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3Hotdogs

(12,333 posts)
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:45 AM Oct 2021

My cousin, Jim died yesterday. I posted stories about him on D.U. Age 73.

The way he lived his life was the closest to Hunter S. Thompson than anyone I know. Drugs, not much into alcohol... and the wild craziness and love of life.

Whether it was camping in forests, road trips and so forth, he was there.

Who else do you know that during a road trip to Maine, on the 4th. of July, would take you on a detour to Marblehead to see the painting, "The Spirit of '76" as it is hanging on the wall in the Marblehead town hall?

And beautiful women were attracted to him. Damn, I was jealous. But he and his wife stayed together for 48 years. She was at his bedside when he passed.


He died of lung disease.... caused by 60 years of daily smoking of marijuana.


But the thing of it is, last week, he said he knew he was dying and his lifestyle was the cause of it. But he said he wouldn't change a bit of it.

Rock on, Jim. And I hope there's a couple of good buds waiting for you.

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My cousin, Jim died yesterday. I posted stories about him on D.U. Age 73. (Original Post) 3Hotdogs Oct 2021 OP
Cross gently, Jim SheltieLover Oct 2021 #1
My deepest sympathy. sinkingfeeling Oct 2021 #2
RIP, Jim. sheshe2 Oct 2021 #3
I bet everyone is surprised at how long he lived. viva la Oct 2021 #4
🕯 blm Oct 2021 #5
Condolences for your loss... IrishAfricanAmerican Oct 2021 #6
He's just headed out to the next level. We're all right behind him in our own time. I can't be ... marble falls Oct 2021 #7
🕯 underpants Oct 2021 #8
So sorry he's gone. PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2021 #9
Passing with no regrets....Beauty Eh. Peace to family and friends IA8IT Oct 2021 #10
So sorry for your loss pandr32 Oct 2021 #11
Sounds like he lived a good life. calimary Oct 2021 #12
Sorry for your loss FakeNoose Oct 2021 #13
May Jim Rest In Peace and May his Memory be a Blessing. n/t iluvtennis Oct 2021 #14
Rest in power, Jim. Granny M Oct 2021 #15
I am sorry. murielm99 Oct 2021 #16
... littlemissmartypants Oct 2021 #17

viva la

(3,273 posts)
4. I bet everyone is surprised at how long he lived.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 09:50 AM
Oct 2021

Good for him for a rock-and-roll life.

I remember a man in Denver died a few years ago, and his wife said his last words were, "I can't believe Keith Richards outlived me."

Rockers... if they get past the 27 curse....

marble falls

(57,014 posts)
7. He's just headed out to the next level. We're all right behind him in our own time. I can't be ...
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 10:00 AM
Oct 2021

... sorry about someone who brought so much joy to you and it seems everyone else. But I do know I feel sorry for all y'all's loss. No doubt all the memories will provide years of smiles, stories and tender moments. Blessed you all are!

calimary

(81,136 posts)
12. Sounds like he lived a good life.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 12:24 PM
Oct 2021

May your friend have a safe passage, and a fine reunion with his friends Upstairs, 3Hotdogs.

Granny M

(1,395 posts)
15. Rest in power, Jim.
Thu Oct 14, 2021, 12:39 PM
Oct 2021

Sounds like he was someone I would have enjoyed meeting. May his memory be a blessing to you and your family.

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