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hlthe2b

(102,112 posts)
Sun Jul 14, 2013, 08:48 AM Jul 2013

I can't help but wonder: If we were to elect a female President, would it make any difference

in how this country views/treats its women and girls and the policies enacted towards us?


I really thought that electing our first African American President might make some difference in how our nation's people of color are treated, but if anything, it seems to have both emboldened and "empowered" the worst racists in society. Admittedly, this conclusion is fresh off the whole sad Trayvon Martin saga, but not solely based on that...


So, if we were to elect a Hillary Clinton or Elizabeth Warren or other capable female to the Presidency, would it make any real and long term difference?

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I can't help but wonder: If we were to elect a female President, would it make any difference (Original Post) hlthe2b Jul 2013 OP
It would likely be a positive for girls/women but provoke a backlash amongst a large geek tragedy Jul 2013 #1
So? CTyankee Mar 2015 #23
Not an argument against it by any means. geek tragedy Mar 2015 #24
a lot of times the first person just breaks the barrier. it's the second person unblock Jul 2013 #2
no heaven05 Jul 2013 #3
Only If... highmindedhavi Jul 2013 #4
I think it would be interesting MadrasT Jul 2013 #5
Yes.... that thread(s?) blaming "women" for the acquittal was dismal. hlthe2b Jul 2013 #7
Actually, I would have thought an all female jury might be more sympathetic to a 17 year old boy. CrispyQ Jul 2013 #16
there's never been a female president and we are OVER HALF THE POPULATION Skittles Mar 2015 #20
We have clues fredamae Jul 2013 #6
Extract the lesson from your own example: malthaussen Jul 2013 #8
Sure. Just consider the hugely dramaatic differences between Hillary and Elizabeth. Scuba Jul 2013 #9
The issue is the response to the first female President, not the political differences between hlthe2b Jul 2013 #10
My point was there are going to be differences even between two women, let alone a woman and a man. Scuba Jul 2013 #11
Consider Margaret Thatcher. truebluegreen Jul 2013 #12
Good example, especially since Hillary reminds me way too much of the Hatchet Lady. Scuba Jul 2013 #14
Me too. truebluegreen Jul 2013 #15
It would be a small step in the right direction BainsBane Jul 2013 #13
It would turn over rocks and let the worms crawl out ismnotwasm Jul 2013 #17
Message auto-removed Name removed Mar 2015 #18
A small one, another peeble in what is on slow, but unstoppable outcome ismnotwasm Mar 2015 #19
I think it would change the way women and girls see themselves in this country geek tragedy Mar 2015 #21
+1 YoungDemCA Mar 2015 #25
It would be good for domestic policies, but make no difference to foreign policy eridani Mar 2015 #22
True enough. And if they somehow make to the White House and try to start dismantling it from within villager Mar 2015 #26
All change provokes a reactionary backlash. Agnosticsherbet Mar 2015 #27
Yes, it would fredamae Mar 2015 #28
It would be good but I am looking forward to it being more than the first woman elected Thinkingabout Mar 2015 #29
unfortunately I fear it would not drray23 Mar 2015 #30
 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
24. Not an argument against it by any means.
Sun Mar 22, 2015, 08:31 PM
Mar 2015

Not sure what my thought process behind this post was, it was almost 2 years ago.

unblock

(52,115 posts)
2. a lot of times the first person just breaks the barrier. it's the second person
Sun Jul 14, 2013, 09:14 AM
Jul 2013

who makes it normal.


obama is the first black president, and we're seeing a lot of reaction to that. the fact that he's black is very palpable and relevant to much of the reaction to him. eventually we will have another black president. *that* president will likely be judged on the usual crap and not so much on skin color.

same for a woman president. not until the second woman president will it seem normal.


so yes, the first one has a rough time of it and on the whole it's hard to see the clear gain. but when the second one comes along the gain is obvious, and it wouldn't have been possible without the first.

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
5. I think it would be interesting
Sun Jul 14, 2013, 09:25 AM
Jul 2013

I believe it would provoke an even stronger backlash against women than we are seeing now, much as you describe the situation with Obama seeming to add fuel to the racists' fires.

I won't vote for someone based on their genitals, but I sure would love to see Elizabeth Warren run.

(I can't believe we have people running around on DU blaming the Zimmerman verdict on a female jury. Holy fuck, a bigger load of sexist crap has never been seen on DU in my memory.)

CrispyQ

(36,415 posts)
16. Actually, I would have thought an all female jury might be more sympathetic to a 17 year old boy.
Sun Jul 14, 2013, 03:03 PM
Jul 2013

As to the OP, here's how it will go.

The media will focus on what she wears, how she looks, how she interacts with other men, how she interacts with other women, but most comparisons will be gender based.

Repub male politicians, the vile ones in particular, will not be able to keep their mouths shut. We will hear even more appalling garbage spewed. It will bring out the worst in them.

At the state level, even more will be incensed that a woman is in the White House. They will 'show us' by carrying out even more draconian anti-woman legislation.

Among the people, if she's thin & pretty, a lot of men will dismiss her authority but say how much they would like to fuck her. If she's not thin, a lot of men will dismiss her authority and call her a cow & that's the kindest thing they will say. Most of these men are repubs, but we have them in our party, too.

For young women & girls, it will be good, a ceiling broken. It will always be a struggle, but there is always, "If someone else did it, I can too." I know a woman who makes six figures selling Mary Kay & that is her mantra.


on edit: I would never vote for someone based on gender.

Skittles

(153,111 posts)
20. there's never been a female president and we are OVER HALF THE POPULATION
Thu Mar 19, 2015, 06:50 PM
Mar 2015

that right there tells us that sexism and misogyny is even more pervasive than racism

fredamae

(4,458 posts)
6. We have clues
Sun Jul 14, 2013, 09:26 AM
Jul 2013

if we take a look at how they've treated a black man........

So aside from the fact I cannot support HRC for POTUS because of her policies/positions--the 1% factor--etc Imagine how they'd treat Her..
I am very disappointed in this POTUS, I make no bones about it--but it's His Policies and what I believe to be bad decision making that is Out of Touch with Us.
IDGRA What Gender or Color of a person -they'd better be "good to All people with good intent" as a leader
I LOATHE how they've disrespected, insulted, demeaned and tried to set him up for crime and scandal. There is No excuse.
Whether we like his/her politics (or not) is All that should ever be at issue.

malthaussen

(17,175 posts)
8. Extract the lesson from your own example:
Sun Jul 14, 2013, 09:42 AM
Jul 2013

It would, short-term, indubitably serve to harden opposition/hatred.

Long-term? We don't really know, yet.

-- Mal

hlthe2b

(102,112 posts)
10. The issue is the response to the first female President, not the political differences between
Sun Jul 14, 2013, 10:28 AM
Jul 2013

these two women. And, yes, I do believe that much of that response is independent of "who" that particular first female President might be.

 

Scuba

(53,475 posts)
11. My point was there are going to be differences even between two women, let alone a woman and a man.
Sun Jul 14, 2013, 10:29 AM
Jul 2013
 

truebluegreen

(9,033 posts)
12. Consider Margaret Thatcher.
Sun Jul 14, 2013, 10:39 AM
Jul 2013

Opposition to her candidacy by the big boys in charge was defused by the fact that she pushed their agenda.

 

truebluegreen

(9,033 posts)
15. Me too.
Sun Jul 14, 2013, 10:55 AM
Jul 2013

And the stories in the press more than 3 years out touting her "inevitability" and how Texas is in play if she runs etc etc etc scares the bejeezus outta me.

Another status-quo defending place-holder--female or not--is so not what we need.

ismnotwasm

(41,960 posts)
17. It would turn over rocks and let the worms crawl out
Sun Jul 14, 2013, 09:58 PM
Jul 2013

Specially on social media; it would help in the way things are becoming transparent, and while be easier to post sexist or racist crap, it's also easier to call it out


As far as difference, I think we have a systemic political problem or two that will take more than one women, or person of color, to be elected to fix---and that over a generation or so.

Response to hlthe2b (Original post)

ismnotwasm

(41,960 posts)
19. A small one, another peeble in what is on slow, but unstoppable outcome
Fri Mar 13, 2015, 09:08 AM
Mar 2015

Last edited Sat Mar 14, 2015, 07:18 AM - Edit history (1)

It'd be a historical event, but real change will take a very long time

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
21. I think it would change the way women and girls see themselves in this country
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 12:11 PM
Mar 2015

The Obama presidency certainly hasn't made racism go away, but it did change the way black people see the country and their relation to it.

eridani

(51,907 posts)
22. It would be good for domestic policies, but make no difference to foreign policy
Sat Mar 21, 2015, 05:37 AM
Mar 2015

Nobody who disapproves of the imperial warfare state (and says so publicly) will be allowed within 100 miles of the White House.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
26. True enough. And if they somehow make to the White House and try to start dismantling it from within
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 02:50 PM
Mar 2015

...well, we've seen what happens then, eh?

fredamae

(4,458 posts)
28. Yes, it would
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 02:56 PM
Mar 2015

make a difference.
It would get Worse, imo.

Any deviation from THEIR ideal POTUS ie: a Soulless Wealthy Old White Man Who Will Auto-Sign Kochs/Wall Street/1% Legislation into law, is Never going to be acceptable to the GOP imo.

Thinkingabout

(30,058 posts)
29. It would be good but I am looking forward to it being more than the first woman elected
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 03:00 PM
Mar 2015

as president. I think in the case of Hillary will be a great president and in the future she will be the standard on which future presidents will try to serve.

drray23

(7,615 posts)
30. unfortunately I fear it would not
Mon Mar 30, 2015, 03:55 PM
Mar 2015

When Barack Obama got elected, people thought, maybe naively that race relations would improve. It went the other direction.

Having a woman president would certainly bring the issues in the forefront so that would be positive. Whether or not, this would have an immediate impact is not clear, at least to me.

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