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Mosby

(16,168 posts)
Tue Jun 27, 2017, 12:08 PM Jun 2017

Serena Williams's Love Match




This is is a love story.

It wasn’t seamless, starry eyes at first light. There was a discovery, unexpected and shocking. There were moments of really getting pissed and the standard irritation that comes when one half of the whole kept leaving the suitcase in the hallway. But there were also moments of unplanned intimacy that is the only true kind of intimacy in a love story, soft touches and laughter and absurdity, because you need absurdity in a love story, since love is slightly absurd anyway, a feeling that, like eternity, is indefinable.

Which leads us, on the surface at least, to the seemingly mismatched pairing of 35-year-old Serena Williams and her fiancé, 34-year-old Alexis Ohanian. She is the beyond remarkable tennis player, although all superlatives are pointless. He is in the high cotton of high tech as the co-founder of the Web site Reddit, which has 234 million unique monthly users. They became engaged last December, after first meeting roughly a year and a half earlier, then found out in January that Serena was pregnant. They will be married in the fall after the birth of the baby.

With 23 grand-slam wins on the women’s pro tennis tour spanning nearly three decades—from her first, at 17 years old, in September of 1999, to her latest, at 35, in January of 2017, and the most in the open era—Serena is in the heart of every conversation concerning the best athlete of her time. “If I were a man, then it wouldn’t be any sort of question,” she told me. She may well be right, a society still conditioned to believe that men are better than women in everything except the superfluous.

Alexis, on the other hand, had never seen a tennis match until he met Serena, in May of 2015 in Rome. He knew so little about the game that the photo he excitedly posted on Instagram of her playing her first match in the Italian Open showed her foot faulting.

Serena plays a sport that requires the mental focus of instantaneously letting go of losing points and moving on because there are a lot of excruciating ones no matter how great you are, continual regrouping and re-inventing: dwell on them, you lose confidence; lose confidence and you lose. She is also superbly conditioned, given that a female tennis player may run about three miles in a match without the luxury of coming out of the game because you feel winded or lost too much money gambling with teammates the night before on the charter and would rather mope on the bench.

Alexis’s athletic history amounted to the level of a very gangly defensive tackle for Howard High School in Ellicott City, Maryland, far more interested in science fairs and programming and building Web sites. His skill at tennis is not one of potential; when Serena offered to give him a lesson, he turned it down so he could tell his friends that he once turned down a lesson with Serena Williams.

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Serena Williams's Love Match (Original Post) Mosby Jun 2017 OP
Very good get the red out Jun 2017 #1
Lovely story. Thanks for posting. northoftheborder Jun 2017 #2
'When Serena offered to give him a lesson, he turned it down so he could tell his friends elleng Jun 2017 #3
K&R sheshe2 Jun 2017 #4
No worries, I was going to cross post but didn't Mosby Jun 2017 #5
She is remarkable, Mosby. sheshe2 Jun 2017 #6

elleng

(130,156 posts)
3. 'When Serena offered to give him a lesson, he turned it down so he could tell his friends
Tue Jun 27, 2017, 01:00 PM
Jun 2017

that he once turned down a lesson with Serena Williams.'

Mosby

(16,168 posts)
5. No worries, I was going to cross post but didn't
Tue Jun 27, 2017, 05:55 PM
Jun 2017

I'm glad you posted this in the AA group.

She is a remarkable woman and tennis player, she could easily play into her fourties if she wants to.

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