Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

Nitram

(22,781 posts)
Fri Sep 30, 2016, 08:49 AM Sep 2016

The best piece on "white privilege" I've read.

This is an excellent explanation, with 10 powerful examples drawn from painful memories. Written in response to a rather snotty request for information about the topic by, of course, a white person. The first example:

1. When I was three, my family moved into an upper-middle class, all-white neighborhood. We had a big backyard, so my parents built a pool. Not the only pool on the block, but the only one neighborhood boys started throwing rocks into. White boys.

One day my mom ID’d one as the boy from across the street, went to his house, told his mother and fortunately, his mother believed mine. My mom not only got an apology, but also had that boy jump in our pool and retrieve every single rock. No more rocks after that. Then Mom even invited him to come over to swim sometime if he asked permission. Everyone became friends.

This one has a happy ending because my mom was and is badass about matters like these, but I hope you can see that the white privilege in this situation is being able to move into a “nice” neighborhood and be accepted – not harassed, made to feel unwelcome, or prone to acts of vandalism and hostility.

http://everydayfeminism.com/2016/08/told-white-friend-black-opinion/

2 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
The best piece on "white privilege" I've read. (Original Post) Nitram Sep 2016 OP
Excellent article. athena Sep 2016 #1
Lots of things for me to think about once I stop reacting defensively. aikoaiko Oct 2016 #2

athena

(4,187 posts)
1. Excellent article.
Fri Sep 30, 2016, 09:36 AM
Sep 2016

Thanks for posting that. The part about the stuffed animal was especially poignant.

As I was reading the article, I was thinking that a lot of this stuff is about empathy. We as a culture do not value empathy enough. Too many white people think, "Well, I didn't do anything bad to a black person, so racism is not my problem." But it is our problem. (I'm white.) It's everybody's problem. It's impossible to live in the midst of a racist society without being sullied by it. I get so angry when white people declare that they're not racist, as if they lived in a separate universe. If we all had more empathy in our hearts, the world would be a much better place in so many ways.

Latest Discussions»Alliance Forums»African American»The best piece on "white ...