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Sat May 11, 2013, 04:10 PM

 

healing energy for my co-worker Hanna, please

She is a young woman in her thirties. She disappeared from work yesterday. I was the first to notice she was missing. I thought she'd asked permission to leave the floor to take a call yesterday, but now I remember another co-worker saying she could see her cellphone still on top of her desk. It may be that she'd asked to take a break after a particularly difficult call. Anyway, she never returned; left behind her jacket, other personal things, computer locked but still running, etc.

She has been having a rough go of it. She is divorced, has been homeless, has lost custody of her 2 children to her mother, with whom she doesn't get along. She is trying to start over and re-build her life. She lives in a rooming house where she can walk to work and wherever, because she hasn't got a car. She has been saving to rebuild, buying a little refrigerator, a hotplate, etc. for her room.

She tends to seem moody, sometimes not speaking to anybody and other times opening up, and sometimes we all joke around. I know she's been depressed lately about lack of direction and purpose. She said she'd like to focus her life on her children, but having lost custody that avenue has been blocked for her.

She was very withdrawn yesterday before she disappeared, so I suspected something was wrong from the get-go.

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Reply healing energy for my co-worker Hanna, please (Original post)
magical thyme May 2013 OP
Knightraven May 2013 #1
Sienna86 May 2013 #2
PADemD May 2013 #3
magical thyme May 2013 #4
PADemD May 2013 #5
magical thyme May 2013 #6
PADemD May 2013 #7
magical thyme May 2013 #8
PADemD May 2013 #9
onecent May 2013 #10

Response to magical thyme (Original post)

Sat May 11, 2013, 06:20 PM

1. Of course!

Sounds like she is in the middle of a path change. It is for her to decide what the direct of the path will be, but she needs as much positive energy she can get. The darker the energy that may be surrounding her right now, could cloud better judgment.

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Response to magical thyme (Original post)

Sat May 11, 2013, 09:38 PM

2. Sending love and light to her

With hopes her path to be reunited with her children is easier, if that is the best for all involved.

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Response to magical thyme (Original post)

Sun May 12, 2013, 09:25 AM

3. Sending

Has anyone called the police to check on her or reported her as missing?

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Response to PADemD (Reply #3)

Sun May 12, 2013, 11:04 AM

4. She just disappeared from work late yesterday...

 

I noticed she wasn't at her desk at about 5:20 pm. Thought she was on break. Then around 6 or 6:30, realized she hadn't returned. I started asking around at that point. By 7pm, our manager was asking about her. It turned out he didn't have any of our phone numbers available. I offered to go to her rooming house, but he turned me down.

I'm concerned because it's a crappy job, and sometimes people really push our buttons and are just plain rude and mean. I have talked with her about it a few times before, to not take it personally, to remember that this is just temporary. It pays $5/hour more than her previous job and even though there's not much opportunity for advancement here, it is a notch on her resume.

I don't want her to lose this job because then her life will really spiral back down. It was a good chance for her to start over.

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Response to magical thyme (Reply #4)

Sun May 12, 2013, 12:43 PM

5. Glad I never had a manager like yours.

Our department coworkers had each other's phone numbers. If a coworker disappeared like yours did, there would be phone calls to the home or cell number and then to HR who would probably call the police. If a person had a morning heart attack and didn't show up for work, your company wouldn't do anything?

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Response to PADemD (Reply #5)

Sun May 12, 2013, 12:51 PM

6. he's pretty new to management, and it was 2nd shift so HR was closed

 

He did go around getting our phone numbers when he realized shit can happen.

I don't think I've worked anywhere that would give a flying fuck if I stopped showing up for work. Sadly, I'm serious except possibly the lab,and then they'd care only because they'd have to find somebody to cover for me. He's actually one of my better managers because he's less abusive than most have been.

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Response to magical thyme (Original post)

Tue May 14, 2013, 10:14 AM

7. Is Hanna still missing?

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Response to PADemD (Reply #7)

Tue May 14, 2013, 11:35 AM

8. Hanna showed up to work yesterday

 

Acted like nothing had happened. I didn't want to pry and she can be pretty standoffish, so I didn't ask what had happened. I am probably close to her mother's age, so she probably didn't feel comfortable talking to me about it, maybe for fear of judgemental or scolding or something.

She was suddenly being super-friendly with co-worker to my right, so when I had a moment I asked her if she knew what had happened.

Apparently on Friday she had the Mexican trots and then felt nauseous, so walked home, threw up and crawled into bed and fell asleep.

Our manager did find her number and phone her at home to check up on her over the weekend.

Thank you for asking.

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Response to magical thyme (Reply #8)

Tue May 14, 2013, 12:40 PM

9. Thank you

I'm glad she's OK.

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Response to magical thyme (Original post)

Thu May 16, 2013, 09:53 AM

10. I'm glad she is back magical, but

I will send healing and love to her...it sounds like she has had a very rough time....

This world is such a trying time for everyone. I actually always ALWAYS felt that my life would be
fun, and hopeful and that the earth would always be happy as it was in the 50's...and now I
see all of this crumbling before my eyes.

....and watch many crumble with it. it is very disheartening...

Good luck to Hanna.

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