2

(14,116 posts)
3. I can't
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 11:56 AM
Oct 29

I'm in the middle of 25k dental work and I'll end up begging on the dirty pavement downtown homeless. Now my orthotic just cme off my teeth. I can't stand my life anymore

marble falls

(62,280 posts)
5. They make a medication safes at fairly reasonable price. It won't keep him out because that's pretty difficult ...
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 11:58 AM
Oct 29

... but it'll show him you're paying attention and gives him no deniability when it's been broken into.

Here's one: https://www.healthline.com/health/pill-dispenser#9

Talk with your pharmacist about this: they will understand your need and offer some solutions.

Getting your prescriptions in weekly amounts is one thing that worked for a neighbor that had problems with abuse. Because of the DEA controlled nature of one of his medications, it became necessary for his family to get the dispensing safe.

XanaDUer2

(14,116 posts)
7. Ty very much
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 12:09 PM
Oct 29

I'm so tired. Its just a stab in the back. He was on opioids pills and was grinding and snorting them then got cut off bc i guess he finally raised a red flag to them. Now he's on pain patch.

Its the lying that enrages me. I had some, then there was just one. I said be honest if u need them just admit u took them just stop lying bc i didn't take them. Then he yelled.

I would leave this situation if i could he's 72 maybe itll end eventually ETA he's constantly begging me for Xanax

XanaDUer2

(14,116 posts)
9. I told him he's out if he touches me
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 12:15 PM
Oct 29

I try to ignore him he pays the bills I'm disabled... in just hoping things work out eventually. Its just such a betrayal and to gaslight me bc no one was in the house and i know there were at least 5 in there then just one today. I know he took them. It means hes rooting arnd my pills, prob waiting for me to forget and leave my xanax unattended

marble falls

(62,280 posts)
10. If he's being treated medically, this behavior is something you might want to make his physician aware of.
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 12:24 PM
Oct 29

XanaDUer2

(14,116 posts)
11. For yrs
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 12:33 PM
Oct 29

He got his opioids, took them and was fine. I actually liked when he had them bc he could move around and do things.

Then something happened and he went off the rails. I'm an ACOA and being in a small apt w someone high falling over etc triggering for me. For some reason they cut him off. I was desperate to call them and tell them hes miusing his opioids bad but hippa(?). Anyway he did enough to have them kick him off cold turkey. He went to another place and now its pain patches.

He very manipulative and thinks he's smarter than everyone. He's in mensa. He would do shit like snort a bunch, run out b4 the appmnt, then cancel and move it back so it would look like he ran out normally.

His pee was wrong. They counted pills. I told him they saw all the junkie games, but he nvr listens to anyone. So off pills he was cut. He was "going to sue" I told him if deposed I'm blabbing everything.

XanaDUer2

(14,116 posts)
13. I just ignore him
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 12:41 PM
Oct 29

Now he's drinking. He cannot be trusted. He was disappearing 4 hrs walking late at night i thought he was buying drugs. He been arrested twice for crack in the 90s. I told him don't call if your arrested. When he's manipulating, he goes into confused sick old man act.

He's 72 eats shit, smokes drinks etc

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