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I know who took them wo my permission and now he's lying and gaslighting me that he didn't. I need a lockbox. I have to carry my Xanax around w me, even in the bathroom when i shower. Ever just hate someone's guts?
I don't have the energy for a fight n he started screaming
Srkdqltr
(7,688 posts)I'm in the middle of 25k dental work and I'll end up begging on the dirty pavement downtown homeless. Now my orthotic just cme off my teeth. I can't stand my life anymore
LoisB
(8,759 posts)He is a junkie and sociopath. He does not care
marble falls
(62,280 posts)... but it'll show him you're paying attention and gives him no deniability when it's been broken into.
Here's one: https://www.healthline.com/health/pill-dispenser#9
Talk with your pharmacist about this: they will understand your need and offer some solutions.
Getting your prescriptions in weekly amounts is one thing that worked for a neighbor that had problems with abuse. Because of the DEA controlled nature of one of his medications, it became necessary for his family to get the dispensing safe.
XanaDUer2
(14,116 posts)I'm so tired. Its just a stab in the back. He was on opioids pills and was grinding and snorting them then got cut off bc i guess he finally raised a red flag to them. Now he's on pain patch.
Its the lying that enrages me. I had some, then there was just one. I said be honest if u need them just admit u took them just stop lying bc i didn't take them. Then he yelled.
I would leave this situation if i could he's 72 maybe itll end eventually ETA he's constantly begging me for Xanax
marble falls
(62,280 posts)XanaDUer2
(14,116 posts)I try to ignore him he pays the bills I'm disabled... in just hoping things work out eventually. Its just such a betrayal and to gaslight me bc no one was in the house and i know there were at least 5 in there then just one today. I know he took them. It means hes rooting arnd my pills, prob waiting for me to forget and leave my xanax unattended
marble falls
(62,280 posts)XanaDUer2
(14,116 posts)He got his opioids, took them and was fine. I actually liked when he had them bc he could move around and do things.
Then something happened and he went off the rails. I'm an ACOA and being in a small apt w someone high falling over etc triggering for me. For some reason they cut him off. I was desperate to call them and tell them hes miusing his opioids bad but hippa(?). Anyway he did enough to have them kick him off cold turkey. He went to another place and now its pain patches.
He very manipulative and thinks he's smarter than everyone. He's in mensa. He would do shit like snort a bunch, run out b4 the appmnt, then cancel and move it back so it would look like he ran out normally.
His pee was wrong. They counted pills. I told him they saw all the junkie games, but he nvr listens to anyone. So off pills he was cut. He was "going to sue" I told him if deposed I'm blabbing everything.
marble falls
(62,280 posts)XanaDUer2
(14,116 posts)Now he's drinking. He cannot be trusted. He was disappearing 4 hrs walking late at night i thought he was buying drugs. He been arrested twice for crack in the 90s. I told him don't call if your arrested. When he's manipulating, he goes into confused sick old man act.
He's 72 eats shit, smokes drinks etc
XanaDUer2
(14,116 posts)I'll be carrying it and hiding it from that piece of shit thief
XanaDUer2
(14,116 posts)Pestering me for Xanax