2016 Postmortem
Related: About this forumRuth Marcus: Trump and Priebus’s sexism show the challenges Clinton will face — even if she wins
There are many better reasons to oppose Donald Trump than his rampant sexism. But the brazenness of Trumps recent comments, and the not-so-subtle piling on by the Republican National Committee, demand some attention. The remarks are worth noting not only because of what they tell us about Trump & Co., but also because they illustrate some of the gender-based challenges that Hillary Clinton confronts as she seeks to become the nations first female president, and that she would continue to face in office.
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Sure, its easy to avoid claims of sexual assaults if you exclude women from the military or from the workplace, for that matter. But keeping women out of jobs for which they are qualified isnt the solution, nor is the answer to blame the victim of sexual assault for her presence on the scene. The fault of sexual assault lies with its perpetrator, not with the fact that enlightened public policy created the possibility.
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That was only the latest. This week already had brought Trump proclaiming that Clinton doesnt look presidential, does she, fellas? And, in case anyone could have failed to take that as the gender putdown, conscious or subconscious, that it was, Trump rephrased it the next day, I just dont think she has a presidential look. And you need a presidential look. Hmmm, what about Clinton looks different from all those other, um, fellas? Hint to Trump: If youre down by 23 points among white women with college degrees, maybe this isnt the smartest move.
Trumps sexism should no longer be surprising... What is surprising, at least given his partys deficit with female voters, is that Republican National Committee Chairman Reince Priebus would so blithely join in. @HillaryClinton was angry + defensive the entire time no smile and uncomfortable, he tweeted. Really? Would Priebus complain about a male candidates failure to smile?
Im not arguing that this was intentionally demeaning, rather that it was unintentionally revealing of a double standard. Girls are supposed to be nice. Nice girls smile pleasantly. Clinton does not smile pleasantly. Therefore she is not a nice girl. And while nice guys may finish last, girls face risks either way. For women, there is an elusive, pardon the phrase, sweet spot, between too meek and too tough, too frivolous and too serious. For a would-be first female president, even for one who has been a senator and secretary of state, that balance is even harder to find. Its hard to be likable enough.
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I know that I can be perceived as aloof or cold or unemotional, Clinton said. But I had to learn as a young woman to control my emotions. And thats a hard path to walk. Because you need to protect yourself, you need to keep steady, but at the same time you dont want to seem walled off. And sometimes I think I come across more in the walled off arena. Sigh. Barack Obama is aloof. Mitt Romney wasnt exactly warm and fuzzy. The country may be on the verge of electing the first female president. But as this campaign demonstrates, shattering that glass ceiling will still leave a lot of cleanup work to even the gender playing field.
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