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MissMillie

(38,550 posts)
Thu Jan 27, 2022, 10:02 AM Jan 2022

Our sweet Happy passed early this morning

We could tell he wasn't feeling well. It's tough to get in to see the vet since the pandemic started. We managed to get him an appointment for today, but he didn't make it.

The emergency vet is more than an hour away and our vehicle is unreliable--we just couldn't get him there.

I held him through the night until he passed shortly after 4 a.m.

Here he is a few months ago, up on his perch that Al made for him.




He was a good boy. I know We're not supposed to have favorites with the "kids," but he was my favorite. He had a way of enjoying our attention without being overly needy. He brought us much joy.

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Our sweet Happy passed early this morning (Original Post) MissMillie Jan 2022 OP
(((MissMillie))) 2naSalit Jan 2022 #1
I am so sorry. Irish_Dem Jan 2022 #2
I'm very sorry for your loss. sinkingfeeling Jan 2022 #3
a better picture MissMillie Jan 2022 #4
+1 Auggie Jan 2022 #16
Beautiful orangecrush Jan 2022 #19
I am pretty sure that cats can levitate. I once found one of mine on top of niyad Jan 2022 #29
I'm sorry, Miss Millie. peacefreak2.0 Jan 2022 #5
Sorry to hear that. It's never easy. Midnight Writer Jan 2022 #6
I am so sorry. LoisB Jan 2022 #7
He died in the way he would have wanted to. MuseRider Jan 2022 #8
I am so sorry for your loss irisblue Jan 2022 #9
RIP Happy nt XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #10
So very sorry for your loss. FalloutShelter Jan 2022 #11
So sorry! RIP, Happy. Ocelot II Jan 2022 #12
I'm so sorry for your loss. brer cat Jan 2022 #13
So sorry for your loss zeusdogmom Jan 2022 #14
I am so sorry MissMillie. bronxiteforever Jan 2022 #15
So sorry for your loss! Klondike Kat Jan 2022 #17
Condolences orangecrush Jan 2022 #18
Sending you love MLAA Jan 2022 #20
Condolences Miss Millie gademocrat7 Jan 2022 #21
I'm so sorry onecaliberal Jan 2022 #22
I'm so sorry cate94 Jan 2022 #23
Got Misty eyes. So sorry. Happy will live in you hearts forever. Fla Dem Jan 2022 #24
I'm sorry for your loss wendyb-NC Jan 2022 #25
I know how you are feeling. Kali Jan 2022 #26
I'm so sorry... CaptainTruth Jan 2022 #27
Lady Bast, please take Your little Happy gently home in Your loving arms, and send peace niyad Jan 2022 #28
I'm sorry to hear that FoxNewsSucks Jan 2022 #30
Condolences MissMillie sarge43 Jan 2022 #31
I wasn't with any of our beautiful cats when each one died --except one. As I held him, one second housecat Jan 2022 #32
I also had a beloved cat die in my arms. BobTheSubgenius Jan 2022 #33
He looks just like my Jiffy, who was also a best cat ever... and I still miss him! Karadeniz Jan 2022 #34
So sorry, MissMillie. He is so beautiful. I hope you find comfort in your memories. ❤ littlemissmartypants Jan 2022 #35
I am so sorry for your loss LetMyPeopleVote Jan 2022 #36
so sorry Miss Millie Skittles Jan 2022 #37
That's a really nice photo of your Happy. Pets are so much more than someone to pet. George McGovern Jan 2022 #38

niyad

(113,259 posts)
29. I am pretty sure that cats can levitate. I once found one of mine on top of
Thu Jan 27, 2022, 12:23 PM
Jan 2022

a bedroom door, with nothing from which to launch.

MuseRider

(34,105 posts)
8. He died in the way he would have wanted to.
Thu Jan 27, 2022, 10:48 AM
Jan 2022

Being held by you was probably all he wanted as he slipped away.

Tears come for me with every read of these stories, it is so hard.

Take it easy and cry it out. I am so sorry he is gone. (((HUGS)))

zeusdogmom

(990 posts)
14. So sorry for your loss
Thu Jan 27, 2022, 11:24 AM
Jan 2022

Our sweet pets fill out lives with so much joy. It is hard when that joy leaves us. Peace to you and your family

wendyb-NC

(3,322 posts)
25. I'm sorry for your loss
Thu Jan 27, 2022, 12:13 PM
Jan 2022

I can tell how sweet and precious he is. My heart breaks for you and your family at Happys passing.

niyad

(113,259 posts)
28. Lady Bast, please take Your little Happy gently home in Your loving arms, and send peace
Thu Jan 27, 2022, 12:20 PM
Jan 2022

and comfort to his grieving loved ones.

I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious Happy.

housecat

(3,121 posts)
32. I wasn't with any of our beautiful cats when each one died --except one. As I held him, one second
Thu Jan 27, 2022, 12:55 PM
Jan 2022

he was alive, and then, in an instant, I felt -- I saw -- the life leave his body. It was the first direct experience I had that made me aware of my own mortality. And I realized that the body is just a vessel for whatever it is that we call life. He was at peace, and I was in enormous pain.

BobTheSubgenius

(11,563 posts)
33. I also had a beloved cat die in my arms.
Thu Jan 27, 2022, 01:25 PM
Jan 2022

You never forget, but the memories of the vast number of good moments eventually erode it.

Skittles

(153,150 posts)
37. so sorry Miss Millie
Thu Jan 27, 2022, 09:35 PM
Jan 2022

and it is OK to have a "favorite" - as with kids, we love them all the same but we LIKE them by varying degrees

George McGovern

(5,420 posts)
38. That's a really nice photo of your Happy. Pets are so much more than someone to pet.
Fri Jan 28, 2022, 08:36 AM
Jan 2022

Losing a four-legged family member is one of the worst things in the world. I share your sadness.

George

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