Tue Apr 3, 2012, 06:55 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
Damn, I lost my job.
Doc found someone who was willing to work for $2 less an hour than me.
![]() I really don't know why I'm posting. I guess I just want to get it off my chest. ![]()
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47 replies, 5643 views
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Author | Time | Post |
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Cleita | Apr 2012 | OP |
glinda | Apr 2012 | #1 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #2 | |
Kookaburra | Apr 2012 | #3 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #4 | |
kimmerspixelated | Apr 2012 | #5 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #7 | |
FirstLight | Apr 2012 | #6 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #8 | |
BlueIris | Apr 2012 | #9 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #10 | |
Digit | Apr 2012 | #11 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #12 | |
Digit | Apr 2012 | #22 | |
Proud_Lefty | Apr 2012 | #13 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #15 | |
MorningGlow | Apr 2012 | #14 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #16 | |
Tumbulu | Apr 2012 | #17 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #18 | |
NJCher | Apr 2012 | #21 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #28 | |
icymist | Apr 2012 | #19 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #20 | |
BlueIris | Apr 2012 | #23 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #29 | |
OneGrassRoot | Apr 2012 | #24 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #30 | |
Sanity Claws | Apr 2012 | #25 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #31 | |
WolverineDG | Apr 2012 | #26 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #32 | |
eilen | Apr 2012 | #40 | |
Howler | Apr 2012 | #27 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #33 | |
magical thyme | Apr 2012 | #34 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #36 | |
get the red out | Apr 2012 | #35 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #37 | |
davsand | Apr 2012 | #38 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #43 | |
davsand | Apr 2012 | #47 | |
BanzaiBonnie | Apr 2012 | #39 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #44 | |
Why Syzygy | Apr 2012 | #41 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #45 | |
kentauros | Apr 2012 | #42 | |
Cleita | Apr 2012 | #46 |
Response to Cleita (Original post)
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 07:00 PM
glinda (14,807 posts)
1. Am sorry, Cleita. Hope you will survive. What are you going to do?
Response to glinda (Reply #1)
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 07:07 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
2. Fortunately, I get SS, but I'm really going to have to pinch pennies.
Everything is going up, all my expenses. Gas and food are through the roof. I suppose I will start hitting the pavement to see if there is anything out there.
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Response to Cleita (Original post)
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 07:17 PM
Kookaburra (2,649 posts)
3. That sucks.
I'm hoping you find something better very soon.
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Response to Kookaburra (Reply #3)
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 07:18 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
4. Thanks Kookaburra. n/t
Response to Cleita (Original post)
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 08:53 PM
kimmerspixelated (8,423 posts)
5. SO sorry!
Blessings and abundance to you soon!
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Response to kimmerspixelated (Reply #5)
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 09:18 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
7. Thank you. n/t
Response to Cleita (Original post)
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 08:57 PM
FirstLight (12,185 posts)
6. guh
I pray that you will have some alternative reveal itself to you, keep asking your guides to help you find your best way to be in service to mankind and in your own JOY
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Response to FirstLight (Reply #6)
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 09:19 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
8. I seem to be coming up dry.
But I'll keep trying.
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Response to Cleita (Original post)
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 09:54 PM
BlueIris (29,135 posts)
9. Ouch. Mars Retrograde in Virgo *bites.*
And no, I'm not suggesting that Mars Rx "took" your job. Just that it's known for...issues in employment, specifically, people being fired for petty reasons.
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Response to BlueIris (Reply #9)
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 10:06 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
10. I guess.
It's just not a good time, but then is there ever a good time to be fired? It seems four and a half years of faithful service counts for nothing in this world.
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Response to Cleita (Original post)
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 10:34 PM
Digit (6,163 posts)
11. Can you get unemployment while you search?
Every little bit helps.
I wish you all the best. ![]() |
Response to Digit (Reply #11)
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 10:36 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
12. I don't believe so.
I was considered contract labor, so he never took out deductions for unemployment. I basically had to file my FICA and FIT taxes myself. I didn't really make enough for state taxes so my accountant never filed for them. Thank you for your hug.
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Response to Cleita (Reply #12)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 01:04 AM
Digit (6,163 posts)
22. Sorry, I did not realize you were an independent contractor
Currently the kids are still in school so you have the advantage of being available now.
It seems really shortsighted IMO for your employer to let you go for $2.00 an hour difference when there is training necessary for a new employee and he does not know how they will work out. Really, after you gave them four years of service they do this. Sad. Here's another hug in case the first one wears off.... ![]() |
Response to Cleita (Original post)
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 11:01 PM
Proud_Lefty (1,553 posts)
13. Sorry to hear this, Cleita
I hope that other door opens for you soon. Sending you lots of hugs.
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Response to Proud_Lefty (Reply #13)
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 11:05 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
15. Thank you Proud_Lefty for your good wishes. n/t
Response to Cleita (Original post)
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 11:05 PM
MorningGlow (15,758 posts)
14. Dayum. That's cold.
Sorry to hear it, Cleita. Sending good vibes for the perfect job for you. Hang in there.
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Response to MorningGlow (Reply #14)
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 11:06 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
16. Thanks MorningGlow.
I hope when one door closes another opens.
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Response to Cleita (Original post)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 12:39 AM
Tumbulu (5,367 posts)
17. Oh I'm so sorry!
Here's my hope- something much more fun, which pays a tad more finds it's way to you.
Sending hope and hugs, ![]() Tumbulu |
Response to Tumbulu (Reply #17)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 12:50 AM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
18. Thank you Tumbulu.
All you guys are so sweet.
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Response to Cleita (Reply #18)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 01:01 AM
NJCher (25,883 posts)
21. Cleita, check this out
I heard this interesting program tonight on "On Point." It's an avenue for odd jobs and also to sell things.
http://onpoint.wbur.org/2012/04/03/micro-labor-websites I hope you listen to the program. They had a number of experts on the show that I thought had good comments. There are some articles listed below at the web site that you might also want to read. There are at least three sites to check out. Zaarly looked like the most interesting one to me. I think it's sickening that your employer let you go over $2 an hour! I think he will be sorry. He will have to train, and that's an expense he'll have to recoup right there. In a friendly way, maybe you can say that if things don't work out for him, he is welcome to recontact you. I would go see all the other docs in town and do it right away, too. Don't let the age thing get you down. In my circle of friends in the last year: --1 65-year old attained a high-level national management job --1 62-year old attained a $350 a day consulting job on an indefinite basis --1 56-year old opened a creative business where she restores and sells furniture out of a workshop in her home. Business is booming and she's having a ball meeting new people. 1 62-year old attained a regular, f-t job in a school of dentistry, where she places students in residencies Keep us posted. You might be surprised at what comes up. Also, I agree with Blue Iris, above. I think this is a time for employment falling by the wayside for reasons that are not so substantial. ![]() Cher |
Response to NJCher (Reply #21)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 02:21 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
28. I haven't listened to your link yet, cause I had some
appointments I had to keep this morning, but I will and thank you so much for sharing. I'll let you know when I do.
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Response to Cleita (Original post)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 12:54 AM
icymist (14,756 posts)
19. Man, that's a bummer.
Sending out good vibes that you find another job soon.
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Response to icymist (Reply #19)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 12:59 AM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
20. Thank you icymist.
I do appreciate it.
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Response to Cleita (Original post)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 04:15 AM
BlueIris (29,135 posts)
23. FWIW, my pendulum thinks you will have another job
by the time the Sun leaves the sign of Gemini.
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Response to BlueIris (Reply #23)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 02:23 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
29. Thank you BlueIris. That means a lot to me.
I was talking to one of the trainers at the gym today and she says she will keep her ears open with her clients because a lot of them are business owners in the area. This may be the way. In this job market even the poorest paying jobs in my area have hundreds of applicants.
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Response to Cleita (Original post)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 05:19 AM
OneGrassRoot (21,937 posts)
24. I'm sorry, Cleita :(
I hope another huge door opens soon so you don't have to stress for long.
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Response to OneGrassRoot (Reply #24)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 02:24 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
30. Thank you so much for caring.
Response to Cleita (Original post)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 07:17 AM
Sanity Claws (19,826 posts)
25. I am so sorry to hear this
All I can do is send you positive vibes and thoughts. They are going out to you right now.
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Response to Sanity Claws (Reply #25)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 02:25 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
31. Vibes and thoughts are much appreciated by me.
Response to Cleita (Original post)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 08:48 AM
WolverineDG (22,298 posts)
26. Ah, but are they willing to do the job as well as you did?
therein lies the rub......
I'm sorry you lost your job. That sucks. But I have a sneaking suspicion that you'll be missed because you did more than this other person would be willing to do. Here's hoping that another, much better job comes your way soon!! ![]() |
Response to WolverineDG (Reply #26)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 02:25 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
32. Well, I feel sorry for the new girl.
He was very hard to get along with.
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Response to Cleita (Reply #32)
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 06:27 AM
eilen (4,934 posts)
40. You might get a call with an offer of your job back
Hiring a new employee during a Mars/Mercury retro is probably a bad move. I bet there will be something with the new moon later this month.
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Response to Cleita (Original post)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 10:17 AM
Howler (4,225 posts)
27. Oh Cleita I'm so sorry!!!
Sending !!! I can't wait till you find the right job for you! Where you will be fairly compensated for your work and appreciated for the wonderful employee that you are!.
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Response to Howler (Reply #27)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 02:30 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
33. Thank you for your wonderful wishes.
I hope you are right.
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Response to Cleita (Original post)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 03:39 PM
magical thyme (14,881 posts)
34. jobs link
person who gave me this said she's had some luck in the past with this.
www.virtualvocations.com |
Response to magical thyme (Reply #34)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 05:47 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
36. Thanks magical thyme.
It looks like they have a lot of jobs there and working from home is appealing.
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Response to Cleita (Original post)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 03:55 PM
get the red out (13,425 posts)
35. I'm so sorry
I hope for the best in your job search.
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Response to get the red out (Reply #35)
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 05:48 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
37. Thank you for your kind words. n/t
Response to Cleita (Original post)
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 12:01 AM
davsand (13,234 posts)
38. Oh no! I am so sorry to hear you are facing this!
May your path brighten soon! Call it a feeling, if you wish, but I think you will come out of this better off than you were.
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Response to davsand (Reply #38)
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 08:36 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
43. Thank you Laura.
Did I ever tell you that my first name is Laura too? Although I go by a nickname and don't use it much.
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Response to Cleita (Reply #43)
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 10:09 PM
davsand (13,234 posts)
47. No way!!!! I never met any other Lauras until I was in my 20's.
Nice to find another! Mrs Grumpy (can't remember her curret DU name, I know she changed it to something else) is also named Laura. We used to joke about it sometimes in our posts. Well met!
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Response to Cleita (Original post)
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 02:21 AM
BanzaiBonnie (3,621 posts)
39. Cleita, that sucks.
Sending my highest vibes to you for something much better, working with someone you respect and doing work that brings you joy.
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Response to BanzaiBonnie (Reply #39)
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 08:36 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
44. Thank you dear.
You are very kind.
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Response to Cleita (Original post)
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 04:25 PM
Why Syzygy (18,928 posts)
41. wow
What a shock! From what you've said from time to time, I thought your job was secure. I imagine this just came out of nowhere. So sorry you have to deal with this now. I feel like you'll get something that is easier on you and pays even better!
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Response to Why Syzygy (Reply #41)
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 08:38 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
45. Thanks. I don't really think any job is that secure, but since
we don't have any laws to cover workplace abuses I guess we have to suck it up. Frankly, I feel like a weight has lifted. Now I just have to figure out how to make some money.
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Response to Cleita (Original post)
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 05:22 PM
kentauros (29,414 posts)
42. I'm sorry that happened, Cleita
It always sucks to lose a job, no matter what the circumstances. I hope you find something you love, soon
![]() Here's another site to look at, though it's for coaching to work what you love or put your love into your work: http://www.workfromwithin.com/ |
Response to kentauros (Reply #42)
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 08:38 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)