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Stolen from a reddit forum....What food does your mom make better than anybody who has ever existed in the history of the universe?
My mom makes Chicken in White Sauce over Rice and Chocolate Pudding Cake.
Over all my years, there was only one meal all 5 of us complained about, I did a google for the recipe, it is with great cheer I report I couldn't find it online, so it stays buried in the 60s
redstatebluegirl
(12,265 posts)Rorey
(8,445 posts)I wish I had asked her how she did it.
Chainfire
(17,467 posts)The recipe died with her.
no_hypocrisy
(46,020 posts)The Polack MSgt
(13,179 posts)And her Mom was even worse to be honest.
But Mom made a buttered potato soup that is still haunting me.
Can't for the life of me figure it out & neither can my wife who also loved it - and she is a fantastic cook.
But other than that soup the menu was always brownish meat (well done or more), mashed potatoes, white bread and overboiled vegetables.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,584 posts)My grandmother's Julekake was the best ever.
My great aunt's sugar cookies were the best ever.
I have never been able to duplicate these things even using the same recipes. My cooking in general tends to be the worst ever.
Demsrule86
(68,456 posts)but realized that it is impossible to write it all down...for example if a batter is to thin or to thick or maybe a little more of this spice after tasting so I have started taping, "Mom's cooking show" where they can see what it looks like and how I do it. My Mom's recipes were never quite right probably for the same reason, mine weren't. Now I have been told I cook like my Grandmother and her recipes come out exactly as she cooked them...my oldest Aunt asked me to send her a dark fruitcake she had been working on for years that Grandma made every year...somehow I cook as she did. And I look like her too.
Ocelot II
(115,584 posts)especially as to quantities. The dough is really sticky unless you use enough flour, but if you use too much the texture is wrong. It's a lot of trial and error. Some times it works better than others.
Blue_playwright
(1,568 posts)Faygo Kid
(21,477 posts)The lutefisk, not so much.
PJMcK
(21,995 posts)She would put the chops in a covered electric frying pan along with her marinade. I forget the temperature she used but it was relatively low because you want to really cook the meat till it's nearly falling off the bone. For the last 30 minutes or so, she'd put a thick slice of onion and a think slice of tomato on each chop.
She'd serve these with either mashed potatoes or sauerkraut but sometimes she'd make potato pancakes which were my favorite.
My mom was a terrific and adventurous cook and she had many fine recipes but this one was most memorable.
Cracklin Charlie
(12,904 posts)I could drink a gallon of her sweet tea.
Cicada
(4,533 posts)Also fried chicken. My dad was in the Army. In the fifties in a four apartment building one wife was from Germany, one from Japan, one Italian heritage from Boston, and my mom. All us kids in the building regularly got classics of each cuisine as the wives shared meals constantly. I loved the vegetables fried in a tempura batter, spaghetti and meatballs, dumplings, fried chicken with cornbread (not sweet!).
Cracklin Charlie
(12,904 posts)Thats cake. We pretty much had cornbread every night.
I would have loved growing up in your building.
blm
(113,008 posts)MANative
(4,112 posts)He made the most amazing New England Clam Chowder ever prepared in the entire universe. I have his recipe, made it with him many times, and I get close-ish, but it's never, ever as good as his was.
His prime rib was also legendary. Just about everything he cooked was amazing. Boy, do I miss being in the kitchen with him!
irisblue
(32,928 posts)I do not remember my father cooking anything. I do remember my father buying and heating Detroit Style Pizza and we all freaking loved that pizza
MANative
(4,112 posts)He made sure you were fed, right?!
bamagal62
(3,244 posts)Demsrule86
(68,456 posts)irisblue
(32,928 posts)Where NYC is thin crust and Chicago is deep dish but round.
"Detroit-style pizza is a rectangular pizza with a thick crust that is crispy and chewy. It is traditionally topped with Wisconsin brick cheese, then tomato sauce layered on top of the other toppings (rather than directly onto the dough). This style of pizza is often baked in rectangular steel trays designed for use as automotive drip pans or to hold small industrial parts in factories. The style was developed during the mid-twentieth century in Detroit before spreading to other parts of the United States in the 2010s. The dish is one of Detroit's iconic local foods."
Ferrets are Cool
(21,102 posts)My grandmother was a great cook, but my grandfather was the King of the Kitchen. He was famous for his cornbread (it was like eating cake), his homemade ice cream (man, I wish I had some of it), and his bbq was to die for. I will never eat bbq as good as his was.
Demsrule86
(68,456 posts)Arne
(2,001 posts)elleng
(130,727 posts)ploppy
(2,162 posts)Loved it when he made them. He also baked bread every Saturday morning.
elleng
(130,727 posts)Dad also made French Toast, didn't bake bread but wanted FRESH rolls regularly, so regular visits to the bakery department @ grocery store happened. (Grandpa, whom I never met, ran a deli in NYC, family lived above it, so lots of food 'habits' developed.)
Demsrule86
(68,456 posts)afterward!
Dad also made French Toast, but NOT donuts!
alwaysinasnit
(5,059 posts)griddle.
blm
(113,008 posts)hydrolastic
(486 posts)Lots of things actually but one of the ones i remember. Big 1" cubes, carrots and potatoes red grease floating on top. I loved it.
FM123
(10,053 posts)As a kid, I loved her fried chicken the best!
DURHAM D
(32,605 posts)jftr - She was not Volga German (also called Russian-German) but she learned to make them from her best friend who was.
irisblue
(32,928 posts)From wiki& there is a lot more there...
Bierock is a yeast dough pastry pocket sandwich with savory filling,[1] originating in Eastern Europe, possibly in Russia. The dish is common among the Volga German community in the United States and Argentina.
Bierock is filled with cooked and seasoned ground beef, shredded cabbage[1] and onions, then oven baked until the dough is golden brown. Some variants include grated carrots.
DURHAM D
(32,605 posts)it calls for ground beef. Not ours - sausage only.
El Supremo
(20,365 posts)She's been gone for over 12 years but she gave me all her recipes and I have been making her potato salad several times a year. It has red potatoes, onions, celery, celery seed, hard boiled eggs, black olives and Hellman's mayonnaise.
irisblue
(32,928 posts)Unless I make my own again.
zeusdogmom
(987 posts)Everything else was mediocre or worse. Generally the latter - she was not a happy camper in the kitchen
NotASurfer
(2,146 posts)Except lemon merengue pie. That was grandma's bailiwick
Dad...I only remember getting food poisoning a couple times when he was in charge, could've been worse I guess
iamateacher
(1,089 posts)I believe I sent you the recipe, but I found a better one since then.
My Mother had high cholesterol in her family, a lot of heart issues. She made me conscious of these issues and I have been a vegetarian for 45 years. Better than a recipe.
OregonBlue
(7,754 posts)Apple, rhubarb, lemon merengue, coconut cream, pineapple cream, pecan, raisin cream, fresh strawberry, peach, apricot...she was of course southern but also Czech so great pastries too.
She had 3 daughters and we have been on diets our whole lives.
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My grandmother was Czechoslovakian. Best pies, homemade noodles, and her Sunday soup.
bamagal62
(3,244 posts)OregonBlue
(7,754 posts)bamagal62
(3,244 posts)He loved kolaches!
OregonBlue
(7,754 posts)My mom made poppy seed, apricot and plum every holiday. All were delicious.
bamagal62
(3,244 posts)Were those also called Kolache? Or, do they have a different name? I also miss the sopsky salad! Yum.
Ferrets are Cool
(21,102 posts)made with freshly cracked coconut. It was fabulous.
blm
(113,008 posts)But when you taste a great one....holy cow!
bamagal62
(3,244 posts)Best coconut cake. Its always been my favorite. But, sadly no one comes close. It actually was her maids recipe. She worked back when most women didnt. So, she had a housekeeper for years before she retired. (And, were talking full time work in the 20s-60s.)
Ferrets are Cool
(21,102 posts)I'm sure there was more to it that just that, but it's the part I remember.
LakeArenal
(28,802 posts)And a great homemaker. She could get spots out of anything and used to iron towels and underwear.
blm
(113,008 posts)who tasted it. It was my Slovak grandmothers recipe.
jtb653
(45 posts)She's still with us but in no shape to cook.
bamagal62
(3,244 posts)Mac and cheese, and caramel cake. Oh, and gumbo.
I really could list a million things.
The Blue Flower
(5,433 posts)She passed in 1975, sadly. I'll never forget how she had four little crepe pans going on the stove at once, and this was long before teflon. She filled them with farmer's cheese mixed with egg and a little sugar, then fried them in butter.
JustAnotherGen
(31,780 posts)My mom's is the best.
My dad made the best ribs with homemade barbecue sauce and collards.
Demsrule86
(68,456 posts)beef soup; she used a tomato based broths,loads of vegetables and bone in round steak. It had both Potatoes and Macaroni in it. If I use past these days I add it to portions of the soup so it doesn't absorb all the liquid.
My Dad made beef tips. He would broil pieces of a sirloin tip roast he had cut up under the broiler. He taught me to cut the meat against the grain so as to make it very tender. It was really good. On my birthday, my Mother made me a homemade devils food chocolate cake every year.
Freddie
(9,256 posts)Had both cream cheese and cottage cheese in it. She got the recipe from the Philly Inquirer in the 60s. I have the recipe and made it a couple times but it wasnt quite the same. I think cottage cheese may be different now. Ill try again.
Luciferous
(6,078 posts)Retrograde
(10,128 posts)but she made great pancakes. Her secret method, which I've never heard of anyone else using, was to wrap a handful of salt in an old towel and wipe it on a very hot griddle. No butter or grease. I have not been able to make this work.
My grandmother, OTOH, was generally a good cook but could not make half-way decent pancakes.
Wawannabe
(5,631 posts)She even tried to market it. Didnt go well but that cake was addicting!
Trailrider1951
(3,413 posts)She would take a large bowl of self-rising flour and add a couple of huge dollops of bacon grease. Then she would take her fingers and work that fat into the flour. When she got the texture she wanted, she would pour in some milk or buttermilk, whatever she had on hand. Then she would work that into the mix, adding more flour if necessary. She would then shape the biscuits by hand and put them into a greased cast iron skillet and bake them. She never measured the ingredients, and the biscuits always turned out light and fluffy and would melt in your mouth. My biscuits? HA! No matter what recipe I used, they always turned out to be hard, crunchy rancid little hockey pucks.
Lars39
(26,106 posts)Its truly a dying art. My grandmother would make tea cakes by adding sugar to that method.
PennyK
(2,301 posts)They were made from clams he gathered himself. He would cut away all the tough parts before chopping. Packed the mixture into big shells and topped each with a piece of bacon before baking. They were made for parties and I would wait to consume the leftovers.
I do have the recipe, and tried it once with store-bought clams, but the results were not very good -- I need to try again, now that I have a nearby source for fresh clams.
He also made clam chowder and clam fritters, but the baked clams were sheer ambrosia.
mitch96
(13,870 posts)roll the cabbage rolls together in the kitchen... good times. Problem is we would eat'em all up quick. It was nothing for my Pop's and I to eat 4 or 5 at a sitting. When my old man was home from a trip, the pot of stuffed cabbage sat on the back burner of the stove and you could just help your self when hungry.
Mom was Slovak/Hungarian/Ukrainian (long story) and we called them Holupkie. Some call them Glumpkie. Other names??
First time I saw cabbage rolls in a restaurant I freaked out at the price!!
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OregonBlue
(7,754 posts)yellowdogintexas
(22,222 posts)Pie crust! She made wonderful pie and cobbler. Her cobbler was the two crust variety, with lots of crust in the corners of the pan.
Welsh Rarebit (pronounced 'rabbit' in our house) Extra sharp cheddar cheese, made into a thick sauce. We ate it on crackers with onion and pickles on top.
Lemon Pudding Cake: one of those things where the cake rises to the top and leaves a nice sauce underneath. She always made it in a rectangular 2 quart dish; I made it in a deep souffle dish because I did not have any other 2 quart baking dishes; I think it may be 3 quarts ..anyway if you bake it in the deeper dish,it comes out as a souffle. However you make it, everybody loves it and in our house it is known as 'the lemon thing'.
Cornbread. self rising white cornmeal with egg and buttermilk. No sugar. Delicious. Baked in a hot iron skillet which gave it a nice crusty bottom
trof
(54,256 posts)This was back in the 40s and early 50s.
My single (divorced) mom and I lived with my maternal grandparents from my age 4 till about 14.
Grandpa made most Sunday breakfasts and taught me how as well.
First he fry patty sausage.
Ziegler's "Seasoned to please". I'll never forget that.
Then he'd make "basted" sunny-side up eggs in the sausage grease.
He called them "sop eggs" because you sop up the yolks with toast.
The whites were always completely done, not runny.
The yolks had a thin opaque film.
The eggs had bit of sausage fond on them.
Ambrosia!
Sometime granny would bake biscuits.
An extra special treat.
inanna
(3,547 posts)Makes a killer Creamed Shrimp on Toast.
And an awesome Clam Chowder, but the stuff is a heart attack in a bowl...he he
Kali
(55,003 posts)my mom did things like spreading butter on toast perfectly - generously and even, and all the way to all edges. always setting the table, drawing little pictures on lunch bags. making a salad with evenly torn lettuce pieces, never needed to cut or slap salad dressing on your chin from a huge lettuce leaf. trimming meat so there was little to no gristle. she loved to entertain and parties were the best! she would lay out a beautiful buffet and everybody loved parties at our house.
dem in texas
(2,673 posts)When I was young, my mother cooked for 9 people on a very limited budget. On Saturdays she'd make vegetable beef stew made with beef neck bones, tomatoes, onions, carrot, potatoes and lots of bay leaves. She'd bake a big iron skillet of buttermilk cornbread to go with the stew. We'd eat every bit, no left overs.
She loved to make cakes and when one of us had a birthday, we got to pick out the cake. I always wanted chocolate fudge cake with chocolate marshmallow icing. Oh, how i loved that cake!
Laura PourMeADrink
(42,770 posts)I miss that. Maybe we have too many options, too many ingredient choices, too many recipes? Consistency makes you fall in love.