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IronGate

(2,186 posts)
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 12:20 PM Aug 2014

Eating out and open carry.

Xposted from the GCRA group.

My husband and I were at our favorite steak house the other night for dinner. We went after a movie so it was a late dinner and the steakhouse was not busy. We sat in our favorite section with our favorite waiter. We ordered dinner, got our glasses of wine and then noticed a very intoxicated man at the bar. He had a large gun in a holster at his hip. He kept patting it like a security blanket. The waiter told us it was a Glock (sp).

He got very loud and seemed very agitated. I became more and more uncomfortable. Finally I told my husband I couldn't sit there any longer. We left our waiter 20 dollars, left enough for our meal which had not yet arrived and left. The owner stopped us at the door and asked what was wrong, we told him. He told us there was nothing he could do that would not make the situation worse. He said he if got any louder he would call the police to deal with him. My husband told him we would not be back.

I'm sure our business doesn't mean much, this guy was very well dressed and identified himself as working for a large company that pretty much owns OKC. It does annoy me that at some point we will be staying home, locked inside afraid to go out.

I really don't get it. Was there more we could have done? The law here says they can open carry.


Several things wrong here.

We ordered dinner, got our glasses of wine and then noticed a very intoxicated man at the bar. He had a large gun in a holster at his hip. He kept patting it like a security blanket. The waiter told us it was a Glock


1. No bartender is going to serve an intoxicated patron, especially one with a gun on their side, hell, no bartender is going to serve a customer with a gun on their side period, it's against the law and no owner is going to risk losing their license and possibly being sued.

He got very loud and seemed very agitated.


2. If he allegedly got loud and agitated, any manager would've called the police and had this person arrested.

The owner stopped us at the door and asked what was wrong, we told him. He told us there was nothing he could do that would not make the situation worse


3. That's an out and out lie, any owner of a private business knows damn well that they can ban firearms in their establishment and can have the violator removed.

I really don't get it. Was there more we could have done? The law here says they can open carry.


4. OKC law says that open carry is legal in bars, but drinking while carrying is illegal and any private business can ban the carrying of firearms on their property.


Sorry, but I'm going to have to call this story bullshit, it doesn't pass the smell test.
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Eating out and open carry. (Original Post) IronGate Aug 2014 OP
I would have called this out IN the forum it was posted in shedevil69taz Aug 2014 #1
I would've also, IronGate Aug 2014 #2
I agree when you are blocked from commenting Duckhunter935 Aug 2014 #12
And I was banned for the comment he agreed to, a"broad brush insult" oneshooter Aug 2014 #29
yep Duckhunter935 Aug 2014 #30
Just one cmment.. pangaia Aug 2014 #3
Big time illegal. nt. IronGate Aug 2014 #4
But, but, but... pangaia Aug 2014 #5
Because most bars serve food also and some people are designated drivers. IronGate Aug 2014 #7
Really very simple. Many establishments have both Eleanors38 Aug 2014 #22
I think you are correct Duckhunter935 Aug 2014 #26
I'm waiting for one of their regulars to come here and dispute my thread. IronGate Aug 2014 #27
You might have to hold it for a long time Duckhunter935 Aug 2014 #28
Might as well ask why bars have parking lots... krispos42 Aug 2014 #32
In many states BigAlanMac Aug 2014 #33
More of a question than a comment really shedevil69taz Aug 2014 #6
As far as the serving part. I've been in many bars where they routinely overserve. Especially brewens Aug 2014 #8
Don't give me this crap. IronGate Aug 2014 #9
Right.... ForgoTheConsequence Aug 2014 #13
Big difference. IronGate Aug 2014 #14
It's not always fake ids. ForgoTheConsequence Aug 2014 #16
So I'm guessing that you believe this story? nt. IronGate Aug 2014 #19
I don't know if it's true or not. ForgoTheConsequence Aug 2014 #20
Fair enough. nt IronGate Aug 2014 #21
I would hope this story isn't actually true, SheilaT Aug 2014 #10
You are totally wrong. IronGate Aug 2014 #11
I am glad to know I'm wrong. SheilaT Aug 2014 #15
I'm opposed to open carry also, IronGate Aug 2014 #18
Do not care for open carry either Duckhunter935 Aug 2014 #23
Agreed. nt IronGate Aug 2014 #24
please post a link where Duckhunter935 Aug 2014 #17
That's about par for the course for antigun commentary these days: friendly_iconoclast Aug 2014 #25
I see CGRA is working very hard to create its own reality. krispos42 Aug 2014 #31
Drinking and carrying, illegal in most if not all states. ileus Aug 2014 #34
I saw this story over in the protected group. Hangingon Aug 2014 #35
There's no doubt in my mind the story is made up bullshit. IronGate Aug 2014 #36
How do you know that the bartender and owner of the restaurant are not gun enthusiasts and AlinPA Aug 2014 #37
Not buying it. IronGate Aug 2014 #38
It's probably not a true story, but some of the bartenders/owners are not all angels who follow AlinPA Aug 2014 #39
I can see that maybe happening with serving a slightly inebriated patron, IronGate Aug 2014 #40
I put "look at what a hero I am" stories like this in the same category ... DonP Aug 2014 #41
Is this the same one who would use a can of beans or a bike tyre IronGate Aug 2014 #42
The very same. N/T beevul Aug 2014 #43
Would it count blueridge3210 Aug 2014 #44

shedevil69taz

(512 posts)
1. I would have called this out IN the forum it was posted in
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 12:22 PM
Aug 2014

But sadly (or not so sadly depending on your outlook) I have been banned there for some time for not being a parrot in their echo chamber

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
12. I agree when you are blocked from commenting
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 12:57 PM
Aug 2014

then the ones in that group make fun of no comments from gun owners. I would like to know exactly what restaurant/bar or as I beleive more probable this is a made up bullshit story.

I was blocked for agreeing with another poster.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1262&pid=1458

oneshooter

(8,614 posts)
29. And I was banned for the comment he agreed to, a"broad brush insult"
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 03:23 PM
Aug 2014
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1262&pid=1379


"Despite all of this to many here I am a dirty, scum sucking future murderer with dreams of shooting small children and cats."
 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
30. yep
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 03:45 PM
Aug 2014

It was my pleasure to agree with you on that as it is the truth and they seem not to be able to handle the truth.

All you have to do is read some post from the anti RKBA side to see it.

two got so worked up the other day they went on vacation for a time.

pangaia

(24,324 posts)
3. Just one cmment..
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 12:29 PM
Aug 2014
"4. OKC law says that open carry is legal in bars, but drinking while carrying is illegal .........."


What kind of freakin' joke is that?

Is carrying while drinking also illegal?

pangaia

(24,324 posts)
5. But, but, but...
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 12:32 PM
Aug 2014

If both are illegal and bars are for... DRINKING.. why are people with guns allowed in a bar.

Even Wyatt Earp know that didn't work out so well..



 

IronGate

(2,186 posts)
7. Because most bars serve food also and some people are designated drivers.
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 12:38 PM
Aug 2014

Regardless, this story sounds like a made up story and I don't believe it for one second.

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
22. Really very simple. Many establishments have both
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 01:45 PM
Aug 2014

food and alcoholic beverages. In a given week, more days than not I go into such places and DON'T drink. Anyone with a license to carry can't be expected to know if a place serves alcohol most of the time (bar). Most restaurants do, but less than 50% of sales (restaurant); hence, the law against drinking while carrying in ANY estsblishment with alcohol. Further, a gun left in a vehicle, even when the vehicle is locked, is less secure than when the owner is in charge of it.

This story in Bansalot is fishy if for no other reason than the restaurant would be in BIG trouble with OK's liquor control board. But they can bounce it around there al-l-l-l day & not have it challenged. Maybe that is why it us not posted here?

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
26. I think you are correct
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 03:01 PM
Aug 2014
This story in Bansalot is fishy if for no other reason than the restaurant would be in BIG trouble with OK's liquor control board. But they can bounce it around there al-l-l-l day & not have it challenged. Maybe that is why it us not posted here?

Works well in the echo chamber but not so well when facts are presented.
 

IronGate

(2,186 posts)
27. I'm waiting for one of their regulars to come here and dispute my thread.
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 03:05 PM
Aug 2014

But I won't hold my breath waiting.

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
28. You might have to hold it for a long time
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 03:10 PM
Aug 2014

At least they are allowed to post responses over in this group, we do not require a safe haven that blocks any opposing viewpoints. I am curious on whet they will post when they do respond to your post.

krispos42

(49,445 posts)
32. Might as well ask why bars have parking lots...
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 04:25 PM
Aug 2014

...because, after all, drinking and driving is also illegal, so why should any bar have parking?

 

BigAlanMac

(59 posts)
33. In many states
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 04:47 PM
Aug 2014

Ohio being one, an establishment has to be a restaurant before it can get a liquor license to sell by the drink.
All places that are "bars" in Ohio serve food and many, if not most, customers are not there to drink.

On top of that, have you ever heard of the term "designated driver"?

Also, in some states, Pennsylvania being one, it is legal to drink while armed as long as your BAC is below the specified limit.

The guy in the story probably wouldn't have passed a breathalyzer test.

brewens

(13,531 posts)
8. As far as the serving part. I've been in many bars where they routinely overserve. Especially
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 12:40 PM
Aug 2014

regulars. Your point that no bartender would do that is stretching things a bit. Our local Eagles Lodge thrives on overserving and many times they know the drunks will be driving. It comes up from time to time, the bartenders get a talkin' to, then before you know it go back to what gets them tips.

My buddies and I tend to get louder, the drunker we get. I've never been cut off but a few buddies have. The bar manager sure as shit would never call the cops!

Why would the owner be lying at the door? I take that as his saying he didn't want to get into it with the guy right there and maybe provoke an incident. He may not have been talking about a policy change at all, just what might avoid trouble right then.

 

IronGate

(2,186 posts)
9. Don't give me this crap.
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 12:42 PM
Aug 2014

Any patron sitting at a bar with a gun on their side isn't going to get served alcohol when it's against the law, no business wants to lose their license to operate.

ForgoTheConsequence

(4,867 posts)
13. Right....
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 01:04 PM
Aug 2014

And bars don't serve underage patrons or those who are already intoxicated either......they never ever ever do this, after all it's illegal.


Great logic.

 

IronGate

(2,186 posts)
14. Big difference.
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 01:07 PM
Aug 2014

Todays fake ID's look very authentic, while a customer sitting at a bar armed is very noticeable and, once again, no owner is going to risk losing their license and livelihood serving someone open carrying a firearm when it's against the law.

ForgoTheConsequence

(4,867 posts)
16. It's not always fake ids.
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 01:10 PM
Aug 2014

I have seen plenty of bars get busted for knowingly serving an underage patron, it happens all the time. Often times the person working the bar is friends with the customer.


I have also seen plenty of establishments continue to serve blatantly intoxicated patrons, again it happens all the time.

To just write off someones experience and say that it could never happen because it's "illegal" is nonsense.

ForgoTheConsequence

(4,867 posts)
20. I don't know if it's true or not.
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 01:20 PM
Aug 2014

But after years of working in bars in the sticks, I don't discount it immediately.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
10. I would hope this story isn't actually true,
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 12:52 PM
Aug 2014

but I wouldn't be that surprised. I keep on getting the impression that the open carry laws must be honored and that businesses, or some of them anyway, can't refuse to allow open carry patrons. I hope I am totally wrong on that, but enough photos have been posted of assholes with guns in restaurants to make it clear a lot of places aren't banning this.

I am so freaking tired of the gun apologists everywhere.

 

IronGate

(2,186 posts)
11. You are totally wrong.
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 12:56 PM
Aug 2014

Any private business can forbid the carrying of firearms on their property, or they can allow it, but that doesn't supersede state laws on drinking while carrying.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
15. I am glad to know I'm wrong.
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 01:08 PM
Aug 2014

But what's really wrong is the open carry that is going on. I know I'd leave a place if I saw such a thing, and tell management on the way out why I'm leaving. Maybe if enough patrons immediately get up and leave when some idiot with a gun walks in, the business owners would get a clue. Better yet, if the idiots carrying the guns would get a clue, but I have little hope for that.

 

IronGate

(2,186 posts)
18. I'm opposed to open carry also,
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 01:17 PM
Aug 2014

it creates too much angst and controversy, but I do support CCW with the proper training and background checks.

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
23. Do not care for open carry either
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 01:46 PM
Aug 2014

but it gets much harder to conceal carry when it is over 100 degrees or even when in the 80s or 90 s but with very high humidity.

There is difference with a properly holstered pistol and these knuckleheads with long guns.

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
17. please post a link where
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 01:16 PM
Aug 2014

Last edited Sat Aug 23, 2014, 02:57 PM - Edit history (1)

a business is being forced to have open carry in a private business. You are just plain wrong
That is for Oklahoma City

8. Where are people with a handgun license prohibited from carrying a handgun?

Answer: As a general rule, carrying a weapon is prohibited in the following places:

Any business that displays any type of sign prohibiting firearms (See question #9 below).
All City, State, and Federal buildings.
All elementary and secondary school properties.
On a school bus.
Any establishment where beer and alcohol is consumed if the sale of beer or alcohol constitutes the establishment’s primary source of income.
Any place where pari-mutual wagering is authorized.
A sports arena during any professional sporting event.
A meeting of almost any governmental entity or legislative member.
Any jail, prison, or detention facility.
Any structure, building, or office space owned or leased by a city, state or federal government for the purpose of conducting business with the public.
In a courthouse.
Any other place specifically prohibited by law.

9. Do business owners/operators need to post “No Firearms” signs to prohibit guns inside their business?

Answer: No. Oklahoma law allows private property owners to prohibit a person with a handgun license from carrying a handgun into their business. Posting the business with “NO firearms” signs is a convenient means of telling the public the owner/operator does not want firearms inside his/her business. However, the law does not require the business owner to post signs. The owner may tell people verbally that handguns are prohibited.

http://www.okc.gov/okcpd/about/newsokfirearms.html


You should really read this to get familiar with firearms laws before commenting with little or no knowledge.
See page 19 on business rights
See page 21 for carrying in bars and restaurants where alcohol is sold.
See page 30 CARRYING WEAPONS UNDER INFLUENCE OF ALCOHOL
http://www.ok.gov/osbi/documents/SDA_Lawbook_NOV_2013.pdf


I am so freaking tired of the gun apologists everywhere.


another ad hominem attack on fellow DU members. Whatever floats your boat.
 

friendly_iconoclast

(15,333 posts)
25. That's about par for the course for antigun commentary these days:
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 02:48 PM
Aug 2014

Ignorance of fact mixed with undeserved contempt

krispos42

(49,445 posts)
31. I see CGRA is working very hard to create its own reality.
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 04:21 PM
Aug 2014

Like the holodeck in ST:TNG

Like the "gun show loophole" and "assault weapons", their motivations are fear of fictional creations and situations dreamed up by people trying to change society through cultural war.

Guns are so obviously bad, but nobody sends to realize that! But once some fear is ginned up...

Hangingon

(3,071 posts)
35. I saw this story over in the protected group.
Mon Aug 25, 2014, 10:35 PM
Aug 2014

Would have called bullshit but I too am banned. The thing I wonder about is why didn't the heroine of the tale pick up her cell and call the law? An intoxicated carrier and the negligent barkeep should be held accountable. For the sake of all us with CHLs.

 

IronGate

(2,186 posts)
36. There's no doubt in my mind the story is made up bullshit.
Tue Aug 26, 2014, 10:11 AM
Aug 2014

Any reasonable person would've done exactly what you suggested, picked up the phone and dialed 911.

AlinPA

(15,071 posts)
37. How do you know that the bartender and owner of the restaurant are not gun enthusiasts and
Thu Aug 28, 2014, 09:27 PM
Aug 2014

are flaunting the law? There are a lot of jerks around.

 

IronGate

(2,186 posts)
38. Not buying it.
Thu Aug 28, 2014, 09:46 PM
Aug 2014

No owner or manager is going to risk the loss of their livelihood along with a huge lawsuit if a patron is injured or killed.
Sorry, but I'm calling bullshit on this story.

AlinPA

(15,071 posts)
39. It's probably not a true story, but some of the bartenders/owners are not all angels who follow
Thu Aug 28, 2014, 09:54 PM
Aug 2014

the law. I have been in a lot of bars and seen a lot. There is also a small matter of local police looking the other way.

 

IronGate

(2,186 posts)
40. I can see that maybe happening with serving a slightly inebriated patron,
Thu Aug 28, 2014, 10:14 PM
Aug 2014

but serving an inebriated patron with a gun strapped on their side? I just don't buy it.

 

DonP

(6,185 posts)
41. I put "look at what a hero I am" stories like this in the same category ...
Thu Aug 28, 2014, 10:34 PM
Aug 2014

... as one of our posters, that's still at DU, and claimed he confronted every concealed carrier he saw and verbally abused them for being cowards.

When asked how he could tell they were carrying, if it's concealed, he said he "I always just know from looking at them".

In other words, he made it all up to make himself sound heroic.

 

IronGate

(2,186 posts)
42. Is this the same one who would use a can of beans or a bike tyre
Thu Aug 28, 2014, 10:37 PM
Aug 2014

to defend himself?
Or can field strip an Colt .45 ACP under water and re-assemble it?

 

blueridge3210

(1,401 posts)
44. Would it count
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 07:39 AM
Aug 2014

If one were to suspend a gallon jug of water over one's head and field strip the Colt .45 ACP?

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