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Ponietz

(2,957 posts)
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 09:18 AM Apr 2019

My neighbor has cats

Unvaccinated, unneutered, unspayed cats. I live in a migratory corridor for several endangered species like the gray vireo and willow flycatcher. The cats are coming onto my property to hunt. They get in the trash cans. They howl at 4 a.m.

I confronted the adult daughter, the instigator, two weeks ago. When trash was strewn in front of my house a few days ago, I tried to talk to her again. She blew me off and told me to talk to her father, who happened to be out of town, but is returning again later today.

I rush ordered a havaheart humane cat trap, and lo, found it occupied this morning.

I am going over to confront the father later. This gets resolved today. I HATE this! I love cats (indoors) and like my neighbors but this is ridiculous!

Any advice here from fellow birdwatchers is appreciated—in case we come to loggerheads.

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My neighbor has cats (Original Post) Ponietz Apr 2019 OP
you are nicer than me handmade34 Apr 2019 #1
I think there are 4 cats right now-- Ponietz Apr 2019 #5
I would not tell the neighbor... handmade34 Apr 2019 #6
Thanks, that's the kind of advice I was looking for. Ponietz Apr 2019 #8
However, that is illegal here. LakeArenal Apr 2019 #27
when trapping handmade34 Apr 2019 #38
Thanks. LakeArenal Apr 2019 #39
Thank you for trapping him/her. They all need fixing. Many bad behaviors CurtEastPoint Apr 2019 #2
good luck with that Kali Apr 2019 #3
Maybe, but I did surprise two cats while they were feasting on garbage a few days ago Ponietz Apr 2019 #11
We have ferrel cats, therefore no birds or squirrels. I'm afraid of them to try to trap them. patricia92243 Apr 2019 #4
I am impressed with the cat trap I bought. Very safe. Ponietz Apr 2019 #14
The cats in my neighborhood have killed off the rabbits. Delmette2.0 Apr 2019 #7
As others note, it's not just rabbits that disappear Ponietz Apr 2019 #40
Oh, I totally understand. Delmette2.0 Apr 2019 #41
There was a moment in time when I had no dogs on the farm. Farmer-Rick Apr 2019 #9
I caught this cat near where my German Shepherd relieves herself! Ponietz Apr 2019 #10
All I can say is that there must be more scaredy cats around here Farmer-Rick Apr 2019 #26
My dog weighs a whole 6 pounds and the cats just look at her and don't move a muscle :) patricia92243 Apr 2019 #21
a lot of cities/counties have ordinances Mosby Apr 2019 #12
Thanks, I checked the county ordinance Ponietz Apr 2019 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author Ponietz Apr 2019 #13
This worked for us msdogi Apr 2019 #16
Thanks Ponietz Apr 2019 #17
I posted this very topic last year. LakeArenal Apr 2019 #18
Thanks Ponietz Apr 2019 #19
Feral Cats are an ecological hammer .... even declawed ones (which is cruel) Botany Apr 2019 #20
Feral cats kill just to kill as well. LakeArenal Apr 2019 #22
One of the big reasons you almost never see a garter snake anymore too. Botany Apr 2019 #23
ARRRRGH!!!!! LakeArenal Apr 2019 #24
x2!!! Ponietz Apr 2019 #25
I'm for not confronting the neighbor MontanaMama Apr 2019 #28
Another vote for don't confront. PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2019 #29
I agree. Most rescue organizations will adopt cats only to people The Velveteen Ocelot Apr 2019 #31
Tough, but only realistic solution playaseeker Apr 2019 #30
That's horrible and cruel. The Velveteen Ocelot Apr 2019 #32
Seems that way, but.... playaseeker Apr 2019 #37
Aside from what a terrible thing that would be to do, PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2019 #33
I have to admit that is creative Ponietz Apr 2019 #35
People rarely change behaviors lettucebe Apr 2019 #34
A follow up: Ponietz Apr 2019 #36

handmade34

(22,756 posts)
1. you are nicer than me
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 09:27 AM
Apr 2019

I have and would take the trapped cat to the humane society... irresponsible people shouldn't have pets and the shelter will at least take care of vaccinations and neutering

Ponietz

(2,957 posts)
5. I think there are 4 cats right now--
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 09:36 AM
Apr 2019

I don’t know whether to tell him I caught the cat. It might be better to confront him—then, if it goes south, just take the cat to county animal control and make a complaint—but that could also mean making an enemy in this culturally sensitive area. If I just take the cat to the humane society there’ll still be, at least, 3 cats to deal with.

Wish I could bring the National Audubon Society down on them like a ton of bricks.

handmade34

(22,756 posts)
6. I would not tell the neighbor...
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 09:46 AM
Apr 2019

if he cares so little that he lets his cats roam, then better for the cat and for you (and relationship with neighbor) that you just trap them and take them to shelter (just tell them you trapped a stray cat )... I have no sympathy for people who don't care for pets properly

I value the wildlife around my property, especially the birds and I will not tolerate neighbors who are careless...


feral cats and indoor pets allowed to roam outdoors kill from 1.4 billion to as many as 3.7 billion birds in the continental U.S. each year (study from 2013... probably more now)


as to possible trapping other wildlife... I trap skunks, raccoons and squirrels (who are troublesome), often in my traps... I rehome them to a safer place that in not heavily populated (I acknowledge that is not perfect but better than killing)

LakeArenal

(28,813 posts)
27. However, that is illegal here.
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 12:02 PM
Apr 2019

You can’t make feral cats someone else’s problem.

It’s also illegal to shoot them.

🤷🏼?♀️

handmade34

(22,756 posts)
38. when trapping
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 02:20 PM
Apr 2019

I never move a feral cat... feral cats need permanent removal; to a shelter or otherwise

only if I trap other wildlife (skunks, squirrels, etc..) do I move the critter and then only to a large forest where there are no homes (I have the luxury of living near spaces like that)

LakeArenal

(28,813 posts)
39. Thanks.
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 02:26 PM
Apr 2019

Still I do wish sometimes I were the type to make it someone else’s problem or be able to shoot one.

We have no shelters or rescues in the county.

CurtEastPoint

(18,637 posts)
2. Thank you for trapping him/her. They all need fixing. Many bad behaviors
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 09:31 AM
Apr 2019

go away or are lessened when neutered. You are kind.

Kali

(55,007 posts)
3. good luck with that
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 09:32 AM
Apr 2019

looks like you live where animals other than cats could be getting into your trash, you may be catching them in your trap soon.

Delmette2.0

(4,164 posts)
7. The cats in my neighborhood have killed off the rabbits.
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 09:50 AM
Apr 2019

I loved to see the rabbits that lived under my shed, but people have let their cats out to run around the neighborhood and I haven't seen a rabbit in two years.

Every year there are different cats going through my yard. There is no way to tell who they belong too.

Farmer-Rick

(10,151 posts)
9. There was a moment in time when I had no dogs on the farm.
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 09:58 AM
Apr 2019

I usually have dogs for guardians and pets and rescues. But when my last dog died of natural causes, I had no dogs for about 3 months. I noticed then that cats slowly stated showing up to chase and kill my chickens and hunt mice, birds, salamanders and lizards. Also the coyotes got braver. When I got two rescue puppies, the cats stopped coming around. When the dogs got bigger, the coyotes backed off.

It's been five years now and still no cats have come around.

Farmer-Rick

(10,151 posts)
26. All I can say is that there must be more scaredy cats around here
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 11:53 AM
Apr 2019

My dogs are outside dogs. They live with the sheep and chickens or in a huge dog house. That maybe the difference. I've never seen them kill a cat, but the cats stay away.

Mosby

(16,297 posts)
12. a lot of cities/counties have ordinances
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 10:09 AM
Apr 2019

About outdoor cats and feeding feral cats. Maybe a visit from a official explaining the laws will change their behavior, and you can avoid a confrontation.

I've done this with other issues (like green pools and parking cars on yards) with my neighbors, they probably don't know who called and it took care of the issue.

Ponietz

(2,957 posts)
15. Thanks, I checked the county ordinance
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 10:20 AM
Apr 2019

Nothing like that to help here. I already blew my anonymity, ack!

Response to Ponietz (Original post)

LakeArenal

(28,813 posts)
18. I posted this very topic last year.
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 10:45 AM
Apr 2019

I was accused of cat hate and cats get to go wherever they want to go.

My final comment was: OK you win. Cats everywhere even on private property.

I was so frustrated at Fed feral cats andDU I screamed!!!

A year later, I just chased the big gold one out of the yard for the second time today.

Needless to say, there has been no solution from anywhere. As a county agent said: you didn’t here this from me, but if it was my yard, I’d shoot them.

So I feel your pain. And the pain of all the feathers I have found in the yard.

Yesterday I found a different neighbor’s dead chicken in my yard. We are all pretty sure it’s cats.

Botany

(70,483 posts)
20. Feral Cats are an ecological hammer .... even declawed ones (which is cruel)
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 11:09 AM
Apr 2019

They kill snakes, toads, salamanders, birds, insects, mammals, pollinators, and invertebrates
by the truck load. People are not doing any favors when they catch, have them fixed, and then
release them because their hunting instinct is so strong and so they kill and kill and kill.

Outdoor cats don't live very long and they have a very hard life so please keep your kitties inside.

LakeArenal

(28,813 posts)
22. Feral cats kill just to kill as well.
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 11:30 AM
Apr 2019

They are a deadly invasive species.

In fairness, there are DUers that trap them and relocate them or home them or something.

Botany

(70,483 posts)
23. One of the big reasons you almost never see a garter snake anymore too.
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 11:38 AM
Apr 2019

I know of people who go out and feed populations of feral cats
and think that they are "helping" and I plant native plants and wildflowers
for my job and my neighbors (good people) let their cats run wild and they
are always hunting in my front yard.

MontanaMama

(23,301 posts)
28. I'm for not confronting the neighbor
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 12:04 PM
Apr 2019

and taking the kitty to the humane society. Cats don’t belong outside...they are hell on birds. I’ve asked and asked my next door neighbor to keep his cat inside and he refuses. I have seen his cat catch birds and native pine squirrels. I’ve got a trap set and if I catch him, he’ll go to the HS and I will keep it to myself. We have raccoons, skunks, bears and owls in my neighborhood...if I don’t catch this kitty...another critter will. Oh well.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,660 posts)
31. I agree. Most rescue organizations will adopt cats only to people
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 12:22 PM
Apr 2019

who promise to keep them indoors. Trap the cats, take them to a no-kill shelter where they will be neutered, vaccinated and adopted to good (indoor) homes. That way everybody is happy - you, the birds, the cats, and the cats' new humans. Maybe not the neighbor, but too bad for them.

playaseeker

(59 posts)
30. Tough, but only realistic solution
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 12:18 PM
Apr 2019

Trap them and whack them, then take them down the road a hundred yards and run over the body with your car - in the dead of the night. The neighbors will get the message that outdoor cats are at risk. Or not.

You are not killing nice kitties, you are defending the wild birds and other animals. If I could get away with it, I would put little cat faces under my car window like fighter pilots recording enemy kills. I stand for the wild environment and if cats come in our yard, they get whacked.

OR, if you just can't do that, trap them and take them to animal services..... your choice

playaseeker

(59 posts)
37. Seems that way, but....
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 02:06 PM
Apr 2019

....I was watching a mother Quail cross our backyard with about eight tiny chicks when the neighbors cat ran out and killed the mom Quail. Over the next couple of days I found dead baby chicks in the yard. Seems like allowing the neighbors cat to have free run over all the wildlife is a greater sin than "disposing" of the problem. And you are always free to take them to animal services

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,839 posts)
33. Aside from what a terrible thing that would be to do,
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 12:47 PM
Apr 2019

those neighbors would not get the message intended.

I got into an argument with my sister recently who thinks that it's perfectly fine to have a cat be mostly outdoors, as her last cat was, and that it's okay that it dies by being hit by a car.

Fortunately, she has no interest in acquiring another cat, nor a dog.

Ponietz

(2,957 posts)
35. I have to admit that is creative
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 01:47 PM
Apr 2019

Was that in a Pulp Fiction sequel?
Thank you for the advice, and I might have considered it in the past.
🙏

lettucebe

(2,336 posts)
34. People rarely change behaviors
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 01:13 PM
Apr 2019

So keep that in mind. I'd think it pretty unlikely the neighbor is going to suddenly change because you explain why he should.

Last thing you probably want is war with the neighbors

Ponietz

(2,957 posts)
36. A follow up:
Mon Apr 8, 2019, 01:52 PM
Apr 2019

I took the cat to the Humane Society and decided upon no further confrontations with my neighbors (though the cats had gotten into my garbage again while I was gone!)
Thank you all for your considered advice. I will continue to set the cat trap at night.

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