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Related: About this forumEvangelical Group Aims to Convert Children as Young as Five
http://talkingpointsmemo.com/news/child-evangelism-fellowship-portlandThey've banded together in recent weeks to warn parents about the Child Evangelism Fellowship's Good News Club, buying a full-page ad in the local alternative weekly to highlight the group's tactics.
"They pretend to be a mainstream Christian Bible study when in fact they're a very old school fundamentalist sect," said Kaye Schmitt, an organizer with Protect Portland Children, which takes issue with the group's message and the way it's delivering it.
Within a few hours, however, she didn't like what the group was telling her 8-year-old son and his friends: They were headed to hell, needed to convert their friends and were duty-bound to raise money for the organization.
"I raised a free thinker," she said. "He didn't buy in. All of a sudden, he's having arguments with his friends over salvation."
edhopper
(33,570 posts)Whether it's Christians targeting small children in public places, or atheists writing books and giving lectures. All the same.
pure snark by the way.
Snarkoleptic
(5,997 posts)writing books and giving lectures requires the recipient of the message to reach out and take/buy the book or consciously attend the lecture.
Kids playing at a public park and then being told they're sinners who need to repent and raise funds for the church is reprehensible.
edhopper
(33,570 posts)alluded to conversations on another thread about atheist evangelizing.
For my there isn't really a parity and this story brings that home.
Thus my snarly remark.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Though we do have some in this forum who insist that both of those kinds of "proselytizing" are the same and equally offensive.
gtar100
(4,192 posts)stretch. In fact, writing books and giving lectures is exactly where "evangelism" - or simply making one's argument - belongs. At least you have to convince people to buy the book or go to the lecture of their own accord. Approaching children playing in a park like this is not the same thing - it's creepy and deviant.
Your snark bait got me hooked.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)that there are not atheist evangelizers.
Is everything black and white for you, or are you able to see gradations of grey?
edhopper
(33,570 posts)"I find evangelizers from either side objectionable.
I think those that think they have found the way, the right answer, when it comes to religion to be equally offensive."
False equivalency all the way down.
I don't see any gray there.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)In the first sentence, I say that I find evangelizers from either side offensive I make no comment as to the degree of offense or the nature of the evangelizing or whether there is any equality.
In the second sentence, I say that I find individuals who claim to know the truth equally offensive. I make no comment about whether they evangelize or not, or how they might express this. In others words, I find people who say that they know there is a god as offensive as people who say they know there is not a god.
You get so wound up in seeing what you want to see, that you end up seeing nothing, my friend.
This is my position in the clearest possible language. You can continue to try and twist it into something else, but I remain puzzled as why you feel the need to do that.
Fair enough.
You offense of people who challenge others beliefs is noted.
But in terms of degree, how do you feel about what is in this article compared to say, giving a friend some facts about biblical stories?
cbayer
(146,218 posts)I take offense to evangelizing. I take offense at those who think they have the answer and want to convert (or deconvert) others.
This group's behavior is reprehensible, imo. Having a discussion with a friend who may hold some beliefs for which there is contradictory evidence (like creationism or no global climate change) is an entirely different thing.
Challenging others beliefs with data is something that should be done. But if there is no data, just belief or lack or belief, the challenge is likely to step into the ring of prostelytizing.
And if you want to go back to the discussion about earthquakes in Israel, it is not the exchange of information that I objected to. It was the claim of victory because the individual presumably abandoned all his beliefs and faith when given this information (which I find highly doubtful).
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)In an area where physical evidence is available.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)It was your crowing about toppling his entire religious foundation and his abandoning his belief and faith as a result of this.
Frankly, I don't buy it. He may have abandoned his belief system, but I suspect it was much more complicated than his just learning about fault lines in Israel.
And if it was that simplistic, there was very little there to begin with.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)You interpreted it that way I guess. But there was no victory dance. You made an assertion. I challenged it with an example. That is hardly crowing.
You don't get to make assertions like that and then immediately, and with no details, ascribe all sorts of nefarious intent to every counter-example if you want to be taken seriously.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)And at no point did I say anything like 'hey you should try atheism'.
Of more concern to me was helping him understand how anti-abortion advocacy harms women directly.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)faults in Israel, right?
Whether you were evangelizing or not, I really don't know. However, based on many past posts of yours, I do think you see yourself as having a mission to deconvert. If I am wrong about that, then I have misunderstood, but I don't think I am.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)There were other examples.
I don't tend to think of it as evangelizing, for the same reason I offered you earlier; they come to me. I don't go to them. It's usually in the process of them proselytizing to me that I start disassembling their faith, or the claims it is built upon.
Kind of a defense mechanism, really.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)If someone is proselytizing to you, then you responding in kind seems like it could be an appropriate response.
They are trying to assemble your faith while you try to disassemble theirs.
May the best one win, I guess, though I think there is really ever a win either way.
Not sure how that's a defense mechanism in the technical sense of the term, but I can see how you might use it to defend yourself from an evangelical.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)That doesn't seem like the neighborly thing to do, however.
I suppose, since I do not 'deconvert' everyone I encounter, it is possible individuals have walked away from an exchange with me with a deeper understanding of their own faith. I don't see that as a bad thing either, necessarily.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)As long as you are engaging in a respectful way that does not start from the premise that they are somehow defective for believing what they believe, it might end up with both of our gaining a deeper understanding of your own position and perspective.
And if you gain a deeper understanding of each other's perspective, then that's a real win-win, imo.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)Which shouldn't be confused with 'The Truth(TM)' as divinely inspired revelation nonsense.
After all, there are a number of ways to detect and even image those fault lines. So that was pretty lame 'moral equivalency'.
Warpy
(111,245 posts)Wow. Just wow.
You can avoid buying books and you can avoid attending lectures you don't think you'll like.
It's getting hard to avoid religious zealotss giving little kids the hard sell on some screwball religion that is not one's own wherever children assemble: pools, parks, outside schools.
One is voluntary. The other is not.
There is no equivalence here and you are DEAD WRONG to suggest there is.
wow.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)The reactions to it are pretty hilarious. But that is how knee jerk reactions go.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)This is not going to go well with the initiation tribunal.
I am not sure what you're saying?
cbayer
(146,218 posts)that this was what you really meant.
You've got some 'splaining to do now.
edhopper
(33,570 posts)And the regulars got it.
You should keep up.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)How could I possibly keep up with the brilliant minds that I am talking with here.
Surely you jest!
Arkansas Granny
(31,514 posts)to invite/lure the kids to come to church by passing out candy and promising entertainment at church. The figure that if they can indoctrinate them when they are young, they have a good chance of keeping some of them to swell church memeberships when they are grown.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)Aren't there some laws about approaching children without their parents consent?
muriel_volestrangler
(101,306 posts)Are you saying it's fine, healthy and creepy?
cbayer
(146,218 posts)healthy fantasies.
Does someone need a nap?
edhopper
(33,570 posts)Aren't healthy?
cbayer
(146,218 posts)I was raised in the church. I don't think the stories I was told were unhealthy at all.
edhopper
(33,570 posts)God judging them for things kids usually do.
Obvious myths in the Bible as true.
Fear of the Devil and demons.
Stuff like that
cbayer
(146,218 posts)It's important to realize that a lot of mainstream protestant denominations don't preach that sort of thing.
If you assume they are all the same, then you can end up kind of prejudiced or something.
You know what I mean?
edhopper
(33,570 posts)Why do you put words in my mouth.
I was pointing out some religious fantasies that aren't healthy.
Did I say they were all unhealthy? No.
I don't know nor care what you grew up with, there are many ways children are taught religion, just because yours was fine, doesn't mean others weren't harmful.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)You should care what I grew up with because it is representative of a religious upbringing that you may not be familiar with. You often state that you really want to understand believers in one way or another, and looking at different experiences would be helpful in that regard.
Otherwise, one might just see the harm instead of the good.
muriel_volestrangler
(101,306 posts)How are you going to get children into that state without proselytizing? Those who didn't have religious stories told them at church or school didn't confuse reality and fantasy so much. So these park proselytizers will be helping kids have a healthy confusion between reality and fantasy.
Warren Stupidity
(48,181 posts)So apparently you need to take a nap. WTF?
cbayer
(146,218 posts)Children are naturally unable to tell the difference between fantasy and reality. It is something they learn over time. There is no definitive age or stage in which should hope to see it fully extinguished. It's a process. Children at 5 or 6 will still not always be able to make the distinction, and there is nothing wrong with that.
I guess if you want little automatons who are unable to embrace fantasies as realities, you could work towards that, but it's not a world I would want.
Now, you make the leap that all religious teaching is about fantasy, and I don't agree with that. Those stories are often use as allegorical tales and the basis for discussion about things in their own lives.
The people described in this article aren't' doing that, are they?
The link you draw is absurd, and again, has no rational justification except your own fantasy, I guess.
Warren Stupidity
(48,181 posts)trotsky
(49,533 posts)WTF, cbayer?
Warren Stupidity
(48,181 posts)trotsky
(49,533 posts)Warren Stupidity
(48,181 posts)Part of the "oh those emotional atheists" campaign.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Snarkoleptic
(5,997 posts)All I can say is...
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)is going to have an unpleasant day.