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Soph0571

(9,685 posts)
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 10:04 AM Jan 2019

Why would a loving God send people to Hell?



Do you believe in a God of Love? If so, how is it possible to rationalise the juxtaposition of a loving god with the fiery pits of eternity? If God created heaven he also created hell, he created the universe and all the criteria by which souls are judged. Ergo he has sanctioned that people will spend their eternity in Hell, yes?

People of faith would say that God does not send anyone to hell, that people send themselves there through their actions, or inactions. Of course, no-one would opt for an eternity in hell; no-one would choose that. Many in fact do not believe that Hell exists, rather it is a man-made construct developed to instil fear and control in the uneducated masses. The question then must be, if you do not believe in hell can you end up there? And if you do end up there, logically, it is God would put you there. And if God is a loving God why would he do that?

Tis a conundrum.
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Why would a loving God send people to Hell? (Original Post) Soph0571 Jan 2019 OP
It's all made up Blues Heron Jan 2019 #1
Was it "insane" for Thomas Jefferson to believe the following: Liberal Insights Jan 2019 #23
TJ was pretty insane Blues Heron Jan 2019 #28
He thought it ws alright to love them And own them as property Farmer-Rick Jan 2019 #44
Ascertains, however popular, are not proof of any truth. gtar100 Jan 2019 #32
You imagine your hell, your demons and heaven, you don't see them Farmer-Rick Jan 2019 #45
You have seen heaven and hell? MarvinGardens Jan 2019 #56
They are all around you. gtar100 Jan 2019 #58
I do not see them. MarvinGardens Jan 2019 #60
thank gawd im an A....... samnsara Jan 2019 #2
Most people are atheists! Liberal Insights Jan 2019 #18
The whole point of religion is to control people Major Nikon Jan 2019 #3
That it is used that way doesn't make it "the whole point". gtar100 Jan 2019 #33
Regardless of how you think it should be used, it's still a control mechanism Major Nikon Jan 2019 #35
You're still assuming "the whole point" is control of the masses. gtar100 Jan 2019 #36
Do you have an example of another use? Major Nikon Jan 2019 #37
Yes, the expression of gratitude for being alive and connecting gtar100 Jan 2019 #39
What you are describing is personal belief, not religion Major Nikon Jan 2019 #40
If he is a loving God why do people have diseases? blueinredohio Jan 2019 #4
+100 Duppers Jan 2019 #61
Why would a child pull wings off a fly? eShirl Jan 2019 #5
Lack of empathy for other living beings. gtar100 Jan 2019 #34
A god is the child and mere mortals are the bugs. eShirl Jan 2019 #42
I heard a burning hell was never mentioned in doc03 Jan 2019 #6
In the Book of Luke, Jesus mentioned it. Mariana Jan 2019 #19
There was a TV program about the origin of hell on the History channel? doc03 Jan 2019 #43
It's not logical at all, is it? MineralMan Jan 2019 #7
It's a metaphor Voltaire2 Jan 2019 #8
Ecclesiastes 3 ESV saidsimplesimon Jan 2019 #9
Answer please Duppers Jan 2019 #62
Religion is a foolish answer to a foolish question. walkingman Jan 2019 #10
See my response # 23 above Liberal Insights Jan 2019 #24
all knowing, all loving, all powerful Evergreen Emerald Jan 2019 #11
God pamdb Jan 2019 #12
I remember why back when being told by a clergyman packman Jan 2019 #13
So edhopper Jan 2019 #21
My position has always been that man sends himself to Hell. JayhawkSD Jan 2019 #14
That's the "hell is separation from God," Igel Jan 2019 #25
I think it's called "free will." JayhawkSD Jan 2019 #48
Which rules? Voltaire2 Jan 2019 #27
Seems a sort of silly question. JayhawkSD Jan 2019 #49
Then I have no idea what you meant Voltaire2 Jan 2019 #57
Judgment Day is a day spent in a hall of mirrors. gtar100 Jan 2019 #38
Well, God is Vengence (if you happen to believe in those sort of things) Ferrets are Cool Jan 2019 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author Freelancer Jan 2019 #16
People send themselves to hell Fullduplexxx Jan 2019 #17
Not if they were created by a god that is all-powerful and all-knowing LongtimeAZDem Jan 2019 #20
So they volunteer to be tortured for eternity Voltaire2 Jan 2019 #26
If you watch "The Good Place" edhopper Jan 2019 #22
My idea of hell is circumscribed. Igel Jan 2019 #29
God doesn't send people to Hell. vlyons Jan 2019 #30
First let's scour the Bible for proof that what the Bible says Croney Jan 2019 #31
I was taught that God is all-powerful and all-knowing, past, present and future. keithbvadu2 Jan 2019 #41
Thus denying free will... uriel1972 Jan 2019 #46
True... There is no free will... There is allowed will. keithbvadu2 Jan 2019 #47
There can't even be that. All actions and choices would have been known prior to creation, LongtimeAZDem Jan 2019 #51
This message was self-deleted by its author LongtimeAZDem Jan 2019 #53
Not as brain-busting as you think. Act_of_Reparation Jan 2019 #50
Carlin made that point. nycbos Jan 2019 #52
"God is omnipotent, omniscient, and omnibenevolent - it says so right here on the label. If you LongtimeAZDem Jan 2019 #54
😂 Duppers Jan 2019 #63
As co creators of our life, WhiteTara Jan 2019 #55
Of all the weird things about the Abrahamic religions Pope George Ringo II Jan 2019 #59

Blues Heron

(5,926 posts)
1. It's all made up
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 10:07 AM
Jan 2019

Every last bit of it. There are no gods, demons, angels, etc. No hell, heaven paradise, none of it. Insane that people believe these things, but we are a gullible species, that is for sure.

Liberal Insights

(109 posts)
23. Was it "insane" for Thomas Jefferson to believe the following:
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 01:05 PM
Jan 2019

"Of all the systems of morality, ancient or modern, which have come under my observation, none appear to me so pure as that of Jesus. . . A more beautiful or precious morsel of ethics I have never seen."
"The Christian religion, when divested of the rags in which they [the clergy] have enveloped it, and brought to the original purity and simplicity of it's benevolent institutor, is a religion of all others most friendly to liberty, science, and the freest expansion of the human mind."
– Thomas Jefferson to Moses Robinson, 1801. ME 10:237
and
He told John Adams that he was rescuing the Philosophy of Jesus and the "pure principles which he taught," from the "artificial vestments in which they have been muffled by priests, who have travestied them into various forms as instruments of riches and power for themselves." After having selected from the evangelists "the very words only of Jesus," he believed "there will be found remaining the most sublime and benevolent code of morals which has ever been offered to man."
See the introduction to his "bible" which he created by cutting out what he considered the "good" parts of the Gospels, leaving behind what he didn't approve of, and pasting what he liked into his own version of the bible:
The Jefferson Bible - The Life and Morals of Jesus


from my http://LiberalsLikeChrist.Org/TheJesusMyth page.

Blues Heron

(5,926 posts)
28. TJ was pretty insane
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 01:20 PM
Jan 2019

He thought it was fine and dandy to buy and sell other human beings and then sleep with them. Whatta guy.

Farmer-Rick

(10,135 posts)
44. He thought it ws alright to love them And own them as property
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 08:19 PM
Jan 2019

To think of the most important person in your life as your possession...very weird.

gtar100

(4,192 posts)
32. Ascertains, however popular, are not proof of any truth.
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 02:23 PM
Jan 2019

I assert there are gods, demons, angels, and more. There is a hell and there is a heaven. If I deny these things, I deny my own perception and understanding. That you don't see these things doesn't change what I and others experience. You may wonder how I can be so gullible but I wonder how it is you can't see what is obvious to me. I doubt, though, you imagine what these things are the same way I do.

There are many ways to model reality, some of which have worked to uphold cultures for many generations. That to me is proof of viability of a model. Some too crash and burn before they even go beyond the individual who entertained the notion. It seems one of the primary functions of the mind is to build models to make sense of our lives.

Though you didn't state it, I assume behind your assertions is a belief in materialistic science, a belief system that is leading us to the brink of extinction all the while promising a great utopia through technological innovation. Science as a method of discovery is powerful but the belief that it somehow proves there are no gods and that meaning is wholly subjective, well that takes a leap of faith to go there, a leap which I'm not willing to take because it contradicts my own experiences.

Farmer-Rick

(10,135 posts)
45. You imagine your hell, your demons and heaven, you don't see them
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 08:33 PM
Jan 2019

Last edited Sun Jan 13, 2019, 10:15 PM - Edit history (1)

You even admit it is all imagined.

So lies have been used to uphold cultures. True that. The system of slavery as a viable economic model in a moral world was fully upheld and supported by religious doctrine for centuries. It doesn't make it any more moral even if a nonexistent god encouraged it.

Do you think religion has disappeared? Then why do you blame science for what religion has created? The world is this way because of religion. You single out science but religion is still alive and corrupting everything.

gtar100

(4,192 posts)
58. They are all around you.
Mon Jan 14, 2019, 03:15 PM
Jan 2019

Why we look for these things as if they were somewhere else is a materialistic meme. But they are spiritual in nature which means they are intertwined with our experiences, just as space, time and mind are. Just my take on it...in a nutshell.

MarvinGardens

(779 posts)
60. I do not see them.
Mon Jan 14, 2019, 03:19 PM
Jan 2019

I used to go to church, pray, and believe, and I did not see them then, either. How are you able to see them?

gtar100

(4,192 posts)
33. That it is used that way doesn't make it "the whole point".
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 02:31 PM
Jan 2019

Abuse of religion is a real problem. It's a failure of our vision to see the greater potentialities of religion. Just like money, how it is used makes all the difference.

Major Nikon

(36,818 posts)
35. Regardless of how you think it should be used, it's still a control mechanism
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 02:41 PM
Jan 2019

Even if people are controlled for what you think is a good purpose, it still doesn't change it from being a method of controlling the masses.

gtar100

(4,192 posts)
36. You're still assuming "the whole point" is control of the masses.
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 03:00 PM
Jan 2019

It's not. There are more points to religion than controlling others. The fact it is used that way shows just how powerful religion is. This is not an endorsement or a way to excuse the abuses of power done in the name of religion. Just saying that there is so much more to religion than what is demonstrated by organized religions that seek out followers.

gtar100

(4,192 posts)
39. Yes, the expression of gratitude for being alive and connecting
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 03:17 PM
Jan 2019

to that feeling of gratitude through rituals or prayer or meditation. The ritual can be a reminder of that feeling at times when it's not happening naturally. So it's an opportunity to reconnect to a feeling that brings both joy and understanding.

Major Nikon

(36,818 posts)
40. What you are describing is personal belief, not religion
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 03:24 PM
Jan 2019

Religion describes a particular way someone else wants you to believe, which is control.

blueinredohio

(6,797 posts)
4. If he is a loving God why do people have diseases?
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 10:13 AM
Jan 2019

Especially babies who have never sinned. Why do good people die young when the cruelest people live forever? Lots of questions that can't be answered.

Duppers

(28,117 posts)
61. +100
Mon Jan 14, 2019, 06:46 PM
Jan 2019

I asked a friend that earlier today:

"if Gawd created everything and if he's so damn good, why did he create all these germs and viruses that kill innocent critters, innocent people, babies, and children?!!"

Makes no fucking sense.


doc03

(35,295 posts)
6. I heard a burning hell was never mentioned in
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 10:44 AM
Jan 2019

the bible. It was all manufactured by the church to scare people into going to church back in 1400s or so.

Mariana

(14,854 posts)
19. In the Book of Luke, Jesus mentioned it.
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 12:34 PM
Jan 2019

Luke 16 : 19-31 (NIV)

“There was a rich man who was dressed in purple and fine linen and lived in luxury every day. At his gate was laid a beggar named Lazarus, covered with sores and longing to eat what fell from the rich man’s table. Even the dogs came and licked his sores.

“The time came when the beggar died and the angels carried him to Abraham’s side. The rich man also died and was buried. In Hades, where he was in torment, he looked up and saw Abraham far away, with Lazarus by his side. So he called to him, ‘Father Abraham, have pity on me and send Lazarus to dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue, because I am in agony in this fire.’

“But Abraham replied, ‘Son, remember that in your lifetime you received your good things, while Lazarus received bad things, but now he is comforted here and you are in agony. And besides all this, between us and you a great chasm has been set in place, so that those who want to go from here to you cannot, nor can anyone cross over from there to us.’

“He answered, ‘Then I beg you, father, send Lazarus to my family, for I have five brothers. Let him warn them, so that they will not also come to this place of torment.’

“Abraham replied, ‘They have Moses and the Prophets; let them listen to them.’

“ ‘No, father Abraham,’ he said, ‘but if someone from the dead goes to them, they will repent.’

“He said to him, ‘If they do not listen to Moses and the Prophets, they will not be convinced even if someone rises from the dead.’ ”

doc03

(35,295 posts)
43. There was a TV program about the origin of hell on the History channel?
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 05:53 PM
Jan 2019

I think they said hell may have been mentioned one time in the bible. I think at one time in history it was pictured as being cold
in hell. We don't know nobody has ever been there and back. Of course there are those who claim they were I am sure.

Voltaire2

(12,957 posts)
8. It's a metaphor
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 10:46 AM
Jan 2019

It isn’t really a burning pit of fire where you get tortured for eternity. It’s a metaphor for the excruciating pain and torture the god you betrayed will inflict on you for eternity.

See? Now it all makes sense.

In fairness there are some christians who agree that “a loving god” and “eternal damnation” are incompatible and that there is no hell, metaphorical or otherwise.

Not a lot. But some.

saidsimplesimon

(7,888 posts)
9. Ecclesiastes 3 ESV
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 10:46 AM
Jan 2019

I'm still open minded to the concept of a supreme presence. My concept is based on love, thus hate is an anathema. I do note that the scripture allows for "a time to hate" and will admit to finding this dark place more often than I would like.

A Time for Everything

For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven:

a time to be born, and a time to die;
a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;
a time to kill, and a time to heal;
a time to break down, and a time to build up;
a time to weep, and a time to laugh;
a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together;
a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
a time to seek, and a time to lose;
a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
a time to tear, and a time to sew;
a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
a time to love, and a time to hate;
a time for war, and a time for peace.

Duppers

(28,117 posts)
62. Answer please
Mon Jan 14, 2019, 06:53 PM
Jan 2019

My question in post #61 above.



Btw, that verse in Ecclesiastes was read at my mother's funeral nine days ago, a request from my agnostic/halfway questioning sister. Go figure.

Evergreen Emerald

(13,069 posts)
11. all knowing, all loving, all powerful
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 11:01 AM
Jan 2019

A baby is drowning in a puddle. You walk by and could easily pick the baby up, save his/her life. Would you? And if you did not, what would that make you?

The all knowing God knows the baby is in the puddle. The all powerful God could have easily saved the baby. The all loving God would save the baby.

The baby dies. How can God be all knowing, all loving, all powerful and let the baby suffer and die?

 

packman

(16,296 posts)
13. I remember why back when being told by a clergyman
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 11:27 AM
Jan 2019

not to believe in hell as a physical place but a place devoid of the presence of God and love. No burning, no suffering except to never experience the true loving nature of a God that is love itself.
Made sense at the time.

 

JayhawkSD

(3,163 posts)
14. My position has always been that man sends himself to Hell.
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 12:04 PM
Jan 2019

God would never and has never done that, welcomes everyone into His/Her presence. I heard someone define Hell once as "the absence of God." Sounds right to me. Man consigns himself to hell, but not "by his actions or inactions." He simply is in hell because he is too focused on himself to be aware of God. He has "tuned God out" in hedonistic pursuits. So man didn't "put himself in hell" so much as he fell short of putting himself into the heaven that was available to him.

I have sort of the same perception as to the various "rules" that religions have. If your kid breaks a rule, do you stop loving that kid and throw them out? Of course not.

I have the idea that God is offering guidance and direction all the time, under any circumstance, and that all I have to do is listen. I have to be able to hear, and I cannot hear if I'm not listening. If I am focused on myself, if my attention is turned inward, then I am not listening.

If you think about all of these "rules" you can see that they are not so much about "right and wrong," so much as they are about making me turn my attention away from self, outward toward others and toward the world around me. To make me less concerned about "what's in it for me" and more concerned about how, as the Navaho puts it, "I can be in harmony with life." In such a state of being I can hear the guidance and direction which is always being offered.

Igel

(35,274 posts)
25. That's the "hell is separation from God,"
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 01:12 PM
Jan 2019

which is defined as always being man's doing.

Which just pushes the question back to, "Why would God allow a person to exist for eternity in such pain and suffering?"

Theodicy 2.0.

 

JayhawkSD

(3,163 posts)
48. I think it's called "free will."
Mon Jan 14, 2019, 02:19 AM
Jan 2019

Why would God force anyone to be in God's presence if they choose not to be?

 

JayhawkSD

(3,163 posts)
49. Seems a sort of silly question.
Mon Jan 14, 2019, 02:22 AM
Jan 2019

Prayer and worship.
Honor they father and mother, and nine other commandments.
Going to church on Sunday.
There are literally thousands, not even counting the ones that require you to hate others because they are not like you.

Voltaire2

(12,957 posts)
57. Then I have no idea what you meant
Mon Jan 14, 2019, 01:04 PM
Jan 2019

when you said that all these rules are about looking outward etc.

gtar100

(4,192 posts)
38. Judgment Day is a day spent in a hall of mirrors.
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 03:08 PM
Jan 2019

Just you and the mirrors. What could any God possibly say that you, yourself, could not in honest self reflection.

Ferrets are Cool

(21,102 posts)
15. Well, God is Vengence (if you happen to believe in those sort of things)
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 12:14 PM
Jan 2019

Romans 12:19
Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.”

Response to Soph0571 (Original post)

LongtimeAZDem

(4,494 posts)
20. Not if they were created by a god that is all-powerful and all-knowing
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 12:47 PM
Jan 2019

If the god is all-knowing, then it would know, before the creation of the universe, every action and choice the person would ever make; and, if it is all-powerful, the universe would be created exactly as intended, with all outcomes already known.

Therefore, in such a situation, free will is impossible, and everyone going to hell would be already decided at the instant of creation.

Igel

(35,274 posts)
29. My idea of hell is circumscribed.
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 01:23 PM
Jan 2019

You are put to the test. Do you pass?

Yes? Welcome to immortality. That may be good, may be bad, not for me to decide--no basis for judgment.

No? Welcome to hell. Your stay here will be brief as you're quickly killed and disposed of.

The alternative posed by having immortal souls--which is where the idea of hell has to start--is simple. You're going to live forever, and if you're good you want to do good things. But if you're bad--and God has a definition for that--you're just going to create problems and suffering for other others. For eternity. And, at the same time, likely make yourself fairly miserable.

In other words, a short-lived hell is euthanasia to put somebody out of both their misery and prevent others'. But it requires actively denying the idea of an immortal soul.

Of course, that either requires a decided end to things, where the entire mankind endeavor is wrapped up and the planet moves on to a post-mankind era; or it requires an on-going process where people are judged every day or month or year and the refuse from that time period is disposed of.

There is an alternative with an immortal soul--universal salvation. I figure they're pollyannas. They can't stand the idea of something unpleasant happening--what would Baby Jesus do? (Besides cry, suck milk, and spontaneously pee and poo? Maybe giggle. Such love their helpless gods that can't even walk. I mean, seriously--even if you think they're all made up, why make up a wiggling helpless baby-god?)

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
30. God doesn't send people to Hell.
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 01:26 PM
Jan 2019

People send themselves to a Hell of their own making. As a Buddhist, I don't believe in a creator God. I also don't believe that there is a physical Hell that you can locate on a map. Hell, and also Heaven, are mental states. Have you ever been in a situation that felt like pure Hell? Well that's Hell.

In Vajrayana Buddhism, Hell is the lowest realm of samsara, the state of mental delusion and suffering. There is a freezing Hell and a Burning Hell, actually 18 Hells, but I can't remember what all of them are. The predominant negative mental states of Hell are anger and most especially hatred.

The way to get out of Hell, should you find yourself there, is to practice compassion. For example, if someone is carrying a big heavy stone, offer to carry it for a while, he he sits down to rest a bit.

Croney

(4,656 posts)
31. First let's scour the Bible for proof that what the Bible says
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 01:34 PM
Jan 2019

is true. Then let's scour Drumpf's tweets for proof that what Drumpf says is true.

Then let's put the proof we found on the head of a pushpin and stick it into a board called Illogical Notions We Have Dismissed as Crazy.

keithbvadu2

(36,655 posts)
41. I was taught that God is all-powerful and all-knowing, past, present and future.
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 03:55 PM
Jan 2019

I was taught that God is all-powerful and all-knowing, past, present and future.

Then, when making that soul, he already knows that person’s eternity.

That’s how he made it all to happen.

uriel1972

(4,261 posts)
46. Thus denying free will...
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 09:19 PM
Jan 2019

And begging the question, why does a god make people for the express purpose of sending them to eternal torture?...

keithbvadu2

(36,655 posts)
47. True... There is no free will... There is allowed will.
Sun Jan 13, 2019, 09:39 PM
Jan 2019

True... There is no free will... There is allowed will.

If God wants someone to change, he will make it happen.

LongtimeAZDem

(4,494 posts)
51. There can't even be that. All actions and choices would have been known prior to creation,
Mon Jan 14, 2019, 09:33 AM
Jan 2019

so once created, the universe is set, and no change is possible. If the "god" wanted it to be different, it would have created it different.

Response to LongtimeAZDem (Reply #51)

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
50. Not as brain-busting as you think.
Mon Jan 14, 2019, 09:29 AM
Jan 2019

An all-loving God cannot send people to hell because there is no all-loving God and there is no hell.

Maybe next we can wax philsophically about who would win a fantasy fist fight between Bat-Man and Darth Vader.

LongtimeAZDem

(4,494 posts)
54. "God is omnipotent, omniscient, and omnibenevolent - it says so right here on the label. If you
Mon Jan 14, 2019, 10:06 AM
Jan 2019

have a mind capable of believing all three of these diving attributes simultaneously, I have a wonderful bargain for you. No checks, please. Cash and in small bills."

- Robert A. Heinlein, The Notebooks of Lazarus Long

Pope George Ringo II

(1,896 posts)
59. Of all the weird things about the Abrahamic religions
Mon Jan 14, 2019, 03:17 PM
Jan 2019

Getting the good guy and the bad guy backwards is one of the weirdest.

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