Atheists & Agnostics
Related: About this forumI知 an atheist psychiatrist. Should I see patients who believe in God?
Original ArticleSo here is where I find so much fault with those that bristle at the use of the term delusion to describe religion.
From the article linked above:
Its a tough question for me. Ive been a psychiatrist for almost 15 years. In that time, Ive seen thousands of patients. Many are non-believers. But for others, faith is integral to who they are. In these cases, am I in a bad position to give care?
Really? Do people really think that atheists are so blinded by our lack of religious belief that we can't separate that from our work. Do they think I have an impossible time teaching non-atheist students? How can I possibly relate?
And this (from the article). Oy. Far too many people that are religious think that atheists can't have values of charity and empathy:
And this segue to the conclusion just smacks of "well, we have to let the religious know that they are awesome." (yes, yes, I get that in the context of being a therapist):
I'm quite sure plenty will be salivating about this article because it is SOOOOOOOO different from what the nasty "new atheists" would do which is take a giant shit on any believers.
uppityperson
(115,677 posts)Last edited Mon Jan 26, 2015, 07:10 PM - Edit history (2)
another link. My apologies if I over stepped.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/1218179435
Goblinmonger
(22,340 posts)without what I'm sure would be cries of "stop saying we are delusional."
cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)Period.
Curmudgeoness
(18,219 posts)We want to have discussion, and end up with arguments all the time. I suppose there is a time and place for both, but defending ourselves against ridicule and accusations gets old.
edgineered
(2,101 posts)had you, or a member of this group, posted this somewhere else i would still have clicked on it.
ChairmanAgnostic
(28,017 posts)After all, you already have all the proof you need to diagnose them with a mental illness.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)From Prozac to Jesus. Just because one crutch has a lot of big buildings doesn't mean it can't be useful in treatment.
That's a pretty solid point.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)that in our professional and personal lives away from DU we don't scream "GOD DOESN'T EXIST!! YOU'RE DELUSIONAL!!! WHARRGARBL!!!" at everyone we meet.
But then that wouldn't fit the meme they've created about horrible bigoted evil malcontent anti-theist monsters who are exactly the same as the insane rabid religious fundamentalists. Because you know, we feel comfortable voicing our opinions online.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)No wonder I've been getting strange looks from the other people in the office.
mr blur
(7,753 posts)It makes them feel persecuted and as you know there's nothing they enjoy more. It's my way of bringing some joy into their sterile little lives.
Jeff Murdoch
(168 posts)onager
(9,356 posts)About professional lives.
One example I've seen: a woman MD, atheist, who mostly works with poor elderly people in a very conservative rural area of the USA. She has understandable concerns about her patients finding out she's an atheist. She provides the only medical care these people can get/afford, and she doesn't want them fretting about seeing an atheist doctor - in addition to their medical problems.
It's funny to see reactions from non-Americans about her concerns. They're much like the reactions we sometimes see from Mr. Blur and other non-Americans in here: "Being known as an atheist is a problem in the Land of the Free? Srsly? Freedom of religion etc. etc. Damn! How can this be?"
JDDavis
(725 posts)How are they qualified to treat non-believing people without letting the bias of their belief-systems enter into the treatment path? We have cases of people studying to be professionals in the mental health field who complain because their "religious beliefs" say that LGBT folks cannot be considered "normal" or "healthy" as LGBT folks. They refuse to treat certain groups because of religious beliefs, and get kicked out of professional training programs because of those beliefs, and then they complain that their "religious freedom" has been assaulted.
As we have seen so many times in real life, also, religious folks assume they are qualified to "counsel" others. ministers, priests, rabbi's, etc.
Then there are the believers and peer groups who require one "trust in God" to surmount addiction issues, (e.g.: AA and NA).
Extending the analogy further, can a believer be qualified to teach a secular student or a religious skeptic?
Some interesting comments on that article in the WaPo, if you care to read some of them.
Bottom line: are people with deeply held and sincere religious beliefs ever qualified to treat or counsel others without having the counselor's religious beliefs interfere with the mental health treatment plan?
Curmudgeoness
(18,219 posts)I have never been in therapy, so I have no idea if god ever comes into it, but you are right that there are groups that actually do use belief as a part of the treatment. This makes me wonder if a believer can counsel a non-believer. I would assume that they could, as long as they are not fanatics. But I am not sure.
Warren Stupidity
(48,181 posts)I don't care if people are religious, but if they think they need to flaunt their idiotic beliefs that is a bit of a problem. I can't imagine an atheist therapist would decorate her office with, err, um, well fuck it, with a giant picture of DASKWIS!NS! just in case her patients were wondering where she stood on the whole gods question.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)Gone baby, gone. Play voodoo with some idiot that will at least fall for the placebo effect, leave my wallet alone.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)Wait, they aren't subject matter experts in anything at all.
Well, let's just make it up as we go then.
Panich52
(5,829 posts)While 'delusional' seems a good description f/ believers in omnipotent, omniscient entities, there are those who don't let it interfere with living rational lives. A psychiatrist or psychologist who is decently qualified should be able to tell the difference. One delusional belief doesn't necessarily make for a delusional lifestyle.
A teacher, esp one in the sciences, has a more relevant issue, specifically in teaching biology or maybe even geology.
AlbertCat
(17,505 posts)I dunno.
Most people go about their daily business without a thought of gods... even if they unthinkingly go thru the routine of saying grace and stuff like that. Do they believe in a living god while they are not even thinking about him or acting on the belief (that they obviously DON'T really share) that he guides and interacts with them? It's like they only believe when "pressed"...y'know asked about it, or go thru a ritual (like attending church) or are swearing or wishing for something. Those who DO think and act with god in mind all the time are very difficult to deal with.
How can you truly believe and live rationally? It seems the rational part of believer's lives are when they are not believing at the moment.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)for this person to pretend that he's asking a profound and difficult question, or raising a new and novel issue. He very likely covered it in Medical Ethics 101, and knows the answer quite well.
But hey, he got a few column inches out of it, and got to strut around like a good faitheist.
Act_of_Reparation
(9,116 posts)...because I encountered the answer to his question in my undergraduate intro to psychology course. It's called "unconditional positive regard".
Gee, what a brain-buster that one is.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)And the author undoubtedly knows that, but thought it would be a good segway into strutting what a "good" atheist they are.
Act_of_Reparation
(9,116 posts)First, it is worth pointing out: psychiatrists are medical doctors. They are generally concerned with the prescribing and monitoring the effects of prescribed drugs. Therapy is usually left to therapists... who typically hold Ph.D.'s or Master's degrees in psychology. If this guy is a psychiatrist, I don't understand what his hang-up is, as it is very unlikely he's getting very deep into counseling with his patients.
Just as an anecdotal story, here's my experience with psychiatrists:
I went to a psychiatrist's office. I met with a Nurse Practitioner, who administered a multi-factor diagnostic survey. I pinged high on depression and anxiety. She asked if I objected to taking medication. I said no. She wrote me a script for fluoxetine and suggested I seek out a professional for cognitive-behavioral therapy.
Since then, I go to the psychiatrist's office once every 90 days to renew my prescription. The same nurse practitioner asks if I am suffering any negative side effects. I say no. They refill my RX.
I've never actually met my attending psychiatrist.
But even if we assume this guy is an exception--that he's a psychiatrist who is actively dispensing therapy to his patients--then, as you say, this huge moral quandary he seemingly stumbled upon should not seem like such a huge moral quandary... because it is something that is dealt with in painful detail in even the most remedial psychology courses. The therapist is there to listen to the patient, not to provide their opinions on the existence of God or the hereafter. If they disagree with the patient on these matters, they will never make it known, unless they feel the patient's beliefs to be significantly deleterious to their socio-occupational functioning (that is, if they think these beliefs pose a threat to the patient or others).
Tobin S.
(10,418 posts)My wife is a liberal Christian and she knows I have no use for religion. She knew that from the start and she was honest about her beliefs from the get-go as well. It was the main thing that I thought might get in the way of us having a good relationship. However, our differences in this regard have not hindered us in the least and have provided for some lively conversations.
If you can avoid a knee-jerk reaction to go on the offensive when talking to people about this issue in person, it can lead to some very good talks. I sometimes let it rip in this forum because I need a release and this is a safe outlet. I'm much more diplomatic out in the real world, and I think most people are.
Someone up-thread said the answer to this issue is very simple and usually covered early in a psychologist's training. Beyond that minor dilemma, I think the best policy is just to be open about who we are with our acquaintances, friends, and family. If it's going to hurt you if you reveal your true views, I don't have a problem with lying in that situation.
kdmorris
(5,649 posts)What makes anyone think that just because you don't share a characteristic with someone, you cannot be a good doctor to them.
It's called education and empathy... therefore, yeah, he totally can.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)that make it clear just how shallow and vapid a question this is.
AlbertCat
(17,505 posts)... you cannot be a good doctor to them. "
Religion?
I mean, with companies as well as individuals wearing their religion on their sleeves, and these days insisting their beliefs are not to be ridiculed or hindered in any way....even if part of their job description might tangentially "support" something their religion doesn't... there's this notion that one only has to work and deal with like minded individuals. They don't have times for those who disagree with them and they are done with them. THEY'D never be a good doctor to someone who doesn't share their beliefs.
Everyone's like that, right? Not just 4 year olds.
Binkie The Clown
(7,911 posts)years ago when my wife passed away from cancer I had some trouble coping and I visited a psychologist 3 or 4 times. The first thing I noticed was the diploma on his wall was from a Christian university. I told him up front I was an atheist and I hoped that didn't bother him. He smiled and said that he thought I was probably right be he wasn't quite brave enough to be an atheist.
He helped me through my transition, and in return, I paid the bill he sent me. Everybody was happy.