Holy shit in a biscuit ..
What's with all the emotional energies?
People flying off the handle,
Friends dumping friends,
Tornadoes near loved ones,
dang....
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I knew it was the T-Square, I was just amazed at what I thought was a kind of subset within the energetic line of ..things...
but it's being OVERWHELMED by the big mamas...
I have a video coming out soon on it.... 
Plus...Dramas everywhere. I know what you mean. It's both revolting and precious and rare at the same time. Last few months have been crazy. I hope it settles into something more comfortably predictable soon.
And I appreciate your insight on this forum. 
My husband of 29 years passed on, on Tuesday I think.(Actual moment uncertain.) We've been separated for about 7 years, and 'legally' separated for about 2. He's been ailing but didn't inform me or daughters of the seriousness, of which his doctor was aware, so this is 'shocksville' for us.
The family is fairly widely disbursed, and some here may recall 'problems' among family members as well as a lengthy 'dispute resolution' process between me and my husband. I am now in the position of 'decider in chief' for arrangements, which continually have to be coordinated with and signed off on by daughters (and outside family.) (A BIG dispute was 'resolved' last night: Which/where funeral home.) My husband and I were in touch recently, working on family and health matters in a constructive way.
So I, daughters, son in law and daughter's guy, visited funeral home today to make plans/arrangements for next week. Just heard some kerfuffle happening, apparently/allegedly through older (troublesome) daughter, about family members not being happy about dates we chose. We discussed and balanced as we could, hadn't been told this family branch could NOT attend if Monday and Tuesday, but just that would be EASIER, less burdensome for them, if would be Tuesday and Wednesday. They've got funds, could EASILY fly, so this is a 'dispute' about which I am not sympathetic, and also suspicious.
Hope to avoid more 'shit on a biscuit.'
I do recall the family issues in the last few years.
I hope things flow as smoothly as possible, with perhaps some healing at hand for all involved. Godspeed to your husband on the next leg of his soul's journey.
I hope my relatively positive feelings about him recently help his journey, and also help all of us dealing with the issues to come.
Positive, for me: I spoke with the attorney who represented me against him as I sought my 'due' in past years. That same attorney, whom I like very much, will handle the probate matter for me, and I am pleased about this.
I hope everything works out with all you have to deal with. You must have tons of feelings to deal with. Anytime someone close passes there are usually feelings of guilt no matter what, plus all this other drama. I feel for you!
I hope things get better for you
Things moving along. Funeral in Annapolis Monday + Tuesday, more family attending than I expected, so some 'issues' appear resolved.
Will be absorbed with practical things after memorials, and that's fine with me.
Things moving along, up and down, holding breath.
Good to visit with family and old friends.
Uranus squares Pluto 7 times, this will be #3 on May 20
Very heavy energies colliding, just 4 more.
I've written so much about it.
People-Uranus-uprising-liberation vs. Plutocracy-control-BigBrother-monoliths
plus, this also goes on within us too, (of course)
liberation vs heavy rules within us
come face to face, watch the news
ain't never seen any shit in any bisquit
and don't want to 
gathering/visitation, so contentious family (and friendly friends) all together.
One daughter is the 'control,' or tries to be, and others of us disapprove/frown/disagree/liberate.
Next day the memorial, where we all can gather again. :fingers crossed:
SMILING BROADLY at your words!
HAHAHA...but I like the possible/probable redemption involved of this heavy rules/liberation wave.
I'm about to see if I can liberate something.. quite soon...actually.
Actually I prefer cornbread with butter!
they were right about Pluto not counting.
It looks like it would be a good idea to print it out.
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in a fairly lousy couple of weeks. First of all, my dear father-in-law died May 10. As if that's not enough, my husband is in the middle of changing jobs. We're somewhat broke temporarily, and under a lot of stress. His old employer docked him three days pay for driving up to see his dying father in the hospital, They said they didn't have to pay him because he had already given 2 weeks' notice. They might pay for the 3 days he took to attend the viewing and funeral, but I'll believe it if I actually see the paycheck.
Yesterday I got a nasty email from my oldest friend K.'s live-in, who has always been an asshole but seems to be getting dementia. Last year he beat her up badly, a neighbor called the cops, he got arrested, but my friend K. dropped charges and let him move back, against the advice of many friends including me, as well as the police. This past Monday evening K. (who is bipolar) called up sounding drunk, then he interrupted the call with unpleasant tech sound effects. This was while we were packing to drive 200 miles to my father-in-law's funeral. I told them I was getting ready for a funeral, told them to cut the crap, and hung up. He called back 2 or 3 more times with stupid sound effects. I hung up each time; finally my husband answered and roared that he would drive down to Florida and rip out the jerk's esophagus if this didn't stop. Mr. Asshole is 65 and is one of the nastiest people you'd never want to meet.
We went to the viewing and the funeral, very sad, but it went okay and many friends and relatives came. It was exhausting, and we got home Thursday afternoon. We noticed more calls on caller ID from the friend's phone number, so I sent K. an email telling her this was the final straw -- I refused to put up with her boyfriend's crap any more and to not call me again. He has been disrupting her calls to me for years, listening in, interrupting with rude comments, or even disconnecting the calls. It should be pointed out that he's some kind of computer whiz who knows all kinds of tech stuff.
Around 4:30 a.m. we got two hang-up phone calls. Caller ID said "unknown caller". In the morning came the email, calling my husband and myself "sick, stupid people", among other nasty things, for accusing him of making the earlier calls, which he denied. As if I didn't recognize K's phone number over the past decade. I didn't bother replying, but forwarded it to two other close friends of my friend, who have shared my concerns over the years about the asshole's behavior and treatment of K. One replied by email that Mr. Asshole had just hacked into another friend's computer and deleted business and personal files, and the hacking was definitely traced back to this jerk. I am concerned because my husband's computer was hacked last week and has a serious virus. I can't prove it was Mr. Asshole, but wouldn't be surprised if he was behind it. Since this is a person who never gives up, and who I think is losing what little mind he had, I am afraid of more retaliatory attacks.
I will call the police in their town in Florida if anything else happens. I unfriended K. on Facebook and marked their e-mail addresses as junk if they send any more. I am heartsick about my friend, but she chose to live with him.
AND my brother called yesterday to say he's developed diabetes.
AND my older daughter, as I was taking her to the airport to fly back to the west coast, treated me to a long lecture about my faults and bad behavior, to the point that tears ran down my face, but that didn't slow her down.
AND the electric mower is busted, and one of the toilets needs to be replaced, and our one car needs to be serviced, but I can't pay the girls' student loans this month unless I charge groceries and gas on the credit card for the next two weeks.
You are right. Sometimes resting is all we can do, instead of wearing ourselves out with endless efforts at doing.
Thank you for posting this. Our society with the Puritan work ethic can leave us feeling drained and guilty for what we haven't gotten done, instead of feeling good for what we have managed to do.
I hold my toungue, most of the time, but arghhhhhhhhhh!!
I was actually competent at one time.
May your troubles ease...
