Sun Sep 11, 2022, 11:21 PM

For just a minute, maybe my fantasy might help?

Since I lost my dad to Covid, I've transitioned into brief moments when I imagine a fantasy of him in a heavenly & happy place.

However silly, maybe this might help someone here who lost a loved one???

In this happy place where mind and body are perfect, and new and old favorite friends are beside you, there is a major buzz. Everyone is talking about the BIG news that someone really important is coming soon.

And lo and behold, as they all wait and watch... It's Queen Elizabeth! I just picture the excitement! I picture everyone trying to act cool. I picture my dad trying to curtsy.

Brings a smile to my face.

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6 replies	Author	Time	Post
For just a minute, maybe my fantasy might help? (Original post)	Laura PourMeADrink	Sep 2022	OP
Fantasies are fine.	PinkTiger	Sep 2022	#1
I think that's a lovely dream	Bayard	Sep 2022	#2
Nice idea. I have small pictures of Dad in every room of my house, so	elleng	Sep 2022	#3
When my boyfriend died it was the same week as the death of Peter Jennings and Richard Pryor	Walleye	Sep 2022	#4
I like that!!! And there's no rules! Anyone can be close	Laura PourMeADrink	Sep 2022	#5
Your dad and my dad shaking hands and watching us from the big screen tv.	LakeArenal	Sep 2022	#6

Response to Laura PourMeADrink (Original post)

Sun Sep 11, 2022, 11:25 PM

PinkTiger (2,588 posts)

1. Fantasies are fine.

I think as long as we know they are fantasies, we are ok.
I do this in other ways. I often fantasize how my life might have been different.
I’m not unhappy with my life. It’s just I wish i could start over and do things better.

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Response to Laura PourMeADrink (Original post)

Sun Sep 11, 2022, 11:28 PM

Bayard (20,068 posts)