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Solly Mack

(90,758 posts)
Tue May 13, 2014, 09:01 PM May 2014

Tomorrow is the big day. (UPDATE)

Last edited Sat May 17, 2014, 06:36 PM - Edit history (1)

At the hotel right now. Already pre-admitted. I go to the surgical floor in the AM at 5:30 for a roll-in time of 7:30.

3 days in ICU then 2-3 days on the floor after that.

I'll know more after I become aware. I am going to be sedated the first day in ICU.

Thank you all!

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Tomorrow is the big day. (UPDATE) (Original Post) Solly Mack May 2014 OP
Prayers ascending for you my friend. hrmjustin May 2014 #1
Thanks! Solly Mack May 2014 #2
Do the best you can but your mind will be racing. hrmjustin May 2014 #5
You will be in my thoughts, my dear Solly Mack... CaliforniaPeggy May 2014 #3
Thank you CaliforniaPeggy Solly Mack May 2014 #6
Very best wishes everything goes well and you have an easy recovery. polly7 May 2014 #4
Thanks! Solly Mack May 2014 #7
Best wishes on a speedy recovery. sinkingfeeling May 2014 #8
Good luck to you, and may you come out of it as unscathed as possible. We Nay May 2014 #9
Prayers and positive vibes for you maddezmom May 2014 #10
Positive thoughts for a successful and quick recovery :) n/t slipslidingaway May 2014 #11
Thank you, Everyone! Solly Mack May 2014 #12
Thanks for sharing the great news you received and so happy you are home ... slipslidingaway May 2014 #13
Thanks! I'm hoping the news stays good. Solly Mack May 2014 #14
I'm hoping the same and ... slipslidingaway May 2014 #15
5/20/14: Yesterday all they did was remove my neck drain and Solly Mack May 2014 #16
So glad your surgery went well. Tracer May 2014 #17
Solly Mack, I am so happy to hear these updates! Ruby the Liberal May 2014 #18
Thanks, Ruby. Solly Mack May 2014 #19

Nay

(12,051 posts)
9. Good luck to you, and may you come out of it as unscathed as possible. We
Thu May 15, 2014, 01:19 PM
May 2014

are all rooting for you and wishing for the simplest resolution, and good news from your surgeon when you wake up. BTW, you won't remember shit the day or two after you wake up....

Solly Mack

(90,758 posts)
12. Thank you, Everyone!
Sat May 17, 2014, 06:36 PM
May 2014

I'm a home.

Got everything in my cheek with clear margins.

Tumor was smaller than anticipated.

Will get the results for the neck biopsy next week.

No major skin grafting and no vein resection.

I was hitting the milestones early (swallowing, taking meds by mouth, tolerating food, using the bathroom) so they let me come home a day early.

My neck incision was already itching - a very good sign.

My neck looks like something from a horror movie though.

Like I went through barbed wired was how my brother-in-law described It.

Thank you for all your well wishes and good thoughts!!

Meant a lot to me!!!!

slipslidingaway

(21,210 posts)
13. Thanks for sharing the great news you received and so happy you are home ...
Sun May 18, 2014, 11:22 PM
May 2014

earlier than expected.

May the good news continue!



Solly Mack

(90,758 posts)
14. Thanks! I'm hoping the news stays good.
Sun May 18, 2014, 11:34 PM
May 2014

I fear I'm going to get bad news (on the neck) since things went better than expected.

Is that weird or what? One thing went well..so something else will go wrong. Is how my mind is working right now.

The soft mechanical diet is bland but I couldn't eat anything else right now.

Mouth is still too tightly packed....and it hurts to eat.

Be ready for my swim suit soon. (laughing at myself)

Pain meds are a blessing.



slipslidingaway

(21,210 posts)
15. I'm hoping the same and ...
Sun May 18, 2014, 11:56 PM
May 2014

if you noticed I was bit reserved about any news yet to come ... guess I've been trained. That being said it sounds like you had wonderful results so far ... just take it one day at a time.

And a more conventional diet is not so bad!

Sending positive thoughts







Solly Mack

(90,758 posts)
16. 5/20/14: Yesterday all they did was remove my neck drain and
Tue May 20, 2014, 10:49 AM
May 2014

a patch inside my mouth to see the graft.

Wound healing well and graft looked "beautiful".

I go back on Thursday for the neck results.

So, we'll see.

Ruby the Liberal

(26,219 posts)
18. Solly Mack, I am so happy to hear these updates!
Wed May 21, 2014, 07:57 PM
May 2014

When you think you are OK, you aren't - that just means you need another week or two of R&R. Get PLENTY of rest and let your body recover from this. Rejoice in the milestones, but please, please don't push it. You need time to heal, more than you might realize.

Solly Mack

(90,758 posts)
19. Thanks, Ruby.
Wed May 21, 2014, 09:07 PM
May 2014

I've already been bitten in the ass by thinking I was doing better than I really was. I've learned that just because the doctors say I'm doing better than expected doesn't mean I can do everything I used to could do.

I've got a long way yet to go. It's been hard though. I hate being helpless.

Tomorrow I find out if I'll need radiation or not.





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