2016 Postmortem
Related: About this forumFolks the US can't shut down all political disagreement for 8 years simply because....
.....Hillary Clinton is female.
Not gonna happen. If she wants the job, she -- and her supporters -- are gonna have to take the lumps that go with the job.
She will not live in a gender encased bubble if she gets into the WH. The GOP is gonna go after her. Independents and Democrats who disagree with her are gonna go after her.
There will be reasoned criticism. There will also be things said that are not always nice.
There will be sexist things said. There will also be critical things said that are not based in sexism.
If she sells us out with one or more policy, she does not get a free pass, just because we're afraid to say something that might have some vague connotation of gender in somebody's mind.
Sorry, but equality, means accepting the crap along with the benefits of equality.
elleng
(136,460 posts)just because we're afraid to say something that might have some vague connotation of gender in somebody's mind.'
LibDemAlways
(15,139 posts)about it. That's a given.
Skwmom
(12,685 posts)farleftlib
(2,125 posts)and being a woman is not reason enough to overlook her multitude of shortcomings and
faults. Nobody with such a demonstrated lack of integrity should get the nod because she
it's past time for a woman to be president. She doesn't have what it takes and that's no
slur against her gender or anybody else's.
Zorro
(16,351 posts)Bernie and his most rabid supporters do not.
lancer78
(1,495 posts)But only because of his SCOTUS picks. Otherwise, he and her are the same on fiscal issues more or less.
Jester Messiah
(4,711 posts)They're both corporatists first last and always.
lancer78
(1,495 posts)Her SCOTUS nominees would uphold roe v wade
thucythucy
(8,742 posts)Clinton, for all her flaws, strikes me as neither, which to my mind is a very important distinction. To me, and I would hope to tens of millions of other Americans as well. He's anti-choice (sometimes, anyway) and has said women should be punished legally for seeking an abortion. This isn't "worse" to you than Clinton's support of Planned Parenthood? Every been faced with an unwanted pregnancy? Every had to drive hours to get contraception or a mammogram?
Plus, I have no idea what Trump's stand on "fiscal issues" are. Is he in favor of increased funding for Head Start? Does he support, or want to repeal, the Affordable Health Act? What's his stand on reasonable accommodation as it regards employees with disabilities under the Americans with Disabilities Act? How does he feel about the various bogus GOP "tort reform" proposals?
Trump said he supports Paul Ryan's house agenda, which is anti-women, anti-immigrant, anti-voting rights for people of color. All of that tells me he's a dangerous man to everything I hold dear.
lancer78
(1,495 posts)least qualified democrat in a generation. But remember, it is HER TURN!
redstateblues
(10,565 posts)Live and Learn
(12,769 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)Armstead
(47,803 posts)Either one is tough enough to be President and can stand whatever is tossed their way -- or not.
And either people who support a candidate accept that the candidate will be criticized for legitimate reasons -- or not.
Yes sometimes sexism is involved.
But overall when it comes to policy, integrity and the ability to effectively lead, gender's is not always a factor.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)all the bigots, you think?
Clinton has had decades being successful in a world of sexism, to suggest she uses it as a victim card, and allows it to hinder her is an insult and dismissal of all she has accomplished. The exact opposite. Men would get the praise for a well run campaign. Hers not good enough. But she just keeps on keeping on. She kicks mens ass as Sanders cries unfair every step of the way in the face of the sexism.
She is strong, solid and smart.
You dismiss her. No that is not ok.
AuntPatsy
(9,904 posts)lancer78
(1,495 posts)when they supported the IWR.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)Do you think you're providing some useful insight into gender, sexism and equality in our political discourse that women especially had never, ever, ever thought of?
Armstead
(47,803 posts)Do you think Sanders ran against Clinton simply because she is a female?
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)do you think him calling her unqualified was tone deaf in terms of how it sounded to women voters?
Armstead
(47,803 posts)He got upset by what was being said about him, and he said something he shouldn't have.
I won't defend that. He misspoke.
But it wasn't because of gender.
GuestCheck
(13 posts)that my grandnieces agree & voted for Senator Sanders.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)GuestCheck
(13 posts)Here is one of my grandnieces definitions. "Since I was born, we've been bombing the hell out of people in central asia and the middle east and carrying on assassinations around the globe. My one hope is that Bernie will do whatever he can to make it stop. I believe him when he says he will do whatever he can to bring peace & stability to the world that we've exploited exponentially since WW1. I am hoping for a peacemaker. I don't want the war monger promoting business opportunities in countries that we have destroyed."
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)P.S. Bernie supports the drone program
GuestCheck
(13 posts)Unfortunately, she is not a member of this board.
cui bono
(19,926 posts)That was not only a vote for an illegal war for which she lied about her reasons but also an abdication of her constitutional duties as a member of Congress. She voted to give the responsibility of declaring war away. Think about it. She gave away that duty to GWB. That was a reckless move.
Unfit for office.
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cui bono
(19,926 posts)Or should I say "username". There's no telling who is posting under this name now, but it's clearly not the original seabeyond.
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seabeyond
(110,159 posts)sufrommich
(22,871 posts)send it on to Skinner.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)sufrommich
(22,871 posts)morningfog
(18,115 posts)are different. You are right.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)I think it's adorable that you cower behind implication. It illustrates your character rather accurately.
ProudProgressiveNow
(6,165 posts)Live and Learn
(12,769 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)Live and Learn
(12,769 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)sufrommich
(22,871 posts)against Obama became overt. Nobody says she can't be disagreed with,that's a straw man.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)And yeah, if Obama did something that pissed conservatives off, they had every right to criticize him. As have liberals.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)thing to them.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)people by pretending they didn't already know it.
"Not every criticism of a woman is sexism."
That's, like, so deep, man.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)Merely expressing my opinion.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)usually when one lectures others, one should have at least an equal understanding of the subject matter being discussed
when it comes to sexism and gender inequality, men should pretty much never lecture women on the subject
Armstead
(47,803 posts)Yes sexcism exists, and is a factor but.....
Bernie is only running because Hillary Clinton is female. Nothing to do with what he believes in. Just like the 10 million peopel who have voted for him are only doing it because they don't want a woman president.
Bernie is only fighting to the end because she is a woman. There can't be any otehr possible reason.
People don't trust her. That's only because she is a woman. Nothing to do with the times she's said one thing and done another. Nor the fact that she and Bill (a male) have amassed a fortune of almost $200 Million from careers in public office.
All of that is nothing like using gender as an excuse to deflect every legitimate criticism people might have about her. Nosiree. Not at all.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)start a Twitter campaign to tell her to step aside for the man who's losing to her, I suspect sexism in that.
The whole "drop out Hillary" thing was sexism. There was never a "drop out Barack" campaign in 2008 even though his lead was much smaller.
Another double standard:
In 2008, Clinton by some arguments was winning the popular vote and was within a few percentage points in terms of pledged delegates, especially with Florida and Michigan under dispute.
Nonetheless, lots of dudebros in the media (Tweety, Olbermann etc) were calling on her to drop out (with Olbermann making a crack about having her shot in back room). And, when her opponent--a man--crossed the absolute majority of delegates threshold with superdelegates, he claimed victory.
In 2016, she is far and insurpassably ahead of Sanders in every possible relevant metric, and on Tuesday will seize a majority of every category of delegates.
And Mister Sanders wags his finger at her and says she has no right to declare victory just because she beat his ass. Because she's held to a higher standard than every other candidate ever to win. Because winning a majority of votes--good enough for every man to lead in the race before her--is not enough for her.
Yeah, no double standard there.
Not to mention Sanders supporters referring to her as "The Queen" and "Her Royal Highness." Sanders supporters/protestors were calling her a 'whore' outside an event yesterday.
If you want another example of sexism, people find her less trustworthy than Bill. And Bill is twenty times more dishonest.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)But in general when a candidate is winning by a wide margin, and supporters of her opponent are fighting hard, one can legitimately criticize them..... or not. Depends on which candidate one supports.
But to reflexively make it all about gender rather than politics, the heat of campaigns, etc. is not okay....at least not in my book.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)No one's talked about taking Sanders into a back room and shooting him, for example.
It's never been thought of, let alone proferred by so-called progressives, to tell a man to step aside in favor of the women he's defeating. Complain about his policies yes, demand he sit down and shut up and defer to a woman? Nope.
But, plenty--and I mean plenty--of Sanders supporters saw nothing wrong with demanding that Hillary drop out and step aside in favor of Bernie.
Here's an example:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/12511901753
Not to mention the talk that this is really Bernie's party now, as if Clinton and her voters don't exist.
Gee I wonder why?
that goes along with the attempts to delegitimize her win on the part of Sanders's most ardent supporters that sounds in the same venomous vitriol as the Trump/Tea crowd has applied to President Obama. the basic refusal to see his status and victories as legitimate
people tried to argue that it was just politics, and had nothing to do with race.
they've looked foolish in retrospect
Armstead
(47,803 posts)I was among those in 2008 who desperately wanted Clinton to drop out sooner. I wanted to seeher in the rear view mirror. I also was a strong supporter of Obama and wanted him to be able to get on with the general post haste.
So yeah. I'm kind of hypocritical on that whole Bernie should just drop out now thing. I admitted this on another OP a few days ago.
But it was not because of gender. Then as now, I dislike the Clintons for a whole host of reasons. I thought it was time to be done with them as owners of the Democratic Party. Still do.
Would love to see a woman president. But not her.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)pledged delegate vote, and has in hand a total number of delegates exceeding 2383?
That, regardless of what Bernie Sanders says, if she finishes ahead in all of those categories, she is the presumptive nominee?
Armstead
(47,803 posts)Technically it is not over until the convention when all the delegates and SD's cast their vote.
Honestly, I have mixed feelings about Sanders taking it further after the last primary.
Part of me wants him to do what Clinton did in 2008 and smooth over feelings and move on, so we can beat the snot out of trump. And I'd also like to see Sanders show and receive some good will and respect, because he deserves it so far.
But part of me hates to see the Democrat Party revert back to being a subsidiary of Clinton Inc. with no opposition or challenge to their unquestioned power. I don't want them to assume they have a free pass to ignore about 40 percent of the participants in the primary. ....
Part of me wants to see Rock and Roll at the damn convention to shake this moribund political party up....and open it up.
That's my honest answer
riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)As a woman I'm interested in hearing all opinions. You don't get to censor anyone for me thank you very much.
cui bono
(19,926 posts)There's a lot of women on here - mostly the vocal self-proclaimed feminists - who have overplayed the gender card and it's sickening and harmful to women's fight for equality.
As a woman who sees that this behavior is making a mockery of women's real struggles I appreciate anyone who stands up for what is right. Doesn't matter who says it if it's correct.
And as man, if you feel that way, why are you even sticking your nose in this? I completely disagree with you, so why are you taking it upon yourself to speak for me?
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840high
(17,196 posts)LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)Hopefully, your next expressed opinion will be relevant and of substance.
cui bono
(19,926 posts)The things they have called sexist are laughable and make a mockery of actual sexism and the real fight for equality that women face.
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riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)unapatriciated
(5,390 posts)also a woman and at the age of 64 I have seen my fair share of sexism and I have not seen it from Sanders.
They've done enormous damage to the fight against sexism by crying sexism anytime criticism is leveled at Hillary. It's pathetic to watch.
Just a false variation on the victim card.
coco77
(1,327 posts)with a Hillary supporter who doesn't seem to get it,this is why she is losing many votes among other things. They can't seem to see that everything isn't sexist and people get tired of hearing it.
TCJ70
(4,387 posts)...if they have anything negative to say about the next Clinton Whitehouse. I'll probably be one of the first. It'll be sad.
laserhaas
(7,805 posts)1.
Of, relating to, or supporting democracy or its principles.
"democratic reforms"
..
OR
...
2.
of or relating to the Democratic Party.
Guess which term will apply...in this realm...come .....real...........soon?
w4rma
(31,700 posts)Don't disagree with her, or you'll be "sexist", too. And maybe you'll be labeled a "racist", just for good measure.
Vattel
(9,289 posts)geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)applied to her. Just ask any dude.
Bluenorthwest
(45,319 posts)That is one huge and legislatively enforced double standard. If she so suffers from double standards why is she so willing to impose them upon others?
unapatriciated
(5,390 posts)but to accuse Sanders of running against her or staying in until the convention because she is a woman (not directed at you personally) is laughable. It demeans women and our real struggles.
I'm 64 and have faced a lot of sexism in my life, so when I hear comments like that it is truly sad and tells me that those who make them have never struggled. Like....
Being denied a decent job (forcing you to work two low paying jobs), housing, reasonable auto insurance rates (with a clean driving record) just because you are a divorced woman with children.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)just have to use common sense, and we men need to learn to not be reflexively dismissive
unapatriciated
(5,390 posts)of those bogus claims lately and from posters I used to respect. This Op was in response to some hateful claims, yes it came from a man but the message is still the same. Many women did respond to the poster who was the most vocal in calling Sanders a sexist and we were met with hatred and dismissal. To have someone of my own gender treat me as a lesser than, is far worse then if it came from a man. I'm tired of being called not a real Dem, a bagger or libertarian, not very unifying.
I know that Clinton supporters want this to be over now but it is not.
I support Sanders staying in until the convention because I and almost half of the party want a voice in our party platform.
Sanders has made a difference in the direction of our party and in my opinion that is a good thing.
It has forced Clinton to change a few of her views on things like the tpp, fracking and income inequality.
We would like to make sure that our party knows that we don't want to go back to business as usual.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)I have faith that the media as well as the rest of the party will ignore Sanders's futile protestations that Clinton can't claim victory.
He doesn't get to tell her what she can and cannot do. That is not his place.
unapatriciated
(5,390 posts)as almost half of the party and he represents us. That is how to heal the party and win our support.
She will represent all of us not just Clinton supporters in the primary.
Who are you to tell me I have no rights to expect representation?
Compromise and input is done all the time in politics. Clinton did it with Gore and Obama did it with HRC.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)and on the other trying to order the winner to not declare victory and celebrate.
By all means demand good policy planks on the platform.
But, don't tell her and her supporters they can't celebrate victory tonight.
FWIW, I won't be celebrating victory tonight--that comes in November. But others obviously will.
Vattel
(9,289 posts)The idea that Sanders is not conceding before the convention because Clinton is a woman is ridiculous and utterly unsubstantiated.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)is that he makes Ted Cruz look like a humble team player.
If he was a woman, he'd be compared to Glenn Close's character in Fatal Attraction.
"I'm not going to be ignored."
I'll enjoy his coming public humiliation.
Vattel
(9,289 posts)geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)If he thinks he's got the right to do that, despite her now being the new head of the party and presumptive nominee, not unfair to presume gender plays a role.
I think there's a chance he does the right thing and admits she won instead of acting like he's entitled to the win despite losing.
Vattel
(9,289 posts)Still, if he does not concede, it is unfair to presume gender plays a role.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)he can refuse to concede but do so without making a gigantic jackass of himself.
brooklynite
(96,882 posts)Who knows...maybe Bernie Sanders will suggest she be primaried.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)"Bernie Sanders only decided to run because she is a female."
"Bernie Sanders is only fighting to the end because she is a woman."
C'mon you know better than that.
azurnoir
(45,850 posts)in which anyone who disagreed with any of President Obama's policies for any reason did because they were racist - didn't matter how many times they had voted for him -it was only because they were racist - the same will probably follow with Hillary should she win and disagreement is because she is a woman and no other reason will be considered
IMO both of these argument diminish both Obama and Hillary in whose favor they are supposedly being made-it does so by reducing them to either their race or gender as opposed to whole thinking human beings whose actions can be applauded or criticized without regard to their gender or racial identity
sadoldgirl
(3,431 posts)blame her impeachment on her gender, since her
husband was going through this as well.
I suppose they would call it a family event.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)joshcryer
(62,495 posts)But I assure you, it's objectively true that Clinton has a double standard against her. Whatever you want to assign it, I don't care.
But I'll say it. It's sexism. Trying to shut down discussion about it isn't going to change that.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)Hillary and Bill have built up a polarizing and checkered identity
I think there would be more acceptance of a candidate who is a woman if she had a different history and persona, and a different spouse, and was not part of a couple trying to get around the spirit of the two-term limits on presidencies.
snot
(10,733 posts)are the same ones we had about Obama,
the same ones we had about Bush,
the same ones we had about Bill Clinton,
and the same ones we had about Reagan:
Don't put the foxes in charge of the henhouses. Tax the rich. Regulate unfair financial and commercial practices. Let government do what government does best: provide basic services in areas that tend to be natural monopolies (basic infrastructure & utilities, healthcare, and at least basic education). Etc.
I also happen to support racial, gender, and other kinds of equity; and I've had somewhat less to complain about in that area w.r.t. the Dem Prez's than the Repubs but only somewhat less.
My positions have not changed based on who's in the White House, which candidate I support, or even what might benefit me personally.
Neither have Bernie's.
KoKo
(84,711 posts)We've done it for the last 8 Years! Why Not for Hillary/Bill Third Term.
The whole Obama Admin. is "Fired Up and Ready to Go for Hillary."
WHA?
MisterP
(23,730 posts)they may blame lefties and righties working together in conspiracy against the reasonable, virtuous, pragmatic middle, but in fact Trump can pound her weak points all he likes without our help
the Maginot Line was, indeed, impregnable
JoePhilly
(27,787 posts)Armstead
(47,803 posts)JoePhilly
(27,787 posts)MyNameGoesHere
(7,638 posts)And I assume fear of women? I really don't know just throwing stuff out there like a monkey flinging poo
Prism
(5,815 posts)To this day, you've people convinced the entire LGBT community is just a bunch of racists because we took him to task in his first term.
I don't care in the slightest. A few weeks ago, some racial maniac was all, "We ALL know about you!" Because I criticized the president. You're automatically racist.
Anyone who doesn't think a Clinton presidency won't be full of this, I don't know what to tell you. It happens now. Just glance through GDP. Any criticism will be distilled into sexism, one way or another.
There are just some people who only see the world through identity politics, and they are convinced you are either with them or you are a white, sexist oppressor.
There's literally nothing to be done for it. You can't argue people out of ideas they were never argued in to.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)Anyone who criticized Obama's health plan was accused on "trying to undermine the First Black President."
Among otehr things, such misdirected deflections detract from the ability to point out actual instances of sexism, racism or otehr forms of bigotry.
Prism
(5,815 posts)Disagreeing on policy was racism. Because Obama is black. Scratch that we'd be equally pissed at a white president for proffering the same ideas. No, you're all racists.
That was a big problem on DU from 2008-2012. It kind of became LGBT vs AA. Because LGBTers were like, "Uhm, no, none of this is ok." And the AA Forum decided, "You're all racist for not liking him!"
And that is why, to this day, I do not care even slightly what comes out of that forum. If they ever acknowledged or apologized for their shit, I'd be ok. But, no, we're all still racist, for reasons!
And now Bernie is also racist, for reasons. They can't figure out why. Just, because and shit.
And I remember how my LGBT family were subjected to the same shit from the same people.
No, don't care. Not even a little.
And it really doesn't help when my AA real life friends think they're dumb asses.
BuelahWitch
(9,083 posts)And supposedly Bernie is disliked by AA members and Obama supporters on this site because he made a statement during the run up to 2012 that President Obama should be primaried. Which I totally agreed with, after the Cat Food Commission among other things. At the very least I was hoping he'd run as a Republican. But his supporters called people racist because we did not agree (and still do not agree with) his policies.
Il_Coniglietto
(373 posts)Replace every single reference to sexism with the -ism of your choice and see how very wrong this argument is:
Folks the US can't shut down all political disagreement for 8 years simply because...
.....Barack Obama is black/Bernie Sanders is Jewish/John F. Kennedy is Catholic.
Not gonna happen. If he wants the job, he -- and his supporters -- are gonna have to take the lumps that go with the job.
He will not live in a race/religion encased bubble if he gets into the WH. The GOP is gonna go after him. Independents and Democrats who disagree with him are gonna go after him.
There will be reasoned criticism. There will also be things said that are not always nice.
There will be racist/anti-Semitic/anti-Catholic things said. There will also be critical things said that are not based in racism/anti-Semitism/anti-Catholicism.
If he sells us out with one or more policy, he does not get a free pass, just because we're afraid to say something that might have some vague connotation of race/religion in somebody's mind.
Sorry, but equality, means accepting the crap along with the benefits of equality.
No. This isn't acceptable in the above circumstances and it's not acceptable with regards to gender, ethnicities, other races, other religions, sexual orientation, gender identity, physical/mental abilities, etc.
If you have a problem with someone or their policies, fine. Attack those. But "vague connotations" of any of the above should not be tolerated by anyone who considers themself a progressive. Period.
laserhaas
(7,805 posts)In a matter of days
And Trump wont be silenced on this issue..for dam sure
Meaning her getting in...isnt foregone
AuntPatsy
(9,904 posts)The old adage, walk a mile in my shoes could easily apply, I don't pretend to understand your fears but I would at least attempt to try to alleviate them or try harder to explain my own, we humans are a judgemental, self serving, egotistical lot for the most part, which we can use to either hinder or enlighten our future selves but the reality is our wiring is different and society only ensures it alters little, you cannot change that....
I wouldn't worry, if Hillary does get the Hot Seat I have no doubt she will not at least immediately begin acting like she knows what she is talking about and surround herself with only female advisors...men will still exist ....
DCBob
(24,689 posts)She has been relentlessly attacked for decades and she is still standing. She has no fear of any of that. Did you not see the 12 hour Benghazi interrogation?
Armstead
(47,803 posts)It's not so much her but those who insist that she cannot be criticized, or behave or speak in any way that might be remotely interpreted as sexism. (Alyhjough shye dos engage in that sometimes too.)
DCBob
(24,689 posts)She is fine with it..I am sure.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)but I expect this to be Nixonian, enemies lists and all. On the bright side, I expect Trump to be Mussolini, or Putin like,, Mr, Putin also has enemies lists.
It will not quiet down, but it will be dead quiet here.
Demsrule86
(71,030 posts)so spare me. That post was one of the worst, most sexists posts here...so don't tell us what to do... Another condescending post telling women how to respond to sexism-something you know nothing about..how not surprising.
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)Now we get lectures how it's not ALL sexist. This genius needed some coffee and some spellcheck, for starters.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)And if you think the OP is foolish, I assume you agree with those posts that have said the only reason that Sanders decided to run for the nomination is because Hillary is a woman.
Or that the only reason he has been fighting so hard in the final stage is because he can't stand the thought of losing to a woman.
If you believe that kind of hogwash, then I'm not the only one whose IQ can be questioned.
Demsrule86
(71,030 posts)One of then essentially called me a vagina voter today
Demsrule86
(71,030 posts)I see you have written another condescending post which is intended to insult women...What would you know of sexism...at least the receiving part that is.
LoverOfLiberty
(1,438 posts)Sound like you are coming along to the possibility of a Hillary Clinton presidency.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)But I harbored hope that the rigid corporatist yuppie template that has been foisted on the Democratic party for the last 30 years might finally be broken this time.
leveymg
(36,418 posts)She's one of the most privileged and in your face about it people to ever run for President. The fact that she pretends to not be privileged makes her about as nauseating as they come.
tom-servo
(185 posts)... out a lot of sexism and it would be hard to separate the wheat from the chaff.
moriah
(8,312 posts)... replacing Clinton with Obama and sexism with racism would have been inappropriate.
I'm sure some people would have "liked" Obama better if he remained a Senator, too. But it's actually unsurprising. As wrong as it was for early suffragettes to demean equal voting for all just because they wanted it for themselves, intersectionality in discussing how privilege manifests explain why women of color end up with the deck stacked against them far more than white women or black men -- that both isms exist. But people far more easily can suggest gender means actual differences that matter because there are some physical differences that are pretty significant, vs there being both black men and black women.
What's suprising is seeing it openly preached on DU.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)yeah these issues are complex, and bias does factor in.
But Democrats have not exactly been chomping at the bit to break either of those those barriers for the WH, just to break barriers, even in its recent history.
Remember Jesse Jackson's and Al Sharpton's runs, for example? They would have been historic, but Democrats were not exactly lining up to support them as the racial barrier breakers. It was not totally (and I use that word deliberately) because of some ingrained racial bias. It was because Democrats did not think they were the best candidates or potential presidents.
Obama was able to overcome that because he was recognized by a majority as the best candidate and President.
Similarly, there are many Democrats today who would love to see a woman break the gender barrier to the WH. But they do not think that Clinton is the best choice.
Since she is about to win the nomination this time, obviously a majority seems to believe she is the best candidate. Okay fine. But to dismiss the opinions of (close to half) of primary voters who do not believe that as due to gender is incorrect.
And that same will apply to her performance if she does win the WH. Not all criticism will have roots in gender bias.
But, as the dialogue here during the primary indicates, there are some who will try to shoot down legitimate criticisms and opposition to her as gender based. That is what I am referring to.
moriah
(8,312 posts)On numerous occasions, in numerous contexts, that make you come across like "her place" was at home baking cookies, keeping Bill satisfied (failure to do so being "enabling" his affairs), and certainly not in politics at all.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)Just to use myself as an example.
I create and produce something for a living. I am really good at it. I don't mean to sound immodest, but all of the feedback and results do indicate that I have a talent and skill for what I do.
But I would be lousy at managing what I do. I produce something. That's what I am good at. But if I were to take a step up the ladder and try to be a manger of it, I'd fail miserably, because that is not my skill set.
So I have my "place" and I recognize that. It has nothing to do with my gender, age, color or anything other than my natural talents and limitations.
I happen to think -- and yeah it is my opinion -- that Clinton has great gifts that could have made her a formidable leader in the Senate. If she had stayed with that, she could have ultimately been the equivalent of a Ted Kennedy
....But for a variety of reasons, I do not believe she has the qualities necessary to be an effective president or driver of the Democratic Party. That is true of most politicians, male and female.
I don't care if you agree or disagree with my opinion on that. But don't misrepresent it.
moriah
(8,312 posts)Which makes your opinion about her "place" not something I am too worried about.
I'm trying to make you aware of how you sound, though, not that I actually believe you think all women should be barefoot, pregnant, and in the kitchen.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)Consider me suitably chastised for a clumsy use of language -- but unrepentant in my belief about her suitability to be the nominee or president.
moriah
(8,312 posts)... that even if you aren't basing your actual opinions on sexist-influenced thinking, that others are, and none of them are easily going to admit that their word choices weren't clumsy, but deliberate.
Like those accusing her of "enabling" her husband's affairs in the same breaths they're caling her a lesbian and plugging books conveniently timed to publish in November. And those two authors are female, one accusing Bill of "putting on her frilly nightie and dancing playing the sax" during their affairs, blaming Hillary for them more because she allegedly wasn't satisfying his sexual needs than any reactions to learning about them.
seaglass
(8,180 posts)gets back up. All presidents are criticized, no one expects otherwise.
But if you think women are going to sit down and shut up when they are accused of voting with their vaginas or when Hillary is called a whore or a c*nt because someone disagrees with policy - sorry that is not going to happen.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)I know this will garner you a lot of street cred with the Sanders crowd but it is literally based of a false meme.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)Of course I'm called a dog by some for saying it too, but a lot of people agree with it.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)"Folks the US can't shut down all political disagreement for 8 years simply because Hillary Clinton is female."
Armstead
(47,803 posts)Is that like the larger primary, where the close to half of voters who have voted for Sanders don't exist?
dana_b
(11,546 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)and there are times we called out what we considered racism. One of the main factors was holding him to a higher standard.
I'm sure there will be "criticism" based on sexism too.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)Democrats who disagreed with his handling of that issue because they wanted to see better and affordable coverage for everyone was not racism. But that accusation was tossed around to stifle that debate at the time.
That's the kind of thing I am referring to.
treestar
(82,383 posts)To me it was asking for his college transcripts when others had not had to do it, yelling "you lie" at the President, never done before, things like that - Birthers were clearly going on racism as they never required any other candidate to produce a birth certificate. The hysterical claims that he is a Muslim, nothing that would be said of white candidates.
Armstead
(47,803 posts)I am not referring to things like the birthers, and the obvious racist behavior and disrespect.
But too often, any disagreement or criticism of him on policy or his performance by Dems was met with a variation of "You are opposing the first black president" from otehr Dems.
There's a big difference.
azurnoir
(45,850 posts)Armstead
(47,803 posts)azurnoir
(45,850 posts)Armstead
(47,803 posts)Happens as the years pile up