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Kaleva

(36,294 posts)
Sun Apr 9, 2023, 09:19 PM Apr 2023

Answering the door late at night

There are couple of threads in GD and one in LBN about an armed homeowner who opened the door late in the evening with a gun in hand and was shot by police who were responding to a domestic disturbance call but went to the wrong address.


New Mexico Police Shot and Killed a Man After They Went to the Wrong House While Responding to a Dom

Officers kill homeowner after responding to wrong address

More on the deputies shooting man at wrong house?

"Body camera footage shows as the officers backed away from 5305 Valley View Avenue, the homeowner, Robert Dotson, 52, opened the screen door armed with a handgun. At this point in the encounter, officer(s) fired at least one round from their duty weapon(s) striking Mr. Dotson."

https://www.dps.nm.gov/blog/2023/04/06/state-police-investigate-ois-involving-the-farmington-police-department/

As I've mentioned a few times in the threads above, I'm unaware of any reputable self-defense expert or organization that teaches people to do what the deceased homeowner did. And to date, no one has mentioned one that does.

Several years ago when I took a class to get my state CPL, the book we used that was approved by the state is the NRA Guide to the Basics Of Personal Protection In The Home. I still have it and read it from time to time for refresher training and I certified that I had read it from beginning to end within a 6-month period before I applied for a new license last year. Chapter 14 discusses responding to a possible break in, someone pounding on the door late at night may be attempting such, and the very first step it says to do is to withdraw to safety. It does not say to go to the door with a gun in hand and open the door.

Below is a video on this subject by Massad Ayoob, a nationally recognized expert on the use of guns for self-defense:



The actions of the homeowner lead me to believe he had little to no training on the use of a gun for self/home defense. He may have had training and choose to ignore it.

While I have a CPL, I do not carry a loaded gun out in public as I do not have the desire or money to take and then practice the extra training I feel I would need in order to proficiently handle a gun in an emergency situation out in public. Prior to falling down the basement stairs last year and having my left shoulder replaced, I practiced and did home defense drills with my revolver about 3 times a week. I haven't been able to do that, so the gun is empty and locked away in a gun safe in the master bedroom and the ammo is in a locked metal ammo box in the basement. It's going to remain that way until I get back on track with my training.

We still do safe room drills where I or my wife will yell out "Safe Room!" when the other isn't expecting it and we both move as quickly as possible to the master bedroom which is the designated safe room. The bedroom door is reinforced and has a dead bolt. We also do this drill with the grandchildren when they are here.
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Answering the door late at night (Original Post) Kaleva Apr 2023 OP
Still at it? Leave it alone. One trigger-happy cop, in a group of LEOs at the wrong house... brush Apr 2023 #1
Is it your opinion that Massad Ayoob is full of shit? Kaleva Apr 2023 #2
You're like a dog with a bone on this. A trigger-happy cop fucked up. Let it go. brush Apr 2023 #6
Is Massad Ayoob correct or not? Kaleva Apr 2023 #7
You are in a predicament Kaleva Apr 2023 #12
Still? Let it go, buddy. brush Apr 2023 #13
I've been advocating proper training for gun owners for years now Kaleva Apr 2023 #14
Amen! Hangingon Apr 2023 #27
The Problem, Sir The Magistrate Apr 2023 #3
I think some delude themselves into feeling empowered by a gun in hand Kaleva Apr 2023 #4
Does it matter if he went to the door? Hangingon Apr 2023 #25
And gun owners are supposed to be trained Kaleva Apr 2023 #26
Amen! Hangingon Apr 2023 #28
True. Kaleva Apr 2023 #29
The problem ... Straw Man Apr 2023 #30
Thank You For The Laugh, Dear The Magistrate Apr 2023 #31
You give yourself far too much credit. Straw Man Apr 2023 #32
Anybody who knocks on my front door have already crossed over 2 closed gates and traveled 120 yards oneshooter Apr 2023 #5
You are pretty well covered Kaleva Apr 2023 #8
That is not all oneshooter Apr 2023 #9
I think you will be ok, once you drop the ARs Fla_Democrat Apr 2023 #11
Why drop the ARs oneshooter Apr 2023 #16
Because they are weapons of war.... Fla_Democrat Apr 2023 #18
Sorry, I forgot about the 500yd 3 point range , oneshooter Apr 2023 #10
Paranoid much? nt AndyS Apr 2023 #17
Well... discntnt_irny_srcsm Apr 2023 #19
No, However you seem to be oneshooter Apr 2023 #20
Hmmm, project much? AndyS Apr 2023 #22
Same ol Same ol. oneshooter Apr 2023 #23
Post removed Post removed Apr 2023 #24
What a monumentally sad thread this is. (nt) Paladin Apr 2023 #15
Why is that? oneshooter Apr 2023 #21

brush

(53,764 posts)
1. Still at it? Leave it alone. One trigger-happy cop, in a group of LEOs at the wrong house...
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 02:25 AM
Apr 2023

Last edited Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:09 AM - Edit history (1)

hot and killed an alarmed homeowner answering his door late at night. One cop out of the group couldn't control himself.

It's a tragic situation of one stupid cop, who I'm sure the commander is sorry he ever bought him along on the detail. Those assholes are the ones who need to be weeded out of law enforcement asap as they cause so much tragedy and heartbreak.

ASAP.

Kaleva

(36,294 posts)
2. Is it your opinion that Massad Ayoob is full of shit?
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 07:46 AM
Apr 2023

That even the NRA is wrong in teaching that the best course of action is to retreat to a safe location?

Edit: It's my opinion that gun owners should hold themselves to a high standard when it comes to training even if the state they reside in doesn't mandate it. Some here disagree.

Kaleva

(36,294 posts)
12. You are in a predicament
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 12:36 PM
Apr 2023

You can't say experts and organizations like the NRA are correct as that'd mean the deceased didn't follow widely accepted and taught procedure.

If you say the deceased took the appropriate action, then that places you further to the right of the NRA.

Kaleva

(36,294 posts)
14. I've been advocating proper training for gun owners for years now
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 02:15 PM
Apr 2023

I'm not going to let it go..

I also plan on attending the local school board meeting soon to push for the board to mandate that the schools in the district provide educational material concerning safe gun storage for students to take home

An example:

"Parent group asks Grand Rapids school board to promote safe gun storage to families"

https://www.mlive.com/news/grand-rapids/2023/03/parent-group-asks-grand-rapids-school-board-to-promote-safe-gun-storage-to-families.html

A link to some more info:

https://besmartforkids.org/

Hangingon

(3,071 posts)
27. Amen!
Fri Apr 21, 2023, 05:12 PM
Apr 2023

I totally agree. The info from my CHL training class is so valuable. When that requirement was reduced, gun owners lost needed information

The Magistrate

(95,244 posts)
3. The Problem, Sir
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 08:24 AM
Apr 2023

Is that a large proportion of people who procure firearms do so in service of a fantasy, they buy them in hopes they will one day have opportunity to shoot someone without consequence to themselves. A late night knock on the door just could be opportunity knocking, and if the gun is not ready to hand, the chance of a lifetime might be lost. That's not a chance anybody wants to take....

I am a bear on the subject of police use of force in situations where it is obviously unwarranted or excessive. A police officer who, in a circumstance where violence is more than usually likely (which a 'domestic disturbance' call certainly is), shoots at someone displaying a firearm, has not in my view done anything without warrant, or excessive.

Kaleva

(36,294 posts)
4. I think some delude themselves into feeling empowered by a gun in hand
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 08:55 AM
Apr 2023

And they end up putting themselves at risk .

Hangingon

(3,071 posts)
25. Does it matter if he went to the door?
Fri Apr 21, 2023, 11:52 AM
Apr 2023

The police would have broken the door down and entered. If he appeared with a gun, they would have shot him. Instantly. If the police identified themselves properly, he should have put the gun down away from the door. The police are supposed to be trained. And should not be trained to shoot at the first sign of the presence of a gun.

Kaleva

(36,294 posts)
26. And gun owners are supposed to be trained
Fri Apr 21, 2023, 04:44 PM
Apr 2023

The homeowner pointed his gun at one of the police officers and one can see that in the video .

A trained homeowner with a gun would have retreated to a designated safe room and called 911 from there. Instead he went to the main door with gun in hand, opened it and pointed his weapon at an officer. The result of that was predictable but entirely avoidable.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/1172212828#post26

Kaleva

(36,294 posts)
29. True.
Fri Apr 21, 2023, 05:35 PM
Apr 2023

It's pretty much up to us gun owners who take this seriously to encourage all gun owners and those thinking about getting a gun to get training and to practice that training.

Straw Man

(6,622 posts)
30. The problem ...
Tue Apr 25, 2023, 04:31 AM
Apr 2023
The Problem, Sir

Is that a large proportion of people who procure firearms do so in service of a fantasy, they buy them in hopes they will one day have opportunity to shoot someone without consequence to themselves.

... is that your contention has no citation or reference to a source, so one suspects that the purported existence of this "large proportion" is indeed "in service of a fantasy" -- your own.

The Magistrate

(95,244 posts)
31. Thank You For The Laugh, Dear
Tue Apr 25, 2023, 08:01 AM
Apr 2023

I know it's a tricky moment when you realize things you'd always hoped to keep hidden are spoken of casually in public, and you are confronted by the fact that your secrets are known to anyone with even a modest experience of life on the planet, that you really are that transparent. But you'll manage, I'm sure. There's no way out of a fear except passing through it.

Straw Man

(6,622 posts)
32. You give yourself far too much credit.
Tue Apr 25, 2023, 03:10 PM
Apr 2023

Your "experience of life" is far too "modest" for the claims you make to know my "secrets." But thank you for your concern and your condescension. They warm my heart -- really, they do.

oneshooter

(8,614 posts)
5. Anybody who knocks on my front door have already crossed over 2 closed gates and traveled 120 yards
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 01:08 PM
Apr 2023

onto my property, I have a camera on my door to check you out, and another looking at my driveway, If needed I can turn on 2 very bright strip lights on my porch, I can also exit my back yard through a gate and have you back lighted on my porch. There is a camera on my gate, along with a flood light, phone box, and warning signs. I have 60+ acres of land. The local Sheriff has a pass code for the electric gate.

oneshooter

(8,614 posts)
9. That is not all
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 08:53 PM
Apr 2023

2= 12ga pump shotguns
3-20ga doubles
5-Mi Garands
3 - M1 carbines
4- Evil assault rifles (Ar-15)
3 45 semi auto handguns ( also evil)
7 revolvers (semi evil?)
4_ ML rifles
3- ML shotguns
6 ML revolvers

And various and sundry edged items, "several" rounds of various ammunition
Reloading equipment for various calibers.
Casting equipment for various types of projectiles

Well, you get the idea.

Fla_Democrat

(2,547 posts)
11. I think you will be ok, once you drop the ARs
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 11:12 PM
Apr 2023

I mean, it's not like 12 gauge pumps, Garands, M1s or .45s (assuming you mean 1911, not those evil Glock, undetectable ones) have ever been used in a war.







Fla_Democrat

(2,547 posts)
18. Because they are weapons of war....
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 11:58 PM
Apr 2023

Or, at least we are told. Unlike the others I pointed out, the trench gun, the Garand, the 1911's, etc.

I was being facetious.

I personally like the AR platform, I got a 2 stamper in my get home kit. The platform does catch a ration of shit from the ignorant and misinformed, and from AK Jesus, but Herrera is just a contrarian.





Schrödinger's AR. Simultaneously a deadly weapon of war that has no business being in civilians hands, and yet, totally useless against a military.



AndyS

(14,559 posts)
22. Hmmm, project much?
Wed Apr 12, 2023, 10:55 AM
Apr 2023

I couldn't give a bigger shit about you and your paranoia. Hide inside your barricaded house with all your guns, lights and trip wires or whatever else you need to feel 'safe' from the outside world. I am interested in the fact that something like 70% of mass shooters and domestic killers bought their guns legally. Law abiding citizens. The law abiding citizens that politicians fight so vociferously allow to buy guns.

The same ones the gun industry consider their prime customer base.

oneshooter

(8,614 posts)
23. Same ol Same ol.
Wed Apr 12, 2023, 05:57 PM
Apr 2023

Got anything new? Like a workable, legal, and sane way to answer "your" problem? Try trashing the Bill of Rights.

Response to oneshooter (Reply #23)

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