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SecularMotion

(7,981 posts)
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 04:17 PM Jul 2012

Indiana Father Accidentally Shot Dead by 3-Year-Old Son

An Indiana father watching television with his children was accidentally shot to death by his 3-year-old son after the boy found a loaded handgun nearby, police said on Saturday.

Michael Payless, 33, was found dead in the southern Indiana town of Salem on Friday night.

Payless was watching television with two of his children when the other child, a 3-year-old boy, found the gun.

http://www.nytimes.com/reuters/2012/07/14/us/14reuters-shooting-indiana-boy.html?hp

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Indiana Father Accidentally Shot Dead by 3-Year-Old Son (Original Post) SecularMotion Jul 2012 OP
If only that boy had taken the NRA gun safety course... rfranklin Jul 2012 #1
That's cold, even for an anti-gun advocate. shadowrider Jul 2012 #2
Cold??? discntnt_irny_srcsm Jul 2012 #3
It just pisses me off. A tragedy like this happens and the "NRA" is brought into it shadowrider Jul 2012 #4
The NRA is a right wing political operative...why worry about it on DU? rfranklin Jul 2012 #8
Because lies and innuendo shouldn't be considered a normal part of debate. n/t PavePusher Jul 2012 #13
There are no lies or innuedndo in my post..it is fact rfranklin Jul 2012 #14
define Meiko Jul 2012 #24
They will bongbong Jul 2012 #63
You have introduced a strawman argument. A man died and now it's about the NRA? shadowrider Jul 2012 #15
no you give me a break...you spend your time on DU shilling for the NRA which is a right wing group rfranklin Jul 2012 #17
Outright lie and you know it. Clames Jul 2012 #19
Why don't you post the links of anyone here "shilling for the NRA"? permatex Jul 2012 #20
I shill for the NRA. You have the right poster? I support gun rights, I don't rah rah shadowrider Jul 2012 #35
A popular misconception... beevul Jul 2012 #34
Considering the NRA does that to hurt the Party... gregoire Jul 2012 #52
How so? gejohnston Jul 2012 #54
NRA opposes mandatory trigger lock law. safeinOhio Jul 2012 #21
But Florida does have a safe storage law gejohnston Jul 2012 #22
so now it's the NRA's fault permatex Jul 2012 #23
Would this be a law that would REQUIRE you to have a lock on at all times? rl6214 Jul 2012 #38
some celebrate when gunowners are killed... ileus Jul 2012 #10
An irresponsible gun owner died. aquart Jul 2012 #27
exactly....he deserved to die. ileus Jul 2012 #30
Possibly. But his kids didn't deserve to lose their dad that way. aquart Jul 2012 #32
Actually, it could be argued that he did deserve to die for being so fucking irresponsible. Starboard Tack Jul 2012 #46
Your a d**k permatex Jul 2012 #18
Hey that's not cool man. You shouldn't say stuff like that to other DUers 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #48
Just a heads up, but it isn't cool to call people names on DU Starboard Tack Jul 2012 #53
How do you know what I'm saying permatex Jul 2012 #56
Right. Starboard Tack Jul 2012 #57
Can you prove otherwise? permatex Jul 2012 #58
We're not in a court of law. Starboard Tack Jul 2012 #59
Are you giving the same advice to everyone else here? permatex Jul 2012 #60
I'm not lecturing you. Sorry if I gave that impression. Starboard Tack Jul 2012 #61
No problem permatex Jul 2012 #62
Wait, wait, wait... rl6214 Jul 2012 #37
Or rather if the father had. 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #47
Basic gun safety should be taught in public schools slackmaster Jul 2012 #5
Anyone with half a brain Trunk Monkey Jul 2012 #12
If you can afford a gun, you can buy a fuckin trigger guard... russspeakeasy Jul 2012 #6
I don't even have kids... pwhtckll Jul 2012 #9
they give away locks and guards...but not common sense. ileus Jul 2012 #11
Every Meiko Jul 2012 #25
Sad. Hope the kid's OK and learned a good lesson. Starboard Tack Jul 2012 #7
That may or may not be true. It's sad this happened. n/t shadowrider Jul 2012 #16
I am sure seeing Dad bleeding and unresponsive GreenPartyVoter Jul 2012 #26
Learned a lesson? aquart Jul 2012 #28
It's not a murder slackmaster Jul 2012 #39
It wasn't murder. Starboard Tack Jul 2012 #42
The kid is fucking 3 years old fer chrissakes tularetom Jul 2012 #29
Yup. Kid would have killed his father even without a loaded gun in the room. aquart Jul 2012 #33
Yeah, sometimes shit just happens. Starboard Tack Jul 2012 #41
the way you are talking in this thread, I am beginning to wonder about your parents. Tuesday Afternoon Jul 2012 #55
Why aren't you making a comment, that there was no comment make? rl6214 Jul 2012 #40
Some stories, like this really need no comment, though I would have made one. Starboard Tack Jul 2012 #43
Ah, so that's it now...if you feel it dosen't need a comment then it's ok. rl6214 Jul 2012 #44
No, a comment is preferable. Especially if the issue is not obvious. Starboard Tack Jul 2012 #45
what a horrible, senseless tragedy. My condolences to all the Payless family in this time of grief. Tuesday Afternoon Jul 2012 #31
You guys on the anti-gun side need to get your act coordinated... rl6214 Jul 2012 #36
Level playing field? Remmah2 Jul 2012 #50
Yeah, you're right rl6214 Jul 2012 #51
The sad thing. Remmah2 Jul 2012 #49

discntnt_irny_srcsm

(18,479 posts)
3. Cold???
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 04:34 PM
Jul 2012

"...even for an anti-gun advocate."

I'm not sure there is a type other than cold.
Do you know of any?

shadowrider

(4,941 posts)
4. It just pisses me off. A tragedy like this happens and the "NRA" is brought into it
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 04:36 PM
Jul 2012

it's freakin disgusting.

 

rfranklin

(13,200 posts)
8. The NRA is a right wing political operative...why worry about it on DU?
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 04:58 PM
Jul 2012

They are currently fighting transparency on their political funding and threatening legislators who buck them.

 

bongbong

(5,436 posts)
63. They will
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 09:46 PM
Jul 2012

> Send your alert now.

I regularly get locked out of threads the gun-religionists have staked a claim on.

For being so "tough", they sure are all sensitive and stuff!

 

rfranklin

(13,200 posts)
17. no you give me a break...you spend your time on DU shilling for the NRA which is a right wing group
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 06:54 PM
Jul 2012

and now you get sanctimonious. Jeezus.

 

Clames

(2,038 posts)
19. Outright lie and you know it.
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 07:39 PM
Jul 2012

None of the regulars here shill for the NRA. That only exists in the wishes and imaginations of folks like you.

 

permatex

(1,299 posts)
20. Why don't you post the links of anyone here "shilling for the NRA"?
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 07:43 PM
Jul 2012

I mean, after all, you wouldn't accuse a fellow DU'er of something w/o proof, would ya?

Oh wait.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
34. A popular misconception...
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 05:01 AM
Jul 2012

Last edited Sun Jul 15, 2012, 05:55 AM - Edit history (1)

A popular misconception, founded in a hatred of guns and the people who own and enjoy them, and anti-gun ideology, or some combination of of those things, no doubt.




Lookie there - its wayne laPierre ... complimenting and endorsing a Democrat.

Well, thats just what right wing political operatives do, now, isn't it.


Pro-gun Democrats win endorsements from NRA


By Ben Pershing
Washington Post Staff Writer
Thursday, October 7, 2010

So far this year, the NRA has endorsed 58 incumbent House Democrats, including more than a dozen in seats that both parties view as critical to winning a majority.

In South Dakota, Rep. Stephanie Herseth Sandlin (D) got the NRA's endorsement even though her opponent, Kristi Noem (R), has made her fondness for hunting a prominent part of her campaign.

Noem's campaign manager, Joshua Shields, said that regardless of Herseth Sandlin's record on gun issues, she would still support House Speaker Nancy Pelosi (D-Calif.), "one of the most anti-gun speakers Congress has ever had."

"We made that argument to the NRA," Shields said. "Obviously it didn't work."


http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/10/06/AR2010100606329.html

I'm sure you have an explanation for this. You will share it, wont you?




NRA-PVF Endorses New Mexico Governor Bill Richardson


Monday, October 02, 2006

Roswell, NM - The National Rifle Association Political Victory Fund (NRA-PVF) announces its endorsement of incumbent Governor Bill Richardson for re-election in New Mexico's gubernatorial race November 7, 2006.

Announcing the NRA-PVF endorsement at a press conference in Roswell, NM, NRA Executive Vice President Wayne LaPierre stated, "The National Rifle Association is committed to preserving freedom for all law-abiding Americans. We support Governor Richardson because he has stood with the gun owners, hunters and sportsmen of New Mexico."

Signing HB 622 earlier this year, Governor Richardson approved $1.4 million for the planning, design, and construction of improvements to Shooting Range State Park in Albuquerque, NM, the location for the 2006 National Police Shooting Championships. Governor Richardson dedicated money from his portion of available capital outlay for the project.

In addition, during his tenure as governor, Richardson signed Right-to-Carry into law, making New Mexico the 34th state to grant law-abiding citizens the right to carry firearms for personal protection. Governor Richardson also signed the NRA-backed Right-to-Carry Reform Bill, which, among several other improvements, lowered the minimum age requirement for a permit from 25 to 21 and extended the term of a license from two to four years.

Because of his support for the Second Amendment as New Mexico's Governor, Bill Richardson has earned an "A" rating from NRA-PVF.

http://www.nrapvf.org/news-alerts/2006/10/nra-pvf-endorses-new-mexico-governor-bill-richardson.aspx


But since its the nra, I guess they're just lieing.





NRA Endorses 14 House Democrats Over Republicans

by Frank James

The NRA has earned a reputation over the decades as a pro-gun advocacy group that's solidly in the Republican camp.

But in what will no doubt come as a surprise to many, the organization is endorsing 14 House Democrats in close races because their Second Amendment views line up with the with those of the gun-rights group.

It's an unwelcome move as far as Republicans are concerned. They've come to take NRA endorsements of their candidates as a given.

The Washington Post reports the NRA's policy in recent years is to support incumbents when their positions on gun rights are similar to the NRA's and their challengers.

That approach favors more than a dozen Democrats in tough races this year, according to the WaPo.


http://www.npr.org/blogs/itsallpolitics/2010/10/06/130393162/nra-endorses-14-house-democrats

More nra lies?





Why don't you just admit that no matter what the nra does, short of endorsing devout anti-gun religionists, you wont be happy.

Something along the lines that your dearly departed colleague did here, perhaps:


"NRA Dems are just as bad as any other NRAer's or freepers"

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=104&topic_id=3513277&mesg_id=3515912







 

gregoire

(192 posts)
52. Considering the NRA does that to hurt the Party...
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 05:40 PM
Jul 2012

what is your point? The NRA is the Republican party. They only support Democrats when it helps the Republicans.

gejohnston

(17,502 posts)
54. How so?
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 06:03 PM
Jul 2012

Since the NRA backed that Montana governor and Bernie Sanders, does the NRA also want single payer? Do they also want to go after polluters? How does it hurt the party?

safeinOhio

(32,661 posts)
21. NRA opposes mandatory trigger lock law.
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 07:55 PM
Jul 2012

In an opinion handed down on Wednesday, the Florida Court of Appeal for the 3rd District found the trigger-lock ordinance of the City of South Miami "null and void" under Florida`s preemption statute. The lawsuit against the ordinance was brought by the NRA, Unified Sportsmen of Florida, and individual plaintiffs.


 

permatex

(1,299 posts)
23. so now it's the NRA's fault
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 08:05 PM
Jul 2012

the man is dead? Even if the law was still in effect, how do you know it would have been followed in this instance.
The "blame NRA for everything bad" around here is so fucking stupid, it reeks.
The NRA leadership are RW assholes, but they're not responsible for bad things happening regarding firearms.

 

rl6214

(8,142 posts)
38. Would this be a law that would REQUIRE you to have a lock on at all times?
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 12:26 PM
Jul 2012

I would oppose it also. You want a law that requires a lock to be sold with all firearms, I would agree with that.

ileus

(15,396 posts)
10. some celebrate when gunowners are killed...
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 05:09 PM
Jul 2012

....after all live by the death spewer die by the death spewer. Legal owners deserve to die by being accidently shot by the 3yo it's funny you know.

aquart

(69,014 posts)
27. An irresponsible gun owner died.
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 09:14 PM
Jul 2012

Or are you planning a defense of a twit so witless he left a loaded gun lying around in a room with three children?

aquart

(69,014 posts)
32. Possibly. But his kids didn't deserve to lose their dad that way.
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 12:32 AM
Jul 2012

He really was a useless, incompetent putz.

SO, DID THE GUN KEEP THEM SAFE?

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
46. Actually, it could be argued that he did deserve to die for being so fucking irresponsible.
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 04:53 PM
Jul 2012

What if the kid had shot one or both of the other kids? When I pick up a gun, or have a gun in my possession, my right to life on this planet radically changes, because it is now contingent upon how responsibly I act. If I fuck up, I lose my right to live.
If any gun owners don't recognize that simple truth, then they are kidding themselves.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
53. Just a heads up, but it isn't cool to call people names on DU
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 05:41 PM
Jul 2012

You might want to edit your post before it gets hidden. This place can get pretty passionate at times, but insults are not conducive to good debate. Just sayin'.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
59. We're not in a court of law.
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 08:01 PM
Jul 2012

I don't care if you have posts hidden. It's up to a random jury. Sometimes they'll hide a post like that and sometimes they'll let it slide. My point was about keeping the conversation civil, not about proving your intent.

 

permatex

(1,299 posts)
60. Are you giving the same advice to everyone else here?
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 08:03 PM
Jul 2012

Until you do, please don't lecture me.

I'm curious, have you given the same advice to bongbong, Hoyt, bowens43?

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
61. I'm not lecturing you. Sorry if I gave that impression.
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 08:38 PM
Jul 2012

I was giving you a heads up because you were civil to me. You showed me a courtesy and I returned it. Hoyt has been around a long time and knows how things work. I'm not familiar with the others you mention.
BTW, I checked and you skated on it with a 3-3 decision. No big deal. I don't use asterisks myself. Probably why I get posts hidden.

 

permatex

(1,299 posts)
62. No problem
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 08:42 PM
Jul 2012

and if I sounded snarky, which I probably was, I'm sorry, you've been decent here also and I would like to keep it that way.

 

rl6214

(8,142 posts)
37. Wait, wait, wait...
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 12:23 PM
Jul 2012

Where's the compasion and sorrow for the shooting victim? Are you that cold hearted?

 

slackmaster

(60,567 posts)
5. Basic gun safety should be taught in public schools
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 04:37 PM
Jul 2012

Anyone who finishes high school should know not to leave a loaded weapon where an unqualified person might pick it up.

 

Trunk Monkey

(950 posts)
12. Anyone with half a brain
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 05:10 PM
Jul 2012

should know not to leave a loaded weapon where an unqualified person might pick it up.

pwhtckll

(72 posts)
9. I don't even have kids...
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 05:03 PM
Jul 2012

...but I keep my firearms unloaded and secured with cable locks when not in use.

 

Meiko

(1,076 posts)
25. Every
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 08:57 PM
Jul 2012

gun manufacturer I know of provides a lock with their guns, many new revolvers have a lock incorporated into the trigger mechanism and locks are available from several sources for free.

http://www.projectchildsafe.org/


This is the same old story here.It is not about gun locks it is about complacency. A loaded gun was left lying around where a child could get a hold of it. I feel sorry for the family for their loss but I can't help but see the irony here.

The NRA had nothing to do with this.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
7. Sad. Hope the kid's OK and learned a good lesson.
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 04:58 PM
Jul 2012

We must remember that Mr. Payless probably had this loaded gun with him to protect his family.

GreenPartyVoter

(72,377 posts)
26. I am sure seeing Dad bleeding and unresponsive
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 09:04 PM
Jul 2012

was bad for both kids, but at the age of 3 I am not sure it registers that pulling the trigger is what caused Daddy to go away. Their little brains don't process that sort of thing yet.

aquart

(69,014 posts)
28. Learned a lesson?
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 09:18 PM
Jul 2012

A THREE-YEAR-OLD KNOWS HE MURDERED HIS FATHER AND RUINED HIS FAMILY?

That's a pretty big advance on A is for Apple.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
42. It wasn't murder.
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 03:28 PM
Jul 2012

The 3 year old has hopefully learned something his father never took the time to learn.

tularetom

(23,664 posts)
29. The kid is fucking 3 years old fer chrissakes
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 09:42 PM
Jul 2012

His brain is not capable of drawing a cause and effect from this tragedy.

And this is basically nobody's fault except possibly the victim. Not the kid, not the NRA, not you nor me.

And the fact that Mr Payless was irresponsible doesn't mean he deserved to die.

It was an accident, a tragic and preventable accident. It doesn't mean that handguns should be outlawed. Nor does it mean that everybody should be carrying. Sometimes, shit just happens.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
43. Some stories, like this really need no comment, though I would have made one.
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 03:49 PM
Jul 2012

Shooting an intruder seems like something any home owner might do. I don't see any argument. Giving a 3 year old access to a loaded firearm is a whole other ball of wax. People can learn something from such a story, like responsible gun ownership and responsible parenting.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
45. No, a comment is preferable. Especially if the issue is not obvious.
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 04:42 PM
Jul 2012

In this case, it is obvious that we have an issue of gun safety as well as parenting skills. I failed to see an issue in the homeowner shoots intruder story. Maybe I missed something.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
31. what a horrible, senseless tragedy. My condolences to all the Payless family in this time of grief.
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 10:17 PM
Jul 2012

so horribly sad. tragic. poor child.

 

rl6214

(8,142 posts)
36. You guys on the anti-gun side need to get your act coordinated...
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 12:21 PM
Jul 2012

should there or should there not be a comment posted when you post a story like this?

http://www.democraticunderground.com/117250579#post1

 

Remmah2

(3,291 posts)
49. The sad thing.
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 05:26 PM
Jul 2012

The sad thing is we live in a world where we need locks, security lights, alarm systems, guard dogs, and private security because evil and bad people do exist.


I can remember growing up and not needing to lock the house door or car door.


Can you imagine the good one could do if those things were not needed in society?


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