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RBInMaine

(13,570 posts)
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 05:13 AM Mar 2016

Grace in defeat is a virtue. Would be so refreshing to see more of that from the Sanders folks.

On the Hillary side, we are overwhelmingly graceful. When Bernie narrowly won MI, our side overwhelmingly congratulated Bernie and didn't start hurling out vitriol and delusional accusations about rigged elections or anything like that. It was what it was.

Hillary SWEPT all five primaries last night, but Bernie also had very respectable showings in two of them which were extremely close, so congratulations on his strong showings in MO and IL. Bernie congratulated Hillary, and so should his supporters. That is called grace and class.

Bernie will go on to win some more of the states, especially caucus states that have a process and demographics more favorable to his candidacy, and for this I will say congratulations ahead of time. But at the end of the day, Hillary will have much more raw vote (she has two million more votes now) and significantly more delegates.

The math just isn't on Bernie's side. Much as I like him, and have always said so, he will not be the nominee. He has done some amazing work coming from so far behind, but at the end of the day the party and nation won't accept a self-described European type socialist. I really like many of his sentiments, but he is too vague in how he is actually going to accomplish his goals and is promising things he knows he can't deliver at least anytime soon. They are great goals, and we should have big goals, but we also need some measure of realism and practicality as well. That is PROGRESS. If Bernie got the nomination, there would be endless and relentless attack ads of "SOCIALIST MASSIVE TAX AND SPENDER" which would crush him to smithereens. Hillary is much more battle tested and would be stronger in the general election.

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Grace in defeat is a virtue. Would be so refreshing to see more of that from the Sanders folks. (Original Post) RBInMaine Mar 2016 OP
More than half the delegates are still out there. bobbobbins01 Mar 2016 #1
Lol... Case in point. Adrahil Mar 2016 #20
Fair enough: based on the votes we've seen, where does Sanders win them? brooklynite Mar 2016 #22
You're 'overwhelmingly graceful' are you? Kentonio Mar 2016 #2
^this^ and +1000 Betty Karlson Mar 2016 #10
This. n/t ms liberty Mar 2016 #14
Reap what you sow marions ghost Mar 2016 #18
It's easy for them this time around because they lose nothing... TCJ70 Mar 2016 #25
It really is all about you isn't it? treestar Mar 2016 #27
The country gets to continue its long ongoing slide to the right it seems. Kentonio Mar 2016 #30
Not so at all treestar Mar 2016 #31
We? Kentonio Mar 2016 #46
We're talking get dems elected to Congress to blunt Ryan and dems to the Senate . . . brush Mar 2016 #58
That's why you have to compromise on somebody treestar Mar 2016 #64
Why would we need to change congress when Hillary told us that she can get things done with Repubs? aikoaiko Mar 2016 #66
For my vote, yes, it really is all about me; no sleight intended. DisgustipatedinCA Mar 2016 #76
Abso-lutely. This poster demanded a congratulations thread the last Hillary victory. Demanded it. farleftlib Mar 2016 #34
This shit isn't just limited to DU. vintx Mar 2016 #48
+1 Also, a sore winner is not the epitome of grace. merrily Mar 2016 #52
There's been a awful lot of trashing of Hillary supporters during the last year brush Mar 2016 #56
Aside from those examples you mention, there has been a major difference. Kentonio Mar 2016 #59
Oh Please, don't act like malletgirl02 Mar 2016 #70
This Latina knows D-O-lores Huerta was either lying or confused. vintx Mar 2016 #74
Sorry if you thought I was trying to speak for you. Not at all, just making an observation brush Mar 2016 #75
So true Duckhunter935 Mar 2016 #77
Oh, sorry dude, I have seen the words "cockroaches" and "crawling back" used. djean111 Mar 2016 #3
Combined total population of states that have not voted yet: 140 million AZ Progressive Mar 2016 #4
+1 vintx Mar 2016 #49
Grace? One might start by not presuming the nomination before the primaries are finished. longship Mar 2016 #5
This must be a jumble puzzle... Segami Mar 2016 #6
Sanders' ego trip hurts the party Darly314 Mar 2016 #7
HIS ego trip? projection is a thing, people. eom Betty Karlson Mar 2016 #11
Sanders' ego trip hurts the party Darly314 Mar 2016 #8
Considering Clinton has net negative coattails, you are projecting - again! eom Betty Karlson Mar 2016 #13
So tone deaf jfern Mar 2016 #9
I didn't see you or other Hill supporters kicking or reccing this post for example. Why? Bonobo Mar 2016 #12
I did not see it until now - just posted there DrDan Mar 2016 #35
You're side is not nearly as graceful as you think you are / nor your candidate aikoaiko Mar 2016 #15
I love the Onion. Are you a senior contributor? TheCowsCameHome Mar 2016 #16
you should do hillary a favor and retire from the internet. FlatBaroque Mar 2016 #17
I didn't just read what I thought I read. Vinca Mar 2016 #19
Follow the money trail marions ghost Mar 2016 #21
Much like if you're cool you don't have to tell people you are mythology Mar 2016 #23
There isn't a single self-described "Hillzie" who would know grace OR class from Shinola. cherokeeprogressive Mar 2016 #24
Oh FFS, you have to be kidding me. Please tell me this was a joke post. Nt Logical Mar 2016 #26
reality is....supporters get upset when their people don't win, in 2008 beachbum bob Mar 2016 #28
As you can see treestar Mar 2016 #29
Hillary style grace and class in action n/t Pat Riots Mar 2016 #42
You are not helping your candidate. malletgirl02 Mar 2016 #73
I would not describe the Clinton supporters as "graceful" Chan790 Mar 2016 #32
That's your problem. You are working for her defeat. LuvLoogie Mar 2016 #43
Uh... Chan790 Mar 2016 #61
Hillary will pivot to the general now. The cameras will start disappearing from Sanders' events. Trust Buster Mar 2016 #33
I expect that the total Democratic vote in the forthcoming primaries will decline. kstewart33 Mar 2016 #36
I have no problem if Sanders stays in until the convention. Trust Buster Mar 2016 #39
I stopped reading at your claim of grace. morningfog Mar 2016 #37
Grace in victory is more important - and you totally lack it. farleftlib Mar 2016 #38
Have you totally missed the Sanders supporters statements ? Trust Buster Mar 2016 #41
Because we are not defeated. SciFiRK Mar 2016 #40
Cool story bro. Here's a sampling from the greatest page and GDP right now Doctor_J Mar 2016 #44
If you think we're beaten, you've got another think coming. Jester Messiah Mar 2016 #45
How predictable. LWolf Mar 2016 #47
My irony meter didn't just break... Lizzie Poppet Mar 2016 #50
Comedy gold, as always. merrily Mar 2016 #51
''On the Hillary side, we are overwhelmingly graceful.'' Shadowflash Mar 2016 #53
+1 Chan790 Mar 2016 #62
Great advice Kelvin Mace Mar 2016 #54
Graceful TeddyR Mar 2016 #55
Good luck with that... Blue_Tires Mar 2016 #57
Grace in winning would be so refreshing. So sad we won't be seeing that. Nanjeanne Mar 2016 #60
Bernie Sanders says he is in until the convention, I will be supporting Bernie Sanders until then Todays_Illusion Mar 2016 #63
get bent ibegurpard Mar 2016 #65
I love that saying. polly7 Mar 2016 #67
Why does this strike me as a case of hubris? So Far From Heaven Mar 2016 #68
Is this another "poor Hillary" OP? Tierra_y_Libertad Mar 2016 #69
I know it's hard to believe, Kittycat Mar 2016 #71
This is an interesting year for Clinton supporters. We get to feel like Obama supporters did in 2008 CalvinballPro Mar 2016 #72
Bernie supporters Duckhunter935 Mar 2016 #78

brooklynite

(94,508 posts)
22. Fair enough: based on the votes we've seen, where does Sanders win them?
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 07:30 AM
Mar 2016

The data now says that 1) Sanders does well in Caucus States; 2) does better in States which allow Independents; and 3) barely ties in midwest battleground States. Where's he going to win in big enough margins to offset Clinton's 300 delegate lead?

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
2. You're 'overwhelmingly graceful' are you?
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 05:19 AM
Mar 2016

Were you Hillary supporters 'overwhelmingly graceful' when you spent the last year calling us a bunch of racist, sexist infiltrators from the GOP or naive idiots who want free unicorns and rainbows? Was that an example of how 'overwhelmingly graceful' you all are?

You guys have spent a year burning every bridge you can see, and now you think you've got it wrapped up you're suddenly trying to rally the progressive vote. Yet even now, you still can't resist the urge to insult us and call us deluded. If Clinton does go on to win this, you have some seriously harsh realities to face as a result of the condescending and high handed attitudes you guys have displayed during this primary. Reap what you sow.

TCJ70

(4,387 posts)
25. It's easy for them this time around because they lose nothing...
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 08:15 AM
Mar 2016

...by a Sanders nomination. It's not the same the other way around, though. On no issue is Hillary further left than Bernie except gun control. One issue...out of all of them...doesn't go in their favor if he's nominated.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
27. It really is all about you isn't it?
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 08:17 AM
Mar 2016

Not the country. Perceived slights against you are far more important than anything else.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
30. The country gets to continue its long ongoing slide to the right it seems.
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 08:22 AM
Mar 2016

More power to the corporations and the warmongers, more wealth to the wealthy, longer hours and less security for those most in need. That's what we have to look 'forward' to under another Clinton.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
31. Not so at all
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 08:26 AM
Mar 2016

We could get out there and try to change congress for 2018.

Or even 2016 FFS. There is much that can be done

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
46. We?
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 09:51 AM
Mar 2016

We clearly have completely different opinions on what progress is, so why would we want to elect the same kind of people when our choice of leader is so very different?

brush

(53,771 posts)
58. We're talking get dems elected to Congress to blunt Ryan and dems to the Senate . . .
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 10:45 AM
Mar 2016

to oust McConnell from majority leader and overcome the filibuster obstructionists

There is still work to be done for the country if Bernie doesn't get the nomination.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
64. That's why you have to compromise on somebody
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 06:33 PM
Mar 2016

the voters aren't all alike. Still the congressional seats are important and you get the best you can there too.

aikoaiko

(34,169 posts)
66. Why would we need to change congress when Hillary told us that she can get things done with Repubs?
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 06:55 PM
Mar 2016


 

DisgustipatedinCA

(12,530 posts)
76. For my vote, yes, it really is all about me; no sleight intended.
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 11:05 PM
Mar 2016

But yes, I do vote in my own self-interest.

 

farleftlib

(2,125 posts)
34. Abso-lutely. This poster demanded a congratulations thread the last Hillary victory. Demanded it.
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 08:27 AM
Mar 2016

There's no grace granted, so none will be forthcoming. BFD.

 

vintx

(1,748 posts)
48. This shit isn't just limited to DU.
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 10:04 AM
Mar 2016

My own friends on facebook (Clinton supporters) have spent the last year trashing him and his supporters.

I wasn't brave enough to call them out, I just posted my pro-Bernie stuff and left the nasty bullshit to them. But I am so not surprised to see the same exact dynamic has played out here.

brush

(53,771 posts)
56. There's been a awful lot of trashing of Hillary supporters during the last year
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 10:41 AM
Mar 2016

Last edited Wed Mar 16, 2016, 10:55 PM - Edit history (2)

Guess you've forgotten about the "Stockholm Syndrome" and "slave mentality" posts denigrating AAs as not knowing what's good for us and the many "Dolores Huerta is a liar" posts that I'm sure didn't sit well with Latino/a dems, just to mention three of the hundreds of posts from the Sanders' camp that have all but taken over DU.

 

Kentonio

(4,377 posts)
59. Aside from those examples you mention, there has been a major difference.
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 11:10 AM
Mar 2016

The Bernie supporters have largely attacked Hillary the candidate. The Hillary supporters have largely attacked Bernie's supporters.

That's a really big difference and explains a lot of the anger you're seeing.

malletgirl02

(1,523 posts)
70. Oh Please, don't act like
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 08:55 PM
Mar 2016

Clinton supporters were all innocent. Ponies and rainbows, Bernie Bros, Bernie Fans, a cult, hell there as even a post implying Bernie supporters were members of the Red Guard during the Cultural Revolution in China. Also Bernie supporters were also called racists and sexists.

 

vintx

(1,748 posts)
74. This Latina knows D-O-lores Huerta was either lying or confused.
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 09:02 PM
Mar 2016

Do NOT try to speak for US. And FFS AT LEAST SPELL HER NAME RIGHT

brush

(53,771 posts)
75. Sorry if you thought I was trying to speak for you. Not at all, just making an observation
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 10:53 PM
Mar 2016

IMO that "liar" charge was over-the-top and cruel, and there were many, as it seemed at most to be a misunderstanding because there were "english only" statements made.

And thanks btw, for the tip on the misspelling.

 

djean111

(14,255 posts)
3. Oh, sorry dude, I have seen the words "cockroaches" and "crawling back" used.
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 05:26 AM
Mar 2016

Overweeningly condescending and scolding lectures. "Mommy issues". "Misogynists".
Bridges in ashes.

longship

(40,416 posts)
5. Grace? One might start by not presuming the nomination before the primaries are finished.
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 05:38 AM
Mar 2016

I believe I remember Hillary Clinton being quite specific on this topic... some eight years ago.

Let's see...

Ah yes! Here it is:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/1017339191

And as to who is more electable?
Here:



Hubris is not a very attractive attribute.
 

Segami

(14,923 posts)
6. This must be a jumble puzzle...
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 05:45 AM
Mar 2016

I thought it was a post with a point.......I like puzzles! Keep em' coming!


Darly314

(23 posts)
7. Sanders' ego trip hurts the party
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 06:17 AM
Mar 2016

He should drop out, instead, he fell in love with the cameras and kids who buy his unrealistic commercial candidacy. Party last, Bern's ego 1st. I wanted Harken in '90 but admired him for leaving the race, placing party first.

aikoaiko

(34,169 posts)
15. You're side is not nearly as graceful as you think you are / nor your candidate
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 06:53 AM
Mar 2016

And I think people will remember that.

Vinca

(50,269 posts)
19. I didn't just read what I thought I read.
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 07:26 AM
Mar 2016

"On the Hillary side, we are overwhelmingly graceful." Seriously? You're the last post I've read after a string of gloating posts. No, you're not overwhelmingly graceful. Your side won, you'll rub it in our faces for a couple of weeks, then you'll realize you can't win without us. Then you might be graceful.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
23. Much like if you're cool you don't have to tell people you are
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 08:08 AM
Mar 2016

If you have to say how graceful you are, you probably aren't.

 

beachbum bob

(10,437 posts)
28. reality is....supporters get upset when their people don't win, in 2008
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 08:17 AM
Mar 2016

Hillary supporters were doing and saying all the same type of stuff against obama and his people....its best to let most of it slide....the math is not obvious to many of them at this point.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
29. As you can see
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 08:19 AM
Mar 2016

The people Bernie attracts are not interested in doing much but threatening to let the repub win and playing victim

malletgirl02

(1,523 posts)
73. You are not helping your candidate.
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 09:02 PM
Mar 2016

You insult Bernie Sanders supporters, and yet you demand we vote for Clinton. No one is entitled to anyone's vote. I will vote for Hillary Clinton in the General, but after all the insults on this board I am not going to give her and of my Bernie Bro, cultist, rainbow pony money.

 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
32. I would not describe the Clinton supporters as "graceful"
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 08:26 AM
Mar 2016

Too many of your fellow Clinton backers called for an actual purge of Sanders supporters last night...which is not only tin-eared, it's pretty much the surest way to insure we remain oppositionally-defiant to your presumed nominee and continue to work for her defeat.

LuvLoogie

(6,995 posts)
43. That's your problem. You are working for her defeat.
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 08:50 AM
Mar 2016

You rely too much on your anti-Hillary counter parts on the Right in open primaries. That's why you keep posting right-wing propaganda from sites like Breitbart, Twitchy and Newsmax.

Bernie's message is only viable in the Democratic party. If he means what he says, he will remain a Democrat and build relationships within the party.

 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
61. Uh...
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 11:39 AM
Mar 2016

✔ Never have I ever posted anything here or anywhere from Breitbart, Twitchy or Newsmax.

✔ The only people I see buddying-up to Conservatives are Clintonites; of course, that's not surprising. Hillary will steal an idea from anywhere--it's the only way to get ahead when you don't have any ideas of your own and a weathervane for a moral compass.

✔Bernie has no need to remain a Democrat. He's just the guy that lit the match on this revolution. It falls to us to point those cannons over and over to blow Clintonite infidels out of our party. (Note the tone...it's not your party or a collective "ours"...it's me-and-mine's-and-not-any-supporters-of-Clintons...we will run you out, in-time, along with your personality-cult queen Hillary.)

✔ You may have secured the nomination...and I am not certain of that...but you have definitively lost the war. The revolution is coming for corporatist scum and Clintonites in this party and it will continue to come in 2016 for both Hillary and bad Democrats like Debbie Wasserman Schultz, and it will come again in 2018 for midterms as we take aim to take-out bad Democrats, and it'll come again to primary Clinton in 2020 if she's the President. The winds favor this revolution.

If this wasn't clear...No Quarter, No Peace! now-and-forever for Clintonites. We will do what we need to, to hold the White House away from fascists and Republicans...but we will also do what we need to, to take this party back from Clintons, quislings to business interests, and their supporters.

 

Trust Buster

(7,299 posts)
33. Hillary will pivot to the general now. The cameras will start disappearing from Sanders' events.
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 08:26 AM
Mar 2016

The less invested Sanders supporters will vote for the candidate they know will win. The donations will start declining precipitously. Past is prologue.

kstewart33

(6,551 posts)
36. I expect that the total Democratic vote in the forthcoming primaries will decline.
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 08:41 AM
Mar 2016

On both sides. There is no conceivable way for Bernie to win, and that will depress his turnout. Same for Hillary, the winner.

Bernie should stay in. It will strengthen Hillary as a candidate if he does.

 

Trust Buster

(7,299 posts)
39. I have no problem if Sanders stays in until the convention.
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 08:45 AM
Mar 2016

He has a right to spread his message. But, he should back off from attacking Hillary and stick solely to his message.

 

farleftlib

(2,125 posts)
38. Grace in victory is more important - and you totally lack it.
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 08:44 AM
Mar 2016

This is the lowest of the Hillbots' antics so far and that is very, very low. Congratulations, you personify everything that is wrong with Hillary and her supporters. No class whatsoever.

 

SciFiRK

(65 posts)
40. Because we are not defeated.
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 08:46 AM
Mar 2016

I will not vote for Hilary. She used dog whistle politics against Obama and continues dirty tricks against Bernie. Wall Street money and she's a hawk. Lesser evil is still evil.

 

Doctor_J

(36,392 posts)
44. Cool story bro. Here's a sampling from the greatest page and GDP right now
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 09:00 AM
Mar 2016
Hillary Clinton Sweeps Everything. She wins 5 out of 5.

Just to correct, Clinton netted a lot more than 54 delegates tonight

A complete demolition

MSNBC CALLS MISSOURI FOR CLINTON! SWEEP SWEEP SWEEP!

Hillary wins Missouri (At least 5 of those)

SWEEP!

Huh, MO just flipped for Hillary with 99% in (MSNBC calls "Apparent Winner" for Hillary)

But .. but ...what about those HUGE Bernie rallies

Hillary Clinton Is Now the Presumptive Democratic Nominee




And this doesn't even include the HRC group or the new hate site.

Do you even realize how full of shit you are?
 

Jester Messiah

(4,711 posts)
45. If you think we're beaten, you've got another think coming.
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 09:01 AM
Mar 2016

We'll fight until the end. And if we lose, you'll still lose, because your Queen and her surrogates have alienated the votes she would need to put her over the top in the general. So we'll all go down together when we go.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
47. How predictable.
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 10:02 AM
Mar 2016

Yet another post denigrating Sanders supporters.

A few points:

1. There are still a lot of primary votes and delegates out there. We're not done.

2. Regardless of how the primaries go forward, this Sanders supporter is backing Sanders all the way to the convention.

3. Those who expect "graciousness" on my part in November might want to rethink the persistent denigration of me, and my fellow Sanders supporters.

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
50. My irony meter didn't just break...
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 10:07 AM
Mar 2016

...it actually exploded. Your side has been absolutely fucking toxic every time Hillary gets a boost. Examples displaying a modicum of grace have been thin on the ground. I've zero desire to rebuild the bridges they've burned.

 

TeddyR

(2,493 posts)
55. Graceful
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 10:38 AM
Mar 2016

Is the LAST word I'd use to describe Hillary's supporters on this website. I believe the gloating/dishonest posts by her supporters have made it so that a lot of DU folks who might have voted for Hillary now will not

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
57. Good luck with that...
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 10:43 AM
Mar 2016

Many of them have gone on the record stating that they plan to defect to the Trump camp, which makes me wonder if they were ever Dems in the first place...

Todays_Illusion

(1,209 posts)
63. Bernie Sanders says he is in until the convention, I will be supporting Bernie Sanders until then
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 12:23 PM
Mar 2016

and possibly right up to November.

 

CalvinballPro

(1,019 posts)
72. This is an interesting year for Clinton supporters. We get to feel like Obama supporters did in 2008
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 08:59 PM
Mar 2016

And it's especially ironic for me, because I was a Clinton supporter then, and now. I've voted for Obama twice since then, but I expected her to run again, and I'm glad she did.

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
78. Bernie supporters
Wed Mar 16, 2016, 11:09 PM
Mar 2016

Did not make another website to coordinate attacks here like the Hillary supporters did.

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