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Tien1985

(920 posts)
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 10:39 AM Feb 2014

Lost my best friend

Last edited Sat Mar 1, 2014, 10:06 PM - Edit history (1)

My springer spaniel mix, Figaro, had to be put down last night. He had kidney stones that would have required an operation, and at 15 years old, the vet didn't think he would do well with surgery.

He was a beautiful boy, and the sweetest and most loyal dog I've ever owned. He loved everyone, but he always preferred to be with me. Whether it was climbing trees when I was a kid (he somehow managed to follow me up) or to yesterday morning as he lay at my feet after work. I got him for my 15th birthday when my mom's boss had been planning on sending him to a kill shelter. She lead him in by a rope, with a dirty, matted coat, "Happy Birthday, give him a bath."

When the vet came in to put him down, I was on the floor and Fig was laying in my lap like we always do. I am so grateful that the vet let him stay where he was, and he could pass calmly while I held him.

My younger dog, Panger (a pittie), cried and howled most of the time we were gone, and he has stayed close since I've gotten home.

Go in peace, go in love.

UPDATE:

I just wanted to thank everyone who wrote something kind in this thread. I'm missing Figaro a lot and it helps to see how many other people understand and have furry family members who mean as much as to them as mine do to me.

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Lost my best friend (Original Post) Tien1985 Feb 2014 OP
sorry to hear that. hobbit709 Feb 2014 #1
Sounds like you have some wonderful memories with Figaro, and he had a happy life with you. liberalla Feb 2014 #2
I'm so sorry for alsame Feb 2014 #3
The only thing near as wonderful as a dog like yours... Wilms Feb 2014 #4
Very sorry shenmue Feb 2014 #5
So sorry for your loss LiberalEsto Feb 2014 #6
So sorry for your loss. Granny M Feb 2014 #7
I'm so sorry for the loss of your long-time companion. It's always hard. sinkingfeeling Feb 2014 #8
My sympathy to you. I know what it is like to loose a best furry friend. Paper Roses Feb 2014 #9
I'm so sorry :( polly7 Feb 2014 #10
Our thoughts are with you... n/t jtuck004 Feb 2014 #11
So sorry... Phentex Feb 2014 #12
I am so sorry.... CherokeeDem Feb 2014 #13
. warrior1 Feb 2014 #14
Peace be with you, Tien1985 Blue Owl Feb 2014 #15
I am so sorry. hamsterjill Feb 2014 #16
I am so sorry that you lost Figaro. Curmudgeoness Feb 2014 #17
That's so nice thr vet came quickly as kidney stones are very painful. Auntie Bush Feb 2014 #18
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. phylny Feb 2014 #19
I'm sorry for your loss. LisaLynne Mar 2014 #20
Losing your KC Mar 2014 #21
I'm so very sorry for your loss TorchTheWitch Mar 2014 #22
rest easy, sweet boy fizzgig Mar 2014 #23

liberalla

(9,224 posts)
2. Sounds like you have some wonderful memories with Figaro, and he had a happy life with you.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 10:57 AM
Feb 2014

We are so lucky when a pet "chooses" us, too.

I'm very sorry for your loss.

alsame

(7,784 posts)
3. I'm so sorry for
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 11:04 AM
Feb 2014

your loss.

I've been there, I know the pain you are feeling. I'm sending you thoughts of healing and comfort

RIP over the Rainbow Bridge, Figaro. You were a very good boy

 

Wilms

(26,795 posts)
4. The only thing near as wonderful as a dog like yours...
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 11:28 AM
Feb 2014

...is a guardian like you.

Grieve well. Peace will come. Love never left.

Granny M

(1,395 posts)
7. So sorry for your loss.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 12:12 PM
Feb 2014

Figaro sounds like a wonderful friend. I hope you will find comfort in your memories of him, and the knowledge that you gave him a wonderful life, and a peaceful passing. Blessings.

Paper Roses

(7,471 posts)
9. My sympathy to you. I know what it is like to loose a best furry friend.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:21 PM
Feb 2014

You will never get over it or forget the fun and companionship you had . Be consoled that you gave him the best you could.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
10. I'm so sorry :(
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 01:23 PM
Feb 2014

It really is a kick in the heart and the loss is almost unimaginable. I'm so glad you were able to comfort one another at the end.

CherokeeDem

(3,709 posts)
13. I am so sorry....
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 05:36 PM
Feb 2014

It is so difficult to lose our wonderful furry friends. I know you and Panger and all that loved him will miss Fig very much but hope you all find peace in your wonderful memories of him.

Peach to Fig and those who loved him....

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
17. I am so sorry that you lost Figaro.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 08:51 PM
Feb 2014

I know how much it sucks. Your tribute is touching. He probably would not have done well with a surgery, and I am sure that you are aware of that as well.

I love how you got him.....that story made me smile.

And I love how you let him go.....in your lap with your arms around him.

Rest in peace, Figaro.

Auntie Bush

(17,528 posts)
18. That's so nice thr vet came quickly as kidney stones are very painful.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 11:04 PM
Feb 2014

I'm so sorry Tien1985. It's such an awful thing to have to do but glad you made the decision quickly. May he RIP.

phylny

(8,368 posts)
19. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.
Fri Feb 28, 2014, 11:22 PM
Feb 2014

How wonderful you were able to be with him. You gave him such a wonderful life, and were true to him to the end.

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