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These two people are looking for a place to move to... Would any intuitives like to weigh in? Or (Original Post) Lucinda Feb 2012 OP
Can you give any more context to this? BanzaiBonnie Feb 2012 #1
Was mostly looking for impressions, but I will happily take any help on the issue Lucinda Feb 2012 #2
What kind of weather do you want? Melissa G Feb 2012 #3
I have been told by friends that I would love Austin. Lucinda Feb 2012 #4
I posted first... rbnyc Feb 2012 #20
I have been told I would love Austin by someone I loved very much. Lucinda Feb 2012 #44
Love to have you here. Melissa G Feb 2012 #21
Thank you! That would be great. :) Lucinda Feb 2012 #27
Austin, Texas Why Syzygy Feb 2012 #56
Austin is changing, kentauros Feb 2012 #59
I lived in Bear Creek for a while Lucinda Feb 2012 #60
That must be on the north side, kentauros Feb 2012 #61
Competition baby! Why Syzygy Feb 2012 #71
Looks like fun! kentauros Feb 2012 #72
Hey .. Why Syzygy Feb 2012 #73
My wife & I lived on the Mendocino coast of California for twenty years. calikid Feb 2012 #5
Thank you for the post! Lucinda Feb 2012 #6
In which state do you currently live? Tsiyu Feb 2012 #8
Thank you for the IC directory link! Lucinda Feb 2012 #41
I forgot to mention, tourism comes in second behind pot, calikid Feb 2012 #11
Thank you! I'll definitely keep it in my places to check out. Lucinda Feb 2012 #42
Maybe Ukiah? rosesaylavee Feb 2012 #12
I've heard of it but never been. Lucinda Feb 2012 #43
D/FW could be an interesting fit MagickMuffin Feb 2012 #7
Great photos. Thanks for those! Lucinda Feb 2012 #40
I hate DFW Why Syzygy Feb 2012 #57
There is a pretty big Art Culture here in the D/FW region MagickMuffin Feb 2012 #62
1st...Black Mountain, NC JanMichael Feb 2012 #9
Heh! I also get that they would be happy in a Southern location. My vote: Mississippi. BlueIris Feb 2012 #16
I have family in Mississippi, just minutes from Memphis. Lucinda Feb 2012 #39
Mississippi Why Syzygy Feb 2012 #58
Mississippi??? Howler Feb 2012 #52
Asheville... rbnyc Feb 2012 #19
Asheville is a cool town. I am about an hour and a half from there now. Lucinda Feb 2012 #38
I would say visit a few places first Celebration Feb 2012 #10
Thank you JanMichael Feb 2012 #14
We probably will before we make a final choice Lucinda Feb 2012 #37
Well, as usual I am second guessing what I got. GardeningGal Feb 2012 #13
New Mexico is a beautiful state. liberalmuse Feb 2012 #15
I love New Mexico. Lucinda Feb 2012 #35
New Mexico was my thought when I mentioned the southwest. Lucinda Feb 2012 #36
Coquille Or Bandon Oregon. Howler Feb 2012 #17
I'm not familiar with either but I will look them up! Lucinda Feb 2012 #34
Bandon,Coquille, and portland oregon Howler Feb 2012 #50
Here ya go. Howler Feb 2012 #53
Austin nt rbnyc Feb 2012 #18
One of my best friends in college moved to Austin Lucinda Feb 2012 #33
I was once on an open-ended vacation... rbnyc Feb 2012 #48
Just down the road a bit! Chattanooga is a nice town. A river japple Feb 2012 #22
I love this part of Tennessee. Lucinda Feb 2012 #32
I grew up in Chattanooga. southerncrone Feb 2012 #63
It looks like you would need trees BlueToTheBone Feb 2012 #23
Ideal for me would be California about half a century ago Lucinda Feb 2012 #31
I always end up back in Florida Mojorabbit Feb 2012 #46
Bill is from the Jupiter/Stuart area and I loved it, but he would only really want to go back Lucinda Feb 2012 #47
As a landscape/scene lover BlueToTheBone Feb 2012 #49
I would suggest Oregon west of Interstate 5 PufPuf23 Feb 2012 #69
Sedona AZ Tripod Feb 2012 #24
I used to travel cross country from California to Arkansas Lucinda Feb 2012 #30
Portland, OR southerncrone Feb 2012 #25
Oooh. Uh, not to "rip" your intuitive hit, but... BlueIris Feb 2012 #26
I have also wondered if I wouldn't have liked Portland or Seattle as they were about 10 years ago Lucinda Feb 2012 #29
I don't know about you or your family, but I have family and friends that are thriving in Oregon. Howler Feb 2012 #51
I have thought about the Portland area, a lot, but it was a few years ago. Lucinda Feb 2012 #28
Well Lucinda there you are. Howler Feb 2012 #55
Portland has a real "community" feel BanzaiBonnie Feb 2012 #64
I totally agree with Howler Feb 2012 #54
Thank you everyone, for the great suggestions. Lucinda Feb 2012 #45
I am late here, but here goes Digit Feb 2012 #65
Thanks for the Carrboro suggestion! And the astrocartography idea. Lucinda Feb 2012 #68
Ditto what Digit said... japple Feb 2012 #74
You might want to check out an astrocartography chart Matariki Feb 2012 #66
Very cool suggestion! Thank you for mentioning this. Lucinda Feb 2012 #67
What about northern California? not all of it is expensive, although the closer you get Ecumenist Feb 2012 #70

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
2. Was mostly looking for impressions, but I will happily take any help on the issue
Sat Feb 4, 2012, 05:56 PM
Feb 2012

We genuinely don't know where we want to go, but it IS time to leave here.

We are spending too much energy to maintain a house that we don't fully live in. The weather seems to be making it harder for me to function. Nature is very important to us both. We both like to take photos. We have discussed costal, out west, Memphis area, Lexington KY area, and we tend to be a little quirky, so someplace unusual and not on the beaten path really appeals. Is that of any help?



Melissa G

(10,170 posts)
3. What kind of weather do you want?
Sat Feb 4, 2012, 10:02 PM
Feb 2012

Probably love to have you down here in Austin, though you look more like Bastop/ Smithville folks
or maybe Spicewood Springs. ( small towns surrounding area). What type of work is being sought?

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
4. I have been told by friends that I would love Austin.
Sat Feb 4, 2012, 10:13 PM
Feb 2012

We work online, and Bill is a great carpenter, so work is usually not our primary factor in making a choice.
My background is in the arts, bill programs and works in virtual communities online when not hammering things.

rbnyc

(17,045 posts)
20. I posted first...
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 06:59 PM
Feb 2012

...after responding to the picture, then read the thread. I got Austin strongest.

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
44. I have been told I would love Austin by someone I loved very much.
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 02:13 AM
Feb 2012

There is definitely an affinity for me there, not surprised it clicked with you. ?

Melissa G

(10,170 posts)
21. Love to have you here.
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 08:41 PM
Feb 2012

Feels right to me in this vicinity for you, but I think there are also other good choices out there for you.

After you narrow it down, pm me your vital stats and I will do an astrological match thing for you on my computer.

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
27. Thank you! That would be great. :)
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 01:33 AM
Feb 2012

We will be selling a house here, so some of this will be in other peoples hands, for a while anyway.

Why Syzygy

(18,928 posts)
56. Austin, Texas
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 02:37 PM
Feb 2012

There are lots of 'transients' and new transplants there. So they are a welcoming community for new comers. The citizen morale in Austin is unsurpassed. I've never lived anywhere so wonderful. I felt good just about living there! The natural water attractions are almost limitless and FUN! There are drum circles on the Lamar Street pedestrian bridge every Friday and Saturday nights. Hanging with the chill group. I can't wait until I can go back.


** eta: I used the word, "transients", but not in a bad way. They don't call you that there. Leave that to LAS VEGAS. If you move there, be prepared to face discrimination in any type of workplace situation. That is the only place where I was openly referred to as a TRANSIENT, even though I lived in my previous home for eight years. After about six months or so, you are considered a permanent resident. And if you live there, do not trust anyone and hang on to your purse. Never lay it down somewhere. And I wouldn't suggest it as a place to raise teenagers.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
59. Austin is changing,
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 06:27 PM
Feb 2012

some that live there would say for the worse. Come to Houston instead!

Houston is a strong supporter of the arts, too. Where else will you see this annual event:





We're also one of the most (if not the most) international cities in the state (yeah, it's a link to restaurants ) Use that site (The Houston Press) to discover more about our fine city

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
60. I lived in Bear Creek for a while
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 07:00 PM
Feb 2012

It was a long time ago, but it was cool being so close to Houston!

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
61. That must be on the north side,
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 07:14 PM
Feb 2012

in the pine trees and such

I am more familiar with the south-east, west and inner-loop portions of Houston. However, I do believe DUer ScreamingMeemie lives in Spring, so not that far off.

Of course, Houston has the big problem of sprawl, with the outer areas being the most conservative. Anything inside the Beltway is pretty much purple these days for politics. Not to mention, having the nation's first openly lesbian mayor

If you ever visit, you have to at least see the giant Sam Houston statue along I-45 north of Houston. It's a hoot!

Why Syzygy

(18,928 posts)
71. Competition baby!
Tue Feb 14, 2012, 01:32 AM
Feb 2012
http://www.eeyores.org/
Our next (48th annual) celebration will be held on April 28th, 2012.

Kids play too:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/inlumino/5682829708/in/set-72157626511096357

Costumes!
http://www.flickr.com/photos/thunderf10wer/5686697619/in/set-72157626532474153/

I'm going to try to go down this year. It is so fun

Houston intimidates me. My experience there is pretty limited .. to I10 through to Beaumont. And a trip to the coast with the family as a child. The freeways are HUGE! eek

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
72. Looks like fun!
Tue Feb 14, 2012, 07:20 AM
Feb 2012


Try the International Festival in Houston sometime. Or just go to the Renaissance Festival

I would also advise avoiding I-10 whenever you can. Houston may be filled with freeways, but that one is one of the worst. The rebuilt section to the west toward Katy is now 18 lanes wide! I've had to get on it every now and then and usually drive close to the outside lanes. The rest of it's too intimidating, and it's got tollway lanes mixed in! WTF?!

However, I will add that while I love Houston (mostly for all the Middle Eastern food and belly dancing I can "consume&quot all of Texas is wonderful

Here's a couple of sites to help y'all ogle and read about our fair state, too

Texas Highways
The Handbook of Texas Online

Why Syzygy

(18,928 posts)
73. Hey ..
Tue Feb 14, 2012, 01:09 PM
Feb 2012

why don't you think about coming up to Austin for Eeyore's this year? That would be fun! The Birthday Party was the first event I attended as a new transplant there in 2005.

calikid

(584 posts)
5. My wife & I lived on the Mendocino coast of California for twenty years.
Sat Feb 4, 2012, 11:09 PM
Feb 2012

It was and is a wonderfull place, very liberal, but not the cheapest place in the world. We left the left coast for two reasons; the dampness, and to be by family. The area is close to so much, the ocean ofcourse, snow is a few hours away, San Francisco was a few hours another way, and not last or least it was part of the Emerald Triangle, if you like that sort of thing. Actually, most of the area's economy is supported by pot, fishing is almost gone, (you could see the Japanese factory ships) logging disappeared long ago,(thank you Koch Bros., ie Georgia Pacific). There was when we left, about 7 years ago, a fair amount of residential construction work, I kept very busy with painting and hammering.
Rereading your post, I see that you like photography, I also did a LOT of that, the area is VERY artistic. Hope this helps.

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
6. Thank you for the post!
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 12:51 AM
Feb 2012

I grew up in Souther California but never ventured to the upper part of the state. Bill is a Florida boy, and we both like costal living, but want to avoid anyplace too touristy. We live in a mountain tourist area now and never venture out to play because of the crowds.

I have no desire to live in southern California again, but the northern part of the state could be very interesting! Thank you for the info about the Mendocino area!

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
8. In which state do you currently live?
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 02:49 AM
Feb 2012


What do you like/dislike about where you are, aside from house issues?


When you envision a place in the future where you are happy, what are you doing and what is around you?


Questions....


If you're thinking of intentional comminities, here's one directory:

http://directory.ic.org/iclist/geo.php





Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
41. Thank you for the IC directory link!
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 02:09 AM
Feb 2012

I have a friend in Belieze that will be interested to see the two listings for that country!

It's not really easy to envision a specific place, because I am always pretty happy where I am, and doing what I am doing. There is no emotional pull that places me in a specific spot, right now anyway.

I'll know it when I get there, but in the meantime, I'm browsing through suggestions, if that makes any sense at all.

calikid

(584 posts)
11. I forgot to mention, tourism comes in second behind pot,
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 10:33 AM
Feb 2012

in $, but there are no crowds. And again, the art scene is very active, many famous people coming in to teach seminars.
And, I think very important, from looking at your photos you would fit right in!

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
42. Thank you! I'll definitely keep it in my places to check out.
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 02:11 AM
Feb 2012

No crowds, active artisan community sounds good!

rosesaylavee

(12,126 posts)
12. Maybe Ukiah?
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 10:51 AM
Feb 2012

I have some friends there and it's a nice place... or at least they have liked it well enough to have been there for 30+ years.

MagickMuffin

(15,936 posts)
7. D/FW could be an interesting fit
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 01:57 AM
Feb 2012

While it isn't quite as kwel as Austin, it is an interesting area. In Tarrant County in which I live we are trying extremely hard to turn Fort Worth Blue, but we'll take Purple. So, I'd to have you close by. Fort Worth has a wonderful cultural arts district, lots of bicycle trails, and fun places to visit and see.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fort_Worth,_Texas

We have the historic Water Gardens, which was in a scene in Logan's Run.




Then there is Bass Hall. The Hall is able to house symphony, ballet, opera, stage, musicals, and rock concerts.






Of course I agree with anywhere on the West Coast, however, it is too rich for my poor earnings. Maybe some day, but for now I will continue to live here unless a miracle happened

Keep us posted wherever you end up, as it will be interesting to find out which cool places you decide upon.



Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
40. Great photos. Thanks for those!
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 02:05 AM
Feb 2012

I lived in Texas for a year or so, several years ago. It was in the suburbs of Houston.

Interesting that you should mention the Dallas area...I have been following a couple of arts groups online (performance oriented) in Dallas that are just starting out, and I love the energy that they have.

Why Syzygy

(18,928 posts)
57. I hate DFW
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 02:43 PM
Feb 2012

Spent most of my life in the area. Have left a couple times vowing to never return. The only positive thing I have to say, is there is a lot of variety in living conditions to choose from! And no fun.

MagickMuffin

(15,936 posts)
62. There is a pretty big Art Culture here in the D/FW region
Thu Feb 9, 2012, 12:41 AM
Feb 2012

The Kimbell Art Museum in Fort Worth usually has extremely great exhibits. The Japanese Gardens is also a great place to soak in the beauty of the inner city.

Dallas also has wonderful museums, arboretum.

Could you send the info about the arts groups? I don't get over to Dallas much since the price of gas going up.

We do have however, the Trinity Express train, that connects Fort Worth and Dallas. Fun little trip. There are also several lakes in the area that are fun to hang out and take pics. Wildlife Nature reserve is a pretty neat place as well.

If you get the chance to check it out be sure to contact me and I'd be more than happy to show you around

BlueIris

(29,135 posts)
16. Heh! I also get that they would be happy in a Southern location. My vote: Mississippi.
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 01:10 PM
Feb 2012

Maybe Alabama. I have this feeling they would appreciate the sense of community those locations offer.

Other thoughts: I had a flickering sense they might be able to enjoy California...North State? San Jose? It would have to be a place that offered a friendly atmosphere.

Yes, I know many of these places are not exactly having an easy time in the new economy. I feel that this couple will be able to manage anyway, and that the atmosphere of their city will be more important than the financial challenges of living in it.

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
39. I have family in Mississippi, just minutes from Memphis.
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 02:02 AM
Feb 2012

I haven't been there to visit since they moved, but they like it a lot! We have talked about southern costal states with cities off the beaten path, and about Northern California as well. So you are right in tune with what we have discussed.

Why Syzygy

(18,928 posts)
58. Mississippi
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 02:46 PM
Feb 2012

Is just about the most beautiful state I've ever seen. I lived just south of Memphis for a very short time in 1994. The people are friendly. The mosquitoes are as big as basketballs.

Howler

(4,225 posts)
52. Mississippi???
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 02:22 PM
Feb 2012

I have never lived in Alabama and only spent a few months in Mississippi, so it is very possible that bright red color on election days and the statistics about education and income do not provide an accurate image of the people in those states. Not to mention the bible belt and teen pregnancy. Though on the bright side I've heard they havent lynched any one there in......Weeks!

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
38. Asheville is a cool town. I am about an hour and a half from there now.
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 01:58 AM
Feb 2012

It's got a lot of that bohemian vibe I like, and is surrounded by great mountains. I like the TN side of the Smokys better, but it's really nice "over the hill"

Celebration

(15,812 posts)
10. I would say visit a few places first
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 09:55 AM
Feb 2012

How about Eueka Springs AR? Not thattourist and a nice eclectic group of people there. Someone here lives there.

If you want the gulf coast there are places north of Tampa where the high rises don't reign supreme.

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
37. We probably will before we make a final choice
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 01:56 AM
Feb 2012

That was part of the reason for the post, to give us places to explore online and later in person.

My sister looooves Eureka Springs, and would love to live there herself. I never visited, when I lived in Arkansas.
Bill isn't crazy about returning to Florida, unless we could live in the keys. But the Gulf might have something appealing to him!

GardeningGal

(2,211 posts)
13. Well, as usual I am second guessing what I got.
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 11:13 AM
Feb 2012

So, I will just put it out there and stop trying to analyze it which is what I always do. I got New Mexico - specifically, either in or surrounding Santa Fe.

liberalmuse

(18,672 posts)
15. New Mexico is a beautiful state.
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 01:03 PM
Feb 2012

I plan to retire there up near Taos or maybe Santa Fe. Even Angel Fire is nice.

I'm not an intuitive, but that's the first place I thought of. New Mexico.

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
36. New Mexico was my thought when I mentioned the southwest.
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 01:53 AM
Feb 2012

It's always held some magic for me. Bill has not been, yet!

Howler

(4,225 posts)
17. Coquille Or Bandon Oregon.
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 03:43 PM
Feb 2012

Portland Oregon is a beautiful city too. Thats where Mr Howler and I would go if we could.

Howler

(4,225 posts)
50. Bandon,Coquille, and portland oregon
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 11:28 AM
Feb 2012

Are some of the most beautiful places I've ever been. It has Beaches, Sand dunes , Mountains,Big trees. The people are just as beautiful too lots of artists and spiritual communities.You can literally feel the magic in the land Esp. when over by the sea lion caves. My Husband is from Bandon and everytime We go to visit I cry like a baby when we have to leave the ocean. I still have dreams about being there and its been ten years.
Lucinda If you ever go You won't want to leave either.

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
33. One of my best friends in college moved to Austin
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 01:50 AM
Feb 2012

right after he graduated, and he told me I would love it. I haven't been yet!

rbnyc

(17,045 posts)
48. I was once on an open-ended vacation...
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 09:15 AM
Feb 2012

...officially homeless unless you count my girlfriend's truck. We drove around the country, camping, hiking. In New Orleans, we spent almost all the rest of our money going out to eat. I had $50 left. My friend had a little more than that. She was headed back to Sedona to get her old job back. I asked her to drop me in Austin. I had a couple friends there and heard it was easy living. She left me in the middle of the city with $50, one suitcase, one guitar case and a teddy bear - everything I owned. In 2 days I had a job. In one week I had an apartment. My friends were welcoming and helpful, but total strangers drove me around to apply for jobs and look for a place to live. Some folks even broke in to my empty apartment while I was at work and left a futon, flatware and filled my cabinets and fridge with food.

Moving to New York City a year later was a much different experience.

japple

(9,822 posts)
22. Just down the road a bit! Chattanooga is a nice town. A river
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 09:03 PM
Feb 2012

runs through it. Lots of history, cultural happenings, great downtown. Not too far from where you are now. Very accessible, but still not a huge metropolitan area. If I were 40 yrs. younger, that's where I'd go. Abingdon, VA is another place I'd think about, or Charleston, WVA. Anywhere in the Southern Appalachians with a college or university would be a good choice for me.

Edit to add: I really liked the high country of NC where we lived for 25 years, though it was starting to become too touristy when I left there 8 yrs ago. You can still find nice rural places like Burnsville or Spruce Pine. I lived in Asheville from 1980 to 1987 and it's a lovely place, but it was getting a bit too uptown for my tastes when we moved away.

If you want the beach and east coast, I think Wilmington, NC, or one of the areas like New Bern might be nice.

Good luck in choosing a place. You've gotten lots of good suggestions. Just get out your pendulum, a map, and let 'er rip!

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
32. I love this part of Tennessee.
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 01:49 AM
Feb 2012

It feels ancient here.
The dark sides of the mountains are cool and really powerful, even in the hottest part of the summer. And I love the early American history in the area, and the connection with the Cherokee.

I haven't been to Chattanooga yet, though it's not too far away.
And I agree with you about college towns, they are really good for us both.

Thanks for the town suggestion for the Virginias and NC!

southerncrone

(5,506 posts)
63. I grew up in Chattanooga.
Thu Feb 9, 2012, 01:04 AM
Feb 2012

It is not the same town as then, when it was the city w/the worst air pollution in the nation. It has really cleaned up its act since those days......thankfully. It began to realize that their biggest asset was the beauty of the area & capitalize on that w/tourism, instead of polluting industries.

However, it is still not as open-minded as some of the other towns suggested here. Still quite a bit of racism exists & that Southern Conservatism is still very strong. VW just put in a big plant, so perhaps things will turn around a bit w/the influx of Europeans.

I left there when I graduated from HS because of the narrow-mindedness, only returning in the summers for work. I never intended on returning, even tho most of my family still lives there. I must admit that I have found it at least more acceptable the last few years when I visit. Still don't think I'd move back unless it became MUCH more open minded. I've lived in the Nashville area for the last 35 yrs. I find it much more accepting of outsiders, probably because of the music biz.

I didn't catch where you are currently living. Is it in the Knoxville area? If so, Chatt is similar, but seems to have a slower pace. Not quite as much tourism that the Smokies attract to Knoxville area, but still some tourism is there.

Hope this helps. Good luck w/your search. I'm sure you'll end up in the correct place.

BlueToTheBone

(3,747 posts)
23. It looks like you would need trees
Mon Feb 6, 2012, 12:55 AM
Feb 2012

mountains and water. Rural but not hicksville; a place where you can create community; looks like artistic stimulation would be necessary.

Where are you now? What is too cold? Austin is a swamp with all the lakes and the roaches are big enough to carry you away; but a cool city scene.

Do you need the ocean?

We love our new little community. There are a lot of tourists in season and they are all a bit stupid on the roads, but we just say, "Oh, they're tourists" and slow down for them. We live out of town, so we can avoid are join in as we feel like it.

Good luck in finding Home

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
31. Ideal for me would be California about half a century ago
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 01:44 AM
Feb 2012

Less people, no smog, and one hour to the ocean or the mountains.
But that's not gonna happen.

Landscape is crazy important to me.
As is some form of moving water.
I MISS the ocean a lot, but a visit might fix that. I haven't been in several years.

Mojorabbit

(16,020 posts)
46. I always end up back in Florida
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 02:30 AM
Feb 2012

because I HAVE to be by the ocean. I thought anyplace by the water would do but this humid oven is where my spirit is happiest.

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
47. Bill is from the Jupiter/Stuart area and I loved it, but he would only really want to go back
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 02:54 AM
Feb 2012

to move to the keys. We loved Key West, but we'd be trading one expensive tourist town for another.
I even like the area by St Augustine, but I haven't traveled the west side of the state yet.

BlueToTheBone

(3,747 posts)
49. As a landscape/scene lover
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 11:19 AM
Feb 2012

with mountains and water being so essential for my mind's ease, I'll tell you where we moved if you want. We transplanted from northern California about 2/3 yrs ago and I think it is another version of paradise.

I'd love to have more friends and neighbors in our little community.

PufPuf23

(8,769 posts)
69. I would suggest Oregon west of Interstate 5
Thu Feb 9, 2012, 06:51 PM
Feb 2012

Your exact location would be on coast or inland enough for hot summer and where you are on cost and close urban-rural spectrums.

You look like you are in Oregon.

I have spent my entire life (except travel) between San Francisco/Berkeley and Portland/Corvallis west of Interstate 5 (Orleans, Berkeley, Weaverville, Redding, San Rafael, Danville, Corvallis, and Portland)

Lots of rivers and trees and ocean and snow and and universities and culture nearby plus the choice of liberal rural or liberal urban. Probably half the landscape is Federal, mostly National Forests. Good local food and wine too.

Portland is not international like the SF Bay Area but more like the Bay Area of 50 years past as far as congestion.

Tripod

(854 posts)
24. Sedona AZ
Mon Feb 6, 2012, 02:22 AM
Feb 2012

I was there in the sixties, seventies, eighties, nineties. I hope to go again. Red rock canyon. I fished there, swam there, slid down the rocks, before it was regulated. Just 70 miles south of the Grand Canyon. When people died there 7 years ago in a sweat tent, it got a bad wrape. But a friend of mine, Sharon, and I saw amazing things there in the late 90's. Powerful stuff.

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
30. I used to travel cross country from California to Arkansas
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 01:40 AM
Feb 2012

a lot, and I have always loved the southwest.

I wonder what Sedona is like in 2012...

BlueIris

(29,135 posts)
26. Oooh. Uh, not to "rip" your intuitive hit, but...
Mon Feb 6, 2012, 12:03 PM
Feb 2012

as a native Oregonian, I do not feel this couple would be happy in Portland. At all. That city, which has had its history and its sense of family and community razed out of it this last decade, would not, IMO, be a good place for people who need friendliness and connection with their neighbors. And Lord help them if they have or want to raise children. Very difficult to do in Portland--or anywhere in Oregon right now.

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
29. I have also wondered if I wouldn't have liked Portland or Seattle as they were about 10 years ago
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 01:38 AM
Feb 2012

as opposed to now...And I have no rational reason for that feeling. It's interesting to see your comments about the changes to the sense of community.

Howler

(4,225 posts)
51. I don't know about you or your family, but I have family and friends that are thriving in Oregon.
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 02:18 PM
Feb 2012

I have family that is living in Portland, Eugene, Bandon, and all over the state. It is so very beautiful and full of such possitive energy and innovation, I don't know of any of my family or friends that wants to leave.

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
28. I have thought about the Portland area, a lot, but it was a few years ago.
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 01:36 AM
Feb 2012

I have friends in both Washington State and Oregon, and they all have said that I would like both Portland and Seattle.

BanzaiBonnie

(3,621 posts)
64. Portland has a real "community" feel
Thu Feb 9, 2012, 01:27 AM
Feb 2012

It's actually small enough that I continue to meet up with people who know other people between different groups I hang with. It has a very connected feel.

The music and art communities are tight. We have lots of blues and jazz musicians who moved here from New Orleans after Katrina.

We love gardening in our Mediterranenan climate. And if you're looking for progressive, Portland's itsville.

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
45. Thank you everyone, for the great suggestions.
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 02:14 AM
Feb 2012

It gives me places to think about, and explore online! ?

Digit

(6,163 posts)
65. I am late here, but here goes
Thu Feb 9, 2012, 03:13 AM
Feb 2012

Have you ever looked into Astrocartography?
I visited Asheville NC and could FEEL the difference in energy there, unfortunately, I would be unable to make a living there.
You don't have that problem.

Perhaps there is a small town north of Wilmington NC that is not too touristy.

Not too far from Chapel Hill is Carrboro NC which is not only blue, it is home to artists, writers, performers and other creative types. http://carrboro.com/overview.html
Not too far from the ocean or mountains!

Happy Hunting!

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
68. Thanks for the Carrboro suggestion! And the astrocartography idea.
Thu Feb 9, 2012, 06:08 AM
Feb 2012

Carrboro looks really cool, and no too far away to check out via car.

NC in general does have a lot of appeal. Like you say, it's costal and mountains, and affordable in many spots.

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
66. You might want to check out an astrocartography chart
Thu Feb 9, 2012, 03:33 AM
Feb 2012

I've found it pretty accurate for the sorts of experiences I've had in particular locations. Astro.com has an option or you could do a google search. I had a chart done years ago that came with a map and the meanings of the lines & crosspoints.

Ecumenist

(6,086 posts)
70. What about northern California? not all of it is expensive, although the closer you get
Thu Feb 9, 2012, 07:13 PM
Feb 2012

to the coast, the more expensive it can be. There's LOTS OF WATER in this prat of the state and as an earlier poster told you, depending on where you choose to be, you are no more than 4 hours from snow and skiing in the winter and the same distance to the ocean. Tends to be more liberal the closer you get to the ocean. There is everything to choose from, large cities to small REALLY rural towns to flat out wilderness, if that's your 'thing. We have medical marijuana, so if you have a 'condition' that you need it for, hey, more power to you.
I love in the Capital, Sacramento, the river City and although it's somewhat conservative, that's changing, for the better. We have salmon and steelhead, if that's your thang, beautiful red Roosevelt Elk, up north. Believe it or not, pronghorn antelpe and bighorn sheep in the northeast counties, (Lassen and Modoc)...So come to northern California, i think you'll love it here and never regret it. it feels like it'll work for you. Besides , you're also never more than 6 hours, (from coastal counties) from NEVADA and about 6 hours from LA to the south and another 6 hours to the north to Oregon.

Hope to see you here

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